Akudingeki ukuba ube nesisulu sokukhathazeka nge-porn. Ngenxa ye-Intanethi, abaseMelika baye baphoqelelwa, ngokungazi, ukuba bahlole ukuhlolwa kokuhlalisana komphakathi uma ukungafinyeleleki kokufinyelela ezingcolile zobulili ezingcolile kakhulu kuzonqoba ubudlelwano bobulili ngezizukulwane ezizayo.
Izinsuku zabafana ezihlambalaza ku-Playboy emgqeni wezidakamizwa zamagciwane ziphele isikhathi eside. Eminyakeni eyedlule, ama-Playboys afakwe epulasitiki futhi anamathele ngemuva kwekhasi ukuze agcine izithombe ezimangalisa zeze "amantombazane eseduze" ngaphandle kwezingane. Yeka indlela okubonakala ngayo manje ezweni lapho ikhompiyutha yomndeni isibe isingeniso esisheshayo olwandle olwandle oludlulayo kakhulu lwezithombe zocansi.
URaunchy empeleni akaqali ukuchaza izinto noma yiziphi izingane ezingazithola ngamagama ambalwa okusesha kanye nokuchofoza okumbalwa kuphedi yethrekhi noma igundane. Ukwehla okusheshayo ekubonisweni okungapheli kwezithombe namavidiyo abonisa ubulili kuzo zonke izinhlobo, kepha kubuswa imicabango yabesilisa eyonakele yabesifazane abenza njengezifebe zamadoda okubonakala sengathi amasu abo ezocansi afundwe esitokisini sejele. Izinto ezimbi kakhulu zibonakala zivela eMpumalanga Yurophu - amabhayisikobho amancane ahlambalaza kabi, amanyala athokozela ukuhlukunyezwa nokwehliswa isithunzi kwabesifazane abasebasha.
Lona izinto eziphazamisa umphefumulo abantu abaningi abangazange babone noma bazibonele ngaphambili. Kodwa manje, noma yimuphi umfana noma intombazane eneminyaka engu-14 ubudala angayifinyelela kalula kwi-laptop endaweni yangasese ekamelweni lokulala. Futhi, nakuba kudinga imali ukungena ngaphakathi kumawebusayithi lapho imboni yezocansi ihlukana khona ngezigidigidi zayo, kukhona izinto eziningi eziningi ezingatholakali ezitholakalayo ukuthi akukho udonga okhona ngempela ukuze ugcine noma ubani avele emifanekisweni.
Akuyona imfashini noma epholile ukusikisela ukuthi kunenkinga nge-porno. AmaKomidi afana noBill Maher ahlekisa abantu abakholwayo abanobuqotho abaphakamisa ukuthi kukhona. Ukuphikisana kwabesifazane kukhishwa njenge-harangues yama-harpies angenacala. AmaLibertarians avikela ilungelo lokukhuluma kwamafilimu abanobulili. Kodwa ukuqonda kanye nokukhula kobufakazi obonisa ukuthi kunezindleko ezibi ezikhokhwayo kuphela eziqala ngokuhweba ngokocansi nokuxhashazwa ngaphansi kokungaphansi kwemboni yezocansi.
Ucwaningo olusha olushicilelwe kwi-Archives of Sexual Behavior luthi izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ziye zaba "umthombo oyinhloko wemfundo yezocansi" okufaka amakhodi amasha okuziphatha ngokocansi ezinsizweni. Ucwaningo lwama-487 aseMelika asezindaweni zasekolishi lisho ukuthi "lapho umuntu ebuka izithombe ezingcolile zobulili ezingcolile, cishe wayezoyisebenzisa ngesikhathi socansi, acele izenzo ezithile zocansi zobulili ezingcolile zobulili, ngokuzibophezela ngokuzenzekelayo izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ngesikhathi socansi ukuze ahlale evuka, futhi ube nokukhathazeka ngokusebenza kwakhe ngokocansi nesithombe somzimba. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukusebenzisa izithombe zobulili ezingcolile okuphezulu kuhlotshaniswa kabi nokujabulela ukuziphatha okubi kobulili nomlingani wakho. "
Ngamanye amazwi, izinsizwa ezizicabangela ezithombeni zobulili ezingcolile zithuthukisa okulindelekile ezithinta ubulili nokuthi yini okufanele zifune kubalingani bobulili. Abesifazane abaneminyaka yobudala bekholeji okumele babhekane nalezi zinsizwa ziqinisekisa ukuthi lokhu kuyiqiniso futhi omunye uyazibuza ukuthi ukushaywa kocansi okuye kwashaya ama-campus amaningi kungase kukhuliswe ngobuningi obunjalo be-porn, ikakhulukazi ekuphileni kobudlelwane. Kunesinye isibonakaliso, futhi, ukuthi i-porn ibe yisici ekuhlaselweni ngokocansi emasosheni.
Nali elinye iqiniso eliphazamisayo: Izikhulu zokuphoqelela umthetho eLos Angeles zithola ukuthi, phakathi kwabenzi bokuhlukumeza ngokocansi abancane kakhulu - sikhuluma ngabafana abaneminyaka eyi-12 lapha - ukufinyelela ezithombeni ezingcolile kuyisimo esivamile sokushayela ezenzweni zabo. Kusencane kakhulu ukwazi ukuthi ubulili obujwayelekile nobunempilo bungaba yini, baba nobungqingili ngokocansi ngamavidiyo wezithombe zocansi ezihlukumezayo.
Izingane akuzona kuphela ezithinteka kalula ukufinyelela kwe-porn. Abantu abakhulu baba izilonda ezingcolile, bebeka ingozi emisebenzini nasemndenini ngoba abakwazi ukubuka kude. I-movie ye-2013 kaJoseph Gordon-Levitt, "uDon Jon," iyisimo esithokozelayo kodwa esithembekile sensizwa esithola ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukuba nobuhlobo obuseduze nowesifazane ngenxa yesifiso sakhe sobucayi. Kuyafaneleka iwashi.
I-Erotica ayiyimbi. Isithombe sezocansi singaba ubuciko, sikhanyise futhi simnandi nje. Kodwa finyelela ngaphesheya kobusuku obuseduze be-porn ye-intanethi futhi uzothola umlayezo oyedwa owodwa: Abesifazane abangekho ngaphezu kwamaqoqo ahloselwe ukusetshenziselwa nokuhlukunyezwa kwamadoda namadoda akuyona into eyaziwa ngokuthi i-phalluses engaziwa efuna ukukhonzwa.
Yilokho ifilosofi eyanikezwa abaseMelika abancane ngembonini enenzuzo kakhulu besebenzisa ithuluzi elinamandla kakhulu lokuxhumana elifinyelela kuwo wonke amakhaya. Abanye abantu bakubiza ngokuthi inkulumo yamahhala noma ukuzijabulisa "omdala"; Ngikubiza ngokuthi yihlazo.
nguDavid Horsey we-LA Times, Disemba 15, 2014
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