YBOP COMMENTS: Ndiyo chinangwa shure kweizvi Taylor Kohut kudzidza kusvika (kuedza ku) kurwisa pane zvidzidzo zve80 zvinoratidza kushandiswa kwepabonde zvine maitiro akaipa muhukama? Nzira mbiri dzepakutanga dzakasiyana-siyana (tactics?) Dzekudzidza iyi ndezvekuti:
1) Chidzidzo chakanga chisina mureza wechimiririri. Kunyange zvazvo zvidzidzo zvakawanda zvinoratidza kuti vashoma vashoma vevakadzi muhukama hwepanguva refu vanoshandisa zvinonyadzisira, munyaya ino 95% yevakadzi vakashandisa zvinonyadzisira pachavo. uye 83% yevakadzi vakanga vashandisa zvinonyadzisira kubvira pakutanga kwehukama (mune dzimwe nguva kwemakore). Izvo zviyero zvakakwirira kudarika mukoroji-varume vakuru! Mune mamwe mazwi, vanotsvakurudza vanoita sokuti vakanyora muenzaniso wavo kuti vabereke zvavakatsvaga.
Ichokwadi? Data kubva kune pakukura nationally representative Ongororo yeU.S. (General Social Survey) yakashuma iyo chete 2.6% yevakadzi vakaroora vakange vashanyira "webhusaiti yepabonde" mumwedzi wapera. Dhiyabhorosi kubva ku2000 - 2004 (pane zvakawanda ona Zvinonyadzisira uye Imba, 2014). Kunyange mitengo iyi ichiita senge yakaderera, ramba uchifunga kuti: (1) vakadzi vakaroora chete, (2) inomiririra mazera ese, (3) iri "kamwe chete pamwedzi kana kupfuura" (ongororo zhinji dzinobvunza kuti "vakamboshanyira nzvimbo yekuona zvinonyadzisira "Kana" vakashanyira zvinonyadzisira vakagara mugore rapfuura ").
2) Chidzidzo chakanga chisina kubatanidza kushandiswa kwepabonde nemhando ipi zvayo yakasiyana yekuongorora zvepabonde kana ukama kugutsikana. Pane kudaro, the kudzidza yakashandiswa "mibvunzo yakasununguka" apo nyaya yacho inogona kupfuurira mberi uye pamusoro pezvinhu zvinonyadzisira (zvaive zvehunhu pane kuwanda). Ipapo vaongorori vakaverenga mamambure uye vakasarudza, mushure mechokwadi, ndeapi mhinduro aive "akakosha," uye maitiro ekua (spin?) Iwo mupepa ravo. Ipapo vaongorori vaive nenduru yekuratidzira kuti zvimwe zvese zvidzidzo zve porn nehukama, izvo zvakashanda zvakanyanya kusimbiswa, nzira yesainzi uye mibvunzo yakanangana nezve zvinokanganisa porn zvaive Chakakanganisa. Icho ichi chaiyo yesayenzi here? Mutungamiri anotungamira Website uye ake kuedza kubhadhara mari simudza mibvunzo mishomanana, sezvinoita yake 2016 kudzidza uko Kohut akataura kuti kushandisa zvinonyadzisira kune hukama ne grater egalitarianism & zvishoma sexism (kuwanikwa kwakaverengwa ne inenge imwe neimwe yedzidzo yakambobudiswa).
UPDATE: 2021 kudzidza kunopa "chimwezve chikonzero chekubvunza vashandisi 'zvipupuriro zvechigadzirwa seuchapupu hwechokwadi hwezvakanaka zvinokonzeresa [kunongedzera kuKohut kudzidza kwakatsoropodzwa pane ino peji yeYBOP]. ”Maona Zvinonyadzisira uye kusagutsikana pabonde: Basa reZvinyadzo Arousal, Kumusoro Kuona Zvinonyadzisira Kufananidza, uye Kufarira Zvinonyadzisira Kuita Bonhora (2021).
