Ingabe unenkinga yokulutha kwezidakamizwa ezingcolile ezingaphezu konyaka?
Ngifuna ukukutshela ngokuzwakalayo ukuthi kungani uhluleka, ngakho-ke ungakhetha futhi unqobe lokhu.
Engikhuluma ngezansi kungase kuzwakale kunzima ngezikhathi ezithile, kodwa kuyadingeka kube.
Lona ucingo lwe-Wakeup, futhi amakholi wokuvuka awahloswanga ukuba 'okuhle'.
Iqiniso Ngokuthi Kungani Usengumlutha Wezithombe Ezingcolile
I-1. Isibopho.
Ibhokisi lami lemilayezo engenayo ligcwele ama-imeyili avela emakhulwini amantombazane abafuna ngokugcwele ukuphuza umlutha wabo.
Izizathu zazo ziningi futhi zihlukahlukene:
Bafuna ukunqoba izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ezenza i-ED noma ukukhathazeka kokusebenza.
Bafuna ukuba nobuhlobo bangempela.
Bafuna ukuyeka ukuchitha impilo yabo phambi kwesikrini sekhompyutheni ...
Phakathi kwezinye izizathu eziningi ezinkulu.
Ngingakutshela ukuthi ngubani ozohluleka.
Imvamisa nje kusukela ekufundeni isigaba sokuqala se-imeyili, ngiyakwazi ukubona ukuthi umfana unakho yini okudingekayo ukunqoba inkinga yakhe - ngokuqiniseka okunengqondo.
Cishe i-60% yama-imeyili engiwa ngayo esigabeni noma engizokubiza U-o-is-me-complainer.
I-o-is-me complainer isisulu sezimo zakhe.
Izinkinga zibekwe kuye. Akulona iqiniso.
Uthole i-porn esemncane, ngakho-ke 'kuzoba nzima kakhulu' kuye.
Udinga ukusebenzisa i-laptop yakhe ngaso sonke isikhathi esikoleni noma ukubhala imibiko yomsebenzi, ngakho-ke “akunakwenzeka” ukuhlala kude ne-intanethi (nesilingo).
'Akathandeki' futhi 'mubi ngamantombazane', ngakho-ke uyazi ukuthi noma ngabe ngandlela thile ekwazi ukuyeka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile, akasoze ayithola intombi.
Ngokuzibona eyisisulu, udlulisela umthwalo wakhe wemfanelo - wona amandla akhe okumba indlela yokuphuma ezinkingeni zakhe - aye ezimweni zakhe.
Futhi ngokwenza lokhu, wehlulekile ngaphambi kokuthi aqale.
Esinye isimo esivamile salo mfana ukuthi ufuna indlela elula yokuphuma; ufuna umuntu 'amlungiselele'.
I-imeyili yalo mfana ingasho into efana nokuthi: “ngakho-ke nasi isimo sami esiyingqayizivele (esifana kakhulu nezinkulungwane zabanye abafana) - kufanele ngenzeni?” Futhi kufanele ngiyeke ukubhala: "Awu, usuzifundile izindatshana ezinhlanu kuwebhusayithi yami ezikhuluma ngale ndaba? Mhlawumbe kufanele uqale lapho ?? ”
Cha, lo mfana ufuna omunye umuntu enze umsebenzi onzima ngaye.
Into ewukuthi, indlela yangempela yokunqoba umlutha wezocansi kuyi-SIMPLE.
Kulula, kodwa akulula.
Ifomula lempumelelo:
Bheka abafana abaphendulela ngempumelelo impilo yabo, benze lokho abakwenzayo.
Futhi into eyodwa bonke abafana abaphumelelayo abafana nabo ukuthi baqala ukuthatha umthwalo we-100%.
Mina ngedwa ngaqala ukuthuthuka lapho ngibona ukuthi: "Yimina engazifaka kulesi simo: lokhu kuba umlutha we-porn, i-porn ibangele ukukhathazeka kwe-ED nokusebenza kuyinkinga YAMI ... Futhi yimi engizophuma."
Yonke imininingwane ikhona lapho - kubhulogi yami nakwabanye abanjenge-Brain On Porn, i-Porn Enlightenment yakho, nabanye abaningi.
Kumele uthathe umthwalo wemfanelo, bese u-ACT ACT ON.
