“Iphonografi? Yindlela entsha ye-synaptic. Uvuka ekuseni, vula iphepha le-thumbnail, kwaye likhokelela kwibhokisi ye-Pandora yezinto ezibonakalayo. Mhlawumbi kuye kwakho iintsuku apho ndabona ama-vaginas angama-300 ngaphambi kokuba ndiphume ebhedini. - UJohn Mayer, umculi.
Gqiba: cofa apha ngenxalenye ye-7.
Iphonografi yenye yezo zihloko ezinxulumene nesondo ezingazange ziqwalaselwe kuphando lwethu lokuqala malunga nesini somntu kunye nokunxulumana kwayo nemveliso. Ngoba? Ewe, ubukhulu becala, ukubukela iphonografi yinto yabucala - ayilulo kanye uhlobo lwezinto ozixoxayo nabahlobo bakho (wakha wazenza ngathi akazi nto xa igama lenkwenkwezi yamanyala liziswa kwincoko?) kujongwe iziphumo zemveliso de isibini sabafundi be-AE saqala ukubuza imibuzo malunga nalo.
Okukhona sigrumba nangona kunjalo, kokukhona sifumanisa ukuba ine impembelelo enkulu kuluntu, kwindlela yokuziphatha kwakho, kwaye kunjalo, kwimveliso yakho.
Oku kuthethwayo, asinakukwazi ukucinga ukuba uninzi lwabantu abagxekayo malunga nephonografi kunye neshishini lokonwabisa abantu abadala abalunganga - ngokuqinisekileyo, kukho iimpembelelo ekufumanekeni komxholo wephonografi oxhaphakileyo. Ngaba iya kuzisa isiphelo sempucuko yasentshona njengoko sisazi? Mhlawumbi akunjalo.
Eli nqaku libhalelwe amadoda ngokwenene. Abasetyhini bamkelekile ukuba bafunde nabo, kodwa masijongane nayo – amadoda ngabona bantu bathengisa amanyala. Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukuba kutheni, cinga emva kwi-Coolidge Effect – ivakala ngakumbi kuluntu lwamadoda.
Ukuba uneyure okanye ngaphezulu ukutshisa, khangela i Ubuchopho bakho kwiPorn Youtube Series – lujongo oluthe vetshe kule nto siza kuxoxa ngayo apha. Thatha nje oko kuthethwa ngengqolowa yetyuwa nangona-ubuninzi bomxholo wabo "ulungisiwe" ukuze wenze ukuba ichaneke kwezopolitiko kwaye ibonakale, kunokuba isebenze.
UShwankathelo oluKhawulezayo
- Imveliso kunye ne-porn yi-equation elula. I-porn encinci = ixesha elingaphantsi kwesikrini esingenamveliso = imveliso eninzi.
- Ingxaki ngephonografi kukuba likhoboka le-dopamine. Okukhona ubukela, kokukhona ufuna ngakumbi. Kumanqanaba okulutha, yinto eqhubekayo etshintsha ingqondo yakho kunye nokuziphatha ngokwesondo.
- Amabhinqa awachatshazelwa kangako yimifanekiso engamanyala njengokuba amadoda esenza.
- Isicombululo esisisiseko kukuyeka ukubukela amanyala.
- Ixesha olichitha ubukele i-porn lichitha ngcono kunye nabasetyhini bobomi bokwenyani.
IiMechanics ezikrwada
Ndicinga ukuba abaninzi abantu baya kuvuma ukuba ukusetyenziswa kwamadoda kwiphonografi kudla ngokukhatshwa yi-masturbation. Inokuthi ekugqibeleni ikhule ifikelele kwinqanaba apho uchitha iphonografi ngaphandle kokuphulula amalungu esini, kodwa kubantu abaninzi, ezi zimbini zidibene.
Kwelona nqanaba lisisiseko, elikrwada, Ukuphulula amalungu esini kancinci kwandisa imveliso, kunye nokusetyenziswa okuncinci koonografi ixesha elincinci lokubukela into engabonakaliyo.
