Kungakanani ukushaya indlwabu kulungile kuwe? Cabanga ngamaqiniso bese wenza ukuzihlola kwakho.
Ingabe ufundisiwe ukuthi ukushaya indlwabu kumuntu omdala kunempilo kangangokuthi empeleni kuyindlela yokwelapha? Ukuthi wonke ama-orgasm anenzuzo ngokulinganayo? Ukuthi ayikho into ebizwa ngokuthi i-ejaculation eningi? Nokuthi kunemiphumela emibi evela hhayi ukushaya indlwabu kaningi kakhulu?
Uma kunjalo, uzomangala lapho ufunda ukuthi lezi zinkolelo ezisakazeke kabanzi zisekelwe emvelweni nje. Azisekelwa njalo isayensi. Eqinisweni, indikimba yocwaningo iyababukela phansi. Umcwaningi u-Rui Miguel Costa ufingqa ucwaningo (okubikwe ngezansi) ku Umlando wokuziphatha kocansi: "Ukushaya indlwabu kuhlobene ne-Psychopathology kanye ne-Prostate Dysfunction.” Futhi ngo-2017 iqembu Abacwaningi baseSwitzerland bathi, “Ukushaya indlwabu kuhlotshaniswa—ikakhulukazi phakathi kwamadoda—nokuhlanganyela kancane ocansini nozakwethu, ukwaneliseka okuncane kwezocansi nobudlelwano, ukungasebenzi kahle kwezocansi, kanye nokwaneliseka okuphansi ngempilo yengqondo kanye nempilo ngokujwayelekile (Costa, 2012; Gerressu, Mercer,Graham, Wellings & Johnson, 2008).
Ulwazi oluqinile ngokushaya indlwabu lubaluleke ngokukhethekile namuhla. Ngokufika kwesivinini esikhulu kanye nentsha engapheli yokuchofoza, kulula kubasebenzisi ukweqa izimpawu zomzimba zokuthi sekwanele. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kulezi zinsuku ezingamashumi amabili nanye zokushaya indlwabu kanye nokusetshenziswa kocansi lwe-inthanethi kufana kakhulu. Ngakho-ke uma ukushaya indlwabu “kukulungele,” khona-ke ukusebenzisa izithombe ezingcolile zobulili ze-Inthanethi ukuze ushaye indlwabu kaningi kuzokugcina. extra enempilo. Umbono wobusha ongcono kakhulu!
Lokhu akusho ukuthi noma ngubani kufanele azizwe kabi ngokuhlanganyela ocansini yedwa. Ukusho nje ukuthi ungabona izinzuzo zokuvuselela isifiso sakho sobulili. Khonamanjalo, nayi i-skinny ngezinganekwane ezinhlanu ezidumile zokushaya indlwabu:
Inganekwane # 1 - “Awukwazi ukunciphisa ukunciphisa ukushaya indlwabu ngaphandle kokuzilimaza”
Izinkulungwane zamadoda (ngisho namanye ama-gals) athola ukuthi ukuqeda ukushaya indlwabu ku-porn, futhi okwesikhashana ukuyeka / ekunciphiseni ukushaya indlwabu empeleni kubangelwa ukuhlukunyezwa noma ukucindezelwa ngokocansi-okuwukuthi, izinzuzo ezimangalisayo.
Ungathola imibiko yabo kumaforamu afana lena, okufaka inselelo yosuku lwe-90. Nazi izimpendulo ze-3 ezivela kwamanye amasayithi (imibiko eyengeziwe):
Nginguye I-20-into emdala yonyaka futhi… bengingabunaki ubudlelwano obuningi ngenxa [yokusetshenziswa kocansi]; Ngicasuke kalula, ngigxeka ngokweqile, nginamahloni futhi angizethembi - uhlu luyaqhubeka. Ngangiyeka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile / ukushaya indlwabu ehlobo eledlule ngaphandle kokwazi ukuthi nginenkinga ezandleni zami (i-pun ehloselwe) kodwa uMUNTU ngizwe umehluko! Ngaba nokwazi ngokwengeziwe, ngijabula ngokwengeziwe, ngaba nomphakathi ngokwengeziwe, ngaba nethemba futhi ngazinza. Isipiliyoni sami besifuna lokho engingakusho kuphela njengobudoda obunamandla nokuzola kwangaphakathi; kwaba ukuthi impilo kufanele ibe njani. Nganginobuhlakani obedlulele, nginobuhlobo, nginomdlandla futhi nginobuciko. Namuhla (ngaphambi kokuyeka) angizethembi, nginamahloni, ngifuna ukuvunyelwa, futhi angikho ndawo lapho ngizimele ngokomzwelo.
