Isikhali Sethu Sokuziphendukela Kwemfihlo: I-Monogamy (2014)

Ukuhlangana kungahle kube wukuhamba okuhle kakhulu kokhokho bethu abake benziwa

Izilwane ezincelisayo azinkulu ku-monogamy. Ezingxenyeni ezingaphansi kwezingu-10 zezinhlobo zezinto eziphilayo kuvamile ukuthi abantu ababili bashade kuphela. Iphiko lamakhulu weqembu lihlala lithambekele kancanyana kakhulu ekuhambeni. Yize ama-15 kuya kumaphesenti angama-29 ezinhlobonhlobo zemvelo akuthandayo ukuhlala ndawonye njengezithandani, bambalwa kakhulu abazibophezela emgomeni njengoba abantu bekwazi lokho-ukubambisana okukhethekile kobulili phakathi kwabantu ababili.

Kusobala ukuthi abantu banerekhodi elingaphelele. Abantu banezindaba, bayahlukanisa futhi, kwamanye amasiko, bashada nabalingani abaningi. Eqinisweni, isithembu siyavela emiphakathini eminingi yomhlaba. Kodwa-ke noma lapho isithembu sivunyelwe, kuyilungiselelo labambalwa. Iningi lemiphakathi yabantu lihlelelwe ukucabanga ukuthi ingxenyana enkulu yabantu izoba imibhangqwana ekhuthazelayo, ekhethekile ngokobulili. Futhi ukubonakala komuntu oyedwa kuphela kuzenzele izinhlobo zethu ezinhle. “Ukubhangqa ngababili,” njengoba ososayensi bekubiza ngobudlelwano bomuntu oyedwa, kwakuyinto ebaluleke kakhulu eyavela kusokhokho wasendulo owaba ngumongo wezinhlelo zenhlalo yabantu kanye nempumelelo yethu yokuziphendukela kwemvelo. "Sinenzuzo enkulu kakhulu kunezinye izinhlobo eziningi ngokuba nezibopho ezimbili," kusho isazi semvelo saseYunivesithi yaseMontreal uBernard Chapais. …