Sezvo chidzidzo che2021 chatinotiyeuchidza, pamusoro pezviongorori zveCNUMX zvakabatanidza zvinonyadzisira zvinoshandisa varombo mune zvepabonde uye kugutsikana kweukama. (Mune runyorwa rwezvidzidzo 1, 2, 3 ndeye meta-ongororo, kudzidza # 4 yaive nevashandisi ve porn vanoedza kurega kushandisa porn kwemavhiki e3, uye zvidzidzo zve5 kusvika ku11 ndehurefu). Sekuziva kwedu zvose zvidzidzo zvine chokuita nevanhurume zvakashuma kushandiswa kwepabonde zvakabatanidzwa murombo zvepabonde kana ukama kugutsikana. Kunyange zvazvo zvidzidzo zvishomanana zvakabatanidza zvinonyadzisira zvakakura zvinoshandiswa muvakadzi kuti zvigutsikane zvepabonde zvishoma, huwandu hwakawanda hwekuongorora hauna (ona izvi: Zvidzidzo zvepabonde zvinosanganisira zvidzidzo zvevakadzi: Nzira dzisina kunaka pakusimudzira, kugutsikana kwepabonde, uye hukama).
Zvimwe zvishoma nezve chidzidzo ichi. Paive nevatori vechikamu mazana mana nemakumi matatu vakapa mhinduro dzese mazana matatu nemakumi matatu nemakumi matatu neshanu kumibvunzo makumi mana nemaviri yakavhurika pamusoro pemhedzisiro yekushandisa zvinonyadzisira pahukama hwavo. Vatsvakurudzi vakaona makumi matanhatu nematatu "madingindira," uye dingindira rega rega rinomiririrwa nepakati pe430 ne3963 mhinduro dzemunhu. Kunyangwe paine zvikanganiso izvi zvinouraya uye kunyangwe paine mhedzisiro yakaipa yakataurwa neimwe yemuenzaniso wavo, vaongorori vakati kukanganisa kwehupombwe kwaive kwakanaka kwazvo.
Zvishoma zvishoma kubva pachidzidzo chinoratidza kuti vamwe vakaroorana vanotaura zvikanganiso zvakashata zvinoshandiswa nekushandisa zvinonyadzisira:
- Zvinonyadzisira Zvinotsiva Mudiwa: Mhinduro dze90 zvaisanganisira pfungwa yokuti zvinonyadzisira zvaizotora kana kuti zvakakwikwidzana pamwe chete zvepabonde. Mimwe mhinduro dzakapa chikonzero nekutaura kuti zvinonyadzisira zviri nyore, zvinonakidza, zvinomutsa, zvinodiwa, kana kuti zvinogutsa kupfuura kurara nemumwe wako. Zvimwewo, vamwe vashandisi vehuponi vakataura kuti vavakidzani vavo vanogona kunzwa sokuti vari mukukwikwidzana nekuona zvinonyadzisira
- Kuderedza Kupindura kweArousal: Mhinduro dze71 akakurukura kuti zvinonyadzisira zvinoshandiswa sei kuora mwoyo, kunoderedza kukwanisa kuita kana kuchengetedza zvekuita zvepabonde, kana kuti kubudirira. Cherechedza sepamusoro, zvinogona kuve dzimwe nguva zvakaoma kuparadzanisa mhinduro dzechokwadi dzekuita zvepabonde mhinduro dzezvepabonde saka kune kuwirirana nekuderedza kunakidza mune zvepabonde
- Zvekuita zvepabonde Zvinyorwa (subtheme): 17 yemhinduro dze71 iyo yakanyatsotsanangura kufungidzirwa kwemaitiro semagumisiro ekuona zvinonyadzisira anoshandisa. Kazhinji chirevo chacho hachina kujeka, zvichiita kuti zvive nyore kupa zvinoreva zvakawanda kubva kune zvakakanganiswa. Mune dzimwe nzvimbo zvinonzwisiswa zvakananga nekusaremara kwekuita zvepabonde