Kwixesha elide, ukuthembela okuncinci kumabonwakude okanye kwiscreen sekhompyuter ngokuzonwabisa kuthetha ukonyuka amandla okugxila kunye nokugxila kwimisebenzi, ngaloo ndlela kunyuswa amanqanaba emveliso.
Ke:
Iphonografi encinci = ixesha elincinci lokubukela isikrini = ukuphulula amalungu esini = ixesha elininzi lokwenza ezinye izinto.
Iphonografi kunye nokuba likhoboka
Makhe sijonge enye yebhayoloji kunye ne-neuroscience emva kokuba kutheni imifanekiso engamanyala inokuba yingxaki.
Xa ubukele i-porn, iyalela umzimba wakho ukuba ukhulule i-dopamine kwinkqubo yakho. Ngoba? Ewe, kukho ukulandelelana kwezinto ezenzekayo ezikhokelela koku.
- Umzimba womntu wakhiwe ngokuzingca kwizinto ezimbini: ukutya, kunye nesondo (amathuba okuzala). Oku kungenxa yokuba kumaxesha angaphambi kwezolimo, ezi yayiziimveliso ezimbini ezinqabileyo apho umzimba wakho wokuzinkcinkca ngotywala wawuyilelwe ukuba usebenzise ithuba. Iintlobo zanamhlanje zishukela kunye nephonografi.
- Xa uphulula amaphambili, umzimba wakho ukhulula i-dopamine, ekhokelela kwi-orgasm eyona nto inkulu ye-dopamine. Ngokuhamba kwexesha kunye nokuvezwa okuphindaphindiweyo, ubuchopho bakho buqala ukuqala ukukhulula i-dopamine ngokulindela i-masturbation kunye ne-orgasm-iba yintambo yokukhulula i-dopamine rhoqo xa ubukele i-porn.
- Kuba i-dopamine ngokusisiseko iyasikhuthaza kwindlela yokuziphatha ethile, nje ukuba olu nxibelelwano lusekiwe, ukubukela iphonografi kufana nokukhutshwa kwe-dopamine.
- Ilophu yokulutha iyenziwa.
Lo ayisiwo wonke umfanekiso nangona kunjalo. Kukho izinto ezikhethekileyo ezenza ukuba le loop yenzeke kule mihla.
Eyokuqala yiyo Impembelelo yeCoolidge. Ukuba uyakhumbula inqaku lethu langaphambili kwi Uthando kunye nobuhlobo, uya kwazi ukuba i-Coolidge Effect imalunga nokufuna amaqabane amatsha ngesondo nangona unako ukufikelela kwangoku. Oku kuthetha ukuba ngaphezulu kokufana akwanelanga – udinga izinto ezahlukeneyo kunye nobutsha xa kuziwa kwizesondo. Yilapho i-pornography yanamhlanje idlala khona - inika iindidi ezingenamkhawulo kunye nenani elingenamkhawulo "amaqabane" amatsha.
Okwesibini, ngu uhlobo olulodwa lwephonografi yanamhlanje. Iphonografi yanamhlanje ifumaneka ngokubanzi, idla ngokusimahla okanye inexabiso eliphantsi kwaye inokusetyenziswa ngasese ngaphandle kwemilinganiselo yentlalo. Okubaluleke ngakumbi, kukho into entsha engenamkhawulo kunye nokwahluka okukhoyo kwi-Intanethi, kunye nesantya soqhagamshelo lwakho lwe-broadband yinto ethintelayo. Ngokusisiseko, akukho mida ekusetyenzisweni koonografi namhlanje, kwaye njengoko ingqondo yakho ifuna izinto ezintsha zesondo (i-Coolidge Effect), iphonografi ye-intanethi ikhona, ilungele ukukhonza nantoni na oyifunayo.
