Age 27 – Relationship improved a lot. Sex is better. Insanely productive with my business. Violent fetishes gone.

Yeah so I just passed the 90-day mark. Can’t say it was easy, but it’s definitely achievable if you have strong reasons. I’ve been learning to channel my sexual energy into books, study groups, and spiritual practices. My relationship improved A LOT. I’m so much more present and reliable, and sex is better as well. […]

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Emotion Regulation and Sex Addiction among College Students (2017)

International Journal of Mental Health and Addiction  February 2017 , Volume 15, Issue 1, pp 16–27 Craig S. Cashwell, Amanda L. Giordano, Kelly King, Cody Lankford, Robin K. Henson Abstract For individuals with sexual addiction, sexual behaviors often are the primary means of regulating distressing or undesirable emotion. In this study, we sought to examine differences in aspects of emotion regulation between students in […]

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The Organ of Tactility: Fantasy, Image, and Male Masturbation (2017)

Hamman, Jaco J. Pastoral Psychology (2017): 1-27. Abstract This article explores the interplay of fantasy and image in male solitary masturbation in the virtual age. Online pornography has drastically changed the intimate relationship between the hand and the penis. The case of a 17-year-old boy and his excessive use of Internet pornography is used to […]

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Reduced empathic responses for sexually objectified women: an fMRI investigation (2017)

Cortex  Available online 8 December 2017 https://doi.org/10.1016/j.cortex.2017.11.020 ·  Carlotta Cogonia, b, , , ·  Andrea Carnaghic, ·  Giorgia Silanid, Abstract Sexual objectification is a widespread phenomenon characterized by a focus on the individual´s physical appearance over his/her mental state. This has been associated with negative social consequences, as objectified individuals are judged to be less […]

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Age 20 – I’ve gone from someone who was emotional with anxiety to a driven, confident, unstoppable

The beginning half of my sophomore year in college was a shit show. I can’t remember too many of the specifics but a bunch of things happened to me which put me in a shit place for a while. I had low testosterone; I hadn’t lifted weights in months (I’m currently about to do my […]

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How to Downplay the Harms of Pornography, in 4 Simple Steps (by Jacob Hess, Ph.D.)

Are you – or someone you love – getting tired of all this talk about porn being so harmful? Rather than having to worry about making serious personal or public changes, wouldn’t it be nice to stop worrying about this all together? Thankfully, a small handful of authors have been coming up with some compelling […]

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