Last September I broke up with the girl I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with after finding out she was cheating on me. I was with her for just over four years, she was my first love. Can’t say I PMO’d loads during the relationship, maybe 2/3 times a week or so, but was used to regular sex with her, maybe 3/4 times a week.
I was down in the dumps for a long time after we broke up and long story short was fapping to porn, a lot, sometimes 3 times a day on a weekend. I knew it wasn’t healthy and I should stop but I didn’t.
Had a wakeup call when I got with this amazing, gorgeous woman (my now current gf) and my erection was just non-existent, I’d never had ED before and it was terrible as fellow sufferers will well know. Luckily she was very good with me as she has had issues with sex before because she has endometriosis. I immediately stopped masterbating cold turkey and the flatline hit me like a tonne of bricks, just completely lifeless.
Long story short this went on for around 3 months where I couldn’t get it up for sex and was worsened by my worrying that nothing would happen, I remember a couple of times she’d give me a blowjob and I couldn’t get anywhere past a semi, demoralising for both of us to say the least.
Lọ si ipari ose to kọja, Emi ko rii ọrẹbinrin mi fun bii ọsẹ meji 2 ati fun igba akọkọ ni awọn oṣu rilara ara mi ati pe ko le duro lati rii i ati ibalopọ. Emi ko ṣe aniyan nipa ED, Mo fẹrẹ mọ pe yoo dara. A pade a si ni ibalopọ iyanu julọ, Emi ko le ranti eyikeyi ti o dara julọ ju iyẹn lọ. Kii ṣe iyẹn nikan, lẹhin ibalopọ Mo ṣe itọju okó mi lẹhin ti a ti duro, o ṣe akiyesi lẹhin nipa awọn iṣẹju 10 o sọ pe ki a ma jẹ ki o lọ si asan.
I feel like a totally new, more confident person with a raging libido.
I stopped PMO late December, I hooked up with my current girlfriend late December. So about 3 months, the flatline came straight away. [Recovery] hit me about two weeks ago, started getting morning glory again and thinking about sex for the first time in ages. I’m 21.
I said to myself I’d write a post when I get through this to thank everyone here for everything I’ve read, good luck and cheers guys you da real MVPs.
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