Ukujongwa kwenzululwazi emva kokunyanzelisa i-erectile i-dysfunction.
03 / 06 / 2016 6: 26 AM AEST | ehlaziyiweyo Juni 21, 2016 12: 39
Emily Blatchford Umhleli weMpilo yokuHlalisa, uHuffPost waseAustralia
Wakhe wadibana nePIED? Imele 'I-Porn Porn yenza i-Erectile Dysfunction', kwaye yimeko echaphazela abafana abancinci baseOstreliya.
Ngapha koko, ngokomcebisi wezobudlelwane, ugqirha wezokwabelana ngesondo kunye nomhlobo we-Impotence Australia, u-Alinda Omncinci, ayisiyiyo kuphela imeko ye-PIED ekwandeni, yeyona nto ajongana nayo eSydney. bucala.
"Ukungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile ye-porn yeyona nto ibalaseleyo ndiyibonayo ngalo mzuzu," uSmall uxelele iHuffington Post Australia. "Uninzi lwabafana endibabonayo banomlutha woononophala kwaye banemiba yokungasebenzi kakuhle ngenxa yoko."
Ngoko yintoni i-PIED?
Okokuqala, makhe sithethe ngokungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile. I-ED yimeko apho indoda ingakwaziyo ukufumana okanye ukugcina i-firm erection ngokwaneleyo yokulala ngesondo. Kukho izizathu ezininzi sokuba kutheni umntu abe no-ED (kokubili ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo), kuquka nezizathu zempilo.
Esinye sezizathu zengqondo, into ebonakalayo yintsholongwane, kucatshangelwa ukuba ixhomekeka kakhulu kwi-intanethi ye-intanethi. Le PIED.
"Sinemeko apho sonke isizukulwana samadoda sikhulile sijonga iifoto kwi-intanethi," kuchaza uSmall. "Itshintsha indlela ezisisiseko iinkqubo zobuchopho bethu - inkqubo yemivuzo- esebenza ngayo."
“Ifikelela kwinqanaba apho ulindelo lolonwabo luphezulu kakhulu, ukuba neentlobano zesini eziqhelekileyo kunye neqabane lokwenyani lobomi aliboneleli ngendlela efanayo.
Ingaba isebenza kanjani?
"Ngokusisiseko, kwenzeka ntoni kumanqanaba akho e-dopamine xa ukhaba 'inoveli', kwaye iphonografi yeyona nto inoveli," utshilo uSmall.
“Emva kokuba utsalelekile, iphonografi iya isiba mandundu, kwaye ke abantu baqala ukuyenza le nto.
“Ifikelela kwinqanaba apho ulindelo lolonwabo luphezulu kakhulu, ukuba neentlobano zesini eziqhelekileyo kunye neqabane lokwenyani lobomi aliboneleli ngendlela efanayo. Ayisiyo inoveli, ngakumbi kwimeko apho, umzekelo, umfana unentombi yexesha elide.
"Kwiimeko ezininzi banokukhetha ukubhengeza bodwa kuba befumene loo nto."
Ukuba ukhetha intelekelelo yesimo esikwiskrini okwenyani, isini sobomi bokwenyani siyandiqhela, Omncinci uthi kungenxa yokuba ubukho, ukufikeleleka, iyantlukwano kunye nobungakanani be-porn ngaphandle apho kuninzi kakhulu ukukhuphisana nabo.
"Akukho nalinye ibali [lokwenyani] elinokubetha amabali ama-20 ahlukeneyo kwizikrini ezili-10 ezahlukeneyo ngaxeshanye," utshilo uSmall.
"Kwaye sithetha nantoni na ukusuka [kubudlelwane bezesondo] kunye nezilwanyana ukuya ekuchotshozeni enye kwenye - ubuchopho bombukeli buya kudlulela ngaphezulu.
“Endaweni yomfanekiso omnye ubane emihlanu okanye emithandathu kwaye uye nje ulikhoboka lolo khetho.
“Okulusizi kukuba, kunye neqabane lokwenyani, awuzukufumana kwangoko kwangoko. Inene, iyoyikisa kakhulu. ”
Kutheni kwenzeka ntoni ngoku?
Nangona ngokucacileyo i-pornography iye yahlala iphela, i-intanethi iye yafumana amanqanaba omtsha ngokupheleleyo, kwaye iyaqhubeka iphakama. Enyanisweni, kuye kwacetyiswa kuba abantu abaninzi banokufikelela kwi-porno namhlanje, ishishini lezonyango lizenza imali engaphezulu kwayo yonke imidlalo yezemfundo.
"Umlutha wobugqwetha ngumcimbi omkhulu ngoku," kusho uSmall. "Kuyothusa ngakumbi abantwana abancinci kuba [ukufikelela kwi-intanethi kwi-intanethi] kuphela kwento abayaziyo.
