Andizange ndiphulule amalungu entsapho / ndizenzele i-porn ngeentsuku ze-367. Kude kube ngunyaka odlulileyo, ndizamile amaxesha amaninzi ukuba ndiyeke kwaye ndiqhubeke ndisilela, de ndancama, ndakhubeka kule webhusayithi ndazama kwakhona. Emva kokuhamba unyaka ngaphandle kwe-PO, ndishwankathele amava am kunye nenkqubo yokuqalisa kwakhona Amanyathelo Angundoqo amathandathu.
Ngokusisiseko le "yindlela endenze ngayo":
***Izibhengezo ezingezizo***
- Ukusebenzisa le sayithi kundenze ndaqonda ukuba wonke umntu wahlukile kwaye uneenjongo ezahlukeneyo. Esi sicwangciso sisebenze kum kwaye sinokungasebenzi kumntu wonke, okanye nabani na, omnye umntu.
- Andikwazi ukuthetha ukuba ndine-PIED okanye i-ED, ngoko ke ukuba uyeka i-porn kwaye ufumana i-PIED, unokungafumani oku kuncedo kakhulu. Kubonakala ngathi abasebenzisi be-porn abane-ED ngamanye amaxesha bafuna iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuqalisa ngokutsha, kwaye bahlala befuna ukuyeka i-MO (jonga i-disclaimer elandelayo). Ke oku kusenokungabi (okanye kuse) kube luncedo kuwe (uxolo)
- Ukuphulula amalungu esini kwi-rebooters ngumbandela ochukumisayo. Ndikwinkampu ye-MO, ngoko ke isicwangciso sam siyayivumela i-MO ekugqibeleni. KODWA phawula kwisicwangciso, ndicinga ukuba ukuyeka i-MO ubuncinane okwethutyana ekuqaleni kubaluleke kakhulu ukuyeka i-porn. Ukuba uqinile kwinkampu echasene ne-MO, unokungafumani oku kuluncedo.
- Ndandingatshatanga xa ndandiqala ukuqalisa kwakhona. Ukuba uthandana, oku kunokwenza izinto zibe nzima. Ukwabelana ngesondo kunokubangela. Isicwangciso sam sishiya isondo kunye ne-MO ubuncinane inyanga kwaye ngokukhawuleza ubuncinane kwiinyanga ze-3. Ukuba awukwazi ukunyaniseka kwiqabane lakho malunga nokuqalisa kwakhona kwaye ubambe / unciphise isondo ubuncinane kwiinyanga ze-3 (okanye ixesha elide lithatha), unokungafumani oku luncedo (uxolo, kwakhona).
- Ke, esi sicwangciso sinokungabi sesakho ukuba ufumana i-PIED okanye i-ED, kunye / okanye ufuna ukuyeka i-MO. Kodwa ukuba uziva ungenamandla okanye ulikhoboka le-porn kwaye ufuna ukuyeka ukubukela kunye nokukhwela kuyo, ndicinga ukuba ungayifumana le nto iluncedo. Yiloo nto endandifuna ukuyenza kwaye yile nto yandisebenzelayo.
inyathelo 1 - Sika nayiphi na kunye YONKE imisebenzi yezesondo: Uza kuba yi-asexual kude kube nesaziso esongezelelweyo: Akukho ngesondo, ungacingi ngesondo, ungacingi malunga nokungacingi ngesondo, akukho ukudlala ngothando, ukuphulula amaphambili, ukucinga, ukukhanukela, akukho kuhlola iiesile zamantombazana (okanye abafana). , akajongi amabele akhe, akukho siseko sesibini, akukho siseko sesithathu. Akukho nto. UBANI, njengokuba kubudlelwane bokwenene nomnye umntu, kuyakhuthazwa kamva, KODWA kungekhona ngenyanga yokuqala. Ufanele ulumke ukuba isondo sokwenyani asikho into ebangela wena (jonga inyathelo elilandelayo). Inokukunceda ukuhlala phantsi kunye ne-gf okanye i-bf yakho, inkosikazi okanye umyeni, i-fb kwaye wabelane nabo ngeenjongo zakho zokuqalisa ngokutsha kunye nendlela akuyi kubakho sini okwethutyana. Ngethemba banokuqonda.