Ekugcineni, lesi sisho esivela ku-Strength Coach Taylor, okubhalwa kwakhe okuphefumulelwe lesi sihloko, siyifaka ngokucophelela:
"Emaminithini amabili nje ngingakutshela ukuthi othile uzophumelela yini ekufuneni kwakhe isimo somzimba ovulekile. Futhi imizuzu emibili iphephile. Kungenzeka ukuthi isondelene namasekhondi angu-30. Futhi lokhu akusebenzi nje kuphela ekulahlekelweni kwamafutha kodwa nakwezinye izinjongo zempilo nempilo yakho.
Uma uzibeka icala - impumelelo. Uma usola konke okunye - akukho impumelelo. I-Period. "
- Umqeqeshi Taylor, stronghtcoachtaylor.ca
2. Awulungele ukwenza umhlatshelo.
Kuyangimangaza ngempela lapho abafana bethi "lesi yisikhathi sesi-5 ngibuyela emuva emasontweni amathathu edlule."
Njengokuthi, awukwazi ukuya IVIKI ELILODWA ESIYODWA? Ngempela ??
Uma kunjalo, mhlawumbe wenza okuthile okungalungile. Noma udinga ukungabaza ukuzibophezela kwakho necebo lakho.
Imibuzo eminye yokuzibuza mayelana neqhinga:
Usebenzisa i umkhuba wokufaka esikhundleni?
Ungu ukugwema izimbangela?
Uhlala ubuyela nini futhi kubangelwa yini? Uzizwa kanjani ngaphambi kokuvumela?
Ngaphandle kokuthi ungenele kule mibuzo futhi wenze umsebenzi kusengaphambili, uzothola empini yokukhuphuka.
Angiyikuya e-sugarcoat it: Ukuyeka izithombe ezingcolile kunzima kakhulu kubafana abaningi, mina ngokwami ngahlanganisa.
Kodwa umuntu ozoba yilobu bunzima uzokubonga ngokunamathela kuyo futhi uhlanza impilo yakho.
Futhi, ngamazwi omqeqeshi Taylor:
"Ukuphila akulungile. Ukuphila kunzima. Uzophuma kuwo, lokho okufaka kuso.
Futhi uma unquma ukwenza izinguquko zangempela, uma wenza ukuzibophezela kuwe ngokwakho ukwenza umehluko, WAKE WENZA KANYE UKUBA UKUBA. "
- Umqeqeshi Taylor, stronghtcoachtaylor.ca
I-3. Ufuna imiphumela ngokushesha, ngaphandle kokufaka umsebenzi odingekayo.
Ucabanga ukuthi umbuzo ovame kakhulu engithunyelwe nge-imeyili?
Ngizokutshela ukuthi kuyini - ngokudilika komhlaba:
"Kuzoze kube nini ukuqala kabusha kwami kuqale?"
Naphezu kokubhala ngokugcwele isihloko kulokhu, echaza ukuthi kuncike ezintweni eziningi, kufaka phakathi umlando wakho we-porn, ubudala nobuchule, lo mbuzo owodwa.
Futhi isizathu siwukuthi abantu bafuna nje ukuzithola.
Bafuna 'bajwayelekile futhi' MANJE MANJE, futhi ngaphandle kobuhlungu nokuhlupheka.
Bafuna inhlamvu yomlingo. Yingakho ke i-viagra ne-cialis izidakamizwa zama dollar ayizinkulungwane eziyinkulungwane.
Ngiyaqonda ukuphuthuma. Kodwa ukuqalisa kabusha kuthatha isikhathi futhi kungcono umsebenzi onzima.
Ukushintsha impilo yakho kangcono ngokuvamile akukwenzekanga ngobusuku bonke. Iza nayo izinguquko ezincane, ezengeziwe nokushintsha isu lakho kumaphuzu akho enkinga.
Ukuqalisa kabusha kusuka ku-PIED engathí sina kungathatha isikhathi, kusukela emasontweni ambalwa ohlangothini olufushane, ezinyangeni eziningi.
Ukuphunyuka empandeni eyimbangela yokulutha kwakho kungaba inqubo ende kakhulu, kepha kunomvuzo: okuholela ekubeni ube nesineke, unakekele, ube yindoda ethanda ukuqina.
Ngakho-ke. Ingabe usukulungele ukuzibophezela kuwe? Uzizwa ugqozi ukwenza izinguquko?
Uma uthanda lokhu okuthunyelwe, ungathola amanye amarekhodi ami lapha: http://rebootblueprint.com/
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