Mhinduro: Dopamine uye mamwe makemikari emakemikari.
Zvepabonde zvakasiyana. Yakati imwe nhengo yemusangano:
Ndiri kurongerwa, uye ndinoda kuva murudo nemudzimai wangu wemunguva yemberi. Zvisinei, pandinoona musikana anonakidza, ndinongoda kutamba (ndinoshushikana neshoko) iye, uye zvino kana ndikaona imwe, ndinoda kumutora, zvakare. Muna 2004, ndakaona zvekuEurope zvinonyadzisira nevanasikana vakanaka chaizvo. Kubva, saka ini ndagara ndichida kuravira vamwe vevasikana ivavo. Uye pandakatarisa zvinonyadzisira, ndakatsvaga zvimwe zveEurope. Saka ndinoda kuenda kunze uko, uye fuck vashoma vasikana vakadaro kuti vaone kuti zvinonzwa sei. Uyewo, nokuti ndave ndakatarisa zvinonyadzisira kwenguva yakareba zvakadaro, ndave ndakasarudza zvikuru, uye ndinoda rudzi rwupi rwemuviri, ruzivo rwemhando yevakadzi pamwe chete.
Ini ndinonzwa kunge chikamu chepfungwa dzangu chiri kupandukira nekuda kweizvi zvishuwo zvicharamba zvisina kuzadzikiswa muhukama hwemurume mumwe chete. Mukwanyina wangu chinhu chakakosha chemusikana, uye ini ndaizove moron hombe yepasi kumurasa. Ndokumbirawo mundibatsire kuti ndinzwisise uku kunyanyisa kune vamwe vasikana kwandiri kunzwa, ichi chishuwo chekuti ndinofanira kusvetuka kubva kune mumwe musikana ndichienda kune mumwe (sezvandaisiita kushandura porn vids kubva kune mumwe kuenda kune mumwe).
Kukurudzira kwakanyanya, senge kwanhasi Internet zvinonyadzisa neyakajairika hunhu uye zvakasiyana (ona: Zvinonyadzisira, Ruzivo, uye Coolidge effect), inogona kupindira nekwanisi yekusimbisa hutano hwakagadzikana (kureva, kuramba uchizvipira uye kugutsikana nemumwe wako).
Vanhu mabond bonders. Ndokunge, isu takasungwa, paavhareji, kuti tidanane uye tigare tese… inguva yakareba zvakakwana kuti isu tese tidanane chero mwana. Nenzira iyoyo, vacheche vedu vane vaviri vanozvipira vanovachengeta, izvo zvinovandudza mikana yavo yekurarama nekuti vanhu vanotora nguva yakareba kuti vakure.
Zvisinei, uropi hunotenderera hunotikanda kumabatanidzwa aya iyo ndiyo inotarisa inotorwa nemabasa anosimudzira zvikuru uye maitiro. Saka, kune mienzaniso, zvinodhakwa, doro, kubhejera, uye zvinonyadzisira zvepaIndaneti kuvhara uropi hutachiona hunenge huripo kutipa mhindu inofadza yekukwirirana uye kurara nemumwe. Internet yepaIndaneti inonyanya kunyengedza, nokuti mukana wokuita zvepabonde ne novel mubatsiri vanonzi inoburitsa yakawedzera dopamine - uye inotikonzera Ejaculate more semen nekukurumidza. (Hakuna mhuka dzinoyamwisa dzinongoita mukadzi mumwe chete… kunyangwe vaviri vakasungwa. Amai Nyama vanoda kuti tiedzwe nemikana mikuru yekupfuudza mamwe majini - asi kazhinji mikana yakadaro ingave isingawanzo, uye inosanganisira vadikani chaivo. Zvisinei isu tichiri kupindura zvakasiyana pabonde.)
Somuenzaniso, apo Vatsvakurudzi veAustralia (girafu) yakaratidza imwecheteyo erotic firimu kakawanda, bvunzo dzevadzidzi 'penises uye yekuzviisa pasi mishumo zvese zvakaratidza kuderera kunofambira mberi mukumutsa bonde. Izvo "zvekare zvekare zvekare" zvinongofinha. Kugara kunoratidza kudzikira dopamine. Mushure mekutarisa gumi nesere- kungoita sevadzidzi bvunzo vaigutsurira musoro - vaongorori vakaunza erootiki yeiyo 18th uye 20th maonero. Bingo! Zvidzidzo uye maitiro avo zvakakonzerwa. (Ehe, vakadzi vakaratidza zvakafanana.)
