Ungase uzibuze, 'kungani ngilutheka ngenkathi abangane bami bengekho'? Ubuchopho babantu buhlukile.
Zombili izakhi zofuzo kanye nemvelo kungathonya indlela abantu abasabela ngayo ekuphatheni okudakayo nezinto. Isibonelo, labo abakhule ixhunyiwe ngokuvikelekile kubanakekeli babo abacindezelwa kancane. Labo abangazange bajabule kakhulu, kanti olunye ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuthi basengozini yokuthola isikhumba. Ngokufanayo, izithombe zakho ezingcolile zobulili-usebenzisa abangane nabalingani zivikelekile ngokumelene nomlutha ngenxa yalokho izinzuzo zokuthinta nokuxhumana. Ungaba sengozini enkulu ngenkathi uwedwa. Ukushaya indlwabu akukuqedi ukucindezeleka kanye nobulili.
Izinguqulo zokudla kanye nobulili ezivelele namuhla zibonakala zibeka engozini enkulu kithi. Ngokwesibonelo, amaphesenti ayisikhombisa nesishiyagalolunye Abantu baseMelika (futhi ngisho nangamanye amazwe amaningi) banamandla kakhulu. Akungabazeki ukuthi ukucindezeleka kwengane kwabenza bonke bahlukunyezwe. Ukudla okunamafutha amaningi kakhulu ngokwayo unomphumela onjengezidakamizwa ebuchosheni. Linciphisa ukuzwela ekujabuliseni futhi kukhuthaza ukuzitika ngokweqile. Ukusetshenziswa kwakho kwe-porn kungenzeka ukuthi kwakunomthelela ofanayo, wokusebenzisa izidakamizwa ebuchosheni bakho, okubangela ukuba uzibophezele kuze kube seqophelweni lokuba nemiphumela emibi. Bona Ividiyo yakho ye-Brain On Porn.
Njengase-2016, eduze no-30% wamadoda abasebenzisa i-porn izinkinga zokubika, noma ukuhlolwa njengezinkinga. (Esokuqala salezi zifundo ezimbili sibuye sabika ukuthi uhhafu wabasebenzisi be-porn sebekhule baba yizinto abake bazithola “zingathandeki” noma “zinengeka.” Ukusakaza izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ngaleyo ndlela kubonakala kuguqula ubuchopho bomsebenzisi oyedwa kwababili ngezindlela ezingenampilo. , niyabo Izifundo ukuxhumanisa ukusetshenziswa kobulili noma ukubheja kocansi / ucansi ocansini, okuphansi ukukhushulwa kobuchopho ekusebenzisaneni ngokobulili, nokwaneliseka kocansi.)
Kungani ngilutheka ngenkathi abangane bami bengekho? Enye into okufanele uyikhumbule ukuthi mahhala, ukusakaza i-porn ye-Intanethi kutholakala kuphela kubasebenzisi abaningi iminyaka eyishumi, futhi amavidiyo we-porn akhule ngokwedlulele ngokwedlulele (ashukumisayo). Ububanzi nezinga lezinto ezishukumisayo, nemiphumela ibonakala iyanda kubasebenzisi abaningi. Abathakathi bekhompyutha abathole umkhawulokudonsa owandayo kuqala babephakathi kwabokuqala ukukhombisa imiphumela emibi. Manje abafana abaqale ngejubane eliphezulu bakhombisa izinkinga. Futhi, abantu abasebenzisa izinto ezeqisa ngokwedlulele bathambekele ekukhuphukeni ngokuqhubekayo, bekhulisa izinzwa zabo ngokuqhubekayo. Ngabe i-porn engokoqobo engokoqobo izokwenzani?
Akubona bonke abasebenzisi abanolwazi (noma baqaphele?) Ukuthi yini abayibona njengemiphumela emibi ngemva kwenani elifanayo leminyaka yokusebenzisa i-porn. Abanye baqala izimpawu (noma baqale ukuzithola zingenakubekezelelwa) ngemuva kwalokho. Ungase ube ngumqhubi wesimo sezulu.
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