2.5 years ago, when I found out I cannot get an erection despite having a hot naked girl in front of me, I read several posts on this forum, learnt what to do and then just executed on this. I want to write this post to help other people, because I do know how desperate it feels when you find out you have PIED, in particular the question in my mind – “will this ever be fixed and when?”
Ibi ti mo ti bere
Ni nkan bii ọdun 2.5 sẹhin Mo lọ sùn pẹlu ọpọlọpọ awọn ọmọbirin ati pe ko le gba okó pẹlu wọn, botilẹjẹpe wọn gbona. Lati ge awọn nkan kuru nikẹhin ko si ọkan ninu awọn alaye deede ti o ge fun mi. Mo lọ si dokita, wọn rii pe Mo ni awọn ipele iwọn apapọ ti testosterone (Mo n gbe awọn iwuwo 3 ni ọsẹ kan, ti o dara pupọ, jijẹ ni ilera, ati bẹbẹ lọ), ayafi ti Mo rii apejọ yii ati awọn fidio Gary Wilson lori PIED. Emi ko gbagbọ ni kikun, ṣugbọn Mo ṣe idanwo PIED ti Mo rii ti a mẹnuba ni ibikan: Lakoko ti Emi ko le gba okó pẹlu awọn ọmọbirin tabi baraenisere, Mo gbiyanju lati wo ere onihoho lẹẹkansi (Emi ko ni fun oṣu meji ṣaaju) ati pe Mo ni lile okó gan ni kiakia.
Nitorinaa ipari mi ni pe lakoko ti Emi ko ni idaniloju nipa PIED, ipa ọna ti o dara julọ ni lati ro pe iyẹn ni ohun ti o jẹ ati tẹle ojutu ti a ṣeduro - atunbere.
Ohun ti mo ṣe
Mo tẹle ohun ti Mo rii nigbakan nibi ti a pe ni “atunbere ni kikun”:
- Ko si ere onihoho, Ko paapaa awọn ọmọbirin ihoho, ko si awọn aworan ti cleavage, nkan ti o jọra, ipo nikan ti Emi yoo rii pe yoo wa ni igbesi aye gidi nigbati a sọ mi ni ile-iṣẹ kan.
- Ko si baraenisere
- Ni akọkọ nitori iṣẹ mi Mo ni akoko diẹ lati pade awọn ọmọbirin, ṣugbọn lori akoko ti o yipada ati pe Mo ni aye lati lọ si awọn ọjọ ati sun pẹlu awọn ọmọbirin. Ni akọkọ, nitori igbẹkẹle mi jẹ apata-isalẹ, I lo Cialis. Mo ti rii bi ko ṣe iṣeduro lori awọn apejọ ni ayika ibi, ṣugbọn nitootọ ti o ko ba gba pupọ, ie mu eg 5mg ni pupọ julọ lẹẹkan tabi lẹmeji ni ọsẹ, kii ṣe ni gbogbo ọsẹ, lẹẹkọọkan, Emi ko ro pe o ṣe iru bẹ. a harm.Mo ro pe o iranwo mi ni ori ti muu mi lati ni ibalopo ti o bere lati apata-isalẹ igbekele awọn ipele.
- Ni akiyesi ailewu, ti o ba ro pe ọmọbirin naa wa ni ailewu / ko ni ibalopọ pẹlu ọpọlọpọ awọn eniyan, Mo ro pe ko ṣe ipalara lati gbiyanju ibalopo lai kondomu (rii daju pe o mu oogun naa dajudaju). Idi ni pe, o kere ju fun mi, kondomu ṣe iyatọ nla. Nini ibalopọ pẹlu kondomu kan lẹhinna jẹ ki n ronu “Kini idi ti nkan ibalopọ yii yẹ ki o jẹ igbadun?”. Nini ibalopo laisi kondomu yatọ patapata. Bayi Mo ni ibalopo pẹlu kondomu laisi awọn iṣoro, ṣugbọn sibẹ o ṣe iyatọ nla - o jẹ ki n ni rilara pupọ diẹ sii ati ni ọpọlọpọ igba Mo le tẹsiwaju lailai pẹlu rẹ, lakoko laisi rẹ nigbagbogbo Emi ko le ṣiṣe ni pataki fun pipẹ.
Ibi ti mo wa bayi
Lẹhin ọdun 2.5 Mo bẹrẹ ifẹnukonu pẹlu ọmọbirin kan ati pe Mo gba apata lile. Ko ṣe pataki ti o ba rẹ mi, oorun, ohunkohun ti, Mo ni awọn iṣoro 0 lati gba okó ni bayi. Emi ko ro pe eyi yoo ṣee ṣe ṣugbọn o jẹ. Mo le fẹrẹ sun ṣugbọn ti MO ba famọra ọrẹbinrin mi nigbakan Mo tun gba okó lainidii.