Internet zvinonyadzisira ndeye kunyanya kunyengedza kumuganisi wekupa mubayiro nokuti ruzivo runogara ruchingobvira. Inogona kuva nhoroondo "mukomana," chiitiko chisina kujairika, chiito chisina kujairika chepabonde, kana-iwe unoguta chisina chinhu. Uine maverengi akawanda akazarura uye achitsvaga kwemaawa, unogona kuwana mamwe mazano emhando dzepabonde nemaminetsi gumi nemaminitsi kupfuura vatenzi vedu vanovhima-vakaunganidza muupenyu hwavo hwose.
Zvinonyadzisira zvepaInternet zvinopa ruzivo rwakadzikama rwe "vadyidzani" vechimiro chose, saizi uye tsika. Uye chikamu chekare chehuropi hwedu chinovaona vese se mazita emagene. Mhedzisiro? Wese mutsva "mukana" unoburitsa hombe, inokurudzira kuwanda kwedopamine kutikurudzira kuti timuise fetereza uye tiwane inotevera (Iyo Coolidge Effect). Iyi pfungwa inotsanangurwa mu Uropi Hwako Pamusoro Pose Video.
Iyi ndiyo nzira inokwezva zviitiko uye zvinhu zvinobira kwedu kukwikwidza / kusunga matunhu. Zviri kuburikidza nekukonzeresa kugadzirwa kweasina kujairika huwandu hwedopamine uye mamwe mapurogiramu eurourochemicals. Kana izvo zvimwe zviitiko zvikaita yakawanda dopamine pane kudonha murudo uye pairing kumusoro - edu ekutanga anogona kunyengera kushanduka isu tisingazive kuziva. Uye zvatinokoshesa zvicharamba zvakatsauswa kudzamara pfungwa dzedu inodzokera kukunzwa kwemazuva ose, iyo inogona kutora mwedzi miviri pasina zvakanyanya kukurudzira.
Zvichakadaro, kunyangwe isu tingave tichida pfungwa yemubatanidzwa wakazvipira, tinogona kushushikana neanokwezva dopamine masurges anogadzirwa nepfungwa dzebonde neanovatana navo, dzakasiyana pabonde. Nepo uropi hwedu huri kudzokera kune hwayo hwakaenzana, iyo pfungwa yekugara nemumwe wako inogona kukonzera kukakavara kwemukati nekushatirwa.
Muchidimbu, dopamine yakawandisa inogona kukanganisa mashandiro ehuropi hwedu hwepanyama hwekubatanidza mashandiro. Isu tinoziva izvi nekuti ongororo ichangoburwa yemhuka dzemurume mumwe chete dzakakujekesa. Masayendisiti paakafukidza huropi hwevaviri vevasungwa nemakemikari ekusimudzira ayo akasimudza dopamine, idzi mhuka dzinongoitika dzakafanana. haasati yaumba zvakasarudzwa kune mumwe wako. Iko kukurudzira kwekugadzira kwaive kwakavhara dopamine yavo-yakavimbiswa kusungirirana mishonga, ichivasiya sezvisizvo zvekare (zvinonyadzisa) zvipfuwo.
Muchidimbu, kumwe kushushikana uko kunotikurudzira kuwira murudo kunova kusagadzikana kana isu takaguta nehupombwe. Pakarepo, iwo madunhu pane edu maviri bhandi zvinoenderana anozadzwa ne dopamine inosanganisirwa neanokurudzira kunze kweumwe wedu. Izvo zvinogona kuita kuti mukwanyina asafarire, uye kukurira edu akajairwa satiation nzira.
Nguva isina kukwezva kwakanyanya kweInternet porn (kana zvinonyadzisira zvinonyadzisira) ndiyo yakanakisisa kurapwa. Daily rudo inobatsirawo, nokupa chiratidzo chisinganzwisisiki kuti chisungo.
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