Ngingumfanekiso wendlela enyantisayo ongayithola. Ngiyisibonelo sokuthi kungani kufanele uqaphele ukuthi ukwehlisa izithombe ezingcolile kuyinkinga enkulu. Angiyena iminyaka eyizinkulungwane ezizama ukuzinselela njengesivivinyo. Ngezindlela eziningi, lokhu kube yindlela ende yokuphila.
Ngimi ukushaya indlwabu ngisemncane ngiholele ekubhekaneni nezocansi njengoba ngisemusha osekugcineni okwaholela ekusebenzelaneni nokungathandeki ngokomzwelo ngokomzimba / emzimbeni namantombazane okwaholela ekufweni kwesilwane, futhi ubugebengu obuningi obuncitshangelwayo obuhambisana nabesilisa abavela e-craigslist nasezikhungweni zemidlalo yamahhala nabantu abadala, abahlukumezi, ama-masseuses, njll. Ngezikhathi ezimbalwa ngiye ngahamba futhi ngazama ukuthatha izakhamuzi zasifazane ezivamile nje ukuhamba noma ukulinda esitobhini sebhasi. Isisindo sami sokushaya indlwabu eminyakeni edlule sifaka izinto zasendlini, ukudla, izingubo / izicathulo emalungwini omndeni wesifazane, ukudla umchamo wami kanye ne-semen, njll. Ukucabanga kwami-kahle, ungacabanga. Ukufunda ama-athikili wephephandaba nokubuka amavidiyo ama-sting ama-men's sicker, ngiyazi ukuthi kunezinga elibi nakakhulu emva kwalokho, futhi ngiyabonga ukuthi angikaze ngikwenze lokho.
Lapho ngizama kakhulu ukuyeka, kwaba kubi nakakhulu. Kufana nokukha utwayi. Kunezikhathi lapho ngihlanzeke khona izinyanga nezinye izikhathi lapho bekuyizikhathi eziningi nsuku zonke. Nazi izincomo zami:
I-1) Thola empandeni yenkinga usebenzisa amasu angokwengqondo we-introspection. Thembeka kuwe ngokwakho nasendodeni. Vuma futhi uzixolele. Imikhuba emibi eminingi isukela emizweni engaxazululwa kusuka ebuntwaneni noma eminyakeni yobusha, izinto obungeke utshele muntu, izikhalazo ezifihliwe osuke waba nazo. Imvamisa kugxila ebudlelwaneni nabazali, umndeni, othisha, ofunda nabo ekilasini, bazizwe beyisisulu noma benikezwe into engafanele empilweni. Kufana nokuthi uzizwa unephutha ngakho-ke sebenzisa i-fapping / porn ukugcwalisa umgodi emphefumulweni wakho. Uma ungeke ukwazi ukuthola izinsiza ku-inthanethi, udinga ukuthola usizo lochwepheshe ukuze likuqondise endleleni efanele. Iqiniso ukuthi noma yisiphi isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esifanelwe usawoti wakhe sizoqonda uma usudlula ngokweqile futhi ukhathazeka kakhulu ngaso, futhi sizozama ukukusiza ukunciphisa umonakalo. Inkinga ubuchopho bethu bufakelwe intokozo injabulo futhi kufanele buqhubeke nokukuyisa ezingeni elilandelayo njengempendulo yengcindezi. Kepha singakuthola ukulawula.
2) Khomba iphethini nemikhuba yakho. Yazi lapho ulinganisa futhi wenza amadili nawe okungamaqhinga nje. Yiba nethemba nokholo lokuthi uma ungahlambuluka isikhashana izifiso zizokwehla, ukuthi izifiso zivamile, ukuthi ingqondo nomzimba wakho uzokwazi ukuziphilisa, ukuthi uma ubhala kabusha umbhalo wakho wokujwayela ubuchopho bakho buzozivumelanisa okusha iqoqo lemiyalo. Qonda ukuthi ukuzwa i-horny kungumuzwa “nje” futhi akudingeki uzizwe uphoqelekile ukulingisa ngakho, njengoba nje ungasebenzisi yonke eminye imizwa yakho. Yenza okunye.
