As some of you may have read, I’ve noticed an increase in the intensity of orgasm. I’ve also noticed a greater sensitivity to non-sexual activities (like kissing) and enjoy them more now, as they’re not simply a gateway to sex. As far as physical effects, these are really all that I’ve noticed other than a slight decrease in libido, which isn’t necessarily a bad thing.
I have noticed a couple awesome mental effects, though. I’ve always had issues with viewing women as purely sexual objects, and that has been helped enormously. It’s much easier to deal with the gender you’re attracted to when you’re not trying to shove sexual thoughts about them aside when dealing with them. Those thoughts aren’t gone, but they’re definitely less insistent and more easily dismissed. There’s also a kind of subtle thing that porn does to your mind that I had heard but never really “knew” until doing nofap. I was, subconsciously, defining myself as a man by how well I “pleasured” my wife. It moved sex from a beautiful, mutual expression of love to a task that established my status as a man. Moving away from that has been a WONDERFUL experience.
As far as the other “super powers”, I guess I haven’t seen them. But what I have seen has made me decide that this is a lifelong thing for me. 90 days be damned, I’m not even going to chance going back to the way things were before.
If anyone has any questions, I’d be more than happy to answer them. I have my wife’s permission as well to answer anything you might be wondering from the other side. If you think the question might be a trigger for folks, PM me and I’ll answer as best I can.
Keep on the bus! It’s worth it!
LINK – 90 day report
by audiomodder 90 days
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