Greeting Fapstronauts, this message is for anyone going through HOCD. I want to let you know that you can beat it, because I did. I have been in this spot for about a year and I finally crippled the fuck out of it. This is going to be long, but I know anyone searching for […]
Read More… from HOCD – Stop looking for answers!
EARLIER POST – So, let me tell you a little about myself. As of this writing I’m 21 years old and have proved to myself, my parents and my peers that I am absolutely the worst when it comes to addictions. Luckily, I also know this about myself and I’ve been able to kick most […]
Read More… from Age 21 – HOCD, anxiety, depression, brain fog, lethargy, pessemism
INITIAL POST Hi, I’m Robert, I’m 20 year old caucasian male, brown hair buzz cut, blue eyes, 6’4″ and 250lbs, pretty handsome, I had Asperger’s Syndrome since I was 1 month from 3 years, I’m a virgin, I’m a weight lifter and a 3-year community college student. Anyway, my porn habit started out of curiosity […]
Read More… from Age 20 – ED & low libido: 150 days
“What do you want me to do?” I asked. We were laying across my bed naked, about a foot apart, both of us propped up on one elbow and facing each other. He was furiously jerking himself off. “Just sit there,” he panted. “Just… sit here? Like… doing nothing?” “Do you want to touch yourself?” […]
Read More… from Living Porn: When a Dude Wants You to Sit There and Do Nothing While He Jerks Himself Off
Initial Condition • Porn consumption was actually quite tame but was getting worse, I didn’t like it. • Masturbated too much, to the point of the occasional dry orgasm • I wanted NoFap to give me a greater lust for life and enjoy more social life more than I did (read initial post for more […]
Read More… from Age 18 – Relentless focus, more outgoing & confident
What drove me to Nofap? I use to be able to last longer than four hours wearing a condom. After years of PMO I discovered that sex with condom made me feel absolutely nothing, even ED happened one time (it was a very big deal for me). I could feel sex without condom, but it […]
Read More… from 90 days – Had delayed ejaculation, was hooked on shemale porn
LINK – PROTIPS No masturbation. No watching porn. Use filters, particularly at the beginning of your journey. No ‘just one pic/vid’, ‘just a quick check’; I guarantee you, you’ll end up relapsing. Adopt a zero tolerance behavior. No edging. No facebook bikini pics. Basically nothing that isn’t real (read: only standard PIV, no fetishes). No […]
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Does Internet porn reveal our sexual desires—or alter them? Fellow “Psychology Today” blogger Leon F. Seltzer recently completed a herculean 12-part blog series on the subject of the Internet and human sexual desire (based on Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam’s A Billion Wicked Thoughts, 2011). In his final segment, he did an excellent job of […]
Read More… from Rethinking Ogas and Gaddam’s ‘A Billion Wicked Thoughts’ (2012)
60 DAYS – Approaching the finish line. What I have learned so far/my experiences. I am over two months into nofap. It has been a crazy ride, and I wanted to share my experiences. First three weeks:it was pretty easy at first. Honestly, I expected to be a lot harder, but once I decided to […]
Read More… from I finally came! 90 days have cured my ED, but I still have a way to go.
I am 26 and have been been addicted to PMO since the age of 14. I started with “normal” porn but eventually desensitized to it and escalated to shameful genres and fetishes. For years I wondered why I was so anxious and awkward around people. Why had I never had a girlfriend? Other people seemed […]
Read More… from Age 26 – 60 days: already feel like a new person