IZIMPENDULO: Ucwaningo olwenziwa emadodeni (isilinganiso seminyaka yobudala engama-41.5) enokuphazamiseka kocansi, njenge-paraphilias nokushaya indlwabu okungapheli noma ukuphinga. I-27 yahlukaniswa "njengabagwebi abashaya indlwabu," okusho ukuthi bashaya indlwabu (imvamisa besebenzisa i-porn) ihora elilodwa noma ngaphezulu ngosuku noma ngaphezulu kwamahora angu-7 ngeviki. U-71% walezi ziphuzo ezingcolile zibike izinkinga zokusebenza ngocansi, kanti i-33% kubika ukubika kwehlisa ukukhipha (izingcaphuno ezingezansi).
Yikuphi ukungasebenzi kahle kwezocansi onama-38% wamadoda asele anakho? Lezi ezinye izinketho ezimbili eziyinhloko zokungasebenzi kahle ngokobulili kwabesilisa yi-ED ne-libido ephansi. Ucwaningo alusho, futhi ababhali bazishaye indiva izicelo zemininingwane. Ngokwephula umthetho olandelwayo ojwayelekile, uJames Cantor washo ohlwini lwezemfundo (SexNet) ukuthi akasoze akhipha lokho okutholakele uqobo.
Xhumanisa - I-Sex Sex Ther.
I-2015 Nov-Dec;41(6):563-80. doi: 10.1080/0092623X.2014.935539.
abstract
Ukuziphatha ngokocansi kuyisimangalo esivame kakhulu kodwa esingaqondakali. Naphezu kokungafani kweziphakamiso zemitholampilo yeziguli ezibhekiswe ebuhloswaneni obuphathelene nobulili obufanayo, lezi zincwadi ziye zagcina izindlela zokwelashwa ezicatshangwa ukuthi ziyasebenza kuzo zonke izimo. Le ndlela ibonakaliswe engasebenzi, naphezu kokusebenza kwayo eminyakeni engamashumi eminyaka. Ucwaningo lwamanje lwalusebenzisa izindlela eziningi zokuhlola isimo somphakathi, impilo yengqondo, kanye nama-correlate ngokocansi we-subtypes ejwayelekile emitholampilo yokudluliselwa kobulili ngokobulili. Okutholakele kusekela ubukhona be-subtypes, ngayinye enezinhlu ezihlukene zezici. Ama-hypersexuals ka-Paraphilic abike inani elikhulu labalingani bobulili, ukuxhashazwa ngokweqile kwezidakamizwa, ukuqaliswa emisebenzini yobulili ngesikhathi esingaphansi, kanye nobuhle njengamandla okushayela ukuziphatha kwabo ngokobulili. Izigameko zokugwema i-masturbator zibike amazinga amakhulu okukhathazeka, ukuphuza ukuphuza, nokusebenzisa ubulili njengendlela yokugwema. Abaphingi abangapheli babika i-ejaculation ngaphambi kwesikhathi futhi baqala ukukhulelwa kamuva. Iziguli ezikhethiwe zazingekho amathuba okubika ukuxhashazwa kwezidakamizwa, umsebenzi, noma izinkinga zemali. Nanobe kunjalo, lesi sihloko sinikeza isifundo esichazayo lapho i-typology engezansi ivele khona emisebenzini engavamile ekuhloleni kocansi. Ucwaningo lwesikhathi esizayo lungase lusebenzise amasu amanani okubalwa, njengama-cluster ahlaziya, ukuze aqiniseke ukuthi izibalo ezifanayo zivela kanjani uma zihlolwe ngokuphumelelayo.
Umcaphuno Ovela Esifundweni:
Esikhathini esilandelayo, phawula ukuthi i-extensive spin nge-dysfunction erectile (ED), naphezu kokuthi ingxenye eyodwa yesithathu yabasebenzisi be-porn inkinga ibike ukuthi i-ejaculation ephuzile (DE), isandulela esivamile ku-ED nabalingani. Okushodayo kuleli phepha:
- I-71% ibike izinkinga zokusebenza zobulili nge-33% eyaziwa ukuthi ibambezele ukujula. Yimuphi ukukhubazeka ngokobulili okwenza i-38% yamadoda asele? Ucwaningo alusho, futhi abalobi baye balahle izicelo zokuthola imininingwane. Ezinye izinqumo ezimbili ezibalulekile ekusebenziseni ubulili besilisa kuyi-ED ne-libido ephansi.
- Amadoda awazange abuzwe mayelana nokusebenza kwawo erectile ngaphandle kocansi. Uma yonke imisebenzi yabo yocansi ihilela ukushaya indlwabu ekuziphatheni kocansi, hhayi ubulili nomlingani, kungenzeka ukuthi abangeke babone ukuthi babe ne-porn.
- Abalobi bacaphuna Ley et. al., I-2014 njengokukhohlisa izithombe ezingcolile ezenziwe i-ED. Akuzange, futhi bekulokhu ngokuqothulwa ngokuphelele lapha.
I-Masturbator Egwemayo
Lapho labo abaku-subtype ephephayo ye-masturbator (n = 27) beqhathaniswa nawo wonke amanye amacala (n = 88), bekukhona ukuthambekela kwamalungu aleli qembu kaningi ngokuzithandela ukuthi asebenzise ucansi njengecebo lokugwema (100% vs. 41 %), χ 2 (1, n = 34) = 3.81, p = .051, φ = 0.33. Ngokuphathelene nokuhlukahluka kwezempilo yengqondo nokuhlukahluka kocansi, i-subtype yokugwema indlwabu evikelayo yayisengozini enkulu yokubika umlando wezinkinga zokukhathazeka (74% vs. 23%), χ (1, n = 101) = 20.27, p <.001, φ = 0.45, nezinkinga zokusebenza kocansi (71% vs. 31%), χ (1, n = 88) = 10.63, p = .001, φ = 0.35, lapho ukubambezeleka kokubambezeleka kuyinkinga ebikwa kakhulu yokusebenza kocansi ( 33% vs. 7%), χ 2 (1, n = 88) = 9.09, p = .003, φ = 0.32. Labo abaku-subtype ephephayo yokushaya indlwabu babenomkhuba wokuba mancane kunesinye isampula abake baba sothandweni olunzulu (70% vs. 86%), χ 2
(1, n = 102) = 3.34, p = .068, φ = 0.18. Kulabo ababika ubudlelwane bomshado, kwakukhona umkhuba wokuba nobuhlobo obuhle bokuthi ubuhlobo buphelile (28% vs. 9%) noma buhlanjululwe ngenxa yenkinga yabo yobunxusxushu (56% vs. 50%), χ 2 (3 , n = 82) = 5.91, p = .052, φ = 0.27.
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Njengoba kuphawuliwe ngaphambili, i-subtype ephephayo ye-masturbator isetshenziswe njengokuzibandakanya ngaphezu kwe-1 hr ngosuku, ngokwesilinganiso, ukusetshenziswa kwezithombe zocansi / ukushaya indlwabu. Njengoba kubikezelwe, le subtype ibinomkhuba obheke emathubeni amakhulu okubika indlela abaziphatha ngayo kwezocansi njengengxenye yecebo lokugwema. Yize ukusetshenziswa kabi kwezidakamizwa futhi kuyindlela evamile yokugwema, le nhlobo engezansi yayinganamathuba amancane okubika izinto ezihlukumezayo, mhlawumbe ngenxa yokuthi isivele ithole isu eliphumelelayo lokugwema ukusetshenziswa kwezithombe zocansi, yize lokhu kutholakala kuphambene nocwaningo ngalokho okubizwa ngokuthi yimikhuba yokuziphatha (kubandakanya i-hypersexuality), lapho kutholakala ukubambisana nokuphazamiseka kokusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa (njengoba kufingqiwe kuGrant, Potenza, Weinstein, nase Gorelick, 2010). Kungaba wusizo ocwaningweni oluzayo ukuhlola ukuthi ngabe amadoda akule subtype anezinkinga yini nezinye izindlela zokuziphatha zokugwema, njengokudlala (okungukuthi, amagama evidiyo) noma izinkinga zokusebenzisa i-Intanethi ezijwayelekile. Kuyafaneleka ukucabanga ukuthi ngabe okuningi okubizwa ngokuthi yimilutha yokuziphatha kuhlobene nokuhlehlisa noma ukugwema futhi kungaphendula ezindleleni zokwelashwa ezifanayo. Kungumqondo wethu ukuthi umlutha uhlobene nokugwema nokuhlehlisa izinto.Ngokuhambisana nabantu abangahle bagweme kakhulu noma bahlehlise (isb. Beswick, Rothblum, & Mann, 1988; Flett, Stainton, Hewitt, Sherry, & Lay, 2012), abashaya indlwabu abavikelayo babenamathuba amaningi okubika izinkinga zokukhathazeka. Okunokwenzeka okuhambisana nokukhathazeka okuphezulu ukuthola ukuthi laba bantu babenomkhuba wokuba mancane amathuba okuthi bake baba sothandweni; mhlawumbe mancane amathuba okuthi bazizwe bekhululekile ekuhlanganyeleni ubuso nobuso ekuxhumaneni ngokocansi nobudlelwano. Kungenzeka futhi ukuthi isikhathi abasitshala ekusetshenzisweni kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile kanye nokushaya indlwabu sikhawulela isikhathi sokulandela ubudlelwano. Izishaya indlwabu ezigwema ubudlelwano zazinomkhuba wokubika ubunzima obuningi bobudlelwano. Lokhu kungabangelwa ukuthi inkinga yabo iba nzima kakhulu ukufihlela umlingani (isb., Abalingani abaningi beziphingi ezingamahlalakhona kanye nabangama-hypersexual be-paraphilic kungenzeka bangazi ngezintshisekelo noma imisebenzi yesiguli). Kungenzeka futhi ukuthi bashaya indlwabu ngenxa yezinkinga ebudlelwaneni babo ezaqala ngaphambi kwezinkinga zokuziphatha ngokocansi; kodwa-ke, lokhu kungashiwo kuwo wonke ama-subtypes, njengoba singazange sihlole ubungozi kulolu cwaningo. Okokugcina, futhi mhlawumbe futhi okuhlobene nezinkinga zobudlelwano, ngukuthi labo abashaya indlwabu abagwema amathuba okubika ngezinkinga zokusebenza kocansi kunamanye ama-subtypes, ikakhulukazi, ukubambezeleka kokubambezeleka. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqaphela ukuthi akucaci ukuthi ngabe lezi zinkinga zandulela izinkinga zocansi noma ukushaya indlwabu ngakho-ke, kungenzeka ukuthi zihlobene nezinkinga zokukhathazeka nobudlelwano, noma ngabe kungumphumela wokushaya indlwabu isikhathi eside futhi kaningi okuholela ekunciphiseni ukungabi nandaba maqondana nezocansi zomzimba ukusebenza. Ukutholwa kokubambezeleka kwe-ejaculation, esikhundleni sokungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile njengesikhalazo esiyinhloko esibikiwe nakho kuyathakazelisa kumongo we-media hype ethandwayo ukuthi ukubuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kuhlobene nokungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile. Yize kunama-akhawunti emitholampilo nemidiya ekhokhiswe ngokomzwelo nezindawo zokuzisiza ezisabalalisa le nkolelo (isb., The Doctor Oz Show, Januwari 31, 2013; James & O'Shea, Mashi 30, 2014; yourbrainonporn.com), ayikho idatha ukusekela umbono wokuthi ukubuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kubangela ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile (Ley, Prause, & Finn, 2014). Yize izimangalo zale mithombo yezindaba zingaqukatha ukuba semthethweni okuthile, inkinga ukuthi ziphakamisa imicabango edinga ukuhlolwa kwesayensi, okungakenzeki. Okutholakele kulolu cwaningo, olwazini lwethu, okokuqala ukuhlola ubudlelwano phakathi kohlobo oluncane lokushaya indlwabu / izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zobulili obufanayo nokusebenza kocansi.