Iingcali zonyango zinokubhidanisa kancinci xa kuziwa ekuhloleni umngcipheko we-porn. Abanye bangasenza sikholelwe ukuba lulutsha kuphela olunobuthathaka bendalo ababa likhoboka, nangona uphando lokulutha lubonisa ukuba ukutyhileka kwangoko kuvuselelo olungaphaya kwesiqhelo, iyodwa, kwandisa umngcipheko wokuba likhoboka. Ukukhangela enye imbono, ndadlan'indlebe nomlobi uGary Wilson, onokuthi athethe kakhulu malunga neengozi ezizodwa ze-intanethi ye-intanethi yanamhlanje kwincwadi yakhe entsha, Ubuchopho Bakho kwi-Porn: Iimifanekiso zoononopasho ze-Intanethi kunye neSayensi eVukayo yoLungiso.
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Ucinga ntoni ngamagqabantshintshi afana ne “Yintoni eyenziwa yiphonografi kwi-Intanethi kumakhwenkwe ethu?” nto leyo egqiba ngelithi umncinci umngcipheko wamakhwenkwe wokuba likhoboka lephonografi kwi-Intanethi?
Ndibona iingxaki ezininzi ngayo. Okokuqala, amagqabantshintshi anjalo ngempazamo athetha ukuba umlutha kuphela kwengozi enokubakho kubasebenzisi banamhlanje be-porn. Ngapha koko, uninzi lwabakwishumi elivisayo abaxela ukungasebenzi kakuhle ngokwesondo okuqatha abakho amakhoboka kodwa badinga iinyanga ezininzi ukuze balulame. Okwesibini, ngempazamo kuthetha ukuba ukusetyenziswa koonografi kwi-Intanethi kuthelekiswa nokusetyenziswa kotywala okanye iziyobisi, ukungawuhoyi owona msebenzi uphambili wokufikisa. Okwesithathu, amaxabiso okulutha kwizinto ezibizwa ngokuba ziinguqulelo ezingaqhelekanga zembuyekezo yendalo (ukutya okungenamsoco, iphonografi ye-intanethi kunye nokusetyenziswa kwe-intanethi ngokubanzi) ajika abe mkhulu kuneziyobisi. (Ngakumbi ngezantsi)
Ngaba unokucacisa ukuba kutheni le ngxaki ingaphaya kokukhobokisa?
Kucingelwa ukuba amadoda aselula afumana imifanekiso yabantu ababelana ngesondo enomtsalane. Kodwa namhlanje, endaweni yokuphulula amaphambili ukuze kumile iifoto, njengoko ooyise basenokwenza, amakhwenkwe anokubukela iividiyo ezisasazwayo ezingenamda zabantu bokwenyani abanesini sokwenyani. Ngokungafaniyo ne-smiles, iividiyo zithatha indawo yentelekelelo; amakhwenkwe athanda kakhulu.
Ngexesha befumana amaqabane okwenene, mhlawumbi kwishumi leminyaka kamva, abanye abafana bafumanisa ukuba baziqeqeshe kakhulu ... kumdlalo ongalunganga. Umzekelo, lo mfana kwaye Le babengengomakhoboka; Baye bamisela indlela abasabela ngayo ngokwesondo kwizikrini, ukuhlala bodwa, into entsha eqhubekayo, ukothuka / ukothuka, iphonografi kunye nokubukela. abanye abantu yabelana ngesondo. Iingxaki zabo zokumisa kunye namaqabane okwenene asonjululwe kuphela kwiinyanga emva kokuba bayeke i-porn.
Intlungu kukuba, ngenxa yolwazi olungachananga oluxhaphakileyo, bobabini ekuqaleni babenoloyiko lokuba baphulwe ubomi babo bonke. Akukho mfana oselula kufuneka ajamelane noloyiko olunjalo ngaphandle kokulunyukiswa, kodwa kubonakala ngathi uninzi lunjalo. Uphononongo luka-2014 lwabaselula baseKhanada lufumanise ukuba Iipesenti ezingama-54 zamadoda aselula akwishumi elivisayo aneminyaka eyi-16-21 iingxaki zesini ezichazwe: ukungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile (i-27 ekhulwini), umnqweno ophantsi (i-24 ekhulwini) kunye neengxaki ze-orgasm (i-11 ekhulwini).
