Bengifuna ukuhlanganyela okuthile 🙂
Ngineminyaka engu-20 futhi ngenxa yokulutha kabi kocansi kusukela ebusheni bami nginezinkinga ezinkulu zokwakhiwa ngezikhathi ezithile. Ngaphezu kwalokho ngiyeke ngokungazelelwe ukuvinjelwa ekuseni lapho ngineminyaka engu-18 ubudala. Bavele banyamalala bangabe besabuya ngeshwa.
Kusukela lapho sengizame kaningi ukulwa nomlutha ngempumelelo engaphezulu.
Ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ezedlule ngiyeke ukubuka ama-porn porn ngempumelelo, kepha bengifanele ukusebenzisa i-porn "ethambile" esikhundleni sokufunda izincwadi ezivusa inkanuko, ukuphequlula izingosi ze-sex reddit njll (Lokhu bekuyiphutha.)
Phakathi nalezi zinyanga kwakungekho ukuthuthukiswa kokumiswa kwami futhi lapho ngibheka emuva angizange ngizwe sengathi ubuchopho noma umzimba wami ungasetha kabusha kusukela eminyakeni yokusebenzisa i-porn.
Emasontweni amabili edlule nginqume ukuthi ngifuna ukuyeka ngokuphelele noma yiziphi izinto zobulili ezingcolile esikhathini esizayo futhi ngaze ngasusa nemithombo yezokuxhumana ethile.
Ngokumangazayo ngemuva kwamaviki e-1 1/2 kuphela wokugwema amavidiyo we-porn kuphela kepha nakwezinye izinto zobulili ezingcolile, ngibe nokhuni lwami lokuqala ekuseni ngemuva kweminyaka ecishe ibe ngu-2. Ezinsukwini ezimbalwa zokugcina ngithole ezinye ezimbili zazo 🙂 Kubukeka sengathi umzimba wami noma ubuchopho manje nje ekugcineni buqala ukusetha kabusha kancane.
Bengingalindelanga ukuthi kuzokwenza umehluko omkhulu kangaka ukuyeka kuphela kumavidiyo we-porn "ama-hard porn" [uma kuqhathaniswa nokuma kunoma yiziphi izinto ezingcolile, kepha ngokusobala kunjalo (okungenani kimi).
LINK - Isikhathi sokuqala izinkuni zasekuseni ngemuva kweminyaka eyi-1/1