Said one site member: Singing in choirs is one of the most rewarding balancing activities and I would recommend it to everyone. There is nothing like the feeling of singing your part in sync and in (literal) harmony with a group of people. Some of my closest friendships have developed through singing and drumming. Great […]
How viable is the concept of sexual self-sufficiency? Feeling “off” and wondering what to do about it? You could just be touch-starved. If so, solo sex may may not heal the feeling that something…isn’t right. Turns out that sexual needs aren’t just orgasm needs. Sexual needs are also intimacy needs. For tribal pair bonders like […]
Said a friend, who discovered that her otherwise upstanding husband had begun using risky Internet pornography in his seventies:
Women need to deal with their feelings of anger, disgust and rejection. In my case, and I am certain I am not alone in this experience, it is the denial, counter-accusation and lying that fuel my fury.
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Cognitive Behavioral Therapy is a popular technique for dealing with issues such as depression or anxiety, which can be big triggers for porn use. This is an online course in CBT that can be useful for recognising and handling those triggers. Here’s one man’s example of how CBT can help with porn recovery: CBT has […]
[This man was hooked on porn for twenty years, and was still a virgin when he wrote this. Six months later, he lives with a woman, and she recently wrote how much she appreciates his strong leadership and wisdom.]
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Recovery from any addiction is an intense time in a person’s life. Recovery is akin to an overhaul of the personality. Its a kind of psychic surgery that a recovering addict is forced to perform on him/herself by what seems like the cruel hands of a god. It is a time of intense personal growth […]
by MICHAEL D. LEMONICK, “Time,” Thursday, Jul. 05, 2007
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As this article reveals, the search for sexual thrills is often about an addictive quest for high dopamine and an altered state, rather than sexual orientation. Pursuit of stimulation can even morph sexual tastes. Brains are plastic, and thrills can take learning in surprising directions. Why bathroom sex is hot By James Hannaham Aug. 31, […]
