Kudzidza kunoburitsa nyika yakavanzika yehutano hwekusvuta, May 10, 2012
Chidzidzo chikuru kubva kuYunivhesiti yeSydney chakajekesa nyika yakavanzika yekunyanya kuona zvinonyadzisira uye zvinokuvadza zviripo kune vashandisi nemhuri dzavo.
Dr Gomathi Sitharthan ye Faculty of Health Sciences naProfesa Raj Sitharthan kubva ku Department of Psychiatry yeYunivhesiti yeSydney yakaita ongororo yepamhepo ye800 vanhu vanoona porn kuti vawane nzwisiso isingaenzaniswi yekuti ndiani anotambura nekuona zvinonyadzisira uye kuti kupindwa muropa kwavo kunovabata sei.
Mhedzisiro yekutanga kubva kuongororo yakaratidza kuti 43 muzana yeavo akaongororwa akatanga kuona zvinonyadzisira pakati pemakore e11 ne13, 47 muzana vanoshandisa pakati pemaminetsi e30 nemaawa matatu pazuva vachiona porn. Vanopfuura hafu yevashandisi ve porno vanoongorora vakaroora kana mu-de-facto hukama uye 85 muzana vaive varume.
Vaongorori vacho vakawana vashandisi vakawandisa vaine matambudziko akanyanya emagariro uye ehukama uye kakawanda vakapererwa nemabasa kana kunetseka nemutemo nekuda kwekupindwa muropa kwavo. Vamwe vashandisi vakawedzera maonero avo kune zvakanyanya zvakawandisa uye kazhinji zvisiri pamutemo zvinhu.
"Isu tese tinoziva kuti chii chinonzi porn, asi kusvikira zvino hatisati taziva zvakawanda nezve zvazvinoita," anodaro Dr Gomathi Sitharthan.
“Aenda mazuva apo iwe waifanira kuenda kuchitoro, kubhadhara zvinhu zvekutengesa, uye kubuda nemagazini muhombodo yebhegi. "Unogona kudhawunirodha chero chinhu, chero nguva, chero pamba - mumba, mubhedhuru mako, muhofisi mako, mumotokari, mupaka, munzira yekuenda kubasa."
Ongororo iyi zvakare yakajekesa nyaya dzakanyanyisa. Semuenzaniso, nezve 20 muzana yevatori vechikamu vakati vaifarira kufadza kwekuona zvinonyadzisira kuita zvepabonde nemudiwa wavo. Pamusoro pe14 muzana yaive yaumba hukama nevamwe vashandisi vepamhepo, 30 muzana yakabvuma kuti kushanda kwavo kwebasa kwakatambura nekuda kwekunyanyisa kuona, uye nezve 18 muzana vakafungidzirwa nekufungidzira ivo vasiri online.
"Chokwadi ndechekuti zvinonyadzisira zvagara pano. Chatinoda maonero akaenzana enjodzi dzinogona kuvepo dzekupindwa muropa nezvinonyadzisira, inotsigirwa nehumboo hwakanaka, "anodaro Muzvinafundo Raj Sitharthan. Mumakore mashanu apfuura, akaona kuwedzera kwevanhu vanouya nematambudziko ane hukama nekunyanyisa kuona zvinonyadzisira mukiriniki yake.
Zvinoshamisa kuti 88 muzana yeavo akaongororwa akataura kuti vaidawo kutsvaga rubatsiro rwehunyanzvi, asi vaizozvitsvaga online. Dr Gomathi Sitharthan naPurofesa Raj Sitharthan parizvino vari kugadzirira chirongwa chekurapa chinogona kupihwa online.
"Kuona zvinonyadzisira hunhu hunodzidziswa uye tinotenda kuti hunogona kusadzidzwa. "Tiri kuona kuti vanhu vanonzwisisa kuti kuona kwavo zvinonyadzisira kuri kukanganisa hupenyu hwavo uye vanoda kuchinja," Dr Sitharthan vanodaro.
