ຂ້າພະເຈົ້າໄດ້ຮັບທຸກທໍລະມານຈາກການຊຶມເສົ້ານັບຕັ້ງແຕ່ປີ freshmen ຂອງຂ້າພະເຈົ້າຂອງໂຮງຮຽນສູງ. ຍິ່ງໄປກວ່ານັ້ນ, ຂ້ອຍມີບັນຫາການນອນໄມ່ຫລັບ, ຄວາມກັງວົນດ້ານສັງຄົມສູງແລະຄວາມບໍ່ມີໃຈ.
ແຕ່ວ່າປະມານ 35 ມື້ບາງສິ່ງບາງຢ່າງໄດ້ເລີ່ມມີການປ່ຽນແປງ:
1) ບັນຫາການນອນຫລັບຫາຍໄປ
ຕົວຈິງຂ້ອຍມີບັນຫາກົງກັນຂ້າມດຽວນີ້, ຂ້ອຍສາມາດນອນຢູ່ທົ່ວທຸກແຫ່ງ. ຂ້າພະເຈົ້າເຄີຍສາມາດຕື່ນຕົວໄດ້ໂດຍການສ່ອງແສງເລັກນ້ອຍຈາກພາຍໃຕ້ປະຕູຫລືກfອກນ້ ຳ ກfອກ, ແຕ່ດຽວນີ້ຂ້ອຍສາມາດນອນຫລັບຜ່ານ Clock’s Anglo Clockwork Angels ໃນປະລິມານເກືອບເຕັມລົດຖ້າຂ້ອຍຕ້ອງການ.
2) ຄວາມຮູ້ສຶກແມ່ນກັບມາ
Now this is an important one, as guys, I know that we can overlook this one a lot for reasons of trying to look “macho” (also fuck that word), but emotions part of the main reason we have words and logic. If we had no emotion than where is the logic and reasoning to not kill someone else besides your own self demise? If we don’t have the empathy towards human beings it becomes very hard to care about anyone but yourself.
Especially with women, I realize somehow how their brains work again. I believe the stereotype holds some truth to it, women do use emotions to validate their reasonings more than men do, but it doesn’t make them stupid for it. In fact, logically reasoning everything has it’s downfalls too especially in relationships with other people I have found out. People don’t want someone that is handing out facts at a party, they want someone that is playful, illogical (to an extent), and rowdy (also to an extent).
The last thing I want to note about emotion is ສັບສົນ. Synesthesia helps me learn; learning needs a relevant context to actually retain the information. What synesthesia does for me is give me that relevance. For example, if I wanted to learn a Chinese character like “梦” then it already going to be retain because it’s meaning and shape makes me taste and smell peaches, so I remember it as that character that tastes like peaches and sounds like sand paper. These associations have grown immensely stronger since starting NoFap, and it has given the world so much more meaning to me because of it.
3) I’m more happy and energetic
ເບິ່ງ, ໂດຍການຊຶມເສົ້າ, ຂ້າພະເຈົ້າໄດ້ເຮັດສິ່ງທີ່ເຮັດກັບມື້ສໍາລັບຂ້າພະເຈົ້າທີ່ເຮັດວຽກຄືດັ່ງນີ້:
- Good day = Bad day next
- ວັນດີ = ມື້ທີ່ຫນ້າຢ້ານກົວຕໍ່ໄປ
ແລະບໍ່ສະເຫມີກັນກັບກັນ.
ຕອນນີ້ໃນອາທິດທີ່ຜ່ານມາ, ບາງສິ່ງທີ່ເຮັດໃຫ້ປະລາດເກີດຂື້ນ:
- ວັນຈັນ = ຫນຶ່ງໃນວັນທີ່ດີທີ່ສຸດຂອງຊີວິດຂອງຂ້ອຍ!
- ວັນອັງຄານ = ຫນຶ່ງໃນວັນທີ່ດີທີ່ສຸດຂອງຊີວິດຂອງຂ້ອຍ!
- ວັນພຸດ = ວັນຫນຶ່ງທີ່ດີທີ່ສຸດຂອງຊີວິດຂອງຂ້ອຍ!