Nginguye 21 iminyaka ubudala, futhi ngizizwa sengathi nginezinto eziningi engizenzayo ukuze ngiyenzele yonke le minyaka embalwa edlule ikakhulukazi engakhiqizi. Ukusho ukuthi angipheli uma ngingenela i-PMO kungukubekwa phansi okukhulu. Ngivele ngibe nomzwelo omkhulu, angizethembi, angicaceli, angikwazi ukucabanga kahle. Futhi ngihambile iminyaka eminingi ngiphila kanjena. Manje sengiyalawulwa, ngizinzile, ngigxile, ngizethemba kakhulu, futhi nginengqondo ebukhali kakhulu. Futhi lokhu yizinsuku ezingama-22 kuphela. Uma wonga amandla akho phezulu, uthola leyo ntando engenakunqotshwa lapho obekungahle kube yizindonga ezinkulu esikhathini esedlule kube yizingcingo ezincane ezifika emadolweni okufanele uwele.
Ngolunye usuku, ngithole amakhadi okubika ahlukene kanye nothisha abavela ngaphambi kokuba ngiqale ukushaya indlwabu futhi emva kwesikhathi. Kwakukhona umehluko ophawulekayo kokubili kokusebenza kwami (akukho phini okuhlosiwe) nendlela ngendlela othisha bami abahlola ngayo. Izifundiswa zami zaziqine ngokucacile ngaphambi kokuba ngiqale ukuyihlanganisa izikhathi eziningana ngosuku. Yebo, kungaba yinto engaqondakaliyo kodwa ngingacabangi ngakho emva kokubona ukuthi ngiphumelela kanjani futhi ngigxile kangakanani lapho ngilahla isikhathi esifushane.
Kwenzekani kusidoda esingafakwanga ijusi? Ngokuvumelana ne Isithangami se- "NakedScientist" saseCambridge University,
Isibindi esifinyelele ekuthengiseni kwabo ngosuku siphulwa ngendlela efanayo, masithi, amangqamuzana egazi aphukile phansi. Futhi ngokuyinhloko noma yiziphi izakhi nezimnandi ezitholakala emdeni nje ziphinde zithole kabusha ngaphakathi komzimba.
Inganekwane # 2 - “Ayikho into efana nokushaya indlwabu ngokweqile”
Amantombazane abika ukuthi ukushaya indlwabu kuningi kakhulu nakanjani kungenzeka nge-porn yanamuhla ephezulu. Nazi izinkomba (ezithathwe ku- ukuzibika kwabasebenzisi abathintekayo be-Internet be-Internet):
- Ukushaya indlwabu kuze kube seqophelweni le-ejaculation eyomile noma emigqumeni ebuhlungu
- Izilonda, amabhamuza, ukuvuvukala, amamaki okulimaza noma ama-calluses esithweni sangasese somuntu ngenxa yokushayisana okukhulu
- Ukulahleka kwekhono "lokuzwa" ukuhlangana noma ucansi lomlomo
- Ukulahlekelwa kwesithakazelo ngokobulili wangempela nabalingani bangempela, ukuthanda izinto ezingcolile zobulili
- Ukuhlela amahora ukuze kuvezwe umvuthwandaba, ngokuvamile ngoba kuba mnandi kakhulu
- Ezinye izimpawu ezihlobene nokulutha umlutha, ezifana nokukhathazeka kwezenhlalo, ukungabi nobuchopho, ukucindezeleka, izinkinga zobungqingili zobulili, nezinkinga ezinkulu izimpawu zokuhoxiswa lapho beka, njll.