Obona “sesichengeni obubodwa” obusemva kwezi ngxaki zixhaphakileyo kusenokwenzeka ukuba bubuchopho bomntwana ofikisayo obungqubana novuselelo olunamandla kakhulu lwezesondo lwanamhlanje. Kuzo zonke izilwanyana ezanyisayo, ubuchopho bofikisayo busebenza kakhulu kwizinto ezintsha, ukufuna imincili kunye neempawu zesini. Olu phawu lwandisa amathuba okuzala ngempumelelo kwaye lunciphisa amathuba okuzalana. Kodwa oku kuphinda kusebenze kwakhona kwenza ukuba iingqondo ezifikisayo zifake intambo yokuvusa inkanuko yesini yomnini wazo kwindawo yakhe, ngakumbi kwisivuseleli esichukumisayo esihlala sikhona esenziwe ukuba sinyanzelise ngakumbi kunento yokwenyani. Imeko yakhe iba mandundu ngakumbi kuba, xa sele emdala, ingqondo yakhe iya kube iqhawule iibhiliyoni zemithambo-luvo ngokusekelwe kumgaqo wokuyisebenzisa okanye ukuphulukana nayo.
Xa sele umdala, ukudibana namaqabane okwenene kunokude kubhalise njengokudanisa, kwaye ukufuna imvakalelo, hayi ulonwabo, kunokongamela. Kutshanje, abaphandi baye bacinga ukubuza Abakwishumi elinesithandathu ukuya kwi-16 leminyaka ubudala malunga nokwabelana ngesondo ezimpundu yaye bamangaliswa kukufumanisa ukuba amadoda namabhinqa ayengakunandipha oko kodwa bobabini baziva benyanzelekile ukuba bakwenze. Aba baphandi bathi, “Ezona zizathu zibangela ukuba abantu abaselula babe neentlobano zesini ezimpundwini kukuba amadoda ayefuna ukukopa oko akubona kwiphonografi, yaye ‘kuyaqina.’”
Imeko yesondo ekhathazayo yolutsha inokuqhubeka ibe ngumntu omdala. Uphononongo luka-2014 lufumanise ukuba malunga isinye kwisithathu samadoda asempilweni emkhosini (21-40) ngoku xela ukungasebenzi kakuhle ngokwesondo. Kwaye kwi-poll yakutshanje, Ipesenti ze-33 zabavoti phantsi kwe-40 beva i-pornography "yayonakalisa ubomi babo bobulili," kunye nenye ipesenti ze-10 "ezingaqinisekanga" ukuba iyonakalisa ubomi babo bobulili.
Ukwatshilo ukuba kukho ubungqina obukhulayo bokuba umngcipheko wokukhobokisa mkhulu kakhulu. Ngoba?
Ukusasaza iphonografi kufana nokutya okungekho sikweni kwanamhlanje: kunomtsalane ngendlela engaqhelekanga. Xa abaphandi benika iimpuku ukufikelela okungenamkhawulo ekutyeni okungenasiphelo phantse zonke zitya ukutyeba. Ezi mpuku azinabo "sichengeni sendalo" obenza ukuba babe sesichengeni esisodwa ngaphandle kobuthathaka obufanayo sonke esinabo: isiphaluka somvuzo wamandulo ebuchotsheni obusukela ngokungxama ukutya okunekhalori ephezulu kunye namaqabane anomdla.
Ngaphezu kwesithathu sabantu abadala baseMelika batyebe, ngokweCDC, yaye uninzi lwabo bangamakhoboka okutya okungenamsoco. Amanani abantu abaselula baseFinland abayisebenzisa kakubi i-Internet “ngomlinganiselo okanye ngokunzulu” ngama-24.2 ekhulwini ngokutsho kwe-2014, ne Japhan kwaye ikarikuni ukunika ingxelo ngamazinga awothusayo ngokufanayo kulo nyaka.
Akumangalisi ukuba, ngenxa yokuba i-erotica ye-Intanethi yeyona esona sixhobo sinokubakho kwi-Intanethi, sikwaqala ukubona amazinga axhalabileyo okuvavanya ukuba likhoboka lephonografi kwi-Intanethi kumadoda aselula. Ngokomzekelo, kwi-poll yesizwe ye-2014 23 ekhulwini amadoda 18-30 bacinga ukuba banokuba likhoboka le-porn, kunye nenye ipesenti ze-10 "ezingaqinisekanga" ukuba zikhobokile.
Gcina ukhumbula ukuba la mazinga okusebenzisa iziyobisi ezingekho phantsi kweziyobisi zonke ziphezulu kakhulu kunezinga lokusebenzisa iziyobisi. Umzekelo, i Urhulumente wase-US unike ingxelo ukuba, "Ngo-2012, kuqikelelwa ukuba i-23.1 yezigidi zabantu baseMerika (i-8.9 ekhulwini) bafuna unyango kwingxaki enxulumene neziyobisi okanye utywala."
Amaxabiso amadoda amancinci axela ukuba anokuba likhoboka le-porn ye-Intanethi aphezulu kunabasebenzisi abadala. Ngaphezu koko, abafana abancinci abane-porn-induced erectile dysfunction bafuna ixesha elide lokubuyisela umsebenzi wesondo kunamadoda amadala angazange akhule ebukele i-porn. Ezi ziganeko zibonisa ukuba akukho siseko sincinane sethemba likaWeiss lokuba, “Amakhwenkwe anamhlanje kusenokwenzeka ukuba aqengqeleke nje, aqhelane nobugcisa obutsha ngendlela esempilweni kanye njengokuba abantwana bebesoloko besenza.”
