Izingane zase-Australia zifinyelela izithombe ezingcolile zobulili ezingcolile, futhi ukutholakala kwayo okulungele kube nemiphumela emibi - kuhlanganise nomkhuba omusha wokukhathazeka ngokobulili.
Abafana abasha abasebancane njenge-16 babhekana nezimpawu zokungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile ngenxa yokubuka ngokweqile izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zobudlova nezinkathazo, isazi sembule.
Futhi ukulungele ukufinyelela kwe-porn kunoma iyiphi idivayisi kunoma yisiphi isikhathi sosuku kufundisa izifundo eziyingozi mayelana nokuthi ubuhlobo bobulili obuhle bufanele bube bunjani.
Isazi sengqondo sengqondo nomlobi uCollett Smith ubhale incwadi entsha Bazobe Bahle, echaza izingxoxo abazali okufanele babe nazo nezingane zabo.
Esinye sezihloko eziyinkimbinkimbi ukubhekana nazo akungabazeki ukuthi i-porn, okuyinto uNkk Smart ethi enye yalezi zizukulwane ezintsha izinkinga ezinkulu zokuhamba.
"I-Porn ithinta indlela ababona ngayo ubudlelwane, ubulili kanye nokusondelana ngaphambi kokuthi iningi lazo lishaye kuqala noma liphethe isandla somuntu," kusho uNksz Smart.
Izithombe zobulili ezingcolile akuzona ezisha, kodwa ukutholakala kwayo kuvele kumamagazini afihliwe kanye ne-VHS engavamile ngokushesha, mahhala njalo njalo. Futhi okuqukethwe ngokwayo kuye kwashintsha, wathi.
"Inkinga ukuthi ubudlova buvezwe kangakanani ku-porno. Ngifunde iphepha elisha lokucwaninga mayelana nokuthi ubudlova buningi kangakanani ezihlotsheni zezintandokazi zobulili ezisencane - amavidiyo asebenzisa abalingisi bedlala intsha. Kukhulu kakhulu kunezocansi ezikhulile.
"Intsha ifunda ukuthi i-sexy ibudlova. Kuyinkinga enkulu yalesi sizukulwane. "
UNksz Smart uchaze izenzo ezitholakala ezithombeni eziningi ezingcolile njenge "ubulili bobugovu", eziphikisana nemibono yababukeli abasha.
"Akunamusa, akukaze kube lula ukumanga uthando, akukho umusa noma ukubuza, noma ukunakekelwa ngomunye umuntu. Kungokuthola lokho okufunayo nokuphuma. "
Abacwaningi kanye nochwepheshe baye babhala inani elandayo labantwana elibuka izithombe ezingcolile, kuhlanganise nasesikoleni samabanga aphansi.
Isici ngasinye sokuzijabulisa, kanye nesimo esinobudlova, sinecala lokunyuka kwamanye amazwe, wathi.
Abafana nabamantombazane abaningi babika ukuthi bahlanganyela ocansini lesandulela ngculazi ngezimo zobungqingili, bobabili babheka njengokuthi "kwenzekani" futhi kuvamile.
"Balindele ukuthi kube buhlungu kepha lokho kuyinto evumelekile - kungathi, kubi, yilokho okufanele sikwenze," kusho uNksz Smart.
Ngokweqile, odokotela babona ukwanda kwenani lamantombazane asebasha elisencane "anezinyembezi ezincane," esho.
"Kuyashaqeka ngempela," kusho uNksz Smart. "Akukho ubumnene noma umusa kulo."
Ukusetshenziswa ngokweqile kwe-porn kuholela ekukhuphukeni okulotshiwe kwinani labafana eminyakeni embalwa yokugcina yesikole esiphakeme abangenamandla kwengqondo.
UNksz Smart uthe kuyinkinga eyinkimbinkimbi kanye nendawo yokufunda, kodwa abeluleki besikole asebenza nabo bathi bayayibona "ngokuningi".
"Ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi kakhulu ngokushaya indlwabu kungcola ekubambeni okuningi noma okunamandla okudingekayo ukuze uthole izinga elifanayo lokuvusa," kusho uNksz Smart.
"Abafana abaningi ngonyaka 11 noma i-12 baya phambili ngezinkinga ze-erectile zokungasebenzi. Abanye balaba bafana abakaze babe nentombi ngakho uma bezama ukusondelana, abavuswanga. Lokhu kuyinkinga langempela. "
Izindaba ezinhle ukuthi ukucwaninga kubonisa ukuthi abantu abasha bavulekile ukukhuluma nabamama nabazali ngalezi zihloko futhi bangathanda ukuxoxa nabo kunokwenyama, kusho yena.
"Ngaphambi kwentsha kanye nentsha, uma ungakaze uxoxe ngaphambili, qala manje. Kuzoba nzima nakakhulu futhi bobabili bayodlala esihlalweni. Kuzozizwa njengengxoxo enhle kunazo zonke owake waba nayo. Kodwa lokho kulungile. Ungapheli amandla.
"Akudingeki ukuba ungenele engxoxweni mayelana nezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ukuze uqale. Khuluma ngothando nokuthandana nokuhlukunyezwa. Bheka amabhayisikobho noma imibukiso ababukeleyo bese ubabuza ngakho.
"Sebenzisa indlela yabo yokuxhumana ukuze uqale kancane ukubhekana nezinye izihloko ezinzima ezifana nobulili kanye ne-porn."
I-Collett Smart incwadi entsha Zizobe zilungile futhi zithengiswa manje
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