Kungani isiko lethu lingacwaningi ukuthi kungenzeka ukushaya indlwabu kakhulu? Mhlawumbe ngoba-kuze kube yamuva nje-bambalwa abantu abangene odongeni lokushaya indlwabu ngokweqile. Bayeka lapho sebenele.
Umholi namuhla ukufinyelela okungenakufinyelela isenzo sobulili saso sonke isikhathi esishisayo ngokwanele ukuba sithwale ngaphezulu ukuhlukumeza ngokobulili okungenasisekelo, ngisho nokuphonsa abanye ubuchopho ekugqilazweni. Lesi yisimo esisha kangangokuba ucwaningo aluzange luthole iqiniso. Izindaba eziningi ziyadabukisa inhliziyo, futhi nendima yesivinini esiphezulu iyabonakala:
Bengingumakhi womzimba. Ngisuke ku-220 ngaya ku-180, noma NGENZA ukuzivocavoca nokudla ukudla okuningi okuphilayo kanye nama-calories amaningi. Ngangimosha ngize. Ngaqala ukuthola zonke lezi zinto ezesabekayo ezingenangqondo ezizungeze abantu. Ngazizwa nginyikima futhi ngiphelelwa amandla. Izwi lami alinalutho, uma lokho kunengqondo. Ngilahlekile. Ngangicindezelekile njalo. Ngayeka ukuphuma endlini yami; abangane bami baphela kancane. Ngakho-ke manje sengiyisidlakudla esiphaphatheka kabi emphakathini, lol, lapho bengikade ngiyiNkosi yesikhungo sami… wtf! Angizange ngiguqule noma yikuphi okunye okuguqukayo EMPILWENI YAMI ngaphandle kokuthola umlutha wezithombe zobulili ezingcolile futhi ngande kaningi. Yilokho kuphela. Bengisacabanga kahle, ngiphuma ngiya ezindaweni zokucima ukoma, ngidla ukudla okunempilo, ngivivinya umzimba, yonke leyo jazz. Okuwukuphela kwento eyakhuphuka kwakuwukuthandana kwami namantombazane mbumbulu esikrinini esikhanyayo esinamaphikseli. Ngizizwa sengathi angikwazi ukugxilisa ingqondo noma ukuqonda okuningi ngemuva kokuzitika ngotshwala, kwezinye izinsuku ngigcwele umbhede ngokoqobo ngoba iso lami limbi kabi….
Ocwaningweni olunesihloko esithi “Izimpawu zesineke zohlobo lobulili obufanayo, ”Abacwaningi babika ukuthi phakathi kwamadoda ashaya indlwabu ihora elilodwa noma ngaphezulu ngosuku noma ngaphezulu kwamahora angu-7 ngesonto, ama-71% abike izinkinga zokusebenza ngokocansi, kanti ama-33% abika ubunzima bokuvuthwa kuvuthondaba nabalingani.
Cabanga ngomuntu osebenza naye ompofu:
Ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ezedlule inkampani inikeze amafoni ama-smart amasha okuzulazula kubasebenzi abebengenawo. Kwakuyisikhathi nje ngaphambi kokuba umuntu engisebenza naye athole umhlaba wemilingo wezocansi. Ngolunye usuku ubeshayela emgwaqeni ngemoto yenkampani futhi eshaya indlwabu emgwaqeni omkhulu KANYE nomunye umuntu ebesisebenza naye emotweni. Kubhidliza nobudlelwano bakhe nonkosikazi wakhe ngoba angancamela ukuya ekhaya ayobhekela izithombe ezingcolile kunokuya ocansini.
