Ibonisa njani ukuba i-Porn iyayibulala iDrive yakho
(Cómo le pornografía yenze ukuba ube yi-libido: i-anorexia yesondo)
I-vixens ezikwi-Intanethi inokuphakamisa iflegi yakho kodwa inokukushiya kwisiqingatha semitha kunye nenenekazi lenene.
Amadoda amaninzi kwii-20 zawo ezaqala ukubukela i-porn besebancinci (kwangoko njenge-14) kwaye ngoku zisebenzisa i-porn mihla le zinesifo esisezantsi okanye nokuba azifumani nto, ngokutsho kwengxelo ye-wire kwiNtaliyane yase-Andrology kunye noNyango lwezoSondo. Uvavanyo lwamadoda e-28,000.
Ngokwinkonzo ye-wire yase-Italiya i-ANSA, abaphandi bade banikeza igama le meko: i-anorexia yesondo.
Oku akumangalisi uMarnia Robinson kunye noMyeni wakhe uGary Wilson, ababhali be Umkhombe we-Cupid ofakwe ityhefu: Ukusuka kwizinto eziHarmony eHarmony kubudlelwane bezesondo.
Esi sibini siwuphawule umkhuba xa abafana abanengxaki yokufumana ii-libidos ezisezantsi baqhubeka nokubonisa kwiwebhusayithi ababebalekele kuyo. Kungekudala uWilson wayila iwebhusayithi yourbrainonporn.com kwaye ibone "amakhulu namakhulu" eentambo zeeforum ezivela kwi-25 eyahlukeneyo apho abafana bonke babenempawu ezifanayo.
URobinson uthi: “Kukho abafana abancinci abakhulele kwi-Intanethi ngesantya esiphezulu. “Ngoku olu phando luhambelana nento esele siyibona kangangeminyaka-yokuba aba bantu baneempawu zokulutha. Iingcaphephe zazibaxelela, 'Thatha iViagra' kunye 'Ninexhala lokusebenza kuphela.' Ewe, ngokuqinisekileyo awunangxaki yokusebenza kwakho. ”
Nangona benqabile, ubungqina babo buxhaswe yi-American Society of Addiction Medicine yenkcazo entsha yokulutha, epapashwe ngo-Epreli. Ichaza ukuba yonke indlela yokuziphatha enomvuzo, hayi nje izinto, inokuba ngumlutha kubandakanya "imisebenzi yesini."
UDavid Smith, MD, owayesakuba ngumongameli weAmerican Society of Addiction Medicine kunye nomnxibelelanisi Ungayichazi ubuchopho bakho. "Ubungqina bubonisa ukuba unokuba likhoboka le-dopamine kwaye kuba indlela yokuziphatha njenge-porn, ukutya, kunye nokukhulula i-squirts ye-dopamine inokukhokelela kumakhoboka. Kungenxa yoko le nto bequkiwe kwinkcazo entsha ”
I-Intanethi ivumela ukufikelela kwangoko kwi-porn, ethi icinezele iingqondo kolo hlobo lwezinto ezibonakalayo ezibonakalayo, utsho uWilson. Intsha okanye inoveli ye-porn jacks ukukhutshwa kwe-dopamine kodwa ekugqibeleni kungakhokelela kukungakwazi ukuphulula amalungu esini ngaphandle kwayo, utshilo.
“Ke bathi nje ukuba bangene kwigumbi lokulala nentombazana yokwenene kwaye izibane zicinyiwe, abanakufumana umbono okhuthazayo abawudingayo kwaye abanakukwazi ukukuphakamisa,” utshilo uRobinson.
Ungakhathazeki nangona kunjalo, iingcali zethu ziyaxinzelela. Nangona i-87 ipesenti yamadoda abukela iphonografi phakathi kunyaka ophelileyo, ipesenti elincinci kuphela labantu eliwela umgca kwi-addiction. Njengawo nawuphi na umsebenzi, kufuneka ulumke xa unengxaki yokuma nangona uneziphumo ezibi.
Ukuba uyazi ukuba ungumntu kwi-anorexic yesondo yokwenyani, yeka ukungcola okubandayo, uWilson uyacebisa. "Kubantu abadala sibona ukuba kuthatha malunga neeveki ze-8 ukuba uphinde," utshilo uWilson. "Kodwa kubafana abancinci, abafana abakwi-20 yabo abakhulele kwi-Intanethi ngesantya esiphezulu, kuthatha i-3 ukuya kwiinyanga ze4 kuba bengazidibanisanga namantombazana okwenyani kwaye babambe ngokwenene xa bebancinci."
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