Ubudala 21 - Benziwe nentombazane okokuqala ngqa, babalekela 'i-friendzone'

Ngaphandle kokungabaza nginomuzwa wokuthi ngingumuntu ohluke ngokuphelele kunangaphambili ngaphambi kokuba ngiqale uhambo lwami.

Ngiyazethemba futhi nginogqozi ngokwengeziwe, angikaze ngivule ithuba elilodwa lokuhlangana nabantu kulezi zinsuku eziyi-100 ezedlule.

Angazi ukuthi yiliphi iqhinga, kepha ngiphunyukile endaweni yabangani.

Sengibe ngcono ekuzilawuleni.

Angikwazi ukusho ukuthi izinsuku zami eziyi-100 bezingenaphutha. usuku nosuku i-90 ngaqala ukubheka ngibuyele ezihlahleni ezindala, kepha angikaze ngizithinte futhi angikaze ngihlele ukukwenza ngokuzayo, engqondweni yami akusekho ukukhetha.

Ngineminyaka engu-21 ubudala futhi ngiyintombi, futhi nosuku oluzungeze u-93 ngenza intombazane okokuqala, intombazane ebengithandana nayo unyaka, izinyanga ezintathu ezedlule bengingakaze ngicabange ukuthi lokho kuzoba okwake kwenzeka, mhlawumbe into ebaluleke kakhulu engiyizuzile umuzwa wokuzihlonipha.

Manje sengizwa sengathi ngingajabula futhi ukuthi nami ngingazifanela nezinto ezinhle.

Ukuqeda umlutha wami we-PMO kungenze ngabona ezinye zezinkinga empilweni yami, nokuthi kulula kanjani ukuziqeda, isikhathi ebengingasichitha egumbini lami lokulala kunalokho ngichithe ukuxazulula ezinye zezinkinga zami.

Izinzuzo zami engizizwile zifaka:

  • Ukwenza ngcono ukuzithemba.
    Kuthuthukise ukuzethemba.
    Ukuzilibazisa okungcono.
    Isisusa esiningi.
    Ngizizwa ngikhangeka ngokwengeziwe (ngilahlekelwe isisindo esithile, ayikaze ibe namafutha kodwa ngibe nezihlathi ze-chubby)
    Ukugxila okwandisiwe (Ngenyanga yokuqala ngifunde incwadi yangempela okokuqala empilweni yami)

Akusizo zonke izinzuzo nje, uhlangothi olubhekene nalo lufaka:
Akukho lula ukuphunyuka ekuxinekeni
dopamine yamahhala
Ngithola ukwakheka okuzenzakalelayo ezintweni ezincane.

Ubuhle budlula kude umthwalo!

Izeluleko zami zokufinyelela ezinsukwini eziyi-100 yilezi:

  1. Bamba iqhaza emphakathini we-NoFap ngokufunda nokubeka amazwana kokunye okuthunyelwe kwabantu noma uzithumele uma unokuthile ongabelana ngakho.

  2. Imvula ebandayo nokuphuma ngaphandle.

  3. Hlangana nabantu (kungaba online)

  4. Khumbula ukuthi ziyini izizathu zakho zokwenza.

LINK - Izinsuku eziyi-100, engikufundile.

By sob1