Man has it been a long time since i was here! I can’t believe I’m 2 months away from 1 year fap free, its mind blowing to say the least. I have certainly changed over the time I’ve been doing this, I met a girl about 6 months ago and we started dating not long after.
I drunkenly told her about my ED and to my surprise she said it was fine and not to worry which put me at ease a lot! when it finally came to the moment, it turned out that my ED had gone completely and I never had any problem rising to the moment which was a huge relieve.
Unfortunately the relationship only last a few months but it was great and i dont regret it, the confidence boost it gave me was incredible and with that I deicided to do something with my life.
I’m starting a home learning college course in October to became an accountant and get myself a good career instead of being in a job i hate.
For those who are still struggling, it does get easier! I never really think about PMO anymore, struggled a bit after the break up due to the chaser effect but keep yourself busy. Maybe test yourself and do something you wouldn’t normally do.
Thanks for reading
EARLIER POST – 90 days hardmode… first NoFap attempt
Hey, so as it says this is my first attempt at NoFap and managed to hit 90 days already. Pretty impressed with myself. I wont lie to you all and say its easy, because its not! these past couple of days as I’ve got closer to 90 days as been the hardest, not because I want to fap but because I now miss the affection that only a girl can give so it’s the loneliness that has hit me hard but in doing so, I’ve been actively “trying” to talk to girls and become more sociable.
Which for me is very difficult as I struggle with my confidence around women. But I’ll do my very best to overcome it.
To those that are just starting their journey, my advice is: even though it may be difficult now, just think to the future and what you can achieve when you beat this horrible addiction.
Thanks for reading.
ORIGINAL POST – My record so far
So I wanted to share my story about my why I started NoFap.
I’ve not been with a girl in over 2 years now as my last relationship ended, so as a release I turn to porn but didn’t think anything of it as I was sure most guys turn to porn. But it wasn’t until last week when I realised what I had done to myself, I’ve now developed ED which has ruined what little cofidence I had around women. So I did a bit of research and found yourbrainonporn. Which gave me a wealth of information and from then I knew what I had to do, so I’ve deleted all my collections and all my bookmarks and Im feeling a lot better. I’m starting to get morning wood’s again which I haven’t had in years.
Anyway just wanted to share, as this has been eating me up for years and now I’ve finally found what could be a cure and maybe finally get a girlfriend, As there is a girl that I’m talking too who i really like.
It might not seem long but today marks my 7th day of NoFap.
Thank you for reading. 24/M