Ngapha koko, kububudenge ukulindela ukuba ubuchopho bomntu buya kuziqhelanisa ngokukhawuleza nenguqulelo yomvuzo wendalo onjengesondo okanye ukutya. Izivuseleli ezingaphaya kwesiqhelo zinefuthe elifana neziyobisi kwezinye iingqondo. Uphando lwakutsha nje kwi iingqondo zabantu abasebenzisa iphonografi ibonisa ukuba iingqondo zabo zikhanyisela iikliphu zevidiyo zamanyala njengoko ingqondo yabasebenzisi be-cocaine ikhanyisela umgubo omhlophe. (Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngaphezu kwesiqingatha sezifundo, i-avareji yobudala be-25, ibike ubunzima bokuvuswa kunye namaqabane okwenene kodwa kungekhona nge-porn.)
Ngokugqithiseleyo, a uphononongo lwakutsha nje malunga nabangamakhoboka ufumanise ukuba iiyure eziphezulu ngeveki kunye neminyaka engaphezulu yokubukela iphonografi ehambelana nokunciphisa i-gray matter kumjikelezo womvuzo wengqondo. Umbhali okhokelayo USimone Kühn uthe, "Oko kunokuthetha ukuba ukusetyenziswa rhoqo kwephonografi ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi kuphelisa inkqubo yakho yokuvuza." Olu phando lukwabonisa ukuba ubuchopho bomntu, kwanabo bangengawo amakhoboka, abuziqhelanisi ngempumelelo nephonografi ye-Intanethi yanamhlanje.
Ukushwankathela, ukuba ubeka abantu baseMelika kwisidlo somzingeli wenyamazane enentambo kunye neengcambu ezibilisiweyo, bangaphi kubo abaya kutyeba? Mhlawumbi akukho nanye. Ngomqondiso ofanayo, ukuba ulinganisele abafana abafikisayo kwi-1960-style Playboys bangaphi kubo abaza kunika ingxelo yobunzima bokusebenzisa iphonografi, ukumiswa kunye nokuvusa? Mhlawumbi akukho nanye.
Kuthekani ngebango lika-Weiss lokuba indawo yakho ethi www.yourbrainonporn.com ibonisa iqela elizikhethelayo labasebenzisi be-porn?
Okokuqala, u-Weiss ngokwakhe ubona kuphela iqela elizikhethelayo labantu abajongene ne-porn kunye nokulutha ngesondo. Ngabantu abakulungeleyo ukuhlawulela unyango lokukhotyokiswa ngokwesondo, kwaye bambalwa abafikisayo. Abaninzi benza ngokwesondo ukongeza ekuzabalazeni nengxaki yokusebenzisa i-pornography. Kwaye kusenokwenzeka ukuba abaninzi ngokwenene banobuthathaka bendalo obubenza bathande ukuba likhoboka kwaye ke bazimisele ukufuna unyango olongezelelweyo.
Ngokwahlukileyo koko, uninzi lwamadoda endiwaqokelelayo amabali awo akapheleli nje ekubeni aselula kodwa anyulu. Bakhule becinga i-porn kunye ne-masturbation yayifana. Uninzi alubonakalisi ukulwa nokwenzakala kwabantwana okanye eminye imiba kunye nomlilo omangalisayo emva kokuyeka ukusebenzisa i-porn.
Ukucacisa, andiyibaleki iforum. Ndilandelela kwaye ndihlalutye uphando olufanelekileyo, ngakumbi kumlutha wokuziphatha kunye neuroplasticity. Ndiphinda ndiqokelele iingxelo zokuzenzela kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo. Zonke zenziwa ngabafana abaye bancama into enye: Ukusetyenziswa koonografi kwi-Intanethi. Andiwenzi amabango malunga nepesenti yabafana abachaphazelekayo. Okubangela umdla kukuba, uninzi lwaba bafana abakhotyokiyo kwaye baxela izibonelelo zokuyeka.
Iinjongo zam kukwazisa abasebenzisi be-porn namhlanje malunga neengozi ezinokwenzeka kunye nokucacisa isizathu kunye nesiphumo ukuze kukhuthazwe ukufunda okungakumbi. Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku kuphela Olunye uphando lucele abasebenzisi be-porn ukuba bayeke i-porn - iiveki ezintathu kuphela. Kanye ngelo xesha lifutshane, abaphandi balubonile utshintsho kubasebenzisi bangaphambili inzondelelo yobudlelwane obuzibophelele (ekuphela kwesiphumo abasilinganiselayo).
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