Ohun ti o ni lati ṣe ni dawọ onihoho ati baraenisere, ko si sile. O le jẹ lile (bakanna awọn ere onihoho ko ṣoro fun mi), ṣugbọn o ṣee ṣe - o jẹ ibeere ti ibawi!
therealgilgalad asked: ↑
1) Omo odun melo ni o? Ṣe o le sọ fun wa diẹ nipa itan-akọọlẹ lilo onihoho rẹ…
2) Bawo ni o ṣe pẹ to lati gba iwosan 100%, tabi ṣe o ro ara rẹ ni arowoto 100%?
3) Ṣe o le ṣe ọpọlọpọ igba ni ọjọ kan?
1) Mo jẹ ọdun 28 ni bayi - nitorinaa Mo bẹrẹ nigbati mo jẹ ọdun 25. Bi fun itan-akọọlẹ lilo ere onihoho, Emi ko ṣe pupọ bi Mo ti ka ni awọn ọran nibiti eniyan n wo ni ọpọlọpọ igba ni ọjọ kan - Emi yoo wo lẹẹkan ni ọjọ kan. boya 5 igba kan ọsẹ, fun bi 20-30 iṣẹju. Ṣugbọn eyi jẹ pupọ julọ pe pupọ julọ ti ere onihoho deede kii yoo tan mi si ọna opin, Emi gangan kii yoo bikita nipa ibalopọ. Nitorinaa lakoko Emi ko ni iṣoro lati ma wo ere onihoho. Bayi o yatọ - Mo ni lati ni ibawi gaan ati pe o ṣoro, ṣugbọn ainireti ti Mo kọja, ati igbẹkẹle ti Mo ni nipa ni anfani lati ni ere ni irọrun nitori ko ti wo ere onihoho tabi baraenisere, jẹ ki n lọ gaan.
2) Bayi Mo lero pato si bojuto, Mo ti le gba okó eyikeyi akoko ti mo bẹrẹ ani kàn ọrẹbinrin mi.
3) Tun ọpọlọpọ igba lojoojumọ Emi ni - ni otitọ ni bayi Mo wa kuro lọdọ ọrẹbinrin mi ati nigbati o ba ṣabẹwo lẹhinna a ni ibalopọ deede ni gbogbo owurọ ati irọlẹ ọpọlọpọ awọn ọjọ ni ọna kan. Mo fẹ lati ṣe idanwo awọn igba pupọ ni alẹ ṣugbọn nitootọ nitori iṣẹ lẹhin igba akọkọ ti o rẹ mi gaan.
ỌNA ASOPỌ - From total desperation to perfect erection
by behemoth
INITIAL POST – 30 MONTHS EARLIER:
OK I am going to try to keep it short, I just tried to include at least in a cursory way most things that are relevant.
I am 25 and basically up to like a couple of months ago I had never had sex before, mostly because I was always very career-focused and sexual urges were just annoyances to get sorted out quickly so I can go back to work. Over the last year I changed job back to something more normal to get my life back again.
When I was about to have sex for the first time 3 months ago I didn’t get the erection. At the time I had been taking Sertralin/Zoloft for a couple of months, plus I had a bit of wine, so I put it to that. The thing is, in later attempts over the following three months, I have taken out all the possible external culprits (SSRIs, since I don’t really need them anymore, alcohol, …), and without Viagra/Cialis I would not get an erection good enough for penetration except once.
I went to the doc, they checked my blood, sad all was OK, including my testosterone levels, and gave me some Cialis on the assumption it’s probably just performance anxiety and those pills will help me overcome it.
Well the thing is I doubt it’s just performance anxiety because having a more detailed think about it I don’t really get (erection-wise) aroused in most situations that guys (including me when I was 17-19) would normally get aroused.
And it takes me like 10 minutes of masturbating to get my goods reasonably hard when alone, and it’s almost impossible to get off without imagining either a scene from porn (up to 3 months ago) or one of the very few and short successful experiences I’ve had with one of the girls I’ve been with (either the short times inside them or just the things we did & their bodies).
So I figured it got to be porn-induced and hence how I end up here. I was watching porn from maybe when I was about 17, but not with the heavy frequency many people describe, and definitely not addicted. Most of the times I would watch it maybe 6 to 7 times a month, and to be honest, another 10 times a month I’d masturbate imagining the scenes I saw (gave me less guilt & saved time).
My question/worry is – do you think my problems with getting an erection are actually porn-induced? I am really not sure because when I read most posts on this forum, as well as most stories on yourbrainonporn.com, people typically mention they masturbate to porn at least once a day, if not more, and after like 3 or 4 days of no porn and no-fap they feel really strong urge to relapse that they have to fight.
I am not at all like that. In the year up to 3 months ago I was watching porn less and less, maybe 2 or 3 times a month at most. 3 months ago after I had my first attempt at real sex I cut the porn off completely, including masturbation to mental images from porn (and up to now I have been masturbating maybe once or twice a week – sometimes still to the mental images from porn, but over time less and less as I replaced them with images of the real girls I’ve been with).
So now my plan is not to watch any porn ever again and in the next 2 to 3 months no masturbation either. But I really can’t identify myself with the stories most people write which include such strong urges to watch porn or at least masturbate after like a day or two. I haven’t seen porn for 3 months, don’t feel the need to see it, and haven’t masturbated by now for a week and only feel a very slight urge to do it, no big raging thing…
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