Futhi kubonakala sengathi ukushaya indlwabu ukuzwa (okungenayo i-porn noma i-fantasy ye-porn) kungase kungabi nakakhulu futhi kudle ngaphezu kokushaya indlwabu kumabhayisikobho, ngokusakaza kwayo okungapheli kwabalingani beveli. Ososayensi baye bafunda ukuthi ukushaya indlwabu ku-pornstar inoveli kwandisa ivolumu ye-ejaculate ne-sperm motile (uma kuqhathaniswa nokushaya indlwabu nomlingisikazi ojwayelekile). Futhi, isikhathi esisithathayo uku-ejaculate sincipha kakhulu. Ngamafuphi, ubusha bocansi buhumusheka ekubeni isidoda esivundile kanye nokukhipha isidoda ngokushesha. Lokhu kwenza noma yikuphi "ukuhlanganisa okungeziwe" (ngisho nalapho okuhlosiwe kuyi-dimensional emibili kuphela) kusebenze kahle, futhi okubiza kakhulu. Ucwaningo lubonisa umsebenzi omkhulu wesifunda wesiphetho ebuchosheni uma uboniswa kumlingani wezocansi.
Ukulinganiselwa kungokwemvelo kubo bonke nezinye imisebenzi yomzimba. Isibonelo, ukuphuza amanzi, ukudla, ukuzivocavoca, isikhathi elangeni, ukuphakamisa isisindo, ukuhlala uphapheme noma ukulala embhedeni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ezinye izilwane ezincelisayo zinemingcele ezenzweni zazo zobulili. Isibonelo, uma amagundane ekhipha isidoda ngaphambi kokuba alulame ekusutheni ngokocansi, ayabonisa izimpawu ezimakwe. Abantu banemikhawulo. Uma kuqhathaniswa nezinye izinhlobo zezilwane, isibonelo, isidoda sabantu esisebenzayo sinjalo iphela kalula.
Okwamanje, okwamanje, inkolelo yokuthi ukuzijabulisa okungenakuvinjelwa ukulawulwa kokumodarela kugxilile ngokuqinile. Lokhu kucabanga kungase kuphakame ngenxa yokuthi, njengoba abantu behluleka ukugqilaza (ngenxa ye- ukuvuselela okungavamile of porn highspeed), baphutha iphutha izifiso Okwe i-monster libido. Umdala oneminyaka eyi-30 wathi,
Ngiyazwelana kakhulu nabafana abancane abaqale ngejubane eliphezulu kusukela ekuqaleni kokuthomba. Kufana nokudubula i-heroin ngaphambi kokuthi uthole ngisho nobhiya wakho wokuqala.
Asikho isixazululo noma ukuhlela kuzokwanelisa i-an ubuchopho bomlutha, ngakho labo abathola inhlanzi bazizwa njengoba bengenakho okwanele. Futhi, lapho abafana abanomlutha kakhulu beyeka, bavame ukuzwa okwesikhashana, kodwa okwesabekayo, wehla ku-libido nokuzwela kwe-penile-Kungekho okunye okubuhlungu izimpawu zokuhoxiswa-Ukuthi ungawaholela ekubuyiseleni izithombe ezingcolile zobulili ezingcolile, futhi ngokujulile ekubhebhethekeni kwabo.
Inganekwane # 3 - “I-Orgasm iyi-orgasm”
Kusukela isikhathi sikaKinsey sekuqinisekisiwe, kodwa asisekelwa yibufakazi, ukuthi konke ukuziphatha kobulili kufana. Lokho bekulokhu kufakazelwa kwemibono kuneqiniso. -Stuart Brody, ucwaningo lwezokwelapha
Ubulili (PVI) buhlobene nempilo engcono kwengqondo nengokwenyama, umsebenzi wezocansi olungcono kanye nobuhlobo obuseduze obuseduze-uma kuqhathaniswa nokubili ukushaya indlwabu kanye nezinye izici zokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi. Omunye wesifazane wathi:
Ngangingenaso ukucindezeleka kusasa ngemva kokungcoliswa kweminyaka phakathi neminyaka eyishumi ngangiba nemisipha yomyeni wami. Konke uthando olugcwalisa uthando lwethu lokukhanda ngamathandabuzi lwasusa futhi lwafaka umphumela omubi we-orgasm kubonakala sengathi unomfelokazi kimi. Ukuxhamaza nomuntu othandekayo kuhluke kakhulu ekukhukhuleni ngezindebe nezinduna ezingenalutho.
