Vibrator uye "Dead Vagina Syndrome" (yekutsvagisa uye yakakurisa midhiya)

Varapi vebonde vanowanzo kukasira kusimbirira kuti vibrator kushandiswa kwakangonaka kune vakadzi. Nekudaro, pane huri kuwedzera anecdotal humbowo hwekuti vibrator ari chaizvo "anoshamisa masimba," ayo asingakwanise kufananidzwa nevanhu vanobatirana. Kune vamwe vashandisi, izvi zvinoratidzira kudzikira kwekuteerera kwepabonde uye kunakirwa panguva yekurara nemumwe wako.

Mumakore ekutanga-2018, kutsvakurudza kwakakosha kunotsvakurudza uye kunyanya kudhindwa kwakaitwa pamubvunzo wekuti kushandiswa kwechisimudzira kunoderedza kusangana kwekuita zvepabonde mushure mekuita zvepabonde kune vamwe vashandisi vekududzira. Pane hapana tsvakurudzo zvakananga pane imwe pfungwa (kuyedza mhedzisiro yekushandisa vibrator yapfuura pakumutsa panguva yepabonde isina-toyi). Dzidzo nhatu dzinoonekwa zvakanyanya pama vibrator dzakabhadharwa neChechi & Dwight, kambani yemubereki yeTrojan, kambani ine chikamu chikuru chakazvipira mukugadzira matoyi epabonde. Saka yaifarira iyi kambani mune zvakabuda muzvidzidzo izvo mumwe wevashandi vayo co-authored zvose 3.

Kushayikwa kwekusaziva, kunyatso-pane-kutsvaga tsvakurudzo kwakabudisa pfungwa dzakasiyana-siyana paWebhu. Semuyenzaniso:

Kujekesa: hapana chimwe chezvaunonzwa nezve vibrators "desensitizing" chero munhu anobva kune Chero rudzi rwechidzidzo chesainzi chakaratidza kuti, kana kubva kune chero chinhu chatinoziva nezve muviri wevanhu: zvese zviri kubuda mukusaziva, kutya, kusachengeteka uye kuda kuzvidzora. http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/do_vibrators_cause_a_loss_of_sensitivity

Mukupesana ne,

Zvichida iwe unofanirwa kuverenga ese kuchema kwekubatsirwa kubva kuvakadzi pese pa internet vachinyunyuta kuti varasikirwa nehunyanzvi. Mazhinji emhinduro kubva kuvanachiremba vekurapa inoita kunge isiri chinhu kunze kwekufungidzira kwekusaziva. Ivo vanotaurira vakadzi kuti manzwiro achadzoka uye ingori dambudziko renguva pfupi. Huye kunzwa kwangu kwakarasika makore apfuura uye hakuna kuzombodzoka. Usandiudze kuti vibrator hazvikonzere kukuvara! https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Sexual-Health/What-evidence-do-you-have-that-vibrators-dont-cause-nerve-damage/show/2465319

Senyaya yesayenzi, nyaya yacho ndeyekuti zvinonyanya kukosha zvakadai sezvirwere zvepabonde (uye zvisingagumi zvepanotaneti zvinonyadzisira) zvinogona kuderedza kusateerera panguva yepabonde-isina zvepabonde mune vamwe vashandisi vevashandisi. Inecdotes dzakawanda dzinoti dzinogona, uye dzepedyo (asi dzichiri kwete pachokwadi) tsvakurudzo yakawanikwa 16.5% yevashandi vechikadzi vanoshandura vanoti "kushaya simba," kazhinji kacho kwenguva pfupi. Zvakare, iyo dzidzo yaibhadharwa mari (uye yakanyora mazita) nekambani ine rutivi rwakazvipira kune zvekuita zvepabonde. (Zvimwe pasi apa)

Izvo zvisinganzwisisiki kuti vanoita zvepabonde havatsvakurudzi chinhu ichi chinoshamisa zvakananga uye zvakajeka. Sezvo neongororo yepainternet, zvinoda kuti ((1) vashandisi vasiye nguva yekushandura kushandura uye vaudze chero shanduko, kana (2) vashandisi vatsva vanoita zvepabonde vanoridza chero kuchinja.

Nyaya iyi inofungidzirwa apo vatsvakurudzi vezvidzidzo zvepamusoro vanongorongedza zvevanhu vanoita zvepabonde vakanyeverwa (makore anopfuura gumi apfuura) kuti majaya ane ED uye kurasikirwa kwekukwezva kune varovani vechokwadi vakanga vachidzokorora zvose mushure mekusiya mifananidzo yepainternet, uye kuti vatsvakurudzi vezvepabonde vaifanira kutsvakurudza internet zvinonyadzisira. "Usanyengera. Izvozvo zvingaita sekutsvakurudza maunicorns, "mumwe wavo akati.

