Imifanekiso engamanyala kubudlelwane sele ingumba ixesha elide. Nanamhlanje, iingcebiso zobungcali ngendlela yokulawula ukusetyenziswa kwamanyala zisalahluka kakhulu. Ndikhe ndaya kwindibano enye kwinkomfa yonyango etshatileyo eyacebisa ukuba yamkele nje ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn, ngakumbi ngamadoda, njengendalo kwaye engenabungozi. Ngelixa oku kunokuba ngumbono ogqithileyo, uninzi lweeklinikhi lucebisile ukuba isibini esisebenzisa iphonografi njengesikhuthazo sobudlelwane, okanye ukuba bobabini bayavuma ukufunda okanye ukujonga izinto ezingamanyala kunye, ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn kulungile. Ngapha koko, iingcali ezininzi ziye zacinga ukuba kunokuba njalo Nyusa ulwalamano nolwalamano olusondeleyo. Ekukhutsheni ikhaya leBantwana nabazali abatsha, ekuqaleni sithathe le mbono ekubeni uphando lwethu lubonise ukuba, emva kokuba umntwana efike, ubudlelwane obusondeleyo ubudlelwane obusondeleyo buye buthathwe kunye nemilinganiselo efunekayo ukuze kuqiniswe uxhulumano olusondeleyo lwezesondo.
Kutshanje, nangona kunjalo, uphando malunga nemiphumo yokusetyenziswa kweentlotiki, ingakumbi umntu omnye uhlala ejonga imifanekiso engamanyala e-intanethi, ibonisa ukuba ukugqithisa ubulili obungabonakalisa ubuhlobo bomtshato. Isiphumo sinokuba yinyani, inxalenye, kuba iifoto zoonografi zingabakho "ukuvuselela okungaphezulu" (jonga I-Stimuli engavamile nguDeirdre Barrett). U-Nikko Tinbergen, u-Nobel Prize win of thethology, uchaza ukukhuthazwa okungaphezulu kwezinto ezivakalayo ezivusa ukuphendula okungakumbi kunokuba kunezinto ezibalulekayo. Esinye isiphumo sokuvuselela okungaphezulu kwesimo saso kukuba umdla unomdla kwiimeko eziqhelekileyo. I-Tinbergen yafunda inhlanzi yamadoda ekhuselekileyo eyayiza kuhlasela isiqabane esinobudlova esangena kwintsimi ngexesha lexesha lokukhula. Wadala into enqatyisiweyo kunye nesisu esinomvu, obomvu kakhulu kunentlanzi yendalo. Intlanzi yahlasela ngokukhawuleza ihlekisa kwaye yalahlekelwa ngumdla ekuhlaseleni inkani yayo yindoda. Ngoku ukuvuselela okungaqhelekanga kwenzelwe impendulo, kodwa kungekhona ukuvuselela okuqhelekileyo.
Iifoto zoonografi zinokuba yinto enjalo engavamile. Ngokusetyenziswa kwezithombe ezingamanyala, kuninzi ukuvuselela okuqhelekileyo ekugqibeleni kuyadingeka ukuze kuphunyezwe impendulo ephakamileyo. Ngokwahlukileyo, amanqanaba aqhelekileyo okuvuselela awanalo umdla. Oku kunokwenzeka ukuba ubulili obuqhelekileyo buba mnandi kakhulu kubasebenzisi bezononografi. Idatha isekela esi sigqibo. Enyanisweni, ukusetyenziswa koononografi ngumlingani omnye kubangela ukuba isibini sibe nesondo esincinane kwaye ekugqibeleni kunciphise ukwaneliseka kobudlelwane.
Kukho ezinye izinto ezininzi malunga nokusetyenziswa koonobumba obungasongela ubuhlobo obusondeleyo. Okokuqala, ubudlelwane obusondelene nezibini bubangela uxhumano kunye noqhagamshelwano Phakathi abantu ababini. Kodwa xa umntu omnye ejwayele ukuphulula amaphambili kwi-porno, eneneni bayaphenduka kunxibelelwano olusenyongweni. Okwesibini, xa ubukele iphonografi umsebenzisi ulawula ngokupheleleyo amava ezesondo, ngokuchasene nesini esiqhelekileyo apho abantu babelana ngolawulo neqabane. Yiyo loo nto umsebenzisi we-porn angenza ulindelo olungenakwenzeka lokuba isondo liya kuba phantsi kolawulo lomntu omnye kuphela. Okwesithathu, umsebenzisi we-porn unokulindela ukuba iqabane lakhe liya kuhlala lilungele ukulala (jonga Yiza injengoku aunjalo nguEmily Nagoski). Oku kungenangqondo ngokunjalo. Uphando luye lwabonisa ukuba i-engorgement yesini isenza umnqweno wezocansi kuphela 10% yexesha kubafazi kunye ne-59% yeso sihlandlo kumadoda. Okwesine, abanye abasebenzisi boononophala baqikelela ukuba imifanekiso engamanyala ayifanelekanga ukuba ingabandakanyi izenzo zesondo kunye kunye nendawo inokuthembela kuphela kwi-masturbation. Nangona le nto inokufezekisa i-orgasm ulwalamano lwenjongo yoxhumo olusondeleyo luyaxhalaka kwaye ekugqibeleni lulahlekile.
Okubi nakakhulu, amaninzi amaninzi kwiisayithi zoononophala zibandakanya ubundlobongela kubasetyhini, ukuxhatshazwa koxhumo oluthile. Ukusetyenziswa koonobumba kunokuba ngumlutha wangempela kunye nenkqubo efanayo yobuchopho eyenziwa kwezinye izilingo zokuziphatha, njengokungcakaza (jonga Ubunjani bakho kwiSigonyo nguGary Wilson). Iifoto zoonografi nazo zikhokelela ekunciphiseni ubuhlobo bokwenene kunye nobuhle obuphezulu bezinto ngaphandle kobudlelwano. Amaninzi amaninzi angamanyala anikezela ukunyuka kwesenzo sezesondo ngaphaya nje kokujonga iifoto ezibandakanya ukulala ngesini nabanye abantu. Ekugqibeleni, inkxaso yokusetyenziswa koononophelo igxininisa ishishini elisebenzisa kakubi abadlali abaqeshwe ukudala imifanekiso engamanyala (bona Ubukhosi boLungisa nguChris Hedges).
Siyaqhayisa izikhulu zentengiso ezifana Ixesha lexesha abaye bajoyina intshukumo yokulwa noonografi. Ibali labo elipapashwa ngo-Epreli Iphononongo kunye neNgcongo yokuLungisa ihamba ngokuya kwindlela amadoda anamhlanje akhulela ukubukela iipostile njengabantwana kunye nentsha baqalise intshukumo ngokubhekiselele kuyo, benethemba lokukhanyisa amandla okwenyama ngokwesini ukulimaza abaseMerika.
Ngesishwankathelo, siholelwa ekugqibeleni singaphendulanga ukuba ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi, iifoto zoonografi zibeka ingozi enkulu ekuthandaneni obusondeleyo kunye nolwalamano olufanayo. Lo mzuzu ubiza ingxoxo yoluntu, kwaye sifuna abafundi bethu emhlabeni jikelele ukuba baqonde into ekhoyo.
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