Inyathelo lesi-2-Ziphephe izinto ezinokubangela: Awukwazi ukuphumeza inyathelo lokuqala ngaphandle kokuphepha izinto ezibangelayo. Ndabhala a thumela malunga nezinto ezibangelayo ngaphambili ekuqaliseni kwam kwakhona. Ndabhala uluhlu lwazo ZONKE izinto ezinokuthi zindenze ndifune isondo. Ngenene kufuneka ucinge ngaphandle kwebhokisi kule. Akunjalo nje izinto ezikhokelela ngqo ekusebenziseni i-porn. Ezi zinokuba zizinto ezincinci onokuthi ungacingi ngazo, njengemiboniso yeTV okanye iimeko ezithile zentlalo, njengokuba wedwa. Ezi zinto zibangela ukwanda kwamandla esondo imini yonke. Zibhale, uze uziphephe. Ingqikelelo yokuba phantse zonke iziqendu zokubukela iphonografi ziqala ngezinto ezibangelayo, ezakha ngokuhamba kwexesha kwaye zikhulule ngokusetyenziswa koonografi. Kwaye kulula ukuyekisa i-trigger phakathi kwesenzo (ukutshintsha itshaneli okanye ukuphuma ku-facebook) kunokumisa eyona nto uyiyo ngokwenene. Funda oku.
inyathelo 3 - Ukwabelana ngesondo kunye nokuLawulwa kokuphulula amaphambili: Mhlawumbi elona nyathelo liyimpikiswano. Uluvo lwam malunga ne-MO kukuba kunokwenzeka kwi-MO ngexesha lokuqalisa kwakhona kwaye ushiye iphonografi (ndiyenzile), okoko nje kwenziwa ngendlela elawulwa kakhulu. Ngokusisiseko, kufuneka ibe licebo lokugqibela, elikhutshiweyo kwiphonografi kunye nentelekelelo, kwaye yenziwe kancinci kakhulu. Nantsi imigaqo endiyilandelayo
- Hayi MO (okanye ngesondo) kwinyanga yokuqala ubuncinane (ubuncinane obuncinane). Udinga le nyanga ukucoca isileyiti. Ukuba awukwazi ukwenza ixesha elide kangaka, ungakhathazeki.
- Xa uya MO: Soloko uhamba ixesha elide kangangoko unako ngaphandle kokuphulula amaphambili. Ukuphulula amalungu esini kufuneka kuhlale kuyindlela yokugqibela xa ungakwazi ukuhamba ngolunye usuku ngaphandle kwe-orgasm
- Uyenza njani MO: Suka efowunini/ikhompyuter/i-tv (lala ebhedini, hlamba, njalo njalo) –> Musa ukucinga, endaweni yoko. ngokufutshane cinga (balisa) iimeko zokwenyani onazo okanye onokuba nazo -> cum ngokukhawuleza. Musa ukuyitsalela ngaphandle le.
- Emva kwe-MO: Kubalulekile ukuseta kwakhona ngengqondo akukho MO Count. Ubuyele ku-0 kwaye kufuneka ulinde ixesha elide njengoko unako ngaphambi kwe-MO yakho elandelayo. Ukuba awukwenzi oku, uzibeka emngciphekweni wokutyibilika ubuyele kwi-MO eqhelekileyo, engalawulwayo, eya kubangela i-PO. Ke hlala ucinga ngenkuthalo malunga nokuba uphepha i-MO!
