(Isiguquleli sikaGoogle) Uninzi lwabafundi ziya kuzazi ngaphakathi Ngaphakathi uthotho malunga nokungakwazi ukubukela amanyala kwaye abanye baya kuzama i-porno ephezulu. Abanye banqwenela ukuba sitsalele ingqalelo kwabafazi ngakumbi.
“Kuhle ukuba ujolise kwabaselula, kodwa ingxaki iyaqondakala kuyo yonke iminyaka. Ndingathanda ukufunda udliwanondlebe noochwephesha bengqondo kunye nabaphandi abaphuhlisa ngakumbi indlela iphonografi kunye nokuphulula amalungu esini ngokunzulu ukwenza ukuzanelisa ngokwoneliseka ngokwesondo- mhlawumbi kunxulunyaniswa nexesha elide lobudlelwane obusondeleyo, obusondeleyo. Inokuthi ibe nakho ukuxhobisa, kodwa inokusebenza njengomqobo xa ngequbuliso ifuna ukuseka ubudlelwane obusondeleyo. Iinkcazo ezininzi ezinokubakho kwiingxaki kubudlelwane bam ziya kutyhilwa ngamanqaku. ”
- uLisa
"Ndizibona ndikwicwecwe langaphakathi kuthotho lwamanyala. Ndiyazibandakanya kwi-porn kwaye emva koko ndifumana ngaphandle kweengxaki, kodwa xa ndilala ngesondo neqabane lam alifuni. Ndizibuze ngesizathu sokungabikho kwam umdla kwisini 'kubomi bokwenyani'. Mhlawumbi andithandani nesithandwa sam? Ngaba ndifanele ndohlukane? Ngoku ndiyaqonda ukuba mhlawumbi oku kungamanyala. Ke ngoku ifumana i-porn ephezulu kwaye ndiza kunika ubudlelwane bethu ithuba lesibini. ”
- A
"Ukufunda okubalulekileyo Amanqaku angaphakathi malunga nokungabi namandla kwezesondo, ngokukhawuleza kwaba kukukhanya kwinto 'engalunganga' kum. Ibali lam lobomi alifani noKalle, umthengi onomdla we-porn ongafumani sithuba kunye neqabane lakhe (DN 5/9). Kodwa ndiyayibona ipatheni. Ndikwinqanaba lobomi elahlukileyo kunaye. Ndingu-50 +, ndinobomi obusebenzayo besini kude kube malunga neminyaka elishumi eyadlulayo. Yiyiphi eya kuqala, ukungabikho kwesondo okanye ukusetyenziswa koononophelo, andazi.
Ndilifundile eli nqaku namhlanje kwaye ndinento eninzi yokucinga ngayo. Kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo ndiyayibona iphethini: ubuninzi be-porn = ukunciphisa amandla kunye neqabane. Ndikwinqanaba apho bendikhe ndayeka ukuphuma kwisini kunye neqabane, njengoko ingakhange isebenze kakuhle kumaxesha ambalwa okugqibela, kwaye ndicinge 'ewe, mdala kakhulu. Ndikulungele ebomini bam, 'kwaye ndaqala ukuhlala noononophala.
Inqaku elingaphakathi lalivule amehlo! Andizange ndicinge ngale nto ngenkqubo yomvuzo. Kwaye ukuphulula amalungu esini kumvuzo ocacileyo! Ngaphezu kokutya, ndicinga ukuba… Ngoku kufuneka ndiphinde ndijonge imeko yobomi bam nento endiyenzayo. ”
-H
"Ndiyavuma ukuba uninzi lolonwabo olujikeleze isondo luyanyamalala kodwa andicingi ukuba lusebenza kuphela kubantu abatya iphonografi. Ndiziva ngathi kunjalo ndiyanelisa yonke i-sexskildringar kwimidiya, kubandakanya iintengiso zempahla kunye nomculo, kunye neenkqubo ezahlukeneyo zolwazi malunga nokwabelana ngesondo. Hayi akusemnandi. ”
Mhlawumbi isexual
“Kumnandi ukuba iphonografi iyenzakaliswa. Into endiyibethileyo yinqaku elingaphakathi, nangona kunjalo, yayikukuba yayijolise kuphela kwindlela iphonografi eyenzakalisa ngayo amadoda, amadoda angabinamandla ukuba abukele iphonografi kakhulu, amadoda angadubuli iintombi zawo njalo njalo. Amadoda angamahlwempu ekufuneka achaze abasetyhini ukuba bavuseleleke ngokwesondo!
Kuthekani ngokuthathela ingqalelo kumawaka amanina amanina angamaxhoba eshishini le-porn minyaka le? Njengokudlwengulwa, ukuxhaphazwa kunye nokunyanzelwa ukuba usebenze kwiimeko ezothusayo? Njengomonakalo ngexesha lokurekhodwa kwaye ubomi bakhe buye bawonakaliswe?
Njani malunga nokuthathela ingqalelo isini sabasetyhini esichaphazeleke ngokungathethekiyo luluntu lwe-porn? Abafazi bachaswa rhoqo, kwaye umzimba wabasetyhini uyagula ngokwesondo kwinkcubeko yethu. Iluchaphazela njani ibhinqa kwisoka elinamakhoboka eziyobisi elingamfuniyo umntu xa exoka?
Enkosi kwintengiso ye-porn kunye nesini, bobabini abesilisa nabasetyhini umfanekiso ogulayo wendlela umzimba wabasetyhini ofanele ukujongeka ngayo, kunye nokuba isini kufuneka siye njani (kwimeko yabasetyhini, ukuzithoba, njl.). Imizamo yokuchonga iingxaki kunye nokuthathela ingqalelo oku kwixesha elizayo. ”
-Amadoda 1990
"Ngoku ndiwafundile amanqaku malunga ne-porn endicinga ukuba yabelwe ngokufanelekileyo. Kodwa ndafumana isimo sokugxeka kubafana abaselula endingasiqondiyo. Kancinci 'njengesiqhelo sokuziphatha' kwiminyaka yama-XNUMX. Kwaye kutheni ungalwandisi uhlalutyo ubandakanye isini? ”
- Mats
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