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I-Ireland ikwimeko yobhubhani wokulutha iphonografi kunye nabantwana abaneminyaka emalunga neSIXHENXE bavezwa kwi-x-rerated material kwi-intanethi. Ngoku sikwindawo yesine kwihlabathi ngokusetyenziswa kwe-porn ngomntu ngamnye emva kwe-UK, Canada kunye ne-US- kwaye ukuthanda kwethu kuyo kukwahlula izibini kunye nokutshabalalisa ubomi.
Iingcali zonyango kunye namaqela enkxaso ziye zabika ukunyuka okumangalisayo kunyaka odlulileyo kumanani afuna uncedo ngenxa yokukhathazeka kwabo kuyo. Isithethi seSex and Love Addicts Anonymous Ireland sithe: “Kubonakala ngathi kukho ukwanda okukhulu kokusetyenziswa kwesini kwi-cyber kubandakanya nephonografi.
“Ngoku abantwana abaneminyaka esixhenxe okanye esibhozo bayabandakanyeka kuyo, bengaqondanga kwiimeko ezininzi, kodwa oko kunokukhokelela kwiingxaki ezinkulu.
"Sinomntu ofuna uncedo kwiminyaka eyi-25 owaqala ukusebenzisa i-porn ngexesha le-10."
Uthe ukuvela kweelaptops, iitablet kunye nee-smartphones kwenze ukuba i-intanethi ifikeleleke lula ukuze abantu bayijonge ngasese.
Isithethi songeze sathi: “Ulwando luyoyikisa. Oku kutshabalalisa ubomi. Abantu abaninzi baphantsi kwelitye xa besiza kuthi. Kwiimeko ezininzi iyawuchitha umtshato wabo neentsapho zabo.
“Ukuzibulala kunokuba linyathelo elilandelayo kuba baziva bephantsi kakhulu.
“Ingxaki kukuba akukho migaqo ijikeleze oko. Kufana nje nomntu ongcakazayo onokungena evenkileni aze ondle umlutha wakhe, kuyafana namanyala, kubonakala kungekho miqobo ekufikeleleni kuyo.”
Ugqirha wengqondo kunye nombhali uTrish Murphy uthi ubone ukunyuka okukhulu kwamanani afuna uncedo ngenxa yokukhathazeka kwabo.
Wathi: “Ixhaphake kakhulu. Ndibona abantu abaninzi abangakwaziyo ukuyeka ukusebenzisa i-porn, abayandisa kwaye bazive bezolile ukuba kuthatha ubomi babo bonke, abangakwaziyo ukusebenza nomnye umntu ngenxa yoko. "
Uthe uninzi lwabasebenzisi babenobudlelwane obunempilo kunye ne-porn - kodwa kwabanye into eqala njengokufuna ukwazi kunokukhokelela kwiminyaka yobuqhetseba, ubutyala kunye neentloni njengoko besiya bexhamla ngakumbi.
UTrish wathi: “Asinguye wonke umntu oneengxaki. "Uninzi lwabantu lukhula luphuma kuyo, kodwa abantu abaxhalabileyo ngokwentlalo babonakala bengenwa ngenxa yokuba iphonografi iyayenza loo nto kwaye yodwa.
“Ekuqaleni isenokubonakala ingenabungozi ngokwaneleyo, kodwa inokungena kwikhamera yewebhu ephilayo kunye nezinto ezikhaphayo, ezinokonakalisa ubudlelwane.
“Kulula kakhulu ukungena kulaa ndawo imnyama apho ucekeceke khona kuba le nto uphuma kuyo iyothusa. Uyoyika ukuba umntu uya kufumanisa oko ngawe.
“Abanye abantu baqhubeka besiya phambili nangaphezulu ukuze bafumane ukubetha okukhulu. Bazifumana bechulumancile kwaye bebandakanyeka kwizinto ezibacaphukisayo emva koko.
