Lana ka manaʻo e kōkua kēia i nā kāne e like me aʻu ka mea ʻike ʻole he pilikia ko lākou a hiki i ka hope o ke ola. Ua hoʻomaka wau i ka PMO i koʻu manawa he 13 a manaʻo wau he maʻamau. Ua kūʻai mai koʻu makuakāne iaʻu i kahi P mag a nānā wau iā P ma ka pūnaewele a me nā kahawai ʻo "fuzzy", ha. ʻAʻole wau i manaʻo he pilikia kaʻu no nā makahiki he nui no ka mea PMO paha wau 2-3 mau manawa i ka pule.
Akā ua ʻike wau i 4 mau makahiki i hala aku nei he pilikia kaʻu no ka mea ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke hoʻokau iā PMO ʻoiai makemake wau. Ua like wau me he ʻōpelu lā no ka mea ʻo 30+ wau a hoʻopili wau iaʻu iho, ʻoiai he gf kaʻu. I kekahi manawa e nānā wale wau iā P a ʻaʻole wau e pūhoʻi. Ua hakakā wau e kū no kēia mau makahiki 4 i hala e hoʻāʻo nei i nā mea āpau mai nā mea kau mele, ke kākau ʻana i nā pahuhopu, noho paʻa, nā wahine ʻokoʻa, e kamaʻilio ʻana me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e pili ana i ka kū ʻana, ka noʻonoʻo ʻana, a me kekahi mea.
Minamina, i kēia kauwela ua ʻike wau i nā mea like me ka Pōpoki (ʻūlū palupalu) ma kaʻu papa 8 keiki. Ua kamaʻilio wau iā ia e pili ana i ia mea a ua kaumaha wau i ka wā i haʻi mai ai iaʻu pehea ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke kōkua ke nānā aku iā ia a i waho paha o kona poʻo. Ua haʻi wau iā ia ʻaʻole ʻo P kahi ala olakino e hana ai i nā manaʻo moekolohe a me ke kamaʻilio ʻana i ke kaikamahine i ke kanaka ke ala maikaʻi loa e ʻike i kēia ʻāpana o ke ola a eia wau e kōkua iā ia. Maopopo ʻo ia a ke nānā nei wau i kāna uila uila (kahi aʻu e ʻae ʻole ai e hoʻohana iā ia i kēia manawa).
Eia naʻe, ua hāʻawi mai kēia hanana iaʻu i ka ikaika a me ka hoʻoikaika e pono ai iaʻu e hoʻopau iā PM (ʻoiai ʻo ʻO me kahi wahine) no ka maikaʻi. ʻAʻole wau i makemake e hoʻokamani me kaʻu keiki a makemake wale wau e kāpae i kēlā P a me M i hoʻonāukiuki iaʻu.
Maikaʻi loa wau i kēia manawa a me ka kaohi a me ka manaʻo o PM me he mea ʻē lā iaʻu. ʻO nā pono āpau a mākou e lohe ai he ʻoiaʻiʻo. No laila hauʻoli wau e hoʻomau mau loa. ʻO ka mea e heluhelu ana i kēia, hiki iā ʻoe ke hana. Ua manaʻo wau ʻaʻole hiki ke alo ʻia e PMO wau no ke koena o koʻu ola, akā ua kū wau no ka lōʻihi a me ka manaʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o kaʻu.
E kiaʻi wale i nā mea hoʻouluulu e like me ka mehameha, luhi, a me ka luhi. A inā he hoa kāu me ʻoe pū. Ua haʻi wau i kaʻu wahine ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke nānā iā P a i nā mea kokoke paha i kēlā a kōkua ʻo ia iaʻu i waho. E haʻaheo lākou iā ʻoe a mahalo iā ʻoe hou.
E loaʻa kahi ola maikaʻi!
LINK - 86 mau lā PM ma hope o nā makahiki ho'āʻo
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