- Zvinodhaka: Mhinduro dze60 zvinotenderera zvakanyanya kushandiswa, '' kuvimba '' kana kuvimba nezvisingaoneki, zvinonyadzisira zvinoshandiswa kuve zvisingatauri, kana kuva chidhakwa chepabonde. Kuvimba uye kuvimba kwemazuva ekupedzisira kunoratidza chirevo chekubatana kwepabonde nekuderedza kufarira zvepabonde nekusimudzira pamwe nekushushikana, kunyange zvazvo izwi iri rinoshandiswa nguva dzose muhurukuro yekudhakwa mune iyi sampuli
- Kurasikirwa Neushamwari Kana Rudo: Mhinduro dze42 kunetseka kurasikirwa kwehukama hwepedyo kana rudo. Pakanga pane zvimwe zvakasiyana-siyana munharaunda iyi yemhinduro. Vamwe vakaratidza kuti zvinonyadzisira zvinoita kuti zvepabonde zvive zvekuvaraidza uye zvishoma nezvorudo kana kufambidzana, asi vamwe vakati shamwari yavo haifariri kushandiswa kwavo kwepabonde, iyo inoita kure muhukama. Mamwe maonero anoratidza kuti kudengesa ibasa rekupesana pakati pezvinonyadzisira zvinoda-kufemerwa kuita uye zvepabonde nemafambidzani. Pakupedzisira, vamwe vatori vechikamu vakaratidza kuti kushandiswa kwepabonde kunoita kuti kutya kwehukama hwepedyo
- Kusatenda: Mhinduro dze29 akakurukura kuti zvinonyadzisira zvinoshandisa sei zvinokonzera kusavimba kana kuvhiringidzwa kwakavimbika
- Kunotsigira Maonero Ezvepabonde uye Gender: Mhinduro dze28 vaishushikana nezvekuona zvinonyadzisira zvekuita zvepabonde, rupo kuhutungamiri hwemurume kana kuora mwoyo kwevakadzi, kana kusimbisa kugadzirisa zvepabonde
- Kuparara Ukama: Mhinduro dze28 akatsanangura kuti zvinonyadzisira zvinoshatisa sei kana kuti zvinokonzera kushamwaridzana, huroorana uye hupenyu hwepabonde. Pane imwe hurukuro yekuti vanhu vanoda sei zvepabonde zvishoma kubva kune mumwe wavo nokuti mumwe wake anoshandisa zvinonyadzisira
- Ukama Kurwisana: Mhinduro dze23 kunobatanidza kuti zvinonyadzisira zvinoshandisa sei kana zvinogona kuita kuti ushamwari huparare. Zvikonzero zvakapiwa nekuda kwezvizvi zvakasiyana-siyana: zvinonyadzisira zvinokonzera kusatendeseka kana zvinonzwisisika sezvinobvira kusatenda, zvinonyadzisira zvinoshandisa zvinopesana nezvinoita zvepabonde, kana kushandiswa kwepabonde kunotungamirira kurasikirwa kwechido pakuita zvepabonde nemurume iye zvino
- Kunakidzwa Kunoita Zvechokwadi Zvepabonde: Mhinduro dze17 akataura kuti zvinonyadzisira zvinoita kuti zvepabonde zvechokwadi zvive zvisingabvumi, tsika dzakawanda, zvisingasviki, kana zvishoma inonakidza. Zvishomanana zvezvipinduri zvakatsanangura kurasikirwa kwehukama hwepedyo, kana rudo rwechikamu chekurara pamwe chete
- Zvishoma Kugutsikana Nevamwe Nevamwe: Mhinduro dze 17 vakaratidza kuti zvinonyadzisira zvinoderedza kufarira, kana kugutsikana, kana chido cheku, kana kukwezva kune munhu wepabonde. Vamwe vanobatana vanonzwa sokuti vari mukukwikwidza ne porn kana porn stars
Ongorora 2018: Mune mharidzo ye2018 Gary Wilson anotsanangura chokwadi chiri shure kweC5 isinganzwisisiki uye inotsausa zvidzidzo, kusanganisira ichi chidzidzo (Kohut et al., 2017): Ukutsvaga Zvinonyadzisira: Chokwadi kana Nhema?
