Ukungavumelani namaqhawe akho kuhlale kuyisipiliyoni sokukhula esimangazayo. Njengososayensi bezengqondo abancane, sifunda ngomsebenzi wezinguquko zikaDkt. Phil Zimbardo, nangendlela ucwaningo kanye nokuqonda kwakhe okushintshe ngayo ukuqonda kwethu ngokuziphatha komuntu kanye ukuziphatha. Njengososayensi wezengqondo, nomuntu, ngikweleta uDkt Zimbardo isikweletu sakho Ukubonga. Kungakho ngikuthola kunzima manje, ukusho ukuthi umane, ngokungenaphutha, ngokungalungile ngengosi yakhe yakamuva izithombe zobulili ezingcolile.
UDkt Zimbardo ucaphuna owakho Brain kumawebhusayithi e-Porn and Reddit NoFap njengobufakazi bokulutha, kuyingozi nature yokusetshenziswa kwezithombe zocansi. Kuyishwa ukuthi wenza kanjalo, ngaphandle kokuqashelwa noma ukubekelwa imigwaqo mayelana nengozi yokusebenzisa ama-anecdotes akhethiwe, ngokuya ngengcindezi yontanga futhi ukuhambisana ithiyori, njengobufakazi. Ngifunde ngalezo zinkolelo zemibono yengqondo ezifundweni ezifanayo ze-undergraduate psychology lapho ngifunde nocwaningo lukaDkt Zimbardo. Ngeshwa, ubuningi be-anecdote, akuyona idatha, futhi izindaba eziningi ezikulezi zingosi ziveza okuningi kakhulu nge-psychology yezenhlalo emsebenzini, ngokungafani nobungozi be-porn uDkt Zimbardo ayishoyo.
UDkt Zimbardo uqhubeka nokucaphuna izifundo eziningi kanye nemibhalo eye yasho ukuthi izithombe zocansi zinemiphumela ye-neurological. Ngeshwa, kunenkinga yokudalwa kokuphikiswa nokuhambelana, futhi, into engifunde ngayo ezifundweni eziyisisekelo zokucwaninga. Lezi zifundo ezihambelana ezibonisa ukuxhumana phakathi kokusetshenziswa kobulili kanye nemiphumela ye-neurological, ngeshwa ayikwazi ukubona umthelela nendima yokuqagela okuguquguqukayo okufana ne-libido, nokufuna ukuzwa. Ucwaningo oluningi manje selukhombisile ukuthi abasebenzisi abasebenzisa i-porn ephezulu bavame ukuba ngabantu abane-libido ephakeme, kanye nokuthambekela okukhulu maqondana ukufuna umuzwa. Kungenzeka ukuthi le mibono ixhumane nezimpawu zemizwa, ezitholakele lezi zifundo. Ngamanye amagama, lezi zimpawu zemizwa empeleni ziyimbangela, hhayi umphumela.
UDkt Valerie Voon, owenza ucwaningo lobucansi beCambridge olukhonjwe nguDkt Zimbardo, nabanye abaningi, usanda kushicilela iphepha lapho yena nababhali ababambeleyo basho ukuthi okwamanje, akukho ukuvumelana kwesayensi ukuthi i-porn noma ucansi empeleni yi Ukuba umlutha wezithombe, futhi nokuthi lolu limi alufanele. Iphepha lakhe libonisa ukuthi izincwadi ezikhulunywa ngalezi zinto zinecala ngokweqile kwabesilisa abathandanayo, nokuthi ukungatholakali kwemininingwane kwabanye abantu kuphazamisa kakhulu ukusebenza noma ukutholakala kokutholakele kwabo. Kuye amagama (isixhumanisi angaphandle), “Imininingwane enganele iyatholakala maqondana nokuthi iziphi izigaxa zezimpawu ezingakha i-CSB (Compulsive Sexual Behavior) noma imuphi umkhawulo ongaba ofanele kakhulu ekuchazeni i-CSB. Idatha enganele enjalo yenza kube nzima ukuhlukanisa, ukuvimbela nokwelashwa. Ngenkathi imininingwane ye-neuroimaging iphakamisa ukufana phakathi kokulutha kwezidakamizwa ne-CSB, idatha ikhawulwa ngosayizi abancane besampula, amasampula abesilisa abesilisa nabesilisa abodwa, nokwakhiwa okunezigaba ezihlukene. ” Kuyishwa ukuthi uDkt Zimbardo akakhombisanga ukuqaphela okufanayo ekuhumusheni lobu bufakazi obenele.
Izifundo eziningi zocwaningo ngonyaka owedlule ezivela kubabhali abanjengoJoshua Grubbs weCase Western no-Alexander Stulhofer waseCroatia, ziqinisekisile ngokungaguquki indima yokuziphatha inkolo kwizizinda zalabo abachaza njengabayimilutha yezocansi noma ezocansi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, labo bacwaningi bakhombise amandla ngezifundo eziningi eziphindaphindwayo, ukuthi identity yezocansi / umlutha wezocansi ayibikezelwa ngemvamisa yezocansi. Ngamanye amagama, bobabili laba bacwaningi bakhombisile ukuthi ubulili / imilutha ye-porn empeleni ababukeli izithombe ezingcolile zobulili noma benza ucansi oluningi kunanoma ngubani omunye - bazizwa bebi kakhulu futhi bengqubuzana kakhulu ngocansi abanalo.
AbakwaGrubbs babuye bathola muva nje ukuthi ubunikazi bokuthi "umlutha we-porn" ngumqondo we-iatrogenic, odala ukulimaza nosizi, ngokutshela umuntu ukuthi azonde futhi ukwesaba okwabo ubulili. Ngokudabukisayo, futhi kuyamangaza ukuthi uDkt. Zimbardo ubhebhethekisa lo monakalo, ngokukhuthaza abesilisa ukuthi bazonde futhi besabe ukuphendula kwabo ngokocansi ezithombeni ezingcolile, nokuthi bamukele ubunikazi bomlutha wezocansi. Njengoba unikezwe umzimba kaDkt.Zimbardo wocwaningo, mayelana nomthelela wobunikazi nokulindela ekuziphatheni nasekuzizweleni, ngiyamangala ukuthi akaboni umthelela imibono yakhe engaba nawo kulabo abalwisana nokuziphatha okuhlobene nocansi, ebashayela kulezi zinikazi uDkt. Zimbardo uyavuma.
Ekugcineni, uDkt Zimbardo uphawula izinsolo zakamuva ze-Porn Indedu Erectile Ezingasebenzi njengobufakazi bemiphumela engenakuphikwa yezithombe zobulili ezingcolile. UDkt.Zimbardo ukhomba kuzinguquko zamanani wokungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile okubikwe ngabesilisa, phakathi kwezifundo zikaKinsey ngo-1948 nezifundo zakamuva ezibonisa amazinga aphakeme e-ED abikwe izinsizwa. Kodwa-ke, uDkt. Zimbardo uyehluleka ukwamukela noma ukubheka izinguquko ezinkulu kwezenhlalo ezenzeke ngokusungulwa kwemithi yokusebenza kwe-erectile, futhi okwandise ngokumangazayo ukudalula ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile, ngokunciphisa amahloni ezihambisana nayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uDkt Zimbardo uyehluleka ukusho ukuthi esifundweni ngasinye esihlola i-ED ezinsizweni, le miphumela ixhumene nezinkinga zokukhathazeka, ukusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa, ukukhuluphala, imithi kanye nesipiliyoni socansi. Akuzange kube khona iphepha elilodwa elibukeziwe lontanga elishicilelwe elibonisa noma yibuphi ubufakazi bokuthi i-ED ehlobene nokusetshenziswa kocansi yinto yangempela. Ngempela, sekushicilelwe izindatshana eziningi ezibuyekezwe ontanga ezingatholanga bufakazi be-PIED, kepha esikhundleni salokho, zithole umphumela ohlukile, wokuthi ukusetshenziswa kocansi nokuhlangana wokushaya indlwabu, kungenzeka ukuthi kubangele ukubambezeleka i-orgasm.
Ngivumelana neziphetho zikaDkt Zimbardo - SIDinga ukuthi sibe nengxoxo evulekile kabanzi mayelana neqhaza elidlalwa ocansini lwethu kwezocansi, kanye nezocansi imfundo yobusha bethu. Ngokudabukisayo, mina noDkt Zimbardo asivumelani ngokuqinile ngalokho okufanelekelayo njengobufakazi besayensi kuleyo ngxoxo. Ngikholelwa ukuthi inkhulumomphendvulwano enjalo yomphakathi kumele iqondiswe ukucabanga okucacile, okusekelwe emandleni. Ngokunye, ukwesaba okusekelwe ekuziphatheni kungasenza kalula ukuthi siphindaphinde amaphutha esikhathi esedlule, lapho i-American Psychological Association ivuma ukuhlukunyezwa, lapho i-American psychological zezempilo Imboni isekele imibono yamanga yokuthola kabusha inkumbulo isifo sikaSathane ukuhlukunyezwa kwezingane, noma lapho abesifazane abathanda ubulili njengabesilisa babizwa ngokuthi ama-nymphomaniacs futhi belashwa ngokuhlasimulisa umzimba ngokwesisekelo ubulili ukukhetha. Esimweni ngasinye kulezi, ama-anecdotes kanye nodokotela ukuzethemba njengezinhlamvu zikaDkt Zimbardo ukusekela imibono yakhe, zazisetshenziselwa ukusekela izindlela ezingezona ezokwelapha nezingavumelani nesayensi. Isayensi namuhla ingcono kunalokho, ngokwengxenye yeminikelo kaDkt Zimbardo, ekusisizeni ukuba siqonde ukuthi umongo kanye nokuhlalisana kanjani ukucabanga kungathinta imicabango nemizwa yethu maqondana nokuziphatha okuyinkimbinkimbi kwezenhlalo. Umsebenzi wethu njengamanje ukusiza abantu abahlangabezana nezinkinga ze-porn, ukubhekana nalezi zinkinga ngezindlela eziphumelelayo ezingalethi imiphumela emibi yezimbangela.
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