First of all hi to everyone and sorry in advance if my english is a little bit rusty but i feel obligated to write atleast something here because if it wasn’t for this forum…(don’t even want to say it) So, i’m a 22 year old and i started masturbating at 13, not even a month […]
Read More… from Age 22 – ED, I thought I had a venous leak, I quit porn and recovered!
YBOP COMMENTS A big part of the “porn playbook” is defamation and harassment of those who speak about the harms of porn or problems in the porn industry. The most egregious porn industry shill is sexologist and former academic Nicole Prause (mentioned in Gabe’s video). In 2013 former UCLA researcher Nicole Prause began openly […]
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I am 16. I found out about porn from a young age. Ever since then it has left a lasting impression on me and once I hit puberty I developed a habit of visiting the same porn sites every day, to get that same dopamine hit and I would keep ramping it up day by […]
Read More… from Age 16 – Learning how porn impacts the mind and brain was key
Today is December 31, 2020 and I am finally able to write my NoFap recovery story. I am spending New Year’s Eve with the gorgeous girl I have been dating and I think it is fair for me to assume at this point that we will have some pretty great sex. This was not the […]
Read More… from Age 26 – Lost and addicted since 14, finally pornfree and able to enjoy sex and intimacy
Hello all! I have been working hard and patiently waiting to post in the successes thread. I want to give hope to everyone that healing is possible, because the success stories at a few points were the only thing that kept me going and motivated. Last night I had sex, twice, without the use of […]
Read More… from Age 31 – After 150 days pornfree I had sex twice without ED pills!
Paul Wright PhD is a highly regarded, prolific pornography researcher. Apparently, he’s tired – as are many others in this field – of the deceptive tactics employed by some of the notoriously agenda-driven sexology researchers in the field (and their biased refereeing of papers). He highlights two of their stratagems in separate Letters to the […]
Read More… from Paul Wright, PhD Calls Out Porn Researchers’ Questionable Tactics (2021)
It definitely gets easier. I remember the first month, I described urges as “DDOS attacks,” because of how frequent and high-volume they were. It feels uncomfortable to feel the porn urge arise, and having to sit with it. It’s like trying to sit with an urge to sneeze, scratch, pee, or breathe. I don’t know […]
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J. Castro-Calvo, V. Cervigón-Carrasco, R. Ballester-Arnal, C. Giménez-García, Addictive Behaviors Reports, 2021, 100345, ISSN 2352-8532, Comments: Really well written, and helpful in understanding many of the neuropsychological studies listed on YBOP’s brain studies page. This is a review of 21 porn studies assessing 4 neuro-psychological “processes” which are altered in drug and behavioral addictions: 1- […]
Read More… from Cognitive Processes Related to Problematic Pornography Use (PPU): A Systematic Review of Experimental Studies (2021)
Wright, P.J. Arch Sex Behav 50, 393–399 (2021). https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-021-01922-z “Let it go, let it go Can’t hold it back anymore Let it go, let it go Turn away and slam the door” (Elsa – Disney’s Frozen) In another Letter in this issue, I wrote a brief exposé on the many perils of the current approach […]
Read More… from Pornographic Socialization as “Selective‑Exposure”: Let it Go, Let it Go II (2021) by Paul J. Wright
1.Did you have PIED? Yes, I did. How bad was it when you started? I don’t remember when it started and how bad was. It was weird and I never thought it was connected to PM but I had problems getting erect as well to finish intercourse with my wife. When I started my recovery […]
Read More… from Age 38 – I had no idea my PIED was related to my porn use