Njengoba kuchaziwe ku Indlela Evilaphayo Yokuhlala Uthandweni, irejista ethile yokuziphathisa ngengxenye yokuqala yobuchopho njengoba izinhlamvu zokunamathiselwe. Izinkomba ezinjalo zibopha abantu ngoba kuthoba ukuvikela kobuchopho ngokukhipha i-oxytocin ku-amygdala. Ziyindlela yemvelo yokulwa nokukhathazeka. Ukuthinta okufudumele njalo, isibonelo, kukhonjisiwe ukunciphisa blood pressure, ikakhulukazi emadodeni.
Ingabe ukulala ngokomzimba kuyabhalisa njengendlela yokunamathisela okunamathiselwe ngendlela yokuthi ubulili be-solo abukho? Ngokuqinisekile umehluko uboniswa ngisho nasigninal hormonal yale misebenzi emibili. Isibonelo, ubulili kanye nokukhishwa komvuthwandaba izikhathi ezine i-prolactin yokushaya indlwabu, ukusiza ukubeka ama-brakes ngesifiso socansi isikhathi. Ngamanye amazwi, ama-climaxes atholakala ngezindlela ezahlukene aziguquguquki ngokwemiphumela.
Kunengqondo ukuthi ukuya ocansini kunikeza imivuzo emikhulu ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo kunamanye ama-jollies. I-Evolution ithanda ukuziphatha okungaqhubezela izakhi zofuzo esikhathini esizayo. Ukushintshisana kokuthintana ngokothando cishe kubhaliswa njengokuzuzisayo ngoba kusiza abazali abasondelene. Ngakho, inzalo nge ezimbili abanakekeli abazinikezele banenkinga engcono yokusinda.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, njengoba u-Brody nabanye beye bakusho, ukuziphendukela kwemvelo kuzokwenzela izindlela ze-psychobiological ezivuza i-PVI-ngoba izikhuthazo zokushaya indlwabu esikhundleni sazo zibandakanya izindleko zokuqina. Ngempela, izinkanuko zanamuhla zobulili ezingavamile kakhulu zibonakala zingaphezu kwamandla ukuheha abanye abasebenzisi kude kusukela ezinhlosweni ze-PVI (nokungafihli kofuzo).
Ngokusobala, ukushaya indlwabu namuhla akuyona into engavamile kulabo abahlanganyela ubulili. Kodwa okuthakazelisayo, noma kunjalo, ukushaya indlwabu akuwona uqweqwe lwekhekhe. Eqinisweni, izikhathi eziningi zokushaya indlwabu zihlotshaniswa nokunganeliseki ngezici eziningana zokuphila ngokuzimela nge-PVI, futhi kubonakala sengathi kunciphisa ezinye izinzuzo ze-PVI.
Uma ungakwazi, qhathanisa ukulala nomuntu kanye nokushaya indlwabu ngokwakho bese ubona ukuthi yini oyibona esikhathini esizayo.
Inganekwane # 4 - "Ukushaya indlwabu njalo kuzuzisa impilo yakho yezocansi"
Uyazi ukuthi imvamisa enkulu yokushaya indlwabu ihlotshaniswa nomsebenzi wezocansi okhubazekile kokubili amadoda nabesifazane? Ukuthi kuhlotshaniswa nokunganeliseki okukhulu ngobudlelwano kanye nothando oluncane ngabalingani? Imvamisa enkulu yokushaya indlwabu ibuye ihlotshaniswe nezimpawu zokucindezeleka kanye nezinye izinkomba ezimbalwa zezempilo ebuthakathaka ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, okuhlanganisa ukusabela okukhulu komfutho wegazi ekucindezelekeni, ukunamathela kokukhathazeka kanye nezindlela zokuzivikela ezingokwengqondo ezingavuthiwe.