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Zvinoenderana nechikwata chemurume-mudzimai chiremba wepfungwa Raj naGomathi Sitharthan vanobva kuDhipatimendi rePsychology kuYunivhesiti yeSydney, kupindwa muropa nezvinodzvinyirira idambudziko riri kukura uye risinganzwisisike sezvo vamwe vanachipangamazano vakapindwa muropa vangada kuti utende. Imwe yemibvunzo inodzvinyirira ndeyekuti kuona nguva nenguva kweanodaidzwa kuti “zvakapfava zvinonyadzisira” kunozoita kuti uwedzere kuona uye kuita zvechisimba uye / kana hunhu husina kunaka pabonde hunogona kukanganisa hupenyu hwako. Inotevera ipfupiso yezvakawanikwa neboka rekutsvagisa iro rinogona kukupa iwe zano paumire kana tasvika pane ako maitiro ekuona zvinonyadzisira.
Imwe yem meseji yevaongorori ndeyekuti porn ndeyakazara uye iri kuuya kuzogara. Nekuda kwe internet, hakuchisipo kuwanikwa kwe porn inongogumira pakuenda kuchitoro chekutenga zvinonyadzisira kunotenga magazini kana mavhidhiyo. Asi, iro chikamu chesimba re porn mazuva ano ndechekuti chiri chinhu chinobatsira chinhu chiri pamusoro peiyo "Iyo Katatu A" Kuronga zano:
- Zvinonyadzisira zvinowanikwa nyore
- Zvinonyadzisira zvinopa kusazivikanwa
- Zvinonyadzisira zvinodhura uye / kana wakasununguka mune dzakawanda kesi
Vanotaurawo kuti havasi vese vanobvuma kuti porn inogona kukuvadza sei. Kuona zvinonyadzisira kwese kupi kunobva kwakachengeteka uye kwakajairika tsika (zvisinei nehuremu hwemifananidzo inonyadzisira kana chiito) kusvika pakuona kuti chero uye zvese zvinonyadzisira zvinonyadzisira kuvakadzi uye zvinotungamira mukufunga kwakashata kwepabonde panguva yekuzvara kwepabonde muvadiki nevakuru. .
Zvakaonekwa nevatsvagiri ndezvekuti kwemakore mashanu apfuura vaona kuwedzera kwevatengi kune kushungurudzika, kusagadzikana uye zvinetso zvehukama zvine chekuita nekunyanyotarisa kuona zvinonyadzisira. Iyo mudzi weizvo zvavanotenda ndeyechokwadi kune iyo internet kuita kuti zvinonyadzisira zviwanikwe nekusazivikanwa.
Kurapa kupindwa muropa nezvinonyadzisira ndechimwe chinhu chinetso. Vaongorori vacho vanoona kuti kurapa porn sekunge iri imwe mhando yekupindwa muropa nezvinodhaka nemadhiragi kana doro zvimwe isiriyo nzira yakanaka yekugadzirisa dambudziko iri. Tsvagurudzo yezvinotungamira mukunyanya kuona zvinonyadzisira inodiwa kuti unzwisise zvizere kuti nei vamwe vanhu vachiona zvinonyadzisira mazuva ese vachipesana nevamwe vanozviita nguva nenguva. Iko hakuna humbowo hwesainzi hunotsigira kuti kurega kuona zvinonyadzisira kuri parutivi nekurambidza doro kurapwa.
