Zvinonyadzisa-zvinoita erectile kusagadzikana zviri kuramba zvichipararira
Imwe nyanzvi yehutongi inoti anotya kuwedzerwa kwekutengesa kushandiswa kwepaIndaneti kunogona kunge yakasara kune imwe muZIKUMA varume vaduku vane matambudziko ekugadzirisa. Dr Andrew Smiler akataura kuti kuve nyore kuwana kusingaperi kwekushambadzira zvinonyadzisira kuri kusiya varume vane hutano hwakanaka nechinetso chepabonde. Akaudza The Independent: "Varume vandinowona, vazhinji vavo vari pakati pe13 ne25. Izvo zvizhinji ndezvako, nokuda kwechikamu chikuru, mufananidzo wehutano hwepanyama.
"Saka kana ndiri kuita zvinonyadzisira kamwechete pazuva pazuva re15 asi ini ndinozviita zuva rega rega kwemakore mashanu, ndinonyatsofara munzira yangu yekuva nyanzvi yekuve nechinangwa chekuona zvinonyadzisira."
Akanyevera kuti nekuda kwevashandi vakawanda vane nhamo vari vaduku, tsika yacho inowedzera kunyanya pamusoro.
"Kana ndiri 17 uye iyo i90% yehutano hwangu hwepabonde, saka ndaisa mishandira yakawanda mumhando yakasiyana-siyana yehutano hwekuita zvepabonde asi ndakaisa munguva shomanana kukura hutano hwangu nemumwe munhu , saka zvinoita kuti zvive zvakaoma kukumutsirwa kune mumwe munhu uye iwe unozviwana mune imwe nzira iyo inowanzosiyana zvakanyanya nepabonde nemurume. "
Chidzidzo che 2014 vakawana kuti chetatu chevarume vanoona zvinonyadzisira zuva rega rega, uye vachipa kuti kunwa zvinonyadzisira kwave kuwedzera mukati memakore mashoma apfuura - zvakanyanya nekuda kwekuuya kwemafoni efoni uye nekukurumidza-kwakabatana dhata kubatana - zvingangoita kuti nhamba iyi yakatokwira.
Dr Angela Gregory, chiremba wepfungwa dzepabonde paIttingham University Hospital, akati: "Varume vari kutova vose mumuviri nepfungwa vachiregererwa kurudziro rwepabonde rwemhando dzepamusoro uye kumutsa newavo vane zvepabonde."
Kune vamwe varume, zvisinei, vanosimbisa unzenza uye vanoramba vachimutswa. "Zvakafanana nechinongo chavasingagoni kutora uye nguva dzose chiri mupfungwa dzavo," anodaro Dr Gregory.
Vadzidzi vanoona zvinonyadzisira pamwechete paBristol Uni
Pasinei nehuwandu hwehuwandu hwezvinonyadzisira, sehuchiripo hakuna hutano hunozivikanwa hwe "utano hwepabonde" saka Dr Smiler, munyori we Kuita zvepabonde uye zvepabonde: Mutungamiri we21st Century Teen Boy, haafarire kushandisa izwi. Gregory, kune rumwe rutivi, anotenda vamwe varume do kuve nekunyanyisa kwechokwadi kune zvinonyadzisira.
Anowanzoona varume vechidiki vane matambudziko ekugadzirisa asi kazhinji havaiti kuwirirana kune zvinonyadzisira sezvinoonekwa zvakasikwa kuti vatarise.
Nenzira inofadza, kuora mwoyo kunokonzerwa nehupenzi erectile kusagadzikana kunogona kugadziriswa, nyore nyore kana iwe uri mukomana wechidiki ane utano: "Kana iwe ukagona kumira [masturbating], unogona kudzorera hurongwa hwako kuti uite zvekare," anodaro Gregory.
Anokurudzira kuenda kuchitonhorera kwemazuva makumi mapfumbamwe - vamwe varume vanozviwana zviri nyore, vamwe vanonetseka chaizvo Uye Dr Smiler vanonongedza kuti iwe unofanirwa kudzokorora zvese muviri wako nepfungwa dzako, saka ivo vanotaura kune vakawanda vevatengi vavo nezve izvo zvavanowana zvinokwezva.
Kunyange kunyadzisira-kunokonzerwa erectile kusagadzikana chinetso chikuru kuvarume vanogara vachiita bonyadzisira kune zvinonyadzisira, kungozviona chete kuri kuitawo pfungwa isina musoro yepabonde mupfungwa dzavo.
"Mune zvinonyadzisira, bonde rinowanzoitika nyore nyore, munhu wese ane nguva yakanaka uye hapana anomboramba kana kuti 'Handidi kuzviita'," Dr Smiler akadaro.
“Asi pachokwadi, vanhu havasi vanogara vari mumafaro. Dzimwe nguva unodonha paunenge uchibvisa bhurugwa rako uye zvinosetsa. Asi hapana chimwe cheizvi chinoitika pachiratidziro saka vakomana vanoenda vachitarisira kuti zvese zvive nyore uye havazive zvekuita, ”akatsanangura.
Panewo nyaya yehuzhinji hwevanhu vasina kutarisa sezvinonzi nyeredzi nyeredzi. Dr Smiler, uyo anonyanya kushanda nevarume vechidiki vane makore anonzi 13-25 uye akanyora bhuku pamusoro pemasimba, anotenda kushandiswa kwepabonde "kuchinja maonero uye zvinotarisirwa kuti ndiani anokwezva," zvinoreva kuti varume vazhinji ava vanoona kuti vanowanzoita zvakaderera zvakanyanya.
Gregory anotenda kuti sezvo zvinonyadzisira zvichinyanya kujeka, zvakajeka uye zvinowanzoitika, varume vakawanda vanotambura nezvinetso zveukama hwepedyo uye kumanikidza zvepabonde.
Saka pane hutano hwakachengeteka here munhu angaona? Zvinonyanya kubva kune munhu, asi Dr Smiler anotenda kuti murume anogona kuita nonyadzisira kunonyadzisira kamwe chete kusvika katatu pavhiki uye "hazvizovezve nezvimwe zvingaita muupenyu hwake hwepabonde kupfuura makore 50 apfuura apo varume vaifambisa kune mapepa emapini -vasikana. "
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