Ndiyabazi abantu abachitha iiyure ezisibhozo ngosuku bebukele i-porn kwaye babe bodwa ekuhlaleni ngenxa yoko.
“Sinabantu abakubudlelwane apho elinye iqabane lilala kwaye elinye lingena kwi-Intanethi iiyure ezimbalwa. Kukho imvakalelo yokungcatshwa kunye nenxalenye esondeleyo yobomi babo abangabelwana ngayo.
Okanye mhlawumbi umntu uba neengcinga zesini ezingamkelekanga komnye umntu kwaye ukusondelana kuya kuncipha njengoko iminyaka ihamba.
UTrish ulumkise ngeengozi zokuthumela imiyalezo ngemiyalezo ethunyelwa ngefowuni kwaye wathi abantu abancinci baye bachanabeka kwizinto ezilinganiswe nge-x ngaphambi kokuba balungele ukumelana nazo.
Uthe: “Yinto eyingozi kakhulu le, kodwa ikuyo yonke indawo kwaye kufuneka siyilumkele. Abazali bafanele baqalise incoko nabantwana babo ngokuphathelele wonke umbandela wesini namanyala.”
Inkonzo yobuchwephesha yempilo yengqondo yasekwa kwisibhedlele iSt John of God's eDublin kwiminyaka emithathu eyadlulayo ejolise ekujonganeni nokukhotyokiswa ngamanyala kunye neminqweno yesini egqithisileyo.
Imiba egutyungelweyo ibandakanya ukungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile, ukusetyenziswa ngokugqithisileyo kwe-porn kunye nokuziphatha kwe-paraphilic - xa umntu evuswa ngokucinga kunye nokuziphatha okugqithisileyo kwesondo okunokubandakanya into, izilwanyana okanye ukubangela intlungu.
UGqr Fergal Rooney, isazi ngengqondo enxibelelanisa le nkonzo, uthe: “Sifumene inani elandayo labantu abasebunzimeni ngenxa yokusebenzisa amanyala.
“Maxa wambi ukuyisebenzisa kwabo kuya kungena kummandla ongekho mthethweni apho bebeya kujonga imifanekiso yokuxhatshazwa kwabantwana, kodwa oko bekuya kuba kubi.
Ubukhulu becala basebenzisa iphonografi ukuya kuthi ga ekuphazamiseni ubomi babo bemihla ngemihla kwaye abakwazi ukunxibelelana ngesondo neqabane labo.
“I-porn ayilunganga. Ayisiyonto imnandi ukuba umntu ahlale iiyure ekugqibeleni ebukele i-porn. Akumnandanga kwesa nqanaba kwaye sele kunyanzelekile.
“Okukhona abantu besebenzisa iphonografi, kokukhona besenza iindlela ezigqithisileyo zokuziphatha ngokwesondo abadibana nazo, kwaye oko kuphazamisa isini sabo.
“Banokuzifumanisa benomdla kuzo zonke iintlobo zokuziphatha ngokuqhelekileyo ezingenakuba nomdla kubo, ezifana nokuthanda ukwabelana ngesondo ezimpundu okuqhutywa ngamanyala.
"Oku kukhokelela kwimicimbi yobudlelwane obusondeleyo kwaye siza kubona inani elifanelekileyo lamadoda amancinci anemiba malunga nokungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile."
Ngokutsho kwePornhub, umsebenzisi waseIreland uchitha imizuzu elithoba kunye nemizuzwana engama-48 ngokujonga iphonografi. Iteyiphu yesondo kaKim Kardashian kunye noRay Jay iseyeyona ijongwayo kwihlabathi liphela inyusa iimbono ezizigidi ezili-150.
Amagama okukhangela aqhelekileyo asetyenziswa e-Ireland aquka i-MILF, umama, i-trekta, i-gay, i-shift kunye ne-lesbian, kunye nekota enye yeendwendwe kwisayithi ngabasetyhini.
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