I-3) Ungavumeli amaphutha adlule, izono zakho, kanye nemithwalo yakho ikubambe phansi. Abantu baqalekisiwe / babusisiwe ngokuzisola esikhathini esedlule nokukhathazeka ngekusasa. Siyikhohlwa ngokuphakade manje. Sinegunya lokuphila okwamanje futhi sinokuthi mhlawumbe ifu lekusasa. Lapho ngivuma zonke izenzo zami zobulili ekuqaleni kwalokhu okuthunyelwe, ungase ucabange ukuthi ngiphakamisile futhi impilo yami iphelile. Empeleni, ngiyakwazi ukuqhubeka phambili. Izahlulelo zakho zingenasisekelo empilweni yami. Awusesizicathulweni zami. Sonke senze izinto esizihlazo ngazo. Kodwa akudingeki senze ukuphila kwethu kube yisihogo esiphilayo nsuku zonke. Akudingeki sijezise ngokwethu. Sidinga ukuqala ngaphezu komzuzu ngamunye. Vele uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde ufunde kusuka kuwe. Awusabuyeli phansi entabeni. Eqinisweni, akukho nhlobo intaba.
I-4) Thatha ukulawula emuva. Vele uyihlole lapho kufika isifiso se-horny futhi uwedwa. Akekho okuphoqa ukuthi ufinyelele ezingcolile noma uqale ukuhlela. Le yimikhuba emibi oyifundile, futhi ingafundwa. Yazi imicabango nemizwa kodwa ungalaleli. Imicabango izozama ukukuqinisekisa ukuthi ufanele ukufeza i-orgasm, ukuthi unelungelo ngoba akekho onakekela izidingo zakho, ukuthi akuyona into enkulu, ukuthi kuzoba isikhathi sokugcina, ukuthi uyidinge ukukhulula ukucindezeleka, ukuthi kujwayelekile, futhi noma yikuphi ukuxoxisana noma ukwenza izaba. Lapho ubhala kabusha iskripthi sakho, empeleni uzokwakha ukungavikeleki.
I-5) Sula ama memes futhi ulawule ukucabanga ufike lapha nakwezinye izindawo. Uma ungumlutha wezinsuku zokubala kanye nemigwaqo ngaphandle kokubuka isithombe esikhulu, ngeke uwukhahlele umkhuba lowo. Ngokungenzeka uzozizwa unecala futhi uzitike bese uphinda umjikelezo bese ukhungatheka. Uma unesimo sengqondo sokucabanga ukuthi ukuzixolela kuyiphasi lamahhala le-fap (elifana nomKatolika ovuma umpristi bese wenza isono esifanayo), usendleleni engafanele. Ungagxili "ekushibilikeni". Ngelinye ilanga, uma ususendleleni efanele, uzokhululwa futhi ungakhathazeki ngamagama anjalo. Uzobe uphila impilo futhi ungaphezu kwalezi zindlela zokucabanga. Yazi ukuthi le yinqubo eqhubekayo. Ungalulama ngokugcwele ngokusebenzisa izimiso.
I-6) Iyini injongo yokuphila? Imikhuba emihle ihlanganisa ukudala, kungakhathaliseki ukubhala, ukuhlela, ukudweba, ukumisa, ukucula, ukudansa, ukwenza into-noma yini. Imikhuba emihle ihlanganisa ukusiza abanye, ukufundisa abanye, nokuba yisibonelo esihle. Thola izinto zokuzilibazisa zangempela. Yakha umoya onempilo. Thola ezinye izindlela zokukhiqiza zansuku zonke. Funda sonke isikhathi. Abanye benu bacabanga ukuthi uyazi-konke. Eqinisweni sinenhlanhla ukwazi 1% yolwazi lonke. Qhubeka ufunda izinto ezintsha, ufunde izihloko ozithandayo futhi ufunde ezintsha. Gcina ingqondo evulekile, njengesiponji. Ukulandela intshisekelo yakho ekhethekile. Njengamanje ngokusekelwe esikhathini osichitha kuso, nokugxila ngokomzwelo, i-PMO yisisusa sakho. Uma wehla ezingeni lami, ukuba ngumuntu ozoya ocansini kuyisifiso sakho kanye. Uyazi ukuthi kukhona okunye laphaya! Isikhathi sokushintsha!
I-7) Thola okungokomoya. Cishe usuzwele kakade. Ungase uhambisane nenkolo ehlelekile, kodwa ngisho nesayensi ayikwazi ukuphendula imibuzo emikhulu mayelana nokuqala kokuphila, indawo yonke, nokuqonda okugculisayo. Igatsha eliya ezihlokweni lapho kusungulwa ukuthi kusungulwe khona ukuze ukwazi ukuzwa ukuthi kukhona into enkulu kunawe. Misa abantu abakholwayo baphezulu kokudla futhi bazi konke. Kuholela ekuzikhulekeleni nasekuzinikeleni. Iholela ku-nihilism, futhi uma ungekho ukuziphatha ungenza okuningi okufakiwe. Dala uhlelo oluyinhloko lokukholelwa olusondeza ekusebenzeni kwakho okuphelele njengomuntu, hhayi isisekelo sokuzithokozisa okuphansi kakhulu. Hlela phezulu, hhayi okuphansi.
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