Ngokusobala, lolu cwaningo akufakazeli ukushaya indlwabu izimbangela lezi zinkinga, kepha kwenza kube nzima ukugcizelela ukuthi ukushaya indlwabu kuyisidomu sezempilo. Ngamafuphi, uma unenhlanhla yokuba nomlingani, landela ekaBill Maher iseluleko esihle futhi okungenani wenze i-masturbation yakho yesibili ukukhetha.
Inganekwane # 5 - “Ukushaya indlwabu njalo kuvimbela umdlavuza wendlala yesinye”
Ayingcolile. Kungenzeka ukuthi izinzuzo zezempilo ze-orgasm zikhona ikakhulukazi ehlobene ubulili nomunye umuntu, ikakhulukazi ubulili bobulili obuphenywe (PVI) hhayi ukushaya indlwabu. Kodwa-ke, iningi locwaningo olukhona lomdlavuza wesibeletho langamazisi ngokungaqondile lokhu ngokubuza imibuzo engakhethwanga kahle. Abaphenyi bacabanga ukuthi konke ukukhishwa komuthi kuzoba nomthelela olinganayo kumdlavuza wendlala yabesilisa (uma kukhona), ngakho babala ukushaya indlwabu, i-PVI kanye nezinye izindlela zokukhiqiza i-orgasm “njenge-ejaculation.” Futhi, bekufanele bathembele ezinkumbulweni zamadoda mayelana nezenzo zocansi emashumini eminyaka adlule.
Imiphumela, akumangalisi ukuthi ayihambisani. Njengabacwaningi isifundo okushiwo kaningi ukusekela Inkolelo-ze # 5 yathi, “Ucwaningo oluyisishiyagalolunye lubone ukuhlangana okuhle okubalulekile noma okungabalulekile; Izifundo ezi-3 azibikanga ukuhlangana; Izifundo ze-7 zithole ubudlelwane obuphambene ngokwezibalo noma obungabalulekile; kanti ucwaningo olu-1 luthole ubudlelwano obumise okuka-U. ” Kwesinye isifundo, ukushaya indlwabu njalo kukodwa kwakuwuphawu lwengozi eyengeziwe yomdlavuza wesinye eminyakeni yama-20s, 30s kanye nama-40s lapho abacwaningi begcina becabanga ukuhlukanisa umsebenzi wokushaya indlwabu kusuka ku-PVI (ku-2009). I-PVI yaba khona ukuvikela impilo ye-prostate kumadoda amadala nokungathathi hlangothi empeleni kumadoda amancane. A ucwaningo lwamuva thola umdlavuza we-prostate we-19% ngaphansi kwama-ejaculators avamile. Kodwa-ke, imibuzo eminingi ayisaphenduliwe, njengenye enye abacwaningi abayilawula.
Ukube ukujula bekuvikela ikakhulukazi umdlavuza wendlala yabesilisa, umuntu ubengacabanga ukuthi abapristi bangaba sengozini yamanani aphezulu ngokungavamile. Ngokusobala, akunjalo. Ukusesha okusheshayo kwaveza izifundo ezimbili ezazibheka abefundisi nomdlavuza wendlala yabesilisa. Kuhlolwa amarekhodi abapristi abangama-6226, owokuqala owathola ukuthi “Kubulawe abantu abayishumi nambili ababulawa umdlavuza wendlala yabesilisa ngesikhathi I-19.8 ilindeleke”Ngokuya ngamanani emadodeni afanayo. Olunye ucwaningo lutholile akukho umehluko obala kakhulu emkhatsini womdlavuza we-prostate phakathi kwabapristi be-1432 namanye amadoda.
- Hlola isayensi etholakalayo ehlanganisa yonke into eyaziwayo engozini yomdlavuza we-prostate Izifo zomdlavuza we-prostate by I-Cancer Research UK.