Okwesithathu, ngumntu ubuchopho beplastiki. Uninzi lwabantu aluqondi oku, kodwa ingqondo yethu iguquguquka kakhulu. Ngokusisiseko, izenzo okanye iimpawu zokuziphatha zigcinwa kwizinto ezibizwa ngokuba zii<em>neurons, ezinokuthi zicingelwe ngeendlela zokuziphatha okuthile. Ezi neurons zifana kakhulu neendlela zomzimba - okukhona zisetyenziswa kakhulu, kokukhona zihlala zihlala kwaye zimakishwe. Kungenxa yoko le nto abantu bekwazi ukufunda ngokumisela imeko kunye nezenzo eziphindaphindiweyo. Ngephonografi, ingqondo yethu ifunda iipatheni ezithile malunga nesondo emva kokubukela. Ngenxa ye-Coolidge Effect, xa le mizekelo iphinda iphindwe ngokwaneleyo okanye "igugile", sifuna iindlela ezintsha. Oku kuphinda kuvelise umjikelo ongapheliyo wokufuna iphonografi entsha kunye nentsha, eyona nto ingumlutha.
Ubume bolu mlutha buyafana nolunye umlutha njengokutya ukutya okuthuthuzelayo (khumbula ukuba ingqondo ifakwe kwintambo ukuba izonwabisa ngokutya kunye nesondo), kodwa yahlukile kuba into entsha ibaluleke ngaphezu kobuninzi.
Ngoku usenokuba ucinga – KULUNGILE, kumnandi ukwazi oku… kodwa zikhona na yenene iingxaki zokubukela iphonografi eninzi? Ewe, zikhona:
- Ukubukela i-porn kuthatha ixesha. Isenokungabonakali ngathi mininzi, kodwa imizuzu eli-10 apha, imizuzu engama-30 phaya… yonke loo nto idibanisa kwixesha elinokuchithwa kakuhle ekwenzeni ezinye izinto.
- Njengoko besesitshilo ngaphambili, imifanekiso engamanyala ichaza indlela yokuziphatha nenkangeleko yamabhinqa. Ngokucacileyo oku kuneempembelelo kubudlelwane bakho, kwaye ke ngoko ubomi bakho kunye namanqanaba emveliso.
- Iphonografi itshintsha izinto ozithandayo ngokwesondo kunye nezinto ozikhethayo ngokuhamba kwexesha. Le yile ngempela umdla. Cinga ngale nto: ukuba ingqondo yakho inentambo yokufuna iphonografi entsha kunye nenoveli kwakhona kwaye kwaye kwakhona ... ucinga ukuba kuya kwenzeka ntoni xa ugqibile umxholo "oqhelekileyo" wephonografi? Uqala ukukhangela ama-fetish agqithisileyo kunye ne-kinks - ngoko ke, ipesenti enkulu yamadoda ngaphandle kokubukela imifanekiso engamanyala engenanto yokwenza kunye nokuthanda kwabo ngokwesondo okanye ukuqhelaniswa. Imeko ngokwemeko:
- Ukonyuka kwamathuba okungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile. Kuthiweyo.
- Ukunyuka kwamanqanaba okuxhalaba kwezentlalo ngenxa yenqanaba elisezantsi le-dopamine phakathi kweeseshoni zephonografi (xa unamanqanaba aphezulu e-dopamine).
- Ukunqongophala kwenkuthazo. Mhlawumbi ukusuka kwi-masturbation.
- Ubudlelwane obubi behlabathi lokwenyani ngenxa yembono egwenxa yesini somfazi.
Ngokusisiseko, iphonografi ecaleni kokuphulula amalungu esini imalunga nengqondo yakho ifuna i-dopamine ephezulu, hayi ngesondo.
izisombululo
Esona sisombululo silula yile siyikhankanye izihlandlo ezimbalwa ngasentla: yeka ukubukela iphonografi.
Wave bye-bye kwii-pornstars zakho ozithandayo.
Kukho ngokucacileyo, ezinye iingcamango nangona.
Kunokwenzeka kakhulu ukuba uya kudlula iingxaki zokuhoxisa ekunciphiseni ukusebenzisa kwakho i-porn. Njengechiza okanye enye into ekhobokisayo, kufuneka uyiqonde le nto kwaye wazi ukuba ungahlangabezana njani nayo – kuba izakuthatha ixesha. Isiphakamiso sethu kukutshintsha iminqweno kunye nokubongoza ngento enemveliso - yiya emsebenzini okanye uvelise into yokuyila, okanye gxila ngokwenene kwi-mission yakho ebomini.
