Kubizwa ngokuba luvavanyo lwentlalontle- sonke isizukulwana esikhula ngokufikelela simahla nangokulula kwi-intanethi ye-intanethi. Abo bangasemva kwesimpoziyam eMyuziyam yaseKhanada yamaLungelo oLuntu ngentsasa yangoMvulo bakubiza ngokuba kukungaphumeleli.
Ngaphandle kwemida kubonakalisa iGeneral XXX: I-ponografi yaBantwana bethu kunye neembasa zeendaba kunye neRosalind Prober iyathemba ukuba incoko iyothusa abantu ukuba basebenze.
"Ngokwenene umnxeba ulumkisa uluntu," utshilo uProber, umseki kunye nommeli wamalungelo abantwana. "Konele konele. Kufuneka siyisombulule. ”
Uphononongo lwamva nje lucebise ukuba iipesenti ezingama-90 zabantwana abaphakathi kweminyaka esibhozo neli-16 bajonge iphonografi kwi-intanethi, uninzi lwabo lusenza umsebenzi wesikolo. Kubeka umndilili weminyaka yokufikelela komntwana kuqala kwi-porn ye-11. Abanye bayayifuna, ngelixa abanye banokufumana ngengozi, kodwa inyani kukuba kuyo yonke indawo.
"Ifikeleleka ngakumbi kunangaphambili, isimahla, ayichazwanga kwaye ilapha epokothweni ukuba bane-smartphone," utshilo uGabe Deem, oneminyaka engama-26 ubudala ofumene umlutha we-porn ovela eTexas oza kuthetha kwisimpoziyam .
Kwaye asithethi ngokufumana i-Playboy kayihlo, nokuba. Into eyayibizwa ngokuba yi-softcore porn iye yahamba phambili kwiimuvi, kumabonwakude, kumculo nakwimidlalo yevidiyo. Iinkwenkwezi ze-porn ngoku ngabantu abadumileyo kunye nabantu abadumileyo abenza iphonografi ngamanye amaxesha. Imigaqo enje nge-MILF kunye nemali yokudubula iyaziwa kwaye isetyenziswa ngokubanzi.
Imifanekiso engamanyala yanamhlanje i-hardcore ngokungafaniyo, ifanisa naliphi na inani lezinto ezingekho mthethweni ngelixa uphelisa ubundlobongela kunye nokuthotywa isidima.
“Inxalenye yengxaki asikwazi ukuyibonisa. Ukuba singabonisa ukuba abantwana babona ntoni abantu bangothuka, ”utshilo uProbed.
Owona mngcipheko ulutsha kulutsha kukusebenzisa i-online predator eyehlisa ukuthothisa kwabo iphonografi ngaphambi kokuzama ukunxibelelana. "Ukuthumelelana imiyalezo nemifanekiso yamanyala ngefowuni" phakathi kolutsha, ngakumbi ukwabelana ngemifanekiso engaphaya kwamaqabane okuqala, kunokutolikwa njengamanyala abantwana.
Kodwa ke malunga nokuqhubeka kokusebenzisa iphonografi kwi-Intanethi kukwenza ukukhula kwengqondo kunye nobudlelwane phakathi kwabantu ngexesha apho amajelo eendaba ezentlalo ahlala esenza ixilongo lomntu kwaye uninzi lwabantwana baqala ukufunda ngesondo ngokusebenzisa iphonografi. Ukuzibona ngokwakho kusemngciphekweni xa ulutsha liziva ngathi kufuneka lukhuphisane nento ekwiskrini, kokubonakala kwabo bobabini kunye namava ezesondo.
"Imifanekiso engamanyala ngokucacileyo ichaphazela ulindelo lwamakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana kulokho kufuneka bakwenze kunye nokuba bafuna ukubonakala njani," utshilo uDeem. Iphonografi iyabonakalisa ukuthanda kwabo ulutsha. ”
UCordelia Anderson, isithethi esivela eMinneapolis esimalunga nama-38 eminyaka yamava esikhuthaza ukukhula kwezesondo ngendlela esempilweni, sithe “izinto zokuxhaphaza” zanamhlanje zibonisa "zonke iintlobo zezithintelo kwimpilo yomntu ngamnye, yezolwalamano kunye neyokuhlangana."
“Umyalezo kumantombazana kukuba indlela yokubonisa ukuba bakhululekile kukuthatha nje. Nokuba umntu uziva naluphi na ulonwabo alunamsebenzi kwimixholo engamanyala, utshilo, ephawula ukuba iphonografi ikwadala "ibali elibalulekileyo" elingenampilo emadodeni.
“Asiboni naluphi na uhlobo lwenkathalo, asiboni ncoko isondeleyo, akukho luvo lobudlelwane. Phantse ngalo lonke ixesha abantu basetyhini bayiseti yezinto ezinokuthi zingenwe ngamadoda okanye iqela lamadoda lingene, ”utshilo u-Anderson.
“Oku akusincedi isini sethu; oku kukuxutha isini sethu. ”
Yintoni ekufuneka uyenze malunga nayo icacile. UAnderson ucebisa ngakumbi ngemfundo ebanzi ngesondo kunye nemifanekiso emihle ngakumbi yokulwa nezobundlobongela nezonakalisayo. Iifilitha zinokuba luncedo, kodwa abantwana kunye nomzi mveliso bathanda ukufumana indlela ezijikeleze kubo ukuba banqwenela. Umcebisi uphakamisa indlela yokungena enje icetywayo eBritani, eneqela eliphikisayo elikhala ngenxa yobalo.
Nokuba yeyiphi na, uProber uthe lixesha lokuba uluntu luxinzelele umzi-mveliso kunye noorhulumente ekuncedeni ukukhusela abantwana bethu, kunye nexesha othethe ngalo ngokungqalileyo nangokuthe ngqo nabantwana bakho ngalo.
“Ngaba namhlanje abazali bafanele ukuba bathethe nabantwana babo ngemifanekiso engamanyala? Ngokuqinisekileyo. Akukho sizathu sokuba ungakwenzi oko. Ilapho, bayayibona, kwaye ayisiyonto intle. ”
Njengokubonelela 'ngokungenamda' kweziyobisi ezandleni zolutsha
Ipeni likaGabe Deem labetha ezantsi.
Ukukhuliswa ngokutya okungagungqi kwaye okukhwankqisayo kukutya okungamanyala kwi-Intanethi, u-26 oneminyaka eli-18 ubudala ngoku u-Irvine, eTexas, wazifumana engenakho ukwenza imisebenzi nangona wayenamfazi awafumene enomtsalane.
Emva kokuphelisa uninzi lwezizathu ezinokubangela ukuba angabinakho ukufezekisa ulwakhiwo, Deem washiyeka ukuba agqibe ukuba wayenengxaki yokungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile.
"Umzimba wam waziva ngathi wawungowamava," yindlela awayechazwa ngayo uDeem.
Ufunge i-porn, kodwa kufuneka inyanga ezisithoba ukubuyela ekusebenzeni ngokwesondo kwesiqhelo. Kanye nokwabelana ibali lakhe njengesithethi soluntu, uDeem ngoku ucebisa ulutsha kwaye asebenze neReboot Nation, uluntu oluku-intanethi olunceda abasebenzisi boyise iingxaki ezinxulumene nokusebenzisa iphonografi.
I-Deem yaqala ukuphulula amalungu esini kwiimagazini nge-sibhozo, yaqhubela phambili kwi-porno ethambileyo ngo-10 kwaye yayineminyaka eyi-12 xa i-Intanethi ekhawulezileyo ibetha indawo, inikezela "unikezelo olungenamda" lwezixhobo.
Onke loo mava aqeqeshe ubuchopho bakhe ukuba bakhethe amava angawodwa ngaphezulu komlingane wokwenyani ongumntu ukuya kuthi ga apho anokufumana khona kuphela ukwakhiwa ngokubukela iphonografi.
"I-intanethi ye-intanethi ayinanto engapheliyo egcina i-dopamine iphakama kwingqondo, apho ukhangele khona utshintsho lobuchopho," kusho uDeve.
Deem uthe izifundo zamva nje zibonise abasebenzisi be-porn ubuchopho bukhanya ngendlela efanayo kubasebenzisi beziyobisi xa bebukele. Kuye, iziphumo ebezingalindelekanga zazithelekiswa- ukuphulukana nenkuthazo, ukungakwazi ukugxila kunye nokwehla komdla kubudlelwane obulungileyo bezesondo.
Iindaba ezimnandi kuxa ungakhange uthathe i-porn, ezinye zezo zinto bazifumeneyo bazibuyisela umva, utshilo uDeem.
Ngoku usebenzela ukufundisa ulutsha malunga nobungozi obunokubangelwa kukusebenza kwakhe kwangaphambili kwemodyus.
"Imifanekiso engamanyala kwi-Intanethi iyabakhathaza bonke abasebenzisi abancinci abangazaziyo iziphumo zayo ezimbi."
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