ຂ້ອຍຍັງພະຍາຍາມບອກຕົວເອງວ່າ, "ມື້ຕໍ່ມາຈະເປັນຕາຢ້ານ", ແຕ່ມັນກໍ່ບໍ່ໄດ້ເກີດຂື້ນຈົນຮອດວັນພະຫັດແຕ່ມັນກໍ່ບໍ່ໄດ້ຮ້າຍແຮງເທົ່າທີ່ເຄີຍເປັນມາ. ວັນທີ່ດີເລີດຕິດຕໍ່ກັນ ບໍ່ເຄີຍ ເກີດຂຶ້ນກ່ອນ. ບໍ່ມີເຫດຜົນທີ່ຂ້າພະເຈົ້າຮູ້ສຶກວ່າມື້ນັ້ນດີ. ຂ້ອຍພຽງແຕ່ ຮູ້ສຶກວ່າ ຄືມັນ, ແລະມັນເຮັດໃຫ້ຂ້ອຍຢາກເຮັດສິ່ງຫຼາຍ.
But there is one thing that I’m hoping will eventually die down: I get 2:30 feeling ຍາກ. It always happens around 1:00. It is almost impossible for me to do anything that isn’t sleep around that time, but it doesn’t outweigh all the other perks to NoFap.
4) ຄົນທີ່ທ່ານເຄີຍລໍຖ້າ: ເດັກຍິງ!
ຂ້ອຍເລີ່ມສັງເກດມັນປະມານ ໜຶ່ງ ເດືອນກ່ອນ. ເດັກຍິງໃຫ້ຂ້ອຍເບິ່ງ, ເດັກຍິງແຕະຂ້ອຍ, ເດັກຍິງຕ້ອງການເວົ້າກັບຂ້ອຍ, ເດັກຍິງເວົ້າກ່ຽວກັບຂ້ອຍ, ເດັກຍິງແມ່ນໃຫ້ຂ້ອຍກັບ IOI ຢູ່ທຸກບ່ອນທີ່ຂ້ອຍໄປ. ບາງຄົນຂອງ IOI ສາມາດເປັນພຽງແຕ່ຂ້ອຍເປັນຄົນທີ່ ໜ້າ ເຊື່ອຖື, ແຕ່ຂ້ອຍຍິນດີທີ່! ຄວາມ ໝັ້ນ ໃຈເກີນໄປພຽງແຕ່ຈະເຮັດໃຫ້ຂ້ອຍມີຄວາມນັບຖືຕົນເອງຫຼາຍຂຶ້ນແລະດັ່ງນັ້ນແມ່ຍິງແລະຄົນທົ່ວໄປຈະມີຄວາມສົນໃຈຂ້ອຍຫຼາຍຂຶ້ນ.
I always hear people say, “I always feel like I can say my past self was dumber than I am now”. I don’t believe in that, and women are one instance where it doesn’t apply for me. The fact of the matter is in middle school and freshmen year of high school, I was a DAWG. I used to be the guy that every girl asked out at least twice, the guy that girls want to cheat with (of course I don’t believe that doing so is right, but it did happen and almost happen another time), the guy that flirted with almost every girl. I remember I had a friend, Kevin, that was bad I getting women back then, and he asked me for help. I gave him my tips and then he became that same guy pretty quickly, but then, I lost it, and it just so happen to be the same time that I starting getting into some harder stuff. Tables turned, he was the great chick-magnet, and I was the frustrated chump. Now, I’m starting to get it back, but that is with the help of Seddit and other readings from the seduction community. Seriously, everyone, Seddit and NoFap go hand in hand (or hand in no hand), especially if you happen to have a penis. Even if your a “natural”, pick-up material will make you realize what you’re doing right a make it conscious or, like me, make you realize what you ໄດ້ doing right.
I have been telling myself that after 90 days, I would try to fap again, but it’s too much of a risk. My life, my ຊີວິດ, and again, my ຊີວິດ is coming back. I’m starting to feel ທັງຫມົດ. Some people say that you need to take things in moderation in your life, not just throw them completely out of the question. But how about things like cyanide? Do I want to take cyanide in moderation? No, that would kill me. Same thing would happen to me spiritually and mentally if I masturbate or look at porn.
The hardest part is making the horniness comfortable.
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by David_Coron
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