Izvi zvinopesana nemhinduro yakauya pasinei nekuti panguva imwechete, vaongorori veKinsey vakanga vachangotaura nezvechiitiko ichocho pamusoro pokushambadzira zvinonyadzisira mumabhaji uye mudzimba dzokugezera: Iyo Dual Kudzora Muenzaniso - Basa ReKuita Zvepabonde & Kunakidzwa Mukuita Zvepabonde Uye Maitiro (2007). Mumwe wevanyori akange ari pane zvekurara zvekare ... uye haana kutaura chinhu.

Mukusayenzi, hakuna chinhu chakabudirira se kwete kutsvaga chimwe chinhu kana iwe usingadi kuwana, uye zvakafanana zvinoshanda pano. Kuita zvepabonde nevarapi uye vatsvakurudzi vavo vave vachikurudzira zvepabonde zvekuita zvepabonde (uye yekushandisa zvinonyadzisira zvepaIndaneti) pasina kusarudzwa. Maiwe, nzira iyi haisi iyo inoshumira "utano hwepabonde" basa.

Of kosi vanhu vanonyanya kushamwaridzana uye vanorondedzera zvakanyanya kukwezva nemishonga yekuita zvepabonde. Mune chidzidzo chinonzi, "Zviratidzo zvekushandisa kushandura pakati pevakadzi (1996)," "Vakawanda vakaratidza hutsinye hunokonzerwa nechisimba chekusimudzira zvakanyanya kudarika vamwe." Ndicho chikonzero zvinobatsira zvepabonde zvinonzi "rubatsiro rwepabonde."

Zvisinei, kusvika pamadzimai evanhukadzi nyore nyore nemishoni (uye ruzivo rwakaderedzwa kukwanisa kuita zvepabonde panguva yepabonde rinoparadzana), ihwo humwe uchapupu hwokuti zvepabonde zvepabonde zvechokwadi "zvinokonzerwa nehupenzi," izvo zvisingagoni kudzokororwa nemumwe munhu . Sezvakadaro, vashanduri vanogona kugadzirisa kushandiswa kwevashandisi 'zvepabonde, zvakadai kuti zvepabonde zvakabatana zvinogutsikana zvishoma - uye zvidhori zvinowedzera kumanikidzira.

Vanhu vanofanira kunyatsoita chisarudzo chekushandisa vibrator zvichienderana neruzivo rwakakwana, kwete maonero akare.

Kutsvakurudza kunobatanidza kune vanyunyuti

Shanduko mune yemukadzi pabonde ruzivo uye zvinotarisirwa zvichitevera kuunzwa kwemagetsi vibrator rubatsiro.

(Unofanirwa)

apo vatsvakurudzi vakabvunzwa 19 vashandisi vatsva ve vibrator, "Vakadzi vakataura zvakanyanya nezve shanduko mune yavo yekumutsa uye yegasmic mhinduro pavakatanga kushandisa vibrator. … Zvakakosha, vakadzi vasere vakataura zvakananga kuti vaive nehanya nekuva vanovimba neanosimudza. … Vakadzi vatatu chete ndivo vakataura chaizvo nezve hupenyu hwavo hwepabonde hwavakaroorana hunosimudzirwa nemudhindo. ”

Kuwandisa uye Maitiro ekushandiswa kweVibrator nevakadzi muUnited States: Zviwanikwa kubva muChidzidzo cheMumiririri weNyika.

CHERECHEDZA: Inobhadharwa nekambani yemubereki yeTrojan (Chechi & Dwight Co), iyo ine chikamu chepabonde-chitoyi. Kwete izvozvo chete, mumwe wevanyori-vanyori aive C&D mushandi:

Kupesana kwezvaunofarira: Annahita Ghassemi mushandi weChechi & Dwight Co, Inc., iro sangano rakabhadharisa chidzidzo ichi. 

Vamwe vanyori vakanga vakabatana neIndia University kana Kinsey Institute.

Munenge madiki 30% yevakadzi vakanga vaona zviratidzo zvebonde kubva mukushandiswa kwemhepo. Zvose zve16.5% (95% CI, 14.3-18.7%) vakanga vamboona genital numbness, zhinji yayo kwenguva pfupi. Chikamu chakakwana:

Pakati pevashandisi, 71.5% (95% CI, 68.8-74.2%) yakashuma kuti vanga vasati vamboona imwe yemhedzisiro yakatemwa kubva mukushandisa kwe vibrator. Sezvinoratidzwa muTebhenekeri 5, huwandu hwese hwe16.5% (95% CI, 14.3-18.7%) hwakambove nekusangana nemitezo yekubereka, iine 0.5% (95% CI, 0.1-0.9%) ichitaura kuti chiveve chakatora zuva kana kupfuura . Pakati peavo vanotaura kushaya simba, chikamu chepakati nepakati chaive 4.0 (pachiyero chegumi-poindi). Yakazara ye10% (3.0% CI, 95- 2.0%) yakashumwa ichinge yawana kurwadziwa kwepamuviri kunokonzerwa nekushandisa vibrator, iine 4.0% (0.6% CI, 95-0.1%) ichirondedzera kurwadziwa kunogara kwezuva kana kupfuura. Pakati peavo vanotaura kurwadziwa, iyo yepakati mamakisi mamakisi aive 1.1. Iyo yakazara ye3.0% (9.9% CI, 95-8.1%) yevashandisi yakashuma kuve neruzivo rwekusangana pabonde kubva mukushandisa vibrator, iine 11.7% (2.6% CI, 95-1.6%) ichitaura kutsamwa kunogara kwezuva kana kupfuura. Pakati peavo vanotaura kutsamwa, chikamu chepakati nepakati chaive 3.6. Kuzvimba / Kuzvimba kwakataurwa ne4.0% yevashandisi (8.0% CI, 95-6.4%) iine 9.6% (1.5% CI, 95-0.8%) ichitaura kuzvimba / kuzvimba kwezuva kana kupfuura. Iwo wepakati mamakisi mamakisi ekuzvimba / kuzvimba aive 2.0. Iyo yakazara ye4.0% yevashandisi (1.1% CI, 95- 0.5%) yakashumwa ichisangana nemisodzi kana kucheka zvine chekuita nekushandisa vibrator, ine huremu hwepakati hwehutsinye hwe1.7.

Vatsvakurudzi havana kubvunza kana pane kuderera kwekuteerera panguva yepabonde nemukomana. Uye ivo "vakatsva" izvi zvichida se "kungotenda kwekare":

"Zvisinei, kupa ruzivo rwezvakaitika kare kuti kushandiswa kwechisimba kunogona kuita kuti vakadzi vave nenzira dzakasiyana-siyana dzekuita zvepabonde (kureva, kuve nekusangana nechegasm nyore nyore nechisimba uye zvisingaiti nemumwe wako), kutsvakurudza kwemazuva anotevera kunofanirwa kutarisa kuongorora kusvika pamadziro ekuita zvepabonde kwevakadzi kunogadziriswa -Ka, zvimwewo, kusimbiswa-maererano nekushandiswa kwemhepo. "

Zviratidzo zvekushandura zvinoshandiswa pakati pevakadzi

(1996, sampuli yakaunganidzwa kubva kune vachatengesa vashanduri) Haisi mumiririri: 37% vashoma vanoita zvepabonde, 54% yaiva nevanhurume vepabonde chete)

Ipo vamwe vanyori (semuenzaniso, Heiman, Lo- Piccolo, & LoPiccolo, 1976; Masters & Johnson, 1986) vakurudzira vakadzi kuti vashandise vibrator kusimudzira kumutsa kwavo pabonde kana kusimudzira kugona kwezvepabonde, vamwe (semuenzaniso, Kaplan, 1974) vane ndanga ndisinganyanye kufarira, ndichitya kuti mukadzi anogona kuzonyanya kuvimba ne vibrator. Kaplan akataura kuti vakadzi vanogona kutadza kuona orgasm nedzimwe nzira kana vibrator ichivimbwa nayo zvakanyanya.

... Vakadzi vane orgasm vari voga vakawana makoritori anonyanya kushandiswa uye clitoral-manual kukurudzira kuti ibudirire, inenge inenge 80% ichiratidza kuti chikwata chinokurudzira nechisimba chinowanzotanga kana chinowanzokonzera kanagasm.

... Vakadzi vakawanda (n = 123) akarondedzera kusiyana kwakaita, kana kuripo, pakati pemanzwiro avakaona apo chirume chinenge chichikurudzirwa nekushandura kwemhepo, zvichienzaniswa nemanzwiro avo apo dhiri risina kushandiswa. Vazhinji vaiudza kanagasms zvakasimbiswa nemudhiri (ona Table 4). Vakadzi vane gumi vakataura kuti vaingova neruzivo rwemashizha uye kushandiswa kwechirwere.

... Kuzvikurudzira kwakanyatsovimbika mukukonzera kanagasm kudarika zvaiitwa zvepabonde. Vakadzi vazhinji vaivewo vanoita zvishoma nezvishoma vachigutsikana nehuwandu hwepamusoro kana kusagadzikana kwehupenyu hwavo huripo, ivo voga uye pamwe chete neshamwari. Uyu hausi muenzaniso wevakadzi vanokanganiswa nemafungiro avo zvepabonde kana kushandisa vibrator kuti vatsigire kusava nekugutsikana kwepabonde nemamwe nzira, ingave yoga kana kuti nemumwe.