- Sukucwangcisa ii-MOs: Ishedyuli ikhokelela kulindelo olusisiqalo
- Mda MO hayi ngaphezulu kwesihlandlo esinye ngeveki: Akufunekanga ube MOing ngaphezu kanye ngeveki. Kuya kufuneka ukwazi ukuhamba ixesha elide kunale ngaphambi kokuba uhambe. Ndisebenzise oku njengesikhokelo sokuqinisekisa ukuba ndihamba ixesha elide kangangoko ndinako ngaphambi kwe-MOing
Ke, umbono olapha kukuba kwabanye abafana, njengam, ukungenzi i-orgassing iinyanga ezininzi akunakucingelwa (andizange ndibe nephupha elimanzi). Ngokuqinisekileyo ndiya kusilela ukuba ndizamile (kwaye ndinamaxesha amaninzi). Ke ukuba kufuneka ngenene, yenze ngendlela ekhutshiweyo kwiphonografi kunye nentelekelelo, kwaye yenziwe kuphela njengesiqabu ngokukhawuleza. Ndimi ngale ndlela kuba indisebenzele ngokundivumela ukuba ndenze amandla okwabelana ngesondo kwaye emva koko ndiyikhulule ... hayi i-porn. Ndaziva ndiqeqesha ingqondo yam ukuba idibanise ukukhululeka ngokwesondo kunye nento engeyiyo i-porn. I-SEX: Ukuba unokuba neentlobano zesini zokwenyani, ezikhuselekileyo nomntu endaweni yoko, oko kungcono, kodwa ndicebisa ukuba ube neentlobano zesini emva kobuncinci inyanga enye kwaye kuphela xa uthe wakha amandla.
Isinyathelo 4 - Kancinci ubuyela ekuziphatheni okunempilo ngokwesondo: Emva kweenyanga ezi-3 (kum, mhlawumbi ezinde kwabanye) zokungabi nasondo kunye ne-masturbation, ndaqala ngokukhawuleza ukubuyela kwiprogram ehleliweyo, ngaphandle kwe-porn. Ndicebisa ukuba ubhale uluhlu lweentlobo zokuziphatha ngokwesondo okunempilo okulungeleyo (okt ukwabelana ngesondo neqabane, ukudlala ngothando okanye mo). Emva koko wongeze ebomini bakho. Usanqanda izinto ezibangelayo okwangoku, kodwa uvumela wena ukuba ube namava okuziphatha okunempilo ngokwesondo. Qala ngokwenza oko kuphela (ukwakha loo mandla esondo). Kum, emva kweenyanga ezimbalwa zoku, ngokuthe ngcembe ndabuyela kumsebenzi oqhelekileyo wesiqhelo. Ngeli nqanaba ezi ziphatha ziye zanelisa ngakumbi kune-porn. KHUMBULA ezo zixhokonxayo nangona kunjalo.
Isinyathelo 5 - Melana nenyani: Iphonografi bubuxoki. Njengoko uqala ukunqanda i-porn kunye nokwamkela isondo esinempilo, ingqondo yakho inokuphoxeka. I-gf yakho okanye i-bf ayikho imodeli ye-porn eneenwele ezigqibeleleyo, i-boobs, i-abs kunye ne-make up; awunalungelo lokwabelana ngesondo; awukwazi ukwabelana ngesondo nanini na kunye nabani na ofuna; abanye abantu abakho kuwe; awukwazi uku-odola iqabane ngesondo njenge-cheeseburger; kwaye ubomi abudlali njengeengcinga zakho zesini ezijijekileyo. Jongane ne. Ngexesha lokuqalisa kwam kwakhona, mna (kunye nengqondo yam) kwafuneka ndizamkele ngononophelo ezi zibakala zibandayo, ezinzima zobomi. Ubomi bokwenyani abuyiyo iphonografi, kwaye iphonografi ayibobomi bokwenyani.
