Sawubona! Bengifuna nje ukuthumela indaba yami yempumelelo ukusiza abanye abahlushwa i-PIED. Ukufingqa, ngangine-PIED kanye ngenxa yokushaya indlwabu ngokweqile kanye nokusebenzisa kabi i-porn (iminyaka engu-12 kuya ku-24). Ngilulame kule minyaka yobudala i-25 ngaya ocansini oluphumelele ne-gf. Ngemuva kokuba sehlukane ngabuye ngabuye ngaba ne-PIED futhi kodwa ngalulama okwesibili ngineminyaka engu-28 (njengamanje).
Ingemuva: Ubudala: 28
Umlando wokushaya indlwabu / izithombe zocansi: waqala ukushaya indlwabu kanye nobudala bezithombe zocansi 12; kwaqala ngezithombe ke ama-video aneminyaka engu-14 bese amasayithi we -hubhu engu-15.
Imvamisa yokushaya indlwabu: isilinganiso sansuku zonke kusuka eminyakeni yobudala ye-12 kuya ku-24, isilinganiso esenzeka kanye ngosuku (isikhathi semizuzu engu-15) kanye ne-90% yesikhathi esine-porn. Okubukwa kakhulu ngobulili obucashile ubulili bokudlwengula obumnandi.
Umuzwa wezocansi:
- Uthole ama-libido ashubile kusukela eminyakeni engu-11 kuya ku-12 - ama-10 / 10 erections kusuka ekuthinteni kwabesifazane kodwa aqaphele ukusabela okuncane / ukuvuswa kocansi ngemuva kwalokhu futhi kancane kancane kuhamba isikhathi ngenxa ye-porn. Kwaphawulelwa i-PIED eneminyaka engu-22 lapho angikwazanga ukuvuswa yintombi ye-1st.
- Funda i-YBOP futhi uthole ukuthi nge-PIED eneminyaka engu-25. Izame ucansi ngokungaphumeleli nentombi ye-2nd ku-25 yrs ubudala (ngangiseyintombi nto) ngemuva kwe-1 inyanga yokungabinayo i-porn. Imizamo ehlala ikhona ezinyangeni ezizayo ze-2 iholele ekuthengisweni kabusha ngempumelelo - wakwazi ukuthola ukwakheka okuqinile (Feb 2016). Ezinyangeni ezilandelayo ze-4, ubulili obuphumelelayo obuphathelene (ukuhlangana kwe-50 ngokocansi okuphelele).
- Ngibuyele ocansini futhi ngishaya indlwabu njalo kusuka ku-Oct 2016 kuya ku-Dec 2017. Ngalesi sikhathi kungenzeka ukuthi ngangiPIED futhi kepha angikwazanga ukusho ngoba bengingashadile.
- Iqale i-nofap futhi (Jan 2018 kuya ku-Agasti 2018 - Age 27). Ngalesi sikhathi bengingashadile ngakho-ke alikho ithuba lokuvivinya uma ngipholisa i-PIED futhi, ngahlangabezana nokuqalwa kwe-10 / 10 kokuqala kosuku ngo-kiss nje.
- Ngemuva kwalokho ngadlulela phambili entombini yami yamanje futhi ngabuyela ku-porn (Sept 2018, inyanga eyodwa ukushaya indlwabu ezithombeni nama-vidi akhipha izithombe ezingcolile) kwathi lapho ngizama ukusebenzisana nentombazane yami, ngithola ukukhuphuka kwama-7 / 10 erections kepha akuhambisani. Sisebudlelwaneni obude obude ngakho-ke ngigxile kakhulu ekugwemeni izithombe zocansi, ukushaya indlwabu kanye nezipikili.
Indaba yempumelelo:
Ngokusekelwe kulandisa olungaphezulu, ungabona ukuthi sengivele ngelapha i-PIED lapho ngabe sengibuyela emuva futhi ngaphinda ngaba nayo.
Njengamanje, ngiyaziqhenya ukusho ukuthi ngiphilise i-PIED okwesibili ngoba njalo lapho mina nentombi yami sizolala ocansini manje (noma nini lapho ebuya phesheya kwezilwandle), ngithola ama-erections (8 kuye ku-10/10) ekuqabuleni ngedwa futhi egxile kuye.
Amathiphu wokululama:
- Gxila ekugwemeni izithombe ezingcolile, ukushaya indlwabu kanye nefantasy. Lokhu kuzokwandisa ukuzwela kepha kungakucasula ekuqaleni ngoba uma usuzwela kakhulu, izenzo ezivusa inkanuko zobulili zingakwenza uvuke kakhulu futhi ukhiphe i-ejaculate kalula. Azikho izinkinga, njengoba uqala ukuya ocansini, ukuzwela kuzokwehlela emazingeni ajwayelekile.
- Noma nini lapho uthola isifiso sokubuyela emuva, kwenze umkhuba ukukhumbula ukuthi kungani wenza lokhu kanye nomgomo wokugcina nokuthi kuzokwenzekani kuwe uma ubuyela emuva. Le nqubo yokucabanga izokusiza ukuthi uhlale umugqa.
- Uma usebudlelwaneni bezothando, isimo sobudlelwano (ukuhamba kahle noma phansi intaba, ukudlula empini enkulu) kuthinta ukwakheka kwakho. Kungenzeka ukuthi uthole futhi ugcine ukwakhiwa lapho kunothando oluningi oluzwakalayo. Ehlangothini le-flip, kusenokwenzeka ukuthola ukuvinjelwa lapho izinto zingahambi kahle, lapho ukuvinjelwa kwakho kuqhutshwa inkanuko yodwa. Ukukhulisa ama-erections, kubalulekile ukuthi unakekele ubuhlobo bakho ukuze ama-erections aqhutshwe yinkanuko nothando futhi.
- Ukukhathazeka kuyisici esiyinhloko. Ngangibe nobulili kakade esikhathini esidlule kodwa ama-erections ami amiswa noma anqunyelwe yimicabango yami yokuhluleka. Ukukhohlisa ukugxila okwamanje. Ngaphambi kokwenza ucansi, kubalulekile ukusetha imicabango yakho kanye nomoya oqondile. Ngiya emajimini ngaphambi kokuthola ama-juice / ama-vibes ajabulisayo, ngiya ngosuku lokuthandana ngaphambi kokuqala ucansi ukukhulisa umuzwa wothando kumlingani wakho. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, faka ukuhleka nobumnandi, lokhu kususa imidlamu emibi ekhulisa ukukhathazeka futhi ime ukumiswa.
- Kulungile ukulahlekelwa ukuvinjelwa kwakho ngezinye izikhathi. Ngikuthola lokhu nami lapho ngiphazamiseka noma lapho ngizizwa ngikhathele (imvamisa lapho ngizama umjikelezo wesithathu wobulili kungakapheli lolo suku). Uma lokhu kwenzeka, khululeka, ganga futhi uzijabulise nomlingani wakho bese lapho usulungile, zama ucansi futhi.
- Kungcono ukuzama ukwenza kabusha ebudlelwaneni bothando kunokuya ocansini okungajwayelekile nabalingani abaningi. Ukuya ocansini okuvamile kubandakanya ukungahambelani (awazi ukuthi uzokwazi nini ukuya ocansini) ngenkathi ubudlelwano bezothando bunikeza ithuba lokuphinda usebenze futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo wakhe umndeni.
- Lapho ufuna umlingani, thola umuntu onomusa ongakhuluma naye ngokunengqondo uma futhi kwenzeka nini i-PIED. Umlingani wami wangisekela lapho ngihluleka ocansini ngesikhathi sokuqala kokuzama. Wahluleka ukubekezela ngemuva kokuzama okuningi kepha wabambelela kimi futhi manje silapha sijabulela ucansi futhi sithandana.
- Lokhu kunzima ukukwenza kepha ngangokunokwenzeka shiya i-ego yakho ngemuva bese ugxila ekululameni. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ungazivumeli uzizwe ukhungathekile kakhulu lapho ukwehluleka kwenzeka futhi uzikhumbuze ukuthi le inqubo. Uma uyintombazane uphelelwa yisineke noma uzizwa sengathi yiphutha lakhe, thembeka kuye futhi umtshele nje inqubo yokululama. Usethubeni elihle lokuthi angahlala uma uthembekile futhi ubekezela. Intombi yami yamanje kanye nentombi yami edlule bangisekela lapho ngichaza inqubo yokutakula.
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