Dhiyabhorosi haina kuratidza kushandiswa kwevashandisi kwaiva nemigumisiro yakaipa panyaya dzepabonde nekugutsikana pasina kushandisa vibrator, asi hapana data rakafananidza kuita kwepabonde panguva yepabonde pakati pevashandisi nevasiri vashandisi - seyese sampuro yakashandiswa vibrators, pakati pedzimwe nzira dzebonyora uye zviitiko zvepabonde.

Kliniki uye tsvakurudzo zvinoshungurudza nekudengenyeka kwekusimudzira: kubvunzurudza uye kuongorora zvinyorwa zvinowanzoita kukurudzira

(Kuongororwa kunogadzirisa mafungiro, panzvimbo yekuti-in-vivo. Chinangwa chekudzidza uku chaiva chokuongorora maitiro emagetsi anowanzogadzirwa zvepabonde.)

[Kubva Abstract] Zvinomwe zvinoshandiswa zvekuita zvepabonde zvakaedzwa kuburikidza nekushandiswa kwepeyoelectric accelerometer yakagadzirirwa paimba yavo kuti ienzanise nguva, kushanduka, nekuwedzerwa kweumwe neumwe. Nguva dzisina kumira dzakasiyana kubva ku43 kusvika ku148 Hz, kushanduka kubva ku37 kusvika ku783 μm, uye kukurumidza kubva ku18 kusvika ku311 m / s². Nzira yacho inoratidza kuti vibrators inoshandiswa muongororo yekuongorora inogona kuwedzera zvikuru kukurudzira, asi zvimwe zvigadzirwa zvinogona kuderedza kunzwa kwepabonde kwekanguva. An in vivo kudzidza inogona kuratidza maitiro emashandisirwo angaita kuti kuwedzera kwepabonde kuwedzere nekudzikisa kukanganisa kwekunzwisisa.

[Kubva pabepa] Vatengi vanogona kutaurira kunetseka nezve vibrators kuita bonde '' crutch '' kana kudzikisira kusanzwisisa kwavo (Heiman & LoPiccolo, 1988). Kumwe kwekutya uku kunoratidzika kunge kwakakodzera. Kuchinjika kwenguva pfupi kunoitika mukusimudzira kwekudengenyeka, kwakadai kuti kukurudzira masekondi gumi neshanu mushure mekurudziro inogara ichingogunun'una haigone kusarudzika uye pamberi pekusimudzira kwekudengenyeka (Tommerdahl et al., 15). Nekudaro, anodederesa anogona kunge asina kusiyana neanokuchidzira echinyorwa mukuderedza kunotevera kunzwisisika. [ß Tichipiwa chirevo chakapusa seichi, munhu anofanirwa kubvunza kuti Team Prause vanoshumira ani ...]

Kuzvidya mwoyo uye kusazvidzivirira, kushandiswa kwemhepo, kusangana pabonde, uye kusaremara kwepabonde.

(Zvinyatsofadza, asi kwete pamusoro)

RESULTS:

Kunyanya kufungidzirwa kwakabatanidzwa nechepakati kumadzimai ekunyanya kushanduka, asi nepamusoro-pfupi yevhiringidzi uye zvepabonde zvepabonde. Kudzivisa kushamwaridzana kwakabatanidzwa nepamusoro-pfupi yezvinyorwa zvinoshungurudza. Kunyanya kuzvidya mwoyo kana kudzivirirwa kunosanganiswa nehupenyu hwepenile-vakadzikadzi vepabonde.

Kusarudzwa kwevakadzikadzi zvepabonde

(2016 - kwete chidzidzo che vibrator, asi chazvino uye chinonakidza)

… [Mumadzimai] Pakave nekuenderera kuri kuramba kuchidzikira maererano nezera rekutanga kuita bonyora, asi kwete zvinechekuita nezera rekutanga kusangana. Mazuva ano, hafu yevakadzi vakaita yavo yekutanga orgasm pakuita bonhora makore mashanu apfuura vasati vamboita orgasm pabonde. Vane nguva yakawanda yekuita zvido zvavo zvepabonde Via bonyora vasati vatanga kuita zvepabonde, asi izvozvo hazvina kuvabatsira kuti vawane ruzha rwevamwe vaduku munguva yepabonde. Ichi chigumisiro chinoparadzaniswa kubva pane zvinotarisirwa. (kusimbiswa kunopiwa)

Kune dzimwe humwe hutsva kuti bonhora inobatanidzwa nehurombo hwakanaka hwehukama, dambudziko guru revakadzi rekuita zvepabonde rinokonzerwa nekuita zvepabonde, kugutsikana mune zvepabonde kugutsikana, kusagadzikana mune zvepabonde kana kunyanya kunetseka (kunyanya mumadzimai kana marara) uye nemamwe maitiro akaipa (Brody, 2007). Muchidzidzo ichi, hukama hwehukama hwevakadzi hwakanga husiri hunoenderana nekuita bonhora nguva dzose asi kugutsikana kwepabonde kwepabonde kwakanga kwakadzika pakati pevakadzi vanoita bonhora nekushingaira.