inyathelo 6 - Thatha into entsha yokuzonwabisa: Khetha into oyithandayo, nayiphi na into oyithandayo. Kodwa qiniseka ukuba yinto entsha, into ongazange uyenze ngaphambili. Kum ibiyinkqubo entsha yeentsuku ezingama-30 yokomelela. Oku kukuvumela ukuba uthathe amandla ongezelelweyo owagcinayo ekubeni yi-asexual (eqhula, kodwa enzulu) kwaye uyibeke kwenye into ngaphandle kosizi kunye nokukhathazeka. Usika umkhwa omdala kwaye ubeke endaweni yawo ngesakhono esitsha. Ndicinga ukuba iyanceda ukuba le nto intsha yokuzonwabisa inomhla wokugqibela okanye umhla wokuphela (njengenkqubo yokomelela okanye iprojekthi yobugcisa). Qiniseka nje ukuba iyaxhobisa kwaye iyaphakamisa kwaye hayi into ekhathazayo enokuthi ekugqibeleni ibe sisiqhushumbisi.
Ngoko yiloo nto eyandisebenzelayo: ukuvala umsebenzi wesondo, ukuphepha izinto ezibangela, ukulawulwa kwe-masturbation / ukwakha kunye nokukhulula amandla, ukubuyela ngokukhawuleza kwisondo, ukujamelana nokuthatha umsebenzi wokuzilibazisa. Kwakhona oku kunokungasebenzeli wonke umntu, kodwa isebenze kum kwaye ihambelana nezinye zezinto endizibonileyo apha kunye neYBOP. Ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba ufumene oku kuluncedo, kwaye ndingathanda ukufunda ibali lakho lempumelelo kwiintsuku ezingama-367 ukusuka ngoku.
I-BONUS TIP: Zilumkele ii-substitutes: Kum, ukusika iphonografi kwakhupha umnqweno onamandla wokubandakanyeka kwezinye izinto ezingafanelekanga (ngokwesondo). Oku kunokwenzeka kuwe. Ndicebisa ukuba uyazi malunga nayo. Ukuba uthambekele ekuzibandakanyeni kwezinye iindlela zokuziphatha ezingafanelekanga ezifana nokusebenzisa iziyobisi, ukutshaya, ukusela, ukulala ngesondo nabantu ongabaziyo, njl njl. qiniseka ukuba awunyusi ezi ziphatha njengendlela yokuthatha indawo ye-porn.
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Re: TJ3-Ubuchopho bam kwiPorn: Ijenali
Ndaqala ukuQalisa kwakhona ngo-Oct. 29. Ndisacinga ukuba kuthetha ukuthini, kum. Njengoko benditshilo kwintshayelelo yam, ndiceba ukuyijonga le nto njengoko ndihamba. Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, kwezi ntsuku zimbini zidlulileyo ndinamacebiso ambalwa endizibhalele wona:
Ulwazi lunamandla: Kukho umlo oqhubekayo ebuchotsheni bethu phakathi kweendlela zesekethe eziphendula i-dopamine kunye neesekethe eziphendula kwingqiqo. Enye yeyokungxama kwaye inethuku kwaye enye inengqondo kwaye isengqiqweni. I-Dopamine ifutha isekethe engxamisekileyo apho ulwazi lubasa isekethe enengqiqo. Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku uMkhosi weDopamine ulawula umzimba wakho kwaye unomkhosi owomeleleyo. Lixesha lokwakha umkhosi wolwazi kwaye wenze buthathaka umkhosi we-dopamine. Ivakala ilula, kodwa kulula ukuba semlilweni kwiVeki yoku-1 kwaye ngandlel' ithile uphulukane nolo thando emva koko kwaye ungene kumkhwa ombi kwakhona.
Oko kundizisa kwelandelayo:
Hlala unolwazi NGEMIHLA: Ndicinga ukuba ukuzifundisa ngalo mba kubalulekile. Ndiye ndafunda kwinqaku elinye okanye amabini malunga nokuba likhoboka lephonografi / ukuqalisa kwakhona ngosuku, kodwa zama ukungazoyiki. Ndiyoyika ukuba ukuba ndiyayeka, ndiza kuphulukana nenzondelelo, ndiwenze buthathaka uMkhosi wam woLwazi kwaye ndinike amandla angakumbi kwiqela leDopamine.
