Eminyakeni edlule, ijubane lethu le-inthanethi (kuya ngokuthi uhlala kuphi) liye lashesha futhi lashesha. Kuma-noughties okuqala, ukumane ulande i-200kb JPEG kungathatha isikhathi eside kunokupheka isidlo sakusihlwa, kanti manje kuza ngokuphazima kweso - futhi kuzoba ngcono kuphela. Abantu emhlabeni wonke bangasakaza amafilimu e-HD ngaphandle kokukhathazeka okukhulu futhi sonke siyabonga ngobuchwepheshe. Kodwa-ke, kukhona iqembu elilodwa elihlupheke kakhulu ngenxa ye-intanethi esheshayo: abantu abanomlutha wezocansi.
I-Psychotherapist yase-Harley Street uRob Watt ibone ukwanda kwephesenti lika-100 ekudlulisweni komtholampilo wakhe we-Innisfree Therapy eminyakeni eyisithupha edlule. Iziguli ziqala kusukela eminyakeni eyishumi kuya kweyengane kuya kwebekhulile futhi zibandakanya imibhangqwana kanye.
Watshela uJehova Evening Standard: “Imilutha yezocansi ethulwa namuhla ayaziwa kumakhasimende abethula eminyakeni eyishumi edlule.
"Siya ngokuya sibona abantu abaningi bethula ngokuziphatha okuphoqelela ezithombeni ezingcolile futhi, esizukulwaneni esisha, lokhu kuya ngokuya kuduma. Nge-porn, ungathola okukhulu, okungcono, okusheshayo, okunzima ngokungaguquguquki.
“I-Dopamine iyisithako semithambo yegazi sesifiso futhi kungenzeka ukuthi usecoke, unolayini owodwa futhi ungawubeki phansi kuze kuphele isikhwama. Kunezinga lokubekezelelana elithuthukayo - ngamanye amazwi, yini ekwenzele yona izolo ayikwenzi namuhla, futhi kukhona izinto ezimnyama ezinhle ezenzekayo laphaya. ”
Phakathi neminyaka eminingi, abantu abaningana abahlonishwayo baye babonisa ukulutha kwabo kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ezifana noTerry Crews.
AmaCrews atshelwa Nathi Weekly: “Iminyaka, iminyaka, iminyaka, imfihlo yami encane engcolile ukuthi ngangiyisigqila sezithombe zobulili ezingcolile. Ngempela, kuphazamise impilo yami ngezindlela eziningi.
“Benginomuzwa omkhulu wokuthola ilungelo. Ngizwe sengathi umhlaba ungikweleta okuthile. Ngangizizwa sengathi umkami ukweleta ucansi.
“Uma usuku luphenduka ubusuku kanti usabhekile, kungenzeka ukuthi ube nenkinga. Kwadingeka ukuthi ngiye ukuyivuselela. Angizange ngithole usizo lokubuyisa umkami. Ngithole usizo ngoba bengiludinga. ”
Akusizi ngalutho ukuthi nawe manje ungathola i-porn ngokoqobo.
Kube uhambo olunzima lokulutha umlutha wezocansi ukubhekwa njengomlutha wangempela.
Eminyakeni emibili edlule i Association American of Sexuality Educators, Abacebisi nabaThemba ithe 'ayibutholi ubufakazi obanele bokusekela ukuhlukaniswa kokulutha ngokocansi noma ukulutha kwezocansi njengesiyaluyalu sempilo yengqondo, futhi ayitholi ukuqeqeshwa kwezidakamizwa nezindlela zokwelashwa kanye nezindlela zokufundisa ezizokwaziswa ngokwanele ngolwazi olunembile lwezocansi lomuntu'.
Akufakiwe futhi njengesimo kufayela le- Incwadi Yokuhlola Nezibalo Zezinkinga Zengqondo.
Lokhu noma kunjalo kuhamba ebusweni bobufakazi obukhombisa ukuthi lapho abanye abantu bebuka i-porn kuveza uhlobo olufanayo lokuphendula njengolayini we-cocaine. Uma ungaba nokulutha kwe-cocaine, kungani ungabi nalo umlutha wezocansi?
Yize kungahle kungavunywa emibhalweni esemthethweni, akuvimbanga ochwepheshe ekunikezeni ukwelashwa.
Kuye kwaphakanyiswa ukwelashwa kwengqondo-ukuziphatha kanye nokwelashwa nokuzibophezela. Ezinye izinyathelo eziwusizo zokusiza izidakamizwa zifaka ukuhlunga ukuze zivimbele ekusesheni okuqukethwe kobulili kwi-intanethi.
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