Vanoshandisa vibrator vanoshandiswa mukudyidzana pabonde: mhedzisiro kubva kuongororo inomiririra nyika muUnited States.

Iyi pepa (iyo yakatangira yakapfuura ichangopfuura) yakabhadharwawo nekambani inokwana Trojan (nekambani yekuita zvepabonde) uye yakabatanidzwa nevashandi vekambani iyoyo. Izvo zvakaitika kwete anonyatsofananidza kutarisana kwepabonde pakati pevashandisi vevashandisi nekutarisana kwepabonde pakati pevasiri vashandisi.

Kunyangwe zvakadaro, pane "kugutsikana subscale" yeFSFI ("Mukadzi Zvekuita Zvepabonde Index") remibvunzo, kugutsikana kwaive kwakakwirira mu "haana vashandisi ”pakati pehetero uye bi vakadzi. Izvi zvinoratidza here kuti panogona kunge paine dambudziko riri kuvharwa nemaitiro anoshandiswa mune ino indasitiri-inotsigirwa kudzidza?

Kushandiswa kwevibrator pakati pevanhu vanoita zvepabonde kunopesana nehukama hwehutano: migumisiro kubva kudzidziro dzomumiririri wehurumende muUnited States.

Anecdotes kubva paWebhu

[Anecdotes yakawanda inogona kuwanikwa pasi apa muchikamu chinotevera.]

Mukadzi wokutanga: “Dambudziko rangu guru nderekushandisa vibration kuti ibude uye zvinokanganisa kugadzikana kwangu. Ndakakanda vibrator yangu kunze zvachose. Nehurombo ini ndaifanira kubvisa zvese zviri mumba zvinotetemera nekuti ndakaramba ndichiedza kutsvaga wekutsiva. Mhoro Sonic-Kuchengeta kumeso-yekuchenesa turu. Zvepabonde zviri nani zvikuru. Hapana mubvunzo. Clitoris yangu yainge yakafa kune chero chinhu chisina bhatiri.

Mukadzi wechipiri: “Ndinovimba huroyi hwakaoma kubva kwandiri huchaita kuti ndifarire kufambidzana. Vakadzi vane makore gumi nemasere havafanirwe kuvharirwa mumakamuri avo ane porn nematoyi. Ndinoda kupedza chikoro chesekondari ndine ruoko rwakaoma. ”

Mukadzi wechitatu: “Ndakaverenga hentai- zvishoma uye bonyora rinenge zuva rega rega. Ndinofanira kurega. Ndarasikirwa nekunzwa mukati mechipfuva changu kubva kudhirivhari yangu. ”

Mumwe mukadzi: Vibrator-kushandisa kunogona kunyatso desensitize mukadzi. Ndakatanga kushandisa imwe kukoreji, ndichifunga kuti ndaive mukadzi wemazuvano, ane simba pabonde, uye ndaisatenda kuti raibudirira sei basa racho. Yakashanda TOO zvakanaka. Mukati memwedzi, ndakanga ndisisakwanise kuita orgasm nemukomana wangu, uye mwedzi mishoma mushure meizvozvo, ndakanga ndisingatombozvigona neruoko rwangu zvekare. Iyo vibrator yakaenda mumarara uye kupindura kwangu kwakadzoka mamwe masvondo akatevera. Kunyangwe izvozvi, makore gumi gare gare, ini dzimwe nguva ndinopotsa kukurudzira kwakanyanya. Zvisinei, ini zvechokwadi handisi kupotsa kuva nehutano hwepabonde padombo.

Ndakagara kure neinternet porn nekuda kwechikonzero chimwe chete. Zvinonyanya kukurudzira, uye ndinoziva kuti ndinokurumidza kubatwa. Ndakaedza kuita bonhora kwairi kamwe. Ini chaiko ndakauya mune isingasviki miniti imwe (kwete zvachose sehupenyu chaihwo!) Nekuti iko kukurudzira kwaive kwakanyanya. Hupenyu chaihwo hwepabonde hahuzombokwanise kuyanana neizvozvo. Pamwe ndini ndoga, asi ndinozviziva pachangu. Kana ndikatanga kugara ndichishandisa zvinonyadzisira zvepaInternet, ndaizopedzisira ndave mumwe wevanhu ivavo vasingachakwanise kutendeudzwa vasina izvozvo. Aiwa ndatenda. Ini ndichachengeta yangu yepabonde-hupenyu organic.

Mukomana: Ndakanga ndiine musikana uyo akati pane imwe nguva muhupenyu hwake kwaakanyatsoshandisa kumushandura. Asi akazviwana asisakwanisi kuita zvepabonde neshamwari dzake nokuti akanga ashushikana zvikuru. Akarega chigadziri, uye ndinofunga kuti akati akamutora kwemwedzi ye6 kuti adzoke zvakare.

