I-porn-induced erectile dysfunction iya isanda
Ingcali yobudoda ithi iyoyika ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn ye-intanethi enokuthi ishiye ukuya kuthi ga kwi-10 yabafana abancinci abaneengxaki zokuzala. UGqr Andrew Smiler uthe ukufikelela ngokulula kwi-porn engapheliyo kushiya amadoda asempilweni enengxaki yesondo. Watsho Ezizimeleyo: “Abafana endibabonayo, inkoliso yabo baphakathi kweminyaka eli-13 nama-25 ubudala. Uninzi lwabo, ubukhulu becala, luyimpilo engokwasemzimbeni.
"Ke ukuba ndiphulula iphonografi kanye ngemini imizuzu ye-15 kodwa ndiyenza yonke imihla iminyaka emihlanu, ndihamba kakuhle kwindlela yam yokuba yingcali yokuba ne-orgasm yokujonga i-porn."
Ulumkise ngelithi ngenxa yokuba abasebenzisi abaninzi abanzima besebancinci, lo mkhwa uba uxhalabisa ngakumbi.
Ukuba ndineminyaka eyi-17 kwaye yi-90% yamava am e-orgasmic ngokwesondo, ndiye ndabeka umgudu omkhulu kuhlobo oluthile / incasa yophuhliso lwezesondo kodwa ndibeke ixesha elincinci lokuphuhlisa ubulili bam nomnye umntu. , ngoko kwenza kube lucelomngeni ngakumbi ukuvuseleleka komnye umntu yaye uzifumanisa ukulelinye icala elidla ngokwahlukileyo kwisini nomntu.”
Isifundo se-2014 Ufumanise ukuba isinye kwisithathu samadoda abukela iphonografi yonke imihla, kwaye ngenxa yokuba ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn kuye kwanda kule minyaka imbalwa idlulileyo-ubukhulu becala ngenxa yokufika kwee-smartphones kunye noqhagamshelo lwedatha olukhawuleza kakhulu - kusenokwenzeka ukuba elo nani ngoku liphezulu.
UGqr Angela Gregory, ugqirha wezifo zengqondo kwiSibhedlele seYunivesithi yaseNottingham, uthe: "Amadoda aye aphelelwe ngamandla emzimbeni nasengqondweni ekuvuseleleni ngokwesondo okuqhelekileyo kunye nokuvuseleleka kunye neqabane lesondo."
Kwamanye amadoda, nangona kunjalo, ahlakulela i-hypersexuality kwaye ahlala evuswa. “Kufana nokurhawuzelelwa abangakwaziyo ukukrwempa kwaye kuhlala kusezingqondweni zabo,” utshilo uGqr Gregory.
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Ngaphandle kokuxhaphaka kokusetyenziswa koonografi, okwangoku akukabikho kuxilongwa ngokusemthethweni "kobukhoboka boburheletya" ngoko ke uGqr Smiler, umbhali we Ukuthandana kunye neSex: Isikhokelo se-21st Century Teen Boy, akakuthandi ukusebenzisa eli gama. Kwelinye icala, uGregory uyawakholelwa amadoda athile do phuhlisa umlutha wokwenyani kwi-porn.
Uhlala ebona abafana abancinci abaneengxaki zokuzala kodwa bahlala bengenzi ikhonkco kwi-porn njengoko ibonwa njengesiqhelo ukuyibukela.
Ngethamsanqa, i-porn-induced erectile dysfunction iyalungiseka, ngokulula ukuba uyindoda esempilweni eselula: "Ukuba unokuyeka [ukuphulula amaphambili], unokuphinda uqalise inkqubo yakho ekuvuseleleni okuqhelekileyo," kuchaza uGregory.
Ucebisa ukuba ahambe ebandayo kangangeentsuku ezingama-90 – amanye amadoda akufumanisa kulula, amanye asokola ngokwenene. Kwaye uGqr Smiler ubonisa ukuba kufuneka uphinde uqeqeshe umzimba wakho kunye nengqondo yakho, ngoko uthetha nabathengi bakhe abaninzi malunga noko bakufumana kunomtsalane.
Ngelixa i-porn-induced erectile dysfunction yingxaki enkulu kumadoda ahlala ephulula amaphambili kwi-porn, ukuyibukela nje kudala ingcamango engeyiyo yokwabelana ngesondo ezingqondweni zabo.
"Kwi-porn, isondo sihlala sisenzeka ngokulula, wonke umntu unexesha elimnandi kwaye akukho mntu wakha wala okanye uthi 'andifuni ukwenza loo nto'," utshilo uGqr Smiler.
Kodwa enyanisweni, abantu abasoloko bekwimo. Ngamanye amaxesha uyawa xa ukhulula ibhulukhwe ibe yinto ehlekisayo. Kodwa akukho nanye eyenzeka kwiscreen kwaye ke abafana bangena belindele ukuba konke kube lula kwaye abazi ukuba mabenze ntoni, ”ucacisile.
Kukwakho nomba wokuba uninzi lwabantu alubukeki njengeenkwenkwezi ze-porn. UGqr Smiler, osebenza kakhulu nabafana abaneminyaka eyi-13-25 kwaye wabhala incwadi malunga nobudoda, ukholelwa ukuba ukusetyenziswa kwephonografi "kuyatshintsha ukubonwa kunye nolindelo lokuba ngubani onomtsalane," okuthetha ukuba uninzi lwala madoda lufumanisa ukuba lukhulisa incasa emxinwa kakhulu.
UGregory ukholelwa ukuba njengoko i-porn iya iba yi-harcore, icace kwaye ibonakale yonke indawo, amadoda amaninzi aya kubandezeleka ngenxa yeengxaki zobudlelwane obusondeleyo kunye nokunyanzeliswa ngokwesondo.
Ke ngaba kukho isixa esikhuselekileyo sephonografi enokuthi ibonwe yindoda? Kuxhomekeke emntwini, kodwa uGqr Smiler ukholelwa ukuba indoda inokuziphulula amaphambili iphonografi kube kanye ukuya kathathu ngeveki kwaye "ayizukuba nefuthe ngakumbi kubomi bakhe bokwabelana ngesondo kuneminyaka engama-50 eyadlulayo xa abafana babehlutha iipowusta zepini. -amantombazana aphezulu. "
Kodwa xa uzifumana uphulula amaphambili kwi-porn yonke imihla-kwaye kuphela kwendlela ophulula ngayo amalungu esini- kuxa usiya kwiingxaki.
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