Mina [M25] ngangingalindeli ukudlula ukuphumula kwami okubambezeleka ngokushesha, kodwa emva kwezinsuku ezingu-12 kuphela ze-NoFap, ngakwazi ukuhamba phakathi ne-PIV nentombi yami! I-backstory encane: Angikaze ngikwazi ukuhlangana nentombazane, kodwa ngiyakwazi ukwenza ngokwami. Lokho kwangenza ngazibonela ngeso lengqondo ngokwephuza ukujula ngemuva kokufunda okunye.
Ngeshwa, abantu abane-DE babonakala beyingcosana uma kuziwa kulezi zinkinga, ngakho kwakunzima kakhulu ukuthola izinto zokufunda kanye nezindaba zokuphumelela / izikhambi. I-intombi yami kanye nami besilokhu sithandana nezinyanga ezingu-9. Ubulili naye bube bukhulu, kodwa angizange ngikwazi ukuhamba. Lokho kwangigcizelela kakhulu futhi kwamenza azizwe engakalungi noma ukuthi wayesebenza kanzima ngokwanele (kokubili lokhu kwakungelona iqiniso).
Ngenze isinqumo mayelana namasonto e-2 edlule ukutshela intombi yami ukuthi ngibukele izithombe zocansi nokushaya indlwabu kusukela siqala ukuphola. Lokhu kwakuyiphutha, ngoba wayezizwa engakalungi, kodwa ngazizwa ukuthi kufanele ngimtshele iqiniso ukuthi yilokho umzimba wami osetshenzisiwe kusukela ngineminyaka eyi-13. Ngamtshela ukuthi ngangiyeka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile futhi ngeke ngiphinde ngijabule ngaphandle uma nginaye. Wayeseneminyaka ecasulayo, kodwa wathi uzoba nesineke futhi angisekele kimi.
Bengilindele ukuthi lokhu kuzothatha inyanga noma ezimbili, ngakho-ke lokhu kungenzeka kungafani nawo wonke umuntu, kepha engikwenzile ukulandela imithetho kaNoFap engekho ye-PMO futhi ngazama ukucabanga ngentombi yami ngangokunokwenzeka emasontweni amabili edlule. Angazi ukuthi lokhu kuzosebenzela wonke umuntu, kepha kungisebenzele!
Kodwa-ke, ngobuqotho, ngijabule kakhulu ngoba emva kweminyaka engu-6-7 angikaze ngikwazi ukuhlangana nomfazi futhi lokhu kufana nezwe elisha lonke kimi manje. Ngizoqhubeka noNoFap phambili, noma kunjalo! Ngcono kunenhlanhla ngaphandle lapho, bafana! Qhubeka nomsebenzi omuhle!
I-TLDR; Angikaze ngikwazi ukuhlangana nomunye wesifazane, kodwa emva kwezinsuku ezingu-12 kuphela ze-NoFap, kwenzeka!
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