- Funda lokhu isihloko mayelana nokubuyekezwa kwezincwadi ngokushaya indlwabu kanye nomdlavuza wesicathulo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokungafani nomdlavuza we-prostate, emadodeni anesifo se-ED, ukushaya indlwabu kwavame ukuhambisana nezinye izinkinga ze-prostate, kufaka phakathi amazinga aphezulu e-antigen e-prostate kanye nesifo se-prostate esivimbayo. Ngamanye amazwi, umzamo wokushaya indlwabu indlela yakho eya ku-prostate enempilo ingase ingasebenzi.
Okunye okuthakazelisayo yi-Julayi, isitatimende se-2017 URichard Wassersug PhD, isazi somdlavuza we-prostate kanye noProfesa wezokwelapha uProfesa, Faculty of Medicine eMnyangweni Wezesayensi Ye-Urologic eYunivesithi yaseBrithani Columbia:
"Ayikho idatha enhle ngempela engikwaziyo yokubonisa isixhumanisi se-causal (esiqondile noma esingalungile) phakathi kokuvama kwe-ejaculation ne-risk prostate yomdlavuza. Muva nje sibuyekeze imininingwane ye-MtF, enesifo se-androgen futhi, empeleni, banezifo eziphansi kakhulu zomdlavuza wendlala kanye nokuvama kokucindezeleka kwe-orgasm. ”
Manje njengoba usucubungule kabusha izinganekwane ezithandwayo zokushaya indlwabu, zenzele okwakho, njengoba kwenza le nsizwa: Yiziphi i-nofap ezenzile kimi. Ziphonsele inselelo izinyanga ezimbalwa bese ubona ukuthi uqaphela ini. Ubuchopho nemikhuba yawo wonke umuntu yehlukile. Ekugcineni, yimiphumela elabhorethri yakho okubalulekile kuwe.
Isihlanganisi: Okuhlangenwe nakho Okuchazayo kanye Nezicansi Nezicathulo Zokuxubana Phakathi Kokubambisana Kwama-Adult Romantic
Kusuka esifundweni: “Imvamisa yokuzijabulisa kanye nokuthokoza [kuhambisana] ngokuhle nemisebenzi ehlukaniswa ngokocansi, kodwa kungabi namabomu ocansini kuphela. ” Ngamanye amagama, lapho umuntu eshaya indlwabu ngokwengeziwe, kulapho ethokozela kakhulu ukuxhumana naye ngothando. Akumangalisi ukuthi abasebenzisi abaningi be-porn bangaphambili babika ukuthi ukugonwa kuya ngokuya kujabulisa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Isihlanganisi: Ukuhlukaniswa Kwezenhlalakahle, Ezingokomzwelo Nezihlobo Ezingxenyeni Zokuhlaziya Ngokushaya Indlwabu Phakathi Kwabancane Abasha
Ukushaya indlwabu kuyanda. Ukushaya indlwabu ngaphezulu ngokungajabuli okukhulu. Injabulo eyengeziwe ebuhlotsheni obuhlobene nokushaya indlwabu encane. Futhi ukumangala okukhulu (ukuphazamiseka lapha), uma abantu benomlingani ocansini abaningi, bavame ukushaya indlwabu kancane. Okucaphuno:
Kukhona… isizathu sokukholelwa ukuthi imvamisa yokushaya indlwabu phakathi kwabantu abadala iyakhula.
Yingakho: idatha ye-NHSLS iphawula ukuthi amaphesenti angu-29 wamadoda aneminyaka engu-18-24 abike ukuthi ukushaya indlwabu okungenani kanye ngesonto.
I-NFSS, okwamanje, ithola ukuthi amaphesenti angu-35 wamadoda amadala ase-18-24 abika ukuthi anesifo sokushaya indlwabu ngosuku olwedlule-kungaba namuhla noma izolo. Uma kunwetshiwe ukufaka phakathi kwezinsuku eziyisithupha ezedlule, leso sibalo senyukela kuma-68 amaphesenti.
Yize izinyathelo ezingafani ngokuqondile nokuzijabulisa komphakathi kungenzeka ukuthi zinciphise abanye eminyakeni edlule ye-20-kodwa akusikisela nje ukuthi uphuthumayo nje ngokushaya indlwabu kodwa kunalokho kungase kuqhubekele emisebenzini phakathi kwabantu.