Zvinyorwa kubva pane zvinyorwa zvezvinyorwa zvakawanda

Zvizhinji zvezvikamu izvi zvakagumisa kuti pakanga pasina "nyaya chaiyo" kubva mukushandiswa kwechisimba, kazhinji kuvimba nemabhizimisi-ekutsvakurudza kwakabhadharwa pamusoro apa, izvo zvisina kubvunza mibvunzo inokosha, kana kuti pachidzidzo (chakambotaurwa) chaisanganisira pasina nyaya dzevanhu. Hapana imwe yemashoko akawanikwa panyaya iyi yakaratidza kuti Indiana inodzidza vanyori vakatendeseka yaiva yebhizimisi-inobhadharwa uye yakanyorwa nevhizimisi-mushandi.

Zvinhu zviri pasi hazviratidzi chero chinhu chinoshandiswa, asi zvinoratidza kuti nyaya iyi inowanzoonekwa yakakwana zvokuti zvinyorwa zvizhinji zvakanyorwa pamusoro pechirevo ichi chakaderera-kuterera. Zvichibva pakufanana kwekutaura kwavo uye kusava nekutsvaga kwekutsvaga, dzimwe dzei dzinogona "kuiswa" nedzimwe shizha rakabhadhara mari yeku Indiana.

Ndizvo Zvaunoita Kuti Urege Kuita Zvepabonde Hwako Here?

"Ndiri kuputsika nechisimba changu," shamwari yangu Kate, * 35, akandiudza zvinyararire pamusoro peti lattes vhiki rakapera. "Ndinochida, pachena, asi mukomana wangu anofunga kuti zvinondiita kuti ndisapindure kune, munoziva, iye"Handina kushamiswa nokureurura kwake. Muongorori wangu akanga achangondibvunza kuti ndiedze kutora vi-break yangu pachedu ndamuudza kuti ndakanga ndichinetseka kusvika kuchegasm kunze kwekutenda kwangu Hitachi Magic Wand ....

Caroline akaziva kuti aizenge asingachagoni kuita zvepabonde - kubva mumuromo wepabonde, kuburitsa manzwiro, kana kuita zvepabonde - pasina mudzimai webhateri-anoshandiswa. "Zvakaita kuti ndive nechinonyadzisa kuti muviri wangu wakanga usina kudzivirirwa wakava kune zvinhu zvose asi zvakasimba kwazvo-kudengenyeka]," anodaro. "Jon aizoedza kuwira pasi pangu kana kushandisa maoko ake, asi zvinotora nokusingaperi. Pakupedzisira taizosiya zvose, uye ini ndaizodzokera kumudhiriri. "

Unofanira Kufunganya Nezve "Vakafa Vagina Syndrome" Here?

1. DVS inonzi inokonzerwa nekushandisa vibrator yako zvakanyanya. Kufa kwechirwere chirwere rinoreva kushandisa simba rako rinonyanyisa, zvichiita kuti mhandara yako irege kurasikirwa. Nhau dzakawanda pamusoro pechiitiko ichi dzakapararira, izvo zvingadaro zvakaita kuti unetseke pamusoro pekuti iwe unowanzoenda sei kuna Mr. Buzz kuti uende.

2. DVS inoitika sei, zvakadaro? Zvakanaka, saka sei vakafa vakafa chirwere chinonzi kuitika ndechokuti iwe unoshandisa vibrator yako zvakanyanya zvokuti iwe unorasikirwa ne clitoral uye vaginal stimulation. Inowedzera-kuburikidza nedhijidhi yako nguva dzose, iwe unopedzisira usingagoni kukwanisa kuita chero yerimwe nzira, kufanana nemumwe wako panguva yepabonde. Kana iwe ukaramba uchishandisa yako vibrator, iwe unopedzisira uine bhakadzi risingagoni kuwana chero kufara. Nokudaro, yakafa. ...

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Kuita zvepabonde mazano

Izvo zvaunoda kuti uzive nezve akafa vagina syndrome

Asi vakafa vagine syndrome zvechokwadi chinhu chaicho here? Kana kuti iyo nhema inoshandiswa kuisa vakadzi kurega kufadza zvepabonde zvepabonde here?

Kana iwe usingazivi, vakafa vagina syndrome zvinoreva kuwedzera kukuru kwekunakidzwa kwepabonde shure kwekushandiswa kwevhiringidzi.