Yilumkele into oyityayo: Ndabona ukuba ukuyeka i-porn kufana nokutya. Injongo kukusika izinto ezimbi kwaye ubuyele kwindalo, ukutya okuphilayo. Kanye njengokutya ukutya, kufuneka uhlale unesazela malunga nento oyifakayo emzimbeni wakho-LONKE-ekumele ingaze iphele. Okukhona ufunda malunga nesondlo, kokukhona utya i-junk ngaphandle kwengqondo. Uyayiqaphela imiphumo yokutya okungafanelekanga yaye oko kudla ngokwaneleyo ukukuyekisa ukukwenza. Kuyafana nangamanyala, Nangona le yinkqubo-"utshintsho lwendlela yokuphila"-ethatha ixesha.
Hlala ucinga njalo malunga nokulutha kwakho iphonografi: Nokuba awujonganga nesilingo. Musa ukulinda de irhamncwa libe sebusweni bakho phambi kokuba uqalise ukucinga ngendlela yokulwa nalo. Soloko uqeqesha loo Mkhosi woLwazi ukuba ugxothe uMkhosi weDope.
Qaphela kwaye uphephe zonke izinto ezibangela: Oku kuquka ukuphulula amalungu esini. Nangona injongo yam ingekokuyeka i-MOing, ndicinga ukuba iyimfuneko ngexesha lokuqalisa kwakhona. I-masturbation kunye ne-porn ihamba kunye njenge-bacon kunye namaqanda, ityuwa kunye neetshiphusi. Ngokuqinisekileyo omnye uya kukhokelela kwenye, de ulahlekelwe yincasa enye. Izinto ezibangela ulwaphulo-mthetho zingamanduleli wolona lwaphulo-mthetho. Kulula ukuziphepha kuneyona nto ikhoyo. Izinto ezibangela ukuba zicace gca “njengokulandela uFacebook” abahlobo beefoto zabahlobo okanye ndizivumele ukuba ndikruquke.
Cinga ngeengcinga zakho Xa udibana ne-trigger, chaza ngokucacileyo okwenzekayo kunye nendlela ofuna ukuphendula ngayo. Chaza ngononophelo iziphumo ezinokubakho zokuphendula kwisiqhushumbisi ngokuchasene nokungazihoyi. Zama ukuba neenkcukacha ngokweemvakalelo njengoko kunokwenzeka ngenxa yokuba ingqondo iphendula iimvakalelo kunye namava angcono. “Ndiziva ___ ngoku. Ndifuna uku ___. Kodwa ukuba ndenza njalo, ndiya kuziva_. Ukuba andiyenzi, ndiza kuziva___. Ngoko ke ndiza kukhetha uku-___”
Ijenali yonke imihla: Oku kundigcina ndinoxanduva kwaye ndibandakanyeka kuluntu. Kwakhona kwenza kube nzima kum ukuba ndixoke kum nakwabanye ngenkqubela yam. Ndikwafumana ulwazi oluninzi eluntwini.
Musa ukoyika ukuphulula amalungu esini: Ndiyayisika i-MOing ngezizathu ezingentla, kodwa ndiyifumana inzima kakhulu ukuyenza. Ndimele ndikhumbule ukuba injongo kukuphelisa i-PMO ekugqibeleni, kwaye i-MOing ayiyokusilela. Andikayi MO'ed okwangoku kwaye andicwangcisi de ndiqalise kwakhona, kodwa andiyi kumangaliswa xa ndiphinda ndityibilika kwi-TBH. Kwaye ukuba ndiyenzile, kuya kufuneka ndiqiniseke ukuba yiloo nto-MO, hayi i-PMO okanye i-FMO (intelekelelo), nantoni na engavumeli uMkhosi weDopamine ucinge ukuba uphumelele idabi.
Guys, ndiyathemba ukuba oku kuyasebenza... Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, kuhle kakhulu. I-moody encinci kwaye ikhathazekile, kodwa siza kubona. Hla umamele…
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