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Lalit ave aine quandary kwemwedzi yakati wandei izvozvi. Mune hukama nemumwe waanoshanda naye kwemakore matatu apfuura, uyo ane makore makumi maviri nemashanu ekuzviona akawana zvakanetsa kuwana zvepabonde nemumwe wake kwemwedzi mishoma yapfuura. Pakutanga, aisakwanisa kutamba pamubhedha, uye zvishoma nezvishoma, Lalit akamira kunzwa kushuva kwehukama, kunyangwe aive achiri murudo zvakanyanya nemumwe wake. Sei jaya rine hutano, mune rake repamusoro bonde, riwane iye achibata ne erectile dysfunction (ED)? Mhinduro, maererano neyeurapist yake, yaive mune tsika yakanga yaumbwa naLalit pamusoro pemakore, kubva kuzhinji asati asangana nemusikana wake waazvino. Lalit akapindwa muropa nekudya zvinonyadzisira; Aipedza maawa achizviona, iye musikana wake anga asipo.
Nechipatara, vanonyanya kukonzera muEU varombo hutano hwepanyama, kushungurudzwa kwezvinodhaka uye hutano hwepfungwa sekushushikana, kuzvidya moyo, kuneta uye kunyangwe kushushikana. Asi, chikoro chitsva chemafungiro chinokonzeresa hukama pakati pekunyanyisa kuratidza zvinonyadzisira uye ED. Kutenda neInternet porn boom, mamiriro acho haasisiri kungobvumidzwa kune varume vezera repakati ne zero zero yekuita uye hupenyu hunoshungurudza hupenyu. Kunyange zvinhu zvakaita sekusashanda kwehupenyu, kuve akawandisa, mamiriro ekurapa senge shuga uye mamwe mararamiro nyaya ane basa nazvo
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Mumbai-based psychotherapist Alaokika Bharwani asvika kune varwere uko zvinhu zvinonyadzisira zvine mhosva. "Zvinonyadzisira chiitiko chakabatana zvikuru apo kukurudzira kunouya kunze," anodaro Bharwani. “Paunenge uchiona zvinonyadzisira uye vachiita bonhora, murume anonzwa kuti ari kutonga. Asi nemumwe murume, zvakafanana hazvisizvo, uye zvinomusiya, ”anodaro, achiwedzera kuti chokwadi chekuti zvinonyadzisira chinowanikwa zviri nyore chinowedzera kukura kwedambudziko.
Iko kusagadzikana kunoratidzira panguva yekudyidzana nemumwe uye kwete panguva yekuona porn. Ivo vanoshandisa zvinonyadzisira zvakawandisa, vanowana kushungurudzika uye kwepfambi kusabatana nemudiwa wavo. Ivo vanotanga kuzviwana zvakaoma kupindura kune vavanoda navo pabonde, kana iko kuita chaiko hakurarame zvinoenderana nezvinotarisirwa mutsiva zvinonyadzisira, zvichimusiya asina kugutsikana. Kune vamwewo vanofungidzira nezvekusangana nema erections sezvinoonekwa pawebhu, uye vanotambura nekushushikana kana vachichifananidza nezvazviri.
“Ini ndasangana nevarume vanogona kurara nevakadzi vavo chete vachiona zvinonyadzisira, zvikasadaro havazomutswa. Izvi zvinonyadzisa zvikuru mumwe wako uye zvinogona kupera kupera kwehukama, ”anodaro Pavan Sonar, chiremba wepfungwa wepaMumbai uye chepfungwa.
Izvo hazvibatsire kuti, sekutsvagurudzwa kwakaratidza, kuona zvinonyadzisira, kana zvazova tsika inomanikidzirwa, zvinoshanda zvakafanana zvinodzidzisa uropi sezvinoita doro nemimwe zvinodhaka. "Kuona zvinonyadzisira kunowedzera dopamine level, uye se dopamine ndiyo inonzwa yakanaka neurotransmitter, inoita kuti munhu ave nechishuvo chekunzwa ikoko kakawanda. Zvishoma nezvishoma, izvi zvinoumba tsika. Uropi hunova hwakaiswa pazviri. Kuita zvebonde muhupenyu chaihwo hakufani kugutsikana, uye varume vanobva vazviona zvakaoma kuzviita nevavakaroorana navo, ”anodaro Sonar.
Paanotarisa zvinonyadzisira uye vachiita bonhora, murume anonzwa kuti ari kutonga. Asi nemumwe wako, zvakafanana hazvisi izvo uye zvinomubvisa kure
-Alaokika Bharwani, psychotherapist
Mwedzi gumi nemisere yadarika, Dhananjaya akaita sarudzo yekusaona porn nekuita bonhora, uye uyo ane makore makumi matatu nematatu ane
namatira kwazvo. “Ini ndakanga ndaona zvinhu zvakanyanya kuomarara ndichiri mudiki, zvakandiomera kuwana
vakatendeuka muhupenyu chaihwo, ”anodaro. "Zvanga zvisiri nyore kudzika." Asi ini ndaifanira kuganhurira. Kwakanga kuri kutora toll pane yangu
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Shyam Mithiya, chiremba wezvepabonde uye chipangamazano weukama, anoti vazhinji vava kuda kusvitsa makore makumi maviri nemakumi matatu vauya kwaari nezvaanodaidza, "zviratidzo zvekufungidzira kwekusagadzikana". "Havana ED, asi vari kutya kuti vangadaro," anodaro Mithiya. “Zvakaitika kwavari zvinobva pakuita zvinhu sekuzvifananidza nemhando dzinoonekwa mumafirimu ezvinonyadzisira. Zvakare, kune avo vanonetseka uye vanonzwa vachishushikana nezve kugona kwavo kugutsa mumwe wavo nekuda kwekuona zvinonyadzisira. ”
Uyezve, kunyanyisa mune zvinonyadzisira kunogona kupera magumo ekukurukurirana kwemuviri pakati pevakabatana. "Zvinobudirira, zvazvinoreva ndezvekuti murume anokanganwa hunyanzvi hwekuverenga mutauro wemumwe wake," anowedzera
Bharwani.
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