Kuvhundutsa kugadzirisa 2019: Vanyori Taylor Kohut, Lorne Campbell naWilliam Fisher vakasimbisa kwavo kwakanyanyisa kutungamirirwa nehurongwa apo vese vari vaviri vakabatana mubatanidzwa. Nicole Prause uye David Ley pakuedza kunyarara YourBrainOnPorn.com. Perry nevamwe "pro-porn" nyanzvi "pa www.realyourbrainonporn.com vari kuita chikwangwani chekutengeserana chisina mvumo uye kuparadzanisa. Muverengi anofanira kuziva izvozvo RealYBOP twitter (nekubvumirwa kuri pachena kwevanyanzvi vayo) iri kuitawo kusvibisa uye kushungurudza kwe Gary Wilson, Alexander Rhodes, Gabe Deem uye NCOSE, Laila Mickelwait, Gail Dines, uye Chero ani zvake anotaurirana nezvekukuvadza kwe porn. Uye zvakare, David Ley nevamwe vaviri "RealYBOP" nyanzvi ikozvino kubhadharwa neinternet indasitiri hofori xHamster kusimudzira mawebhusaiti ayo (kureva StripChat) uye kugonesa vashandisi kuti kupindwa muropa nehupombwe uye kupindwa muropa nemhombwe ndezve ngano! Munyaradzi (ndiani inomhanya RealYBOP twitter) zvinoita kunge yakanyatsonaka uye inobudisa indaneti, uye inoshandisa RealYBOP twitter kuti kusimudzira indasitiri yezvinonyadzisira, dzivirira PornHub (iyo yakagarira vana porn uye zvepabonde zvobata vanhu vhidhiyo), uye kurwisa avo vari kukurudzira chikumbiro kubata PornHub inozvidavirira.
Arch Sex Sex Behav. 2017 Feb;46(2):585-602.
Kohut T1, Fisher WA2,3, Campbell L2.
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Chidzidzo chazvino chakagamuchira anotora chikamu-ane ruzivo, "pasi-kumusoro," maitiro ehunhu ekuti aone mhedzisiro yekuona zvinonyadzisira pahukama hwevaviri. Muenzaniso wakakura (N = 430) wevarume nevakadzi muhukama hwepabonde umo zvinyadzi zvaishandiswa nemumwe mudiwa zvakanyoreswa kuburikidza nepamhepo (semuenzaniso, Facebook, Twitter, nezvimwewo) nekunze (semuenzaniso, mapepanhau, redhiyo, nezvimwe. ) zvinyorwa. Vatori vechikamu vakapindura kumibvunzo yakavhurika maererano nemhedzisiro inofungidzirwa yekuona zvinonyadzisira vanoshandisa kune mumwe nemumwe murume nemurume uye nehukama hwavo mune yekuongorora kwepamhepo. Mune sampuro yazvino yevakabvunzwa, "hapana zvakashata mhedzisiro" ndiyo yainyanya kutaurwa nezvekushandiswa kwekuona zvinonyadzisira. Pakati pemhinduro dzakasara, zvakanaka zvinoonekwa zvinokonzeresa zvekuona zvinonyadzisira zvinoshandiswa pamitezo yevaviri uye hukama hwavo (semuenzaniso, kuvandudza kutaurirana pabonde, kuita bonde zvakanyanya, kuwedzerwa kunyaradzwa pabonde) zvakataurwa kakawanda; zvakashata zvinoonekwa zvinokonzeresa zvekuona zvinonyadzisira (semuenzaniso, kutarisira zvisingaitiki, kuderera kwehukama hwepabonde nemumwe wako, kuwedzera kusachengeteka) zvakataurwawo, kunyangwe neakawandisa mashoma. Mhedzisiro yebasa iri inoratidza mitsva yekutsvagisa nzira dzinoda kutariswa kwakarongeka.
KEYWORDS: Zvinonyadzisira; Ukama hwakanaka; Ukama kugutsikana; Relationships; Kugutsikana kwepabonde; Zviratidzo zvepabonde
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