Dzidziso yacho inofamba kuti kana ukashandisa vibrator 'zvakanyanya', iwe uchanyanya kusimbisa kuvhiringidzika kunobata uye kubatana kwechikadzi, zvichiita kuti urege kukwanisa kuve nechirongwa nemhando ipi zvayo. Kana iwe uchiramba uchishandisa vibrator yako, taura kuti vakafa vagina theorists, mhandara yako ichaita kuti iwe uchinzwe, zvakare, zvinoreva kuti mhandara yako ichave yakafa zvachose uye ichidzivirira kune chero rupi rwemufaro.

Inotyisa inotyisa, chaiko? And it kunge inonzwisisa. Ramba uchishandisa imwe nzira yekubuda uye zvichida iwe uchaiwana yakanyanyisa kudigasm kubva kune dzimwe nzira.

Asi usatya, vagina pals. ...

Quora mhinduro: Kunyanya kudhinda vibrator kunokonzera kukuvadza ku clitoris? Nzira yekukuvara kana zvimwe?

Ndizvo zvinoita kuti vibrator yako iparadze marimi ako here? (The Daily Dot)

Kuita zvepabonde zvakanaka. Asi sechinhu chipi nechimwe, chinhu chakawanda chechinhu chakanaka chinogona kuva nengozi. Uye vamwe vakadzi vakadzivisa kuti mushure mekushandisa vashandi vavo kwenguva yakareba, vaginas avo vakave vatsva kune mamwe maitiro ekukurudzira, kusvika pakasisina chinhu chiduku che jackhammer kune clitoris chichavaendesa kuchirwere.

... Kunyange zvakadaro, vamwe vakadzi vanoramba vachitenda zvakasimba kuti vanyengeri vakavhiringidza. Muchikamu cheCosmo, munyori Lauren Bans akarondedzera kuve nekutuka "Dead Vagina Syndrome," "kana sevanyori vanozviti, DVS," mushure memakore ekushandiswa kwemagetsi.

"Mushure memakore ekunyanya simba-kureva mudzimai wangu chikamu, ndakaona kuti kuuya kune imwe nzira kunoda huwandu hwekufungidzirwa nekutora maSAT," Bans akanyora. "Kwaiva kunetsa. Zvigunwe zvakaiswa muzvienzanidzo. Ndakanga ndisingafungi rurimi. Ndakanga ndichitya kuti ndakanga ndadedera mitsipa yangu yakafa nokusingaperi. "

... TLDR: "Vakafa Vagina Syndrome" kubva mukushandiswa kwakanyanya kwekushandisa vibrator zvichida inhema. Asi masayendisiti haazive zvechokwadi, nokuti hapana munhu akaita zviyero zvakajeka kuti awane.

Kunongoronga Zvinhu Zvine Mishonga Yakasimba Here? 8 Matanho Ekuwanazve Kuziva

A: ... Vakawanda vevakadzi vanorondedzera kuva kuwedzera huwandu hwehuwandu hwavanoshusha, kana kuti kuchengetedza "kukurudzira" mavhiringidzi avo kune mienzaniso yakasimba.

... Zvinosuruvarisa kuti hakuna kumbove nedzidzo dzakagadziriswa dzakaratidza kuti kana kuti kwete chaiyo yekuzvidzivirira kwepanyama kunogona kukura, asi vakadzi vakawanda vanotaura kuti kushandiswa kwemajaira nguva dzose kunoita kuti zvive zvakaoma kusvika kune orgasm mune dzimwe nzira (sekunge kuburikidza nekunyora bonde kana kutaura zvepabonde) .

Uchapupu hupi hwaunahwo hwekuti vibrator hazvikonzere kukuvara kwetsinga?

Mumwe mukadzi akabvunza kana paine humbowo hwekuti iyo clitoris inogona kushushikana neiyo vibrator. Iwe wakati 'kwete kuti ndanzwa nezvazvo'. Iwe unofunga kuti hapana humbowo nekuti ingori nyaya isina kudzidza, kana kwave kudzidza uye mhedzisiro yakaratidza kuti zvaisakwanisika?

Zvichida iwe unofanirwa kuverenga ese kuchema kwekubatsirwa kubva kuvakadzi pese pa internet vachinyunyuta kuti varasikirwa nehunyanzvi. Mazhinji emhinduro kubva kuvanachiremba vekurapa inoita kunge isiri chinhu kunze kwekufungidzira kwekusaziva. Vanotaurira vakadzi kuti manzwiro achadzoka uye inongova dambudziko renguva pfupi.

Huye kunzwa kwangu kwakarasika makore apfuura uye hakuna kuzombodzoka. Usandiudze kuti vibrator hazvikonzere kukuvara! Rudzi urwu rwemazano ekusaziva ari kuisa vamwe vakadzi panjodzi yedambudziko rakafanana uye kunonoka kutsvaga kwekuti ma vibrator anokonzeresa sei kukuvara uye kuti dambudziko rinogona kurapwa sei. Ini ndinonzwa sekunge ndakadzingiswa chaiko uye HAPASI zvese zviri mupfungwa dzangu.

