Ngicabanga ukuthi le bekuyinto enkulu yamathikithi kimi - ngingakwazi yini ukuya ocansini, ukuhlala kanzima, ukubhekana nokuntuleka kokuzwa kwekhondomu futhi namanje ngibe umvuthwandaba? Impendulo iwukuthi YeboFuthi kwenzeka ngaphansi kwezinsuku ze-90.
Ngicabanga ukuthi into ezinzileyo kwakunguzakwethu owayemagange futhi enesineke. Ngithola abantu abaningi bezolile abanobugovu, abafuna ngenkani futhi abaqinile embhedeni - nokuthi leyo nto yomphakathi yinto ebengingakwazi ukuyidlula ngokuphelele.
Ngingasho nje ukuthi ngemuva kokuthi ikhondomu iqhubeke ngangiyi-80% kuphela iqinile noma imile, kodwa yayanele. (Futhi yize isibhengezo sami sithi akukho-porn kuphela, angikaze ngibe ne-solo ejaculation kuze kube lusuku lwe-63).
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LINK - Ukuya ocansini ngempumelelo
Sawubona amadoda, amashumi amathathu edlule, izitabane, eqala inqubo yokuqalisa kabusha.
- libido
Ngibonile ukuthi ngeKwindla / Ebusika ukuthi ngivame ukulahlekelwa wuthando kwezocansi nokuthandana cishe ngokuphelele futhi lokhu kuyangikhathaza. Ngangiqhubeka ngingu-PMO cishe njalo ebusuku ngisho noma ngangingazizwa sengathi nginesifiso esiningi socansi. Ngifuna ukubuyisa i-libido yami ngoba ingaba namandla amakhulu, akhiqizayo futhi adale futhi ashukumise umphakathi.
Ngivuka njalo ekuseni ngokhuni olukhulu - kepha lokho akuhumushi ku-libido usuku lonke, futhi ngifisa sengathi bekungaba njalo.
- ED
Ngakho-ke ngiqaphele i-ED ephindaphindwayo. Ngibe ne-hook-up ngempelasonto edlule futhi angikwazanga ukuyikhuphula yonke imizuzu engama-90 yokuganga, ukuqabulana kanye nobulili nomfana engangimthanda ngempela. Kuyaphoxa futhi kuyadumaza. Ngendlela engangimthanda ngayo, futhi wayenamandla kimi, ungilahlile ngoba ecabanga ukuthi iqhude lami elithambile lalisho ukuthi bengingamthandi. Amagama awakwazi ukufaka esikhundleni lokho ukulungiswa obekuzoxazululwa kulesi simo. Ngakho-ke ngilahlekelwa lapha, fellas.
- porn
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Ngithole ukuthi ngiye ngavusa nenqubo yokufuna isifufula se-porn engizosilanda, ukunakwa kwami kunesifiso esikhulu sokuthi ngikwazi ukutshela ngitsho nokubuka isithonjana ukuthi ngiyabathanda yini abadlali / ukukhanyisa / ukubiyela i-porn. Ukusesha nokushaya indlwabu kungaba yinto ejabulisayo - angidingi ngisho nokubuka izinto engizilandayo.
Ngigcwalise ama-hard drive amabili nge-porn - futhi ekugcineni ngifuna ukuzizwa ngiqine ngokwanele ukususa lokhu: kepha ngiyabona ukuthi ukukhanga / umlutha wami uthi, “Cha, ungasebenzisi, uchithe iminyaka eyishumi ukwenza lolu khetho luphelele, wena ' Ngeke ngiphinde ngibathole ”. Empeleni, fuck lokhu - kepha angizizwa ngilungele okwamanje.
- I-Prozac
Ngicabanga ukuthi kusukela ebusheni kuya eminyakeni engamashumi amathathu kungenzeka ukuthi ngibe kuma-SSRI iminyaka emithathu noma emi-3. Lokhu kuyinkinga impela ngoba kungenza ngibe ne-horny (ngicabanga?) Kepha ngicindezele i-orgasm yami impela. Ukushaya indlwabu ngalesi sikhathi kwakuvame ukuqhubeka isikhathi esingaphezu kwehora ngaphambi kokuba ngikwazi ukugqashula ekucindezelweni kwamakhemikhali nasemvuthwandaba. Nginovalo oluncane lokuthi iProzac njll kungenzeka ukuthi yenze okuthile ukubambezela unomphela ama-orgasms ami - kepha futhi kungaba ukuntula ukuzethemba okuncane. Kubonakala kungithatha isikhathi eside ukuthola leyo ndlela ecacile lapho ngikholelwa ukuthi ukukhuthazwa kuzoholela emvuthwandaba - kodwa futhi, ngikwazile ukuphuma ocansini lomlomo kathathu kulo nyaka - ngakho-ke akuphukile konke futhi nginethemba.
Iphinde yahlanganisa ukuxhumana okungenzeka kwezothando njengo "Yebo, ngeke ngikwazi ukwenza i-orgasm ngoba iProzac ivimba lokho kimi" akuyona into edalulwa kakhulu kwezothando.
- Inkolo
Ngifisa ukuthi inkolo ibingakaze ibe yingxenye yempilo yami. Kwangethuse kakhulu futhi kwangijikisa kimi, umzimba wami nezifiso zami. Ngisebenze kanzima ukuhlehlisa izingxenye zami zemvelo nezinempilo. Kungenze ukuthi ngixwaye ubulili, njengobubi ukwedlula i-wanking, okuholele ekuthembekeni ngokweqile ku-PMO ukuphatha impilo yami.
Ngizizwa nginqunyelwa unaphakade ngenkolo ngalezi zindlela:
Ukuthola isifiso noma ukuheha kuza nezinkinga ezimbalwa zokukhathazeka
Nginenkolelo eyisisekelo yokuthi akekho umuntu ofuna ucansi, ngakho-ke ngifunda izinkomba ezingekho emthethweni futhi lokhu kusonga ukuhlangana okuthile
Nginenkinga yokuveza isifiso, ngoba lokho kungenza ngizizwe sengathi ngingeyami ngokwengeziwe ngakho-ke ngisengozini enkulu (lapho kuvame ukuveza isifiso kubonakala kuyingxenye yamandla obudoda nokuzethemba kwakho)
- Gay / Queer
Njengendoda eyisitabane uthola ukuhlangana ... namadoda! Futhi mhlawumbe lokhu kusivumela ukuthi sifunde izinto ezimbalwa abafana abaqondile abangaphuthelwa zona. Ngiyabona ukuthi amanye amadoda avuswa kalula kakhulu ukuthi yimina - odokotela bawo banzima ngaphambi kokuba bakhumule ngisho amabhulukwe; futhi lokhu yinto engizifunela yona. Ukuvuka okulula nje. Ngifuna ukuzethemba ngenkathi ngigqoke ikhondomu - ngoba ingahle iphazamise futhi iphazamise into ize ifike lapho ngilahlekelwa khona ukuzikhandla kwami.
- INFJ & Ucansi
Angazi ukuthi uhlobo lobuntu noma okuthandayo kunethonya elikhulu ekutheni umuntu eza kanjani kuNoFap. Ngingolunye lwezinhlobo ezivame kakhulu kwabesilisa, futhi lokhu kungangenza ngizizwe ngikhishwe inyumbazane futhi ngiqondwa kabi. Enye yezinkinga zohlobo lwami ukugcwala ngokweqile kwemizwa, futhi lokhu mhlawumbe kungisusa kimi: lokho ukubona / umsindo / ukugqugquzela emhlabeni kuvele kube kukhulu kakhulu ngakho-ke ngibuyela egumbini lami elimnyama ukuze ngilulame.
Ngocansi lokhu kusho ukuthi ngivame ukuphazanyiswa izinto eziwubuphukuphuku njengokuzwa kukamatilasi noma imisindo evela ngaphandle - nangokunakekela ukuthi unjani umlingani wami nolimi lwabo lomzimba nezinkulumo ezivele zizwakale kakhulu ngenkathi ngikhona ukuzama ukugxila. Angikaze ngibe nempumelelo enkulu ngocansi, kepha ngoJanuwari ngahlangana nomvakashi omuhle futhi wakwazi ukungivusa kangangokuba ukubhebhana kwakulula futhi ngize ngemuva kwemizuzu embalwa nje. Ngifuna ngempela ukwenza noma yini engingayenza ukuze ngibuyele kule ndawo yobulili obujabulisayo, kepha i-porn, i-ED nokuhlukaniswa konke kusongela lokhu ngezindlela ezihlukile.
- I-pre-cum
Ngabe kukhona okuhlangabezane nokwanda kokukhiqizwa kwe-pre-cum ngokungayi ku-PMO? Ngicabanga ukuthi kungangisiza ngijabule ngokungashayi indlwabu uma kukhona olunye ushintsho lomzimba / olubonakalayo olwenzekile. Noma kunjalo lokhu kungumcabango ongahleliwe.
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