Vanotsvaga vanoona kuti zvakakwana zvesainzi data iri kushomeka pamhedzisiro yekuona zvinonyadzisira uye ndokuti izvo zvavakange vamboona zvaingogumira pamasecondotal mishumo yehupenyu hwekupararira kunze kwekutonga mune vashoma vekupindwa muropa kwezvinonyadzisira. Naizvozvo, ivo vakasarudza kudzikamisa iyo chiyero chekuona zvinonyadzisira nemhedzisiro yekunyanyisa kuona kuburikidza newebhu-yakavakirwa kudzidza iyo yakanyora vatori vechikamu ve800. Iyi inotevera data ndiyo yavakawana:
Zvinonyadzisira Kuona Zviwanikwa
• 85% mhurume vs 15% vakadzi vanoona
• Avhareji zera revatori vechikamu 32.5 makore
• Kupfuura 50% wakaroora kana muhukama hwe-de-facto
• 71% mukushanda kwakabhadharwa
• 43% yakatanga kuona zvinonyadzisira pakati pemazera 11 uye 13 makore
• 47% shandisa pavhareji pakati pemaminetsi e30 kusvika maawa 3 pazuva uchiona zvinonyadzisira
• 48% yaive neyunivhesiti
• 52% yakatorwa zvinyorwa uye XXX makoni akatorwa kubva internet
• 15% fungidzira kakawanda mukati mezuva nezvekuona zvinonyadzisira
• 22% chiito pane izvi zvekufungidzira kanenge 4 kakawanda pasvondo
• 80% inoda kutsvaga rubatsiro rwehunyanzvi, asi sarudza kutsvaga rubatsiro kuburikidza newebhu
About About 30% vakati vanozozvidzivirira kana kuvanzika kana vabvunzwa zvavari kuita online
• Kupfuura 35% vakati vanozobvuta kana kuridza mhere kana vachinge vainetswa pavanenge vari online
• Kupfuura 20% vakati vanozohwanda kwenguva yakareba sei vari online
• Kupfuura 25% vakati vanoedza kudzikisa huwandu hwenguva yavanoshandisa vachiona zvinonyadzisira, asi vanokundikana
Kuziva kana munhu aine dambudziko rekuona zvinonyadzisira kunoenderana nemaitiro anoonekwa. Sekufunga kwavo, mamwe maitiro avakaona mune varwere anosanganisira:
Kuona Zvinonyadzisira Kupindwa Muropa
(1) Vechidiki vechidiki vanoregedza dzidzo, uye vane hunyanzvi hwekushamwaridzana nevamwe (semuenzaniso, kusagona kutaurirana nevakomana kana vasikana, kuona vakomana kana vasikana se "zvinhu" zvechishuwo, fungidziro dzenhema dzehukama chaihwo, nezvimwewo).
(2) Vakuru muhukama (semuenzaniso vakaroora, de facto) vanova vasingafarire hukama hwepedyo nemumwe wavo, vachiita hunhu "hwekubira", kushandisa zvakanyanyisa kuburikidza nemakadhi echikwereti, vachida kuona izvo zvavakaona mumabhaisikopo ezvinonyadzisira uye nekudaro vachiita maitiro ane njodzi huru, nezvimwe.
(3) Kuvhiringidzika kwakanyanya mumabasa / ezvemabasa emitambo. Vanhu vakatsiurwa, vakarasikirwa mabasa etc. nekuda kwekutadza kudzora kuona kwavo pabasa.
(4) Kuedza kusangana nezvavanoona kubva mumafirimu ezvinyadzo (kuita zvepabonde nevadiki / vadiki) uye zvakapera munhamo nemutemo.
(5) "Kuwedzeredza" maonero avo kune zvimwe zvinhu vanoona sekusina kusarudzika kana kuita zvounzenza, semuenzaniso kuona vana zvinonyadzisira (dzimwe nguva kunosemeswa se “zvisiri pamutemo”). Izvo zvakaita se "kushivirira" pakuona kwawedzera kusvika kune imwe nhanho uye ivo vanofanirwa kuona zvakawedzera "zvakawandisa" zvinhu kuti unakirwe.
(6) Nevamwe varwere, zvinoita sekunge ivo vatadza kubata ne "chokwadi" pane icho chiri pamutemo tsika.
(7) Aya maitiro haana kungogumira kune chero huwandu mazera / mapoka ekushanda. Vanhu vazhinji vane zvinzvimbo zvepamusoro vakasangana nedambudziko nekuda kwekuona kwavo maitiro.
(8) Isu tinofunga kuti vamwe vanhu vane hunhu hwekufungidzira kweProgeness, Kutsvaga Mari, Kutsvaga Ngozi, uye kuita "zvepamhanyi kushanya" mhiri kwemakungwa, kana kuita humwe hunhu hunoonekwa nevamwe seisiriwo hunhu.
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Vatsvagiri vachatanga zvidzidzo zvinotsvaga izvo zvinoita kuti vamwe vanhu vaone zvinonyadzisira nepo vamwe vasinga nei vaoni vakadaro vachiziva zvinopesana nemutemo vanoramba vachiona zvinonyadzisira zvisiri pamutemo; chii chiri mukati mevamwe vatariri chinovatadzisa kuenda kure zvakanyanya; uye, kana uye chii chinzvimbo chinodiwa kuita mukuwedzera kuona zvinonyadzisira.
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