Vibrator yakanganisa nerve kuguma

Ini ndiri 40 uye ndakatenga ndikashandisa vibrator kekutanga uye ini ndoona izvozvi apo murume wangu paanoedza kundibata nekundimutsa zvinonzwa zvakanaka asi ini handigone orgasim. Ndakarega kushandisa vibrator. Zvingave zvakakanganisa magumo angu etsinga here? Ini zvirinani kuti ndikwanise kunzwa ipapo nekubata kwake… Chii chandingaite kuti ndidzosere kunzwa munzvimbo iyoyo Ini ndanga ndichishandisa imwe yeo tho hitatchi wands

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"Dead Vagina Syndrome" Chinhu Chaichoicho?

[Iri rinotsigirwa nemutsvakurudzi ku debunk "Dead Vagina Syndrome," asi rinobatanidza papepa iyo yakangoshandiswa simba rekunyaradza mubasa ... hapana zvayo zvadzo]

Unogona kunge wakanzwa izwi rekuti “Dead Vagina Syndrome”Yakakandwa kwakatenderedza pamhepo, kana kuti yakazonzwa pfungwa iripashure payo: kuti kushandisa vibrator yako zvakawandisa kunokanganisa mukadzi wako. Uku kutaura kune chero kwesainzi hwaro, zvakadaro? Kana kuti ingoriwo imwe ngano yekushamisa vanhu pamusoro pebonyora?

Nenguva isipi, nyanzvi yehutano nehupfungwa hwepabonde wepabonde Nicole Prause, Ph.D., uyo ane akadzidza mhedzisiro yemavibrator, inoti hapana data rekutsigira zvirevo nezve Dead Vagina Syndrome.

Unogona kushandisa vibrator kukuvadza mitsipa yako here? 

Ngatitangei nemaitiro ekutanga. Iro rebazi rebazi redu rinotyisa rinokonzera kushungurudzika kune clitoris uye peni, maererano. Varume nevakadzi vane zvinyorwa zvinonzwisisika kudengenyeka, kushushikana, kutonhora, uye zvimwe zvinonzwa sekupisa kana kutonhora.

Heino chokwadi chinonakidza hazvo! Clitoris nepenisi zvine mhando dzakasiyana dzekugamuchira. Iyo clitoris ine ma receptors ayo anonzwisisa zvakanyanya kudedera pakati pe5 ne15 Hz nepo mboro ichinyanya kunetseka kune yakakwira frequency (250Hz). Pamwe pane mutsauko pakati peakakodzera vibrations evarume nevakadzi ?? Parizvino hapana kutsvagiswa pane izvi.

Isu tinoziva kuti pane kuderera kwepanyama uye kwechinguva mukunzwisisika kune kuwedzerwa. Izvi zvinoitikawo nekubata. Zvose zvinorevei ndezvokuti pashure pechinguva, iwe uchafanira kuchinja mavoti (kureva mavhiri) mune imwe nzira kuti urambe uchiva nemafungiro akafanana. Iwe unogona kuita izvi nekushandura mavhesi, kuwedzerwa, marudzi ekudengenyeka, kana kungotora nguva kubva kune dhivhari.

Apo zvinouya kumubvunzo waJean ndinofanira kutaura izvi: Pashure pokutsvakisisa zvakakwana kwemashoko akasiyana-siyana, ndakatadza kuwana imwe nyaya inotaura pamusoro pezvinodhaka zvinokonzera mhirizhonga. Iye zvino chete nokuti hapana chinyorwa chakabudiswa kunze uko hazvirevi kuti izvi hazvina kumboitika kana kuti hazvigone kuitika. Ndaizoti physiologically haisi kunze kwemubvunzo. Semuenzaniso, tinoziva kuti vanhu vanoshanda nejack-nyundo zuva rese vari pangozi huru yekugadzirisa dambudziko rehutano nehondo. Ndaifunga kuti kana iwe ukashandisa zvakanyanya-simba vibrator kwemaawa ekupedzisira, kwemazuva mazhinji mushure uye hongu, iwe unogona kunge uchikonzera kushungurudza kana kukuvadza mutsara.

ZVIMWE ZVAKAITIKA: Iyo indasitiri inoenderera ichisimudzira kushandiswa kwe vibrator ne "mubhadharo" muongorori: Vakadzi vanogona kunakidzwa nekusvibiswa kwemaminitsi mana uye kwenguva yakareba nokukurumidza kana vakashandisa chido chepabonde, tsvakurudzo itsva yakaratidza. Kunyange zvakadaro, vakadzi vanoramba vachizivisa zvirwere zvinokonzerwa nekushandiswa kwemagetsi: Mukadzi wechidiki 30s - asingakwanisi kumira nevarume, ndoga voga - kubudirira nyaya kusvika ikozvino!