Okunye okufanayo kwenzeka nakwabesifazane.
Nakuba amaphesenti ayisishiyagalolunye ama-18-24 aneminyaka engu-50 ubudala abika ukuthi ukushaya indlwabu ngesilinganiso esisodwa ngeviki ku-1992 NHSLS, Isonto elidlule le-masturbation libikwe ngamaphesenti angu-36 wabesifazane abaneminyaka efanayo ku-NFSS. Ngokuqinisekile, ingxenye ethile yalokhu ingase ibe ngenxa yokwandisa induduzo ekuvumeni ukushaya indlwabu, kodwa ukuphakamisa ukuthi ukwanda kwe-300-amaphesenti kungenxa yokuthi kulula ukuvunyelwa kubonakala kungenakwenzeka, ikakhulukazi unikeze ubudlelwane obuqinile bezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ezikhona manje ezisetshenziselwa ukubhekwa kwamatafula. Ku-1992, kwakungekho neze izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ezise-intanethi. Ngenkathi ama-fide adinga ukuthi ukushaya indlwabu kungene eminyakeni engama-20, ukugqugquzela kwezobuchwepheshe nokukhuthazwa kwezenhlalakahle ngokwezinga lomnotho kuye kwanda.
Isiphetho
Njengoba kunikezwe izinhlangano ezingezansi ezibhalwe lapha nakwezinye izindawo phakathi kokushaya indlwabu kanye nenhlalakahle ngokomzwelo nangokomzwelo, ubufakazi bokuthi ukushaya indlwabu ngokuphindaphindiwe (kunokuba kunezikhathi ezithile) kufanele kusenze sibe isikhashana. Nakuba ukushaya indlwabu kungabonakali izingozi zomphakathi ezibonakalayo, akuvezi izinzuzo ezithandwa ngokomzwelo nangokwenyama, futhi kungenzeka ukuthi zikhishwe izindleko.
... Ngempela, ukukhushulwa kobulili bezithombe zobulili ezingcolile kanye nokushaya indlwabu-kokubili okusobala ku-NFSS-kuyaqaphela ukuthi akugcini nje njengamaqiniso omphakathi wekhulu le-21st kodwa njengezinselelo ezintsha zokukhula komuntu.
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Isihlanganisi: Izimo zengqondo ezithintekayo ekufisweni kobulili, umsebenzi wobulili, nokwaneliseka ngokocansi: Umbono wezinkampani eziningi. Umbhalo:
(a) ababambiqhaza abanesifiso sokwenza ucansi nge-dyadic [ehlukanisiwe] kanye nokwenza umsebenzi babeneliseka kakhulu ngokocansi, babonisa ukusebenza kahle kwengqondo, futhi babonakala ngokulingana phakathi kokuthambekela kokugqugquzela ukufuna imivuzo emihle namakhono okuzithiba (indlela ephezulu yokugqugquzela, okunamathiselwe okuphephile , ukuzithiba okuphezulu, ukucabanga okuphezulu); (b) ababambiqhaza abanesifiso esikhulu sobulili se-dyadic nesisodwa nomsebenzi weneliseka ngokulingene futhi bakhombisa uhlobo lokusebenza kwengqondo okubonakala kakhulu ngokungafisi (isisusa esiphakeme kakhulu sokuthola imivuzo kwabesifazane, nokuzithiba okuphansi emadodeni); (c) ababambiqhaza abanesifiso sobulili obuphansi kanye nomsebenzi ababenelisekile kancane kwezocansi futhi babonakala ngezisusa eziphakeme zokugwema imiphumela emibi nokuzithiba okuphansi (isisusa esikhulu sokugwema, okunamathiselwe okungavikelekile, nokungacabangi kahle).
Ekugcineni, kulabo abanentshisekelo, Izifundo ekuqhekekeni phakathi kobulili nezidakamizwa ebuchosheni
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