Umzekelo, omnye umthengi endimbonayo yintombi eneminyaka engama-23 ubudala. Unokuyigcina kude kube kwinqanaba lokungena, kodwa emva koko iphulukane nokwakhiwa kwayo.
“Kungenxa yokuba akayazi into ayiyo. Akazi ukuba ibhinqa liza kuziva njani, kwaye uxhalabile kakhulu ngalo. Into ayaziyo yile ayibonileyo kwi-Intanethi.
"Ngapha koko, izazinzulu zixoxa ngoku ukuba siphulukana njani nesibini esidibanisa abantu bendalo. Kukho ukutshintsha izimvo yintoni uthando, yintoni ukuthandana.
"Inyani yile, isini sinobukrwada kwaye simdaka okokuqala. Kodwa ababoni ukuba xa bejonga iphonografi. Yenziwe kakuhle kwaye igqibelele kwaye umfazi uyaphambana ngovuyo. ”
Sisiphi isayensi esitshoyo
Nangona i-PIED ingekaqondwa ngokupheleleyo kwaye iphandowe, i inani elinyukayo leengcali baqaphela imiba yesini-eshukunyiswa ngoonobumba kunye neengxaki ezizimele kuluntu lwangoku.
NjengeNcinci ifuthe kwixesha elidlulileyo, kukho inkolelo yenzululwazi yokuba ukuxhatshazwa kweentlobano zesifo soonwabo kungakhokelela ekuphazamiseni ukubambisana, kwaye ngenxa yoko, "Umtsalane omncinci kwiqabane elinye unokuba sisiphumo sokuvezwa kakhulu, ngokophando."
Ukutya kakhulu iphonografi kwi-intanethi kukwabonakala kuchaphazela inkqubo yokujikeleza komvuzo wobuchopho kunye nendlela esebenza ngayo, isiphumo esiya saziwa ngakumbi kunikwa ukuba kulula kangakanani ukufikelela kwiinto ezintsha ezingapheliyo ngonqakrazo olunye kuphela.
Ngamafutshane, ukusetyenziswa koononophelo oluninzi kunokuchaphazela umsebenzi wesini kunye nokusebenzisana ngokomzwelo, kwaye, njengokuba iNdumbana yabhala kwiblog yamuva, "Ngenxa yenyani yokuba i-35% yazo zonke izinto ezikhutshelweyo kwi-intanethi iphonografi sinokuqiniseka ukuba iphonografi ihlala ihleli kwaye siza kufumanisa okuninzi malunga nefuthe ... kwixa elizayo."
Kwenziwe ntoni?
Ngokutsho kweNcinci, enye yeyona micimbi enkulu ebhekene nabo abanokuba ne-porn-eyabangela i-ED yinto abahlala benqaba ukuthetha ngayo.
"Ingxaki abantu abaninzi abathethi ngayo, ngakumbi abantu abancinci," utshilo uSmall. “Kuthatha inkalipho enkulu ukuya kugqirha wakho, kwaye yiloo nto abantu abathanda ukuyenza. Ugqirha we-GP unokukhupha inani labanyangi ngokwesini kodwa amadoda ahlala engenaso isibindi sokubiza ixesha elithile.
“Kuyinxalenye yendalo yomntu. Amadoda ayibona njengembonakaliso yobudoda babo, ke ngoko iyavakala into yokuba ukubonisa into ebalulekileyo kubo bonke ubudoda babo, kwaye ukuyivuma ukuba ayisebenzi… kakuhle, abantu abayithethi loo nto kuba ihlazo. ”
Oku kungakhokelela nemingeni enkulu kulabo bachaphazelekayo kwixesha elide.
"Xa ukunye neqabane, ngakumbi iqabane le-hetero, kunokuba nzima," utshilo uSmall. “Abafazi bayithatha ngokwabo. Bacinga ukuba abonwabanga ngokwaneleyo okanye abenzi nto.
Into abangayiqondiyo kukuba ayikhe ibe yiyo- ziinkqubo zokucinga zamadoda. ”
“Musa ukuhlala nayo. Ayisiyonto unokuyoyisa ngokwakho.
Amancinci ancomela abo baxhalabele ukuba banokuba nemiba ethile ne-erectile dysfunction kufuneka bafune uncedo lobuchwepheshe.
"Yiya kwi-GP yakho okanye uye kubona i-sex therapist, okokuqala nokuphambili," kusho uSmall. “Sijongene nesini mihla le. Akusoze kubekho sigwebo, yinto esiyibonayo ngalo lonke ixesha.
“Kubalulekile ukuba nesibindi sokwenza loo fowuni yokuqala, kuba kukho iindlela ezikhoyo phaya.
“Musa ukuhlala nayo. Ayisiyonto unokuyoyisa ngokwakho. Ukuhlala egumbini lakho ufunda incwadi akunakukunceda woyise ngokwakho. ”
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