Sanibonani nonke, ngineminyaka engama-27 futhi njengani nonke bengizimba ithuna lami kule minyaka eyi-15 edlule. Indaba yami ayihlukile ezindabeni zakho, icishe ifane. Angikhumbuli ukuthi ngagcina nini ukuba nokhuni lwasekuseni. Ngahamba i Urologist futhi konke kubonakala sengathi kube evamile ngokwenyama, kodwa iqiniso wukuthi Psychology yami iphukile. Kuthinte ubudlelwane bami nentombazane yami ngaphezu kwalokho ebengifuna ukukwamukela, futhi mhlawumbe kungaphezu kwensindiso. Kunzima impela kowesilisa ukwamukela ukuthi ukushaya indlwabu nezithombe zobulili ezingcolile kuyimikhuba eyingozi efundisa umzimba wakho nengqondo yakho izindlela ezingezona ezingokwemvelo zokuphila ngobulili bethu, kuyinkohliso, njengeSiren's Melody, kuyinto ebonakala iyinto enhle kakhulu ' Kubonakala ngathi kunemiphumela. Kodwa okwamanje uyaqaphela a deathtrap ofayo kube yilapho sekwephuze kakhulu. Ngifuna ukusho lokho engikuthole kuyiqiniso kimi, ngoba ngibona sengathi kungumsebenzi wethu ukuxwayisa nokusiza abanye abawile:
1.-Ngokushaya indlwabu sifundise ipipi lethu nobuchopho bethu ukuthi bakholelwe ukuthi isandla sethu singumuntu wesifazane, futhi sinezithombe zocansi, ukuthi amantombazane kumavidiyo angokoqobo nokuthi empeleni silala nalabo besifazane. Umzimba ukholwa yilokho okukholelwa yingqondo, kulula kanjalo. Iqiniso ukuthi isitho sowesifazane sangasese sihluke kakhulu kunesandla, sithambile kakhulu, simanzi, asicishe siqine, siguquguquke, futhi ukuthungwa kuzwakale kwehluke kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma wenza ucansi nowesifazane wangempela nguwe ohambisa umzimba ngenkathi ushaya indlwabu isandla sakho senza wonke umsebenzi. Futhi uqagele ini? Isivinini esisetshenziswa ekushaya indlwabu asikwazi ukutholwa ngowesifazane wangempela, ngisho nangelithuba. Ngamanye amagama, ngokuyisisekelo, ngemuva kokukufundisa ipipi nobuchopho bakho ukuthi ukushaya indlwabu nezithombe zobulili ezingcolile "kwakuyinto yangempela", lapho ubhekene nesimo lapho kwakufanele ulale nowesifazane wangempela, umzimba wakho nengqondo yakho kwadideka impela. Ekuqaleni mhlawumbe njengoba bekungokuhlangenwe nakho okusha "ingqondo yakho ikudubulile, kodwa injabulo yolwazi olusha yasheshe yaphela. Umthondo nomqondo bekungeke kwamukele lolu hlobo locansi “olusha nolungajwayelekile”. Ungakhathazeki; yayingekho indlela yokwazi ukuthi empeleni ubuzihlikihla. Kepha manje uyazi, futhi unenketho yokushintsha izindlela zakho.
2.-Akudingeki ukuthi sithi, isifiso sethu sezithombe zobulili ezingcolile sikhule kakhulu lapho besidinga khona ividiyo ekhohlakele futhi egulayo ukuze "siphume". Isikhathi sokuma; sekuyisikhathi sokuthatha ikusasa lethu sizibekele thina uqobo. Kungasekho ukushaya indlwabu, izithombe zocansi ezingasekho, azisekho izindlela ezingezona ezemvelo zokwanelisa isidingo semvelo. Uyikweleta intombazane / unkosikazi wakho, kufanele uzikweletele wena. Kungenzeka ukuthi sekwephuze kakhulu, kepha lisekhona ithemba kulabo abakholwayo bese bethatha izinyathelo. Kufanele ube nesibindi sokushiya lelo zwe lemibono ngemuva. Angazi ukuthi ubonile yini, kepha asisatholi abancane, asinakukwazi ukulahlekelwa umzuzu owodwa ngale nkinga.
3.-Ngeke kube lula, kepha okusilindele ngakolunye uhlangothi kungaphezu kokukufanele. Ungawi, futhi ungathembeli kwabanye, isibindi nokuxazulula kungaphakathi komoya wakho. Bheka okwedlule, bese uzibuze ukuthi ngabe yilokho ofuna ukuba yikho.
4.-Kuzothatha isikhathi eside. Besiye singcolisa ingqondo nomzimba wethu iminyaka eminingi. Uyozizwa ukubuyiselwa ingqondo nomzimba ne izinyanga oluzayo. Futhi ungalokothi ukhohlwe, umzimba ukholelwa kulokho okukholelwa yingqondo. Qhubeka. Ukuthola ukubuyiselwa okuphelele kungathatha iminyaka, kepha ungakhathazeki, ezinyangeni ezimbalwa, kusuka ezinyangeni ezi-3 kuye kweziyi-6, uzobona ushintsho olukhulu, mhlawumbe u-70% wakho "omdala" wakho emuva. Futhi qaphela ukuthi le yinqubo lapho ushiya khona umuthi ngemuva, futhi umzimba wakho uzosabela ngokufana neminye imilutha. Uyoba nomuzwa wokuthi uma ngepipi lakho lapho ezincane, futhi ngeke bebhekana lapho uku "ubulili drive ufile", futhi ngeke zama ukushaya indlwabu "nje ukuqinisekisa ukuthi usasebenza", Do not Fall ngalolo oyisiphukuphuku iphutha. Leyo nqubo ibizwa ngokuthi ukuhoxa futhi kuyinto ejwayelekile. Uzozizwa “umlingo” ekugcineni. Ndoda, sekuphele iminyaka eminingi uzibulala; kusobala nje ukuthi lokhu bekuzokwenzeka. Kodwa imizimba yethu “ingumshini” omangalisa kakhulu endaweni yonke futhi ingalulama uma ubekezela ngokwanele. Enye into okufanele uyazi ukuthi ingqondo yakho izokudlala ngobuqili, futhi uma uyisilima noma isonto elanele ukuthi uphinde uwe, umcabango wokuqala ozongena engqondweni yakho yilokhu: “Njengoba kuzofanele ngiqale phansi futhi, ake sibe nephathi yezocansi / yokushaya indlwabu ngaphambi kokuthi ngiqale futhi ”. Ungabi nesandla LAKHO IN screwing KUWE. Izinto ezinjengalezi: “Ngalesi sikhathi esisodwa”, “ukubheka nje ngokushesha”, “Ngizobuka izithombe ezingcolile kodwa ngeke ngishaye indlwabu”, “Ngizoshaya indlwabu kodwa ngeke ngibuke izithombe ezingcolile, ngisebenzisa umcabango wami kuphela”. Imishwana efana naleyo ngeyabehluleki, ukuzama nje ukudlala isimungulu. Uma uzwa ukuthi isifiso sikhulu kakhulu phuma uyofuna intombazane ubone ukuthi uselaphekile yini. Ngicela ungazise ukuthi kuhamba kanjani lokho…
5.-Ingqondo uthethe 90% umonakalo, ngakho, lokho kuyinto hhayi ungakwazi ukukhokhela ukunganakwa. Ukuzindla KUFANELE, ukuqinisekiswa okuhle kuzodingeka. Bheka, IMIBONO EMININGI EMIBONAKALA IBONWA YINGQONDO YETHU NJENGOMUZWA OFANAYO = UKWESABA. Futhi njengoba kufanele wazi manje. Ukwesaba kungenye yemizwelo enamandla kakhulu uma kukhulunywa ngokuzethemba. Izokuchoboza uma uyivumela. Ukusebenza ukuzethemba kwakho, indlela yakho yokucabanga omuhle kubalulekile lokhu yokutakula. Noma ungazibuki izithombe zobulili ezingcolile noma ukushaya indlwabu ngokuphelele iminyaka engu-50, uma ungasebenzi ukuzikhulula ekwesabeni, ngeke kwenze mehluko. Ingqondo inamandla amakhulu kakhulu kunalokho ongakucabanga. Ungayisebenzisela inzuzo yakho noma ube isisulu sokwesaba kwakho. Kuphuma kuwe. UMZIMBA WAKHOLWA YINI INGQONDO WAKHOLWA.
6.-Ukuthi umqondo ubaluleke ngaphezu komzimba akusho ukuthi ungenza noma yini oyifunayo ngomzimba wakho. Ungabi yisiwula. Ukudla okunomsoco nokuvivinya umzimba kuzoba abangani bakho abakhulu futhi kuzokusiza ekuzethembeni okungaphezu kwalokho okucabangayo. I-testosterone iyisihluthulelo sokondleka. Angiyena uchwepheshe kulo mkhakha, kepha ukufunda ku-inthanethi kungakunika imininingwane eminingi kakhulu kunalokho obengakucabanga. I-Zinc ibalulekile, amafutha amahle abalulekile, amantongomane, ama-alimondi, upopo, njll. Bheka ukudla okuzolungela amazinga akho e-testosterone, bese ubheka ukudla okufanele ukugweme. Lala kahle, uphumule kanzima njengokuzivocavoca umzimba. Yenza i-cardio, kepha ungakhohlwa ukukhulisa imisipha yakho. Angikutsheli ukuthi ube yisixakaxaka sokuzivocavoca, engikushoyo nje ukuthi kufanele wenze ucwaningo oluthile futhi ubone ukuthi i-testosterone isebenza kanjani nokuthi ungayikhulisa kanjani ngezindlela ZEMVELO ezingazisebenzisi izidakamizwa. Bafo, sizama ukushiya izidakamizwa zingaweli kulokho **** futhi.
7.-Kunezigidi zamantombazane laphaya ezilinde owesilisa ongazenelisa ngokugcwele futhi azizuze. Khetha ngokuhlakanipha kulokho iqembu ufuna ukuba musa, eqenjini Alfa noma Beta (isiphukuphuku) iqembu. Kuphuma kuwe. Ngizokuncoma incwadi ukuze ube nomqondo ofanele: The Sex God Method, kaDaniel Rose. Ngifunga uNkulunkulu ngeke uzisole.
8.-Kubalulekile ukuthi wazi ukuthi ingqondo yakho izolandisa okuhlangenwe nakho okubuhlungu kwangaphambilini kubantu abathile kanye / noma izindawo. Engizama ukukusho lapha ukuthi uma uke waba nokuhlangenwe nakho okubi ngokobulili ingqondo yakho izokukhumbula futhi ikuxhumanise nomuntu othize, ngakho-ke kwazi lokhu. Uma ukholelwa ukuthi awusazizwa ukhangwa ngumkakho wentombi, yilesi sizathu. Futhi, uma umkhathalela ngempela, uma umthanda ngempela lowo muntu, udinga ukukhuluma naye umchaze ngesimo. Lokhu kungalungiswa kepha ngeke kube lula. Ukulimala kwengqondo yinto enzima kakhulu ukunqoba, kepha njengoba ngikutshelile, umzimba / ingqondo yomuntu ingumshini omangalisa kakhulu emhlabeni. Izolulama ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
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