Iifografi ibonakala iyindawo yonke namhlanje - kwiintengiso, kumasayithi e-intanethi, kwiifowuni zeefowuni, kwizikrini ze-nauseum. Kwaye ukufikelela okulula kuyinselele indlela ezininzi izibini ezithandana ngayo, ngokuqhelekileyo nemiphumo emibi.
Iphonografi ixhaphake kakhulu kwinkcubeko yaseMelika namhlanje kangangokuba uMbutho woLawulo lwaBasebenzi uqikelela ukuba iipesenti ezingama-70 zokusebenzisa iphonografi zenzeka emsebenzini, phakathi kweeyure ze-9 kusasa kunye ne-5 emva kwemini Ngokusebenzisa iifowuni zazo, abantu akufuneki basebenze nge-intanethi yomqeshi. Kwisifundo esinye, iipesenti ezingama-52 zamadoda aneminyaka eyi-18 ukuya kwi-30 bathi bajonge iphonografi emsebenzini, ngelixa iipesenti ezingama-74 zamadoda aneminyaka eyi-31 ukuya kuma-49 ezithi ziyayibona emsebenzini.
Le nto yengozi yomsebenzi. Kodwa enye impembelelo ngqo yolu hlobo lobugqwetha lubangalisa ingqalelo, njengoko oogqirha kunye neengcali baphatha inani elinyukayo lamadoda kwi-Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction (PIED).
Ngesinye isikhathi, uTamara Thompson (kungekhona igama lakhe langempela), iminyaka eyi-30 kunye naseSt. Louis, eMissouri, akazange acinge ukuba ubuhlobo bakhe be-intanethi kunye nodokotela obumnandi buza kuba yinto yangempela. Kwiiveki ezimbalwa kamva, wayenqwenela ukuba akuzange.
U-Thompson usalichaza ngokuthi "ungumntu ogqwesileyo kunokuba ndiyifumene nayo." Wayefundiswa, ekhulile, ehlekisayo, ehlakaniphile kwaye ekhangeleke kakhulu. Le nkcazelo, nangona kunjalo, ayizange imlungiselele umhla wesithathu.
"Emva nje kwemizuzu embalwa yokumanga, wandinceda ndiphazamise, wandigxotha embhedeni, walungiselela umzimba wam kude kube yinto endiyithandayo. Wahlala esihlalweni waza waqala ukuhlaziya umzimba. Ekuqaleni, andingazi ukuba kwenzekani. Ndandiqonda ngokukhawuleza, njengoko amehlo akhe aqhutyelwa kwisantya sokuskena, ukuba kuye, ndiyimzimba kwikhompyutha. "
Uphando luya kuvela emacaleni omabini kwingozi / ayikho ingxoxo engalunganga malunga nezocwangco, kodwa oogqirha babona ubungqina obubonakalayo bomsebenzisi ongenakuhlukanisa. Leyo indoda okanye ibhinqa eliye layeka ukufumana amava ebomini kunye namaqabane oqobo, kwaye kunoko inamathele ekuvukeleni ngegama elingenamagama kwaye kaninzi izinto ezingenanto ezingaguquguqukiyo ngokuthanda.
"Ndandicinga ukuba ndisebenzisa iinthombe zoononografi 'njengomgcini wendawo' phakathi kobudlelwane, kodwa andinakukwazi ukulawula ubudlelwane nonke ngoku."
Uphononongo olusuka kwi-Max Planck Institute lubonise ukuba indawo yokuzonwabisa (i-striatum) yengqondo iyancipha ekusebenziseni abenzi bezononono.
Ku-1992, kuphela i-5 yepesenti yabantu abaneminyaka eyi-40 nabancinci babika ubunzima bokufumana ukulungiswa. Inani eli ngoku li-33 ekhulwini - kuboniswe kwizifundo zombini zaseYurophu naseMerika. Impilo yomntu jikelele, ubukho bokutyeba, kunye nokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi yizona zinto ziphambili ezifaka isandla kwi-erectile dysfunction, kodwa ngandlela-thile amadoda aphilileyo abhekise kwi-pornography njengesizathu sokuba ba-ED.
Kuba uJohn Vargos (kungekhona igama lakhe langempela), iminyaka eyi-28, yaseAtlanta, Georgia, imiba erectile yaboniswa xa etshata nomfazi owayebiza ngokuthi "umlingane womphefumlo."
"Ndandisebenzisa imihla ngemihla ngemihla ngemihla," watsho. "UJane no-ine sadibana nekhefu lekhefu. Ngonyaka ozayo, sabonisana xa sasinako, kwaye ndaqhubeka ndisebenzisa iifostile xa sasihlukana. Ndacinga ukuba kuya kugqiba xa ekugqibeleni siphila kwidolophu efanayo kwaye sasihamba kunye. "
UJohn wabuyela kwenye indawo - kodwa kwiiveki ezimbalwa, wafumana ubunzima ekwenzeni ukulungiswa okanye ukuvakalelwa ngumfazi wakhe.
"Ndandinomdla nje ukuze ndiqinise ukuzithemba kwam emva kokufumana amava amnandi noJane. Andizange ndibe nomcimbi kwaye ndandiziva ndingaphantsi kolawulo. Emva kokuba sitshatile, ndandidumala ngokukhawuleza. "
Kwakhona wafuna umsebenzi weqela ukwenzela ukukhulisa isenzo sakhe sezesondo, kwaye wachitha ixesha elide kwi-intanethi ekhangela abalingani bezesondo.
