Izicupho eziyisithupha zakudala ekubuyiseleni umlutha wezocansi

Kuwo wonke uhambo lwami lokululama, ngihlangane nezicupho eziningi ezingibuyisele ku-porn. Bengifuna ukwabelana ngezimbalwa zazo nokuthi ngibhekane kanjani nazo.

  1. Lokhu akuyona i-porn.
    • Uma uzithola uthethelela ukuthi kungani ubheka okuthile, kungenzeka ukuthi kuyi-porn noma okungenani, kuphazamisa ukutakula kwakho ngokwanele ukukwenza ucabange kabili.
    • Isixazululo lapha ukuhamba ngokuzola usuke kunoma yini oyibukayo, wenze okunye. Ngokwenza lokhu, wenza izinto ezimbili: uthembekile futhi uyaziphendulela mayelana nokuthi usebenzisa ini okwamanje, futhi uhamba futhi kusukela ekuphindeni ubuye.
    • Lapho unokwethembeka ngokwengeziwe ngokuthi imidiya ethile ikuthinta kanjani, ungaba ngcono kakhulu ngokuphatha ukubuyela emuva ngaphambi kokuba kwenzeke
  2. Ukululama kwami ​​kubalwa kuphela uma ngifika ezinsukwini ezingama-90.
    • Ukutakula kwakho kubala ukuthi ngabe usuku olungu-1 noma iminithi elingu-1. Isicupho lapha ukuthi impilo yakho ayiqali uze ufike kunombolo yakho yomlingo, kungaba yizinsuku ezingama-90 noma izinsuku eziyi-7 noma yini oyikhethayo.
    • Isixazululo lapha ukubona ukuthi akudingeki ulinde ukuba ngumuntu ocabanga ukuthi uzoba ezinsukwini ezingama-90. Ubani ongcolile kuwe? Ingabe uthembekile? Ngabe unamandla? Wenzani lowomuntu? Unjani lowo muntu? Thatha isikhashana ukucabangisisa ngalokhu, futhi ubone ukuthi ungaba lo muntu njengamanje, uma ukhetha.
  3. Izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zobulili bami.
    • Lawa ngamanga e-baldface. Noma ungazama kangakanani, ngeke ukwazi ukuguqula iwayini libe ngamanzi. Iwayini liwayini. Ngomqondo ofanayo, okubonayo yikho kanye lokho — okungenamsoco ongakudingi okungahlobene nobulili bakho, kepha kuhlobene ngokuqinile nomuzwa wokufuna izinto ezintsha.
    • Isixazululo lapha ukubona ukuthi unezocansi ezizimele nge-porn. Yamukela ubulili bakho, noma ngabe yini noma cha. Ubulili kanye nezocansi kunengqondo kakhulu futhi kuhle empeleni kune-porn, lapho kuhlala kuphuthuma khona, kuyaphithizela, kuphoqelelwa.
    • Abanye abantu bangahle bangavumelani nami ngezizathu ezizwakalayo, kepha ngikholelwa ukuthi ukuhlola umzimba wakho futhi ulunge ngokuba nobulili kuyisinyathelo esibalulekile ekuhlukaniseni izithombe zobulili ezingcolile nomuzwa wakho wobulili. Ukuba nokuzethemba ngokobulili ngaphandle kocansi kwakuyizinto ezinamandla kakhulu engangizenza ohambweni lwami. Kulesi vein, angikhawuleli neze ukushaya indlwabu.
  4. Kungalesi sikhathi esisodwa, ngiyafunga!
    • Imilutha eminingi iyayazi le. Uma uzithola usesha izithombe zobulili ezingcolile noma ubheka izinto ozicabangela i-porn (noma ubuza ukuthi ngabe ziyizithombe ezingcolile zobulili, bheka i- # 1), khona-ke kungenzeka ukuthi usuphelelwa yisikhathi. Ukuphela kwehlukile ekuphindeni ubuye ngomqondo wokuthi yisiliphu sesikhathi esisodwa esingabuyiseli ekuhlukumezweni okuhlelekile kwe-porn.
    • Isixazululo lapha ukuyeka ngokushesha wenze okunye. Noma nini lapho uzithola uzitshela ukuthi yisikhathi esisodwa noma okokugcina, akukaze kube njalo. Ngirekhodile ukuthi ngikusho kangaki lokho kimi ngonyaka we-2020, futhi kukaningi kunalokho engifuna ukukuvuma. Isikhathi sokugcina lapho usebenzise i-porn kwakuyisikhathi lapho u-X uphuma khona, hhayi umzamo osebenzayo owenzayo wokuphinda uwusebenzise manje.
    • Lesi yisikhathi sokukhipha wonke amathuluzi akho okunxusa abukhali. Khuthaza ukuntweza phezu kwamanzi, uphume egumbini, ushayele umngani ucingo, uphumele ngaphandle (uma kuphephile), wenze umzuzu wokuzivocavoca umzimba, uthathe ikhefu lemizuzu engu-5 ukuphefumula - kunamathuluzi amaningi kakhulu okubhekana nezifiso ezinzima, kodwa zonke ziqala ngokuziphendulela lapho ukhona, ukwamukela ngaphandle kokwahlulela nangokuxolela okuphelele, nokusuka enkingeni.
  5. Ngivele ngabuka, ngakho-ke kungenzeka ngihambe yonke indlela.
    • Leli yizwi lokukhuphuka kokudlula ekubuyeleni emuva. Akudingeki ukuthi uzibophezele ekubuyiseleni emuva ngenxa yokuthi wehlile. Leli yizwi lokubamba umlutha wakho.
    • Isixazululo lapha ukubona ukuthi usekuqaleni kokubuyela emuva ngokomzimba. Unokukhetha okwamanje, futhi akukho okuphoqelelwa kuwe. Kungaba nzima, kepha kulula ukuyixazulula: yeka manje, futhi ubeke ukutakula kwakho kuqala. Zonke izinkambo zokululama aziphelele, futhi akunakulindeleka ukuthi ungaphinde uhlangane nocansi. Esikhundleni salokho, kubaluleke kakhulu ukubekezela lapho i-porn ivela empilweni yakho futhi.
    • Yini ongathanda ukuba nayo, izinsuku ezingama-365 ezingcolile lapho ubheka khona futhi wama khona ngokushesha futhi ngaleyo ndlela uvimbele ukubuyela emuva endleleni eya onyakeni wezocansi, noma umugqa wezinsuku eziyi-7 lapho ukwazile ukuvika zonke izithombe zobulili ezingcolile?
  6. I-streak yami ibalwa kuphela uma ngingakaze ngibone i-porn.
    • Kukuwe ukuthi uyichaza kanjani impumelelo yakho, kepha ngithole ukuthi uyazi ngokuzibonela ukuthi ngabe udidekile noma cha. Imayelana nokwethembeka nokwamukela imiphumela, noma ngabe uyayithanda noma cha. Lokho kusho, ngicabanga ukuthi kuwubuwula ukukholelwa ukuthi ngeke uphinde ubone i-porn.
    • Isixazululo lapha ukwethembeka nokusetha okulindelwe okunengqondo mayelana nokululama kwakho nokuthi yini oyichaza njengempumelelo. Kimi, lokho kubukeka kanjena: uma ngizithola ngibheka ngokuhlelekile ngisebenzisa, ngiyabuyela emuva. Uma ngibheka kodwa ngiyeka ngokushesha ngisebenzisa wonke amathuluzi ami okutakula ukuze ngizigcine ngiphendula, lokho kuhle uma nje kuyindlela eyodwa. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukubekezela kunokuba kupheleliswe.
    • Lokho kusho, ungazikhohlisi futhi ubale izinsuku ngisho noma usebenzisa i-porn. Ukusebenzisa i-porn yilokho okuyikho, futhi uzokwazi. Futhi, kumayelana nokwethembeka ekugcineni kosuku.
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