Iiforamu ezininzi kunye namaqela enkxaso kwi-Intanethi acebisa ukuphelisa isondo kunye nokuphulula amalungu esini ngexesha lakho "lokuqalisa kwakhona". Ukunyaniseka, noThanh okanye mna andinayo/akhe ndibe likhoboka le-porn, ngoko ke asinawo amava obuqu kulo mba. Ngokwembono yemveliso, Ukusika i-masturbation linyathelo elilungileyo - amanqanaba akho emveliso aya kunyuka. Ngokuphathelele ngesondo, ke, abanye abantu bathi akukho sini esibanceda ukuba badlule kwinkqubo. Uluvo lwethu lwelokuba isondo eliqhelekileyo, eliqhelekileyo liyinto esempilweni (kwaye ineenzuzo ezininzi).
Usenokuba uyazibuza ukuba ngaba kuyimfuneko ukusika zonke iphonografi ebomini bakho, okanye ukuba yingxaki kuwe. Nalu uvavanyo olulungileyo olucatshulwe kuzo zonke iiforam kunye namaqela enkxaso ajongana nalo mba: ungawufumana umfazi wokwenyani?
Ukuba impendulo ayikho, okanye ukuba ungathanda ukwenza i-masturbation nge-pornography endaweni yokulala ngesondo kunye nomfazi wangempela, ngoko unengxaki yokulutha i-porn.
Qaphela: Oku kucinga ukuba umfazi wokwenene unomtsalane ngokwesondo by Jikelele definition, ingabi yinto ethi uluntu “libhinqa elinomtsalane” okwangoku.
Ngokuphathelele umba wokususa yonke iphonografi - ukuthatha inxaxheba ngokungaqhelekanga kulungile. Kwaye ngokungakhathali, cinga emva xa abazali bakho bafumana ikopi entsha yePlayboy kanye ngenyanga ngeposi. Ungabheja ukuba bebengajongi kwiphepha lama-24/7/365.
Izibonelelo kwi-No Porn
Ngokucacileyo kufuneka kubekho iingenelo ekunciphiseni iphonografi ukuze siyikhankanye. Ukongeza ekusombululeni uninzi lweengxaki ezikhankanywe ngasentla, ufumana:
- Ixesha elingakumbi lokwenza ezinye izinto. Ixesha elingaphantsi kwesikrini kunye ne-porn = ixesha elingakumbi kwenye indawo.
- Ixesha elingaphantsi kwesikrini ngokubanzi. Ngokombono wethu, ngelixa i-porn iyingqayizivele, unokuthatha indawo ye-porn ngokulula kunye nochungechunge lweTV okanye imidlalo yevidiyo oyithandayo. Okukhona uchitha ixesha elininzi kude nekhompyuter uzonwabisa, kokukhona ixesha lakho lokusebenza kwikhompyuter liya kuba nemveliso ngakumbi.
- Uqeqesha ukuzeyisa kwakho ngokungabukeli i-porn kunye nokungaphululi amalungu esini.
- Ufumana a uvavanyo oluyinyani ngakumbi lobuhle basetyhini. Njengoko siphawulile ngasentla, oku kunjalo hayi malunga nokukhohlisa ingqondo yakho ukuba ukholelwe ukuba oko uluntu lukutshoyo "bubuhle babasetyhini" kulungile – imalunga nokuyiqonda loo nto uninzi “oluyi-avareji” abasetyhini ehlabathini alubukeki njengeenkwenkwezi zephonografi.
- Unxibelelwano olungcono kunye nabasetyhini. Oku mhlawumbi. Uninzi lwamadoda ayeka ukusebenzisa i-porn ingxelo yokuba yenza unxibelelwano lwabo nabasetyhini lube nzulu. Asinangxaki kule, njengoko sicinga ukuba inento yokwenza ngakumbi namadoda anyusa umtsalane wesondo wabasetyhini (kunye nezinye iimpawu) ezikhokelela kwisondo.
Eyona khosi iSebenