For anyone wondering if they will ever recover from the effects of porn addiction and PIED…the answer is yes.
I’ll try to keep this as short as possible but I really want to share my story in the hope it might help others.
I never realised my porn use was a problem until about a year ago when my tastes in porn reached a bit of an extreme and I began losing erections while in real life situations with girls.
It took a while but eventually I found YBOP and No Fap, suddenly it all made sense. I read a lot of posts and it seemed that the best way to recover was to go full monk mode which I achieved for a month before a hangover and a bit of spare time sent me into a full on binge. I quickly slipped back into my old ways, fuck it, why not, I wasnt getting laid anyway.
About three months ago I tried again but this time I decided I’d only cut out the porn. I allowed myself to fap once a week at most and only allowed myself to imagine real life situations from the past….no extreme fantasy. This method worked a lot better for me. I dont see anything wrong with masturbating, its the porn that fucks you.
About two months ago i met a girl. I was nervous as shit the first time we had sex thinking I was gonna flop, but I had no problems. We’ve been have sex up to three times a night which is something I hadnt done since I was a teenager, and whats even better is that I’ve been able to last as long as I want to every time. Seriously, Im not bullshitting here.
For me the biggest test was having sex drunk, something that I had no problems with before I got broadband and a laptop, but which has been almost impossible over the last few years. Well, the other night I got drunk as fuck and had the best sex of my life.
O, en ook die vreemde fetisies wat met jare se porno-gebruik (hoes ... shemales ...) gekom het !!!
Now I know that some peoples addictions may be far worse than mine and im not saying everyone can start to recover this easily… but the reason I wanted to write this is because I think too many guys on here put emphasis on ridiculous 300 day streaks and everyone thinks thats what you need to do to get cured. Fuck that, shooting your load feels good and I dont wanna be some sexless monk meditating away my sexual urges.
Dont beat yourself up over fapping, as long you arent doing it infront of your laptop everyday it isnt bad for you. everyone needs a release and if you arent getting laid its pretty hard to resist knocking one out from time to time. Just keep it to a limit, because the urge for sex is what drives you to go and meet girls, and if you’re taking away that urge by fapping everyday you are far less likely to meet anyone.
So am I completely cured? No. Its only been a few months, but I hardly ever think about porn anymore, I havent had a wank for a month and I get hard from things like just holding hands with my new girl, so there is definately light at the end of the tunnel and it didnt require me to become a supreme bhuddist for 300 days.
So guys, stop fucking beating yourselves up over the occasional fap, its fine, just dont watch porn and get out there meeting girls.
Oh, and if like me, hangovers make you want to lay in bed wanking all day, either stop drinking for a while or make sure you cant stay in alone with your laptop.
Good Luck
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