"Ndacinga ukuba ndisebenzisa iphonografi 'njengendawo yokugcina indawo' phakathi kobudlelwane, kodwa andikwazi ukulawula ubudlelwane ngoku," utshilo.
Umfazi wakhe wayenabantwana ababini, ngoko umthendeleko womtshato ongathandekiyo kubo uyamkhathaza.
UBarbara Winter, Ph.D., isazi seengqondo selayisenisi kunye nesigqirha esiqinisekisiweyo sesigqirha sezokwelapha eBoca Raton, eFlorida, senza amantombazana athathelene ne-PIED, kunye nabasetyhini abachaphazelekayo, kunye nezibini.
"Amakhoboka amaninzi athe phithi kuku-odola imifanekiso, ukuyitshintsha, kunye neendidi abanokuzenza," utshilo. "Ngelixa amadoda, ikakhulu, esengozini yokuba likhoboka leziyobisi, abantu basetyhini babonisa iimpendulo ezifanayo."
Abanye bajonga iphonografi njengendlela efanelekileyo yokuhlangabezana nentswelo eqhelekileyo. Indlela yokuphila yanamhlanje exakeke kakhulu, uxinezeleko lushiya ixesha elincinci lokuba ubudlelwane buphuhle kwaye buqhubeke. URocco Amazzi (ayilogama lakhe lokwenyani), oneminyaka engama-32, waseLong Beach, eNew York, usebenza imisebenzi emibini ukugcina inkxaso yabantwana kunye neemfuno zabazali abalupheleyo.
“Ndivula ikhompyutha [kwaye] akuzange kufuneke ndijongane neemvakalelo zebhinqa. Ndiyavuma andisazi ukuba ndithini kwakhona. Bubomi namhlanje. ”
"Ndicinga malunga nexesha elithathayo ukwazi umntu… ndiyayiqhekeza yonke, kuba ndinokuvula ikhompyuter kwaye ndenze kwimizuzu eli-10 ngobunzima obuncinci. Andizange ndijongane neemvakalelo zowesifazane. Ndiyavuma andisazi ukuba ndithini kwakhona. Bubomi namhlanje. Kuyo yonke indawo. Akukho mntu ucinga ukuba yahlukile. ”
UKathy noMat Karsten (ayingawo amagama abo okwenyani) esiXeko saseKansas, eMissouri, bathi iPIED yenye yeemfazwe ezininzi abaye bajongana nazo njengesibini. Ngexesha lokuthunyelwa kwakhe e-Afghanistan, uMat waqala ukuthembela kwimifanekiso engamanyala. Uyichaze njenge "ifumaneke ngokulula kangangokuba bekunzima ukuyiphepha."
UKathy Karsten waqala ukungathandabuzi ngokobulili emva kokuqonda umyeni wakhe wasebenzisa amakhulu emifanekiso yamabhinqa, kubandakanywa nabahlobo, ukuba avuke, kodwa ukuba wayenalo umdla kubo.
"Kwakubuhlungu ukusoloko utyhalwa kude kwaye ungamkelwa," uxelele uLifeZette. “Ndandinomsindo. Ndandilila mihla le. Ndaziqhela kwabanye abantu, kuba ndandicinga ukuba abayi kuyiqonda. Ndilahlekile, kodwa ukuzihlonipha kwakhe nekratshi kuye kwaphela kwaye naye waphulukana naye. ”
Esi sibini sahlukana kwaye saqala uhambo olwahlukileyo lokuzifumanisa kwakhona. Uphantse wonakalisa ubudlelwane bethu, kuba ibingasivumeli ukuba sidibane njengesibini ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo, utshilo.
"Kwadala ukungazithembi kunye nembono embi ngam," utshilo uMat Karsten. "Andikwazi ukufikelela kwi-orgasm ngaphandle koononophala. Bendingazi ukuba luyintoni ulwalamano olusenyongweni. ”
Namhlanje, esi sibini sichaze ukuba siziva sisondele ngakumbi kunangaphambili. Baqalise iibhloko ezininzi ukunceda ezinye izibini kwaye bafuna ukunciphisa unxibelelwano phakathi kwezibini malunga nalo mbandela.
USandy Iyler waseWashington, DC, wayengenathamsanqa kubudlelwane bakhe. Umtshato wakhe wokuqala waphela ngenxa yokuba umlutha wobugqwetha bomyeni wakhe wakhula waba yi-PIED kunye nokunyaniseka okupheleleyo. Ngophando lwakhe kunye nokusebenza nonyango, uye waziqonda iingxaki zokulutha, kubandakanya nokukhutshwa kwemichiza umyeni wakhe awayekuyo, nangona wayengenakukwazi ukutshintsha indlela yokuziphatha ukuze akhe ukuthembana phakathi kwabo.
Namhlanje umtshato wesibini ka-Iyler wahlukile.
“Sonwabile sobabini ukuzama izinto ezintsha. Kodwa ndingatsho ukuba umahluko omkhulu kubuhlobo obusondeleyo ngumahluko omkhulu. Ngoku ndiphila ubomi obusenyongweni, obuthembekileyo. ”
U-Pat Barone ngumqeqeshi oqeshwe ngumqeqeshi kunye nomlobi we-Own Own Bite! inkqubo yokuvuselela imfundo yomzimba yokutya okucatshangayo kunye enembileyo, encedisa abathengi ukuba baphilise izilingo zokutya.
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