Today is day 90 of my no-fap odyssey. It doesn’t really feel like a success because I think I achieved my goal a long time ago and at the same time I also feel I haven’t achieved any goal, because these 90 days taught me so many things I don’t think I will ever ever […]
(LINK) Hey guys, Having just celebrated my birthday, and been ashamed of how little I’ve done and achieved in my life – I’ve gotten really serious over the past weeks to end my addiction. Full disclosure, this is also my eighth straight month trying to quit. I haven’t been trying my hardest. So, to help […]
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Greetings all. Here are my impressions after 90 days of nofap. –I wouldn’t have done it without the nofap community. The counter helped a lot, especially at the start. The anonymity also helps a lot, I have not revealed to anyone in person that I am on nofap, though I will when the time is […]
ED is now gone and I am horny 24/7 and can get it up no problem. And I even get turned on in everyday situations, it’s hard to explain. But I’m feeling alive. I never fully recovered after my flatline [he had written about earlier]. I could get it up sometimes, but my dick wasn’t […]
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Sexual Orientation OCD – Part 3: HOCD Sub-Types HOCD Sub-Types By Jon Hershfield MA of the OCD Center of Los Angeles discusses treatment of Sexual Orientation OCD, also known as HOCD or Gay OCD, using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Mindfulness. Part three of an ongoing series. There are many variations and sub-types of Sexual […]
LINK to thread I’m not here to judge you, or to say what is right and wrong. Morality is often grey, and moralizing behavior is usually a poor motivation for change long term. I do not think you are a bad person. I am a wife. My husband has been a PMO since we met […]
I’m Not Gay and You Aren’t Either – the truth about HOCD (from BrainPhysics.com) By Aaron Turpen, Sat, August 11, 2012 A common manifestation of obsessive-compulsive disorder is one called homosexual OCD (HOCD), also called gay OCD or homophobic OCD. This arises as a fear and obsession with being gay – usually a person who […]
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Brief history (April 13, 2012) I started becoming sexually active when I was 15. I could get it up whenever for whoever. I had a girlfriend for a long time as a teenager and we were both very happy with our sex lives; to this day the best sex I’ve had. Eventually things ended with […]
DETERMINATION = Reboot done in one go. Why is this in the recipe? Because if you fail and relapse – every other reboot attempt becomes harder and harder until you have no motivation at all and failure becomes one huge fear. You just feel the huge pressure from the past failures and you lose the […]
If you’ve been watching Gary’s videos and browsing YBOP everyday to change your life but at the same time you fail to keep being consistent with your reboot, then you’re missing the problem. You probably beat yourself up many times and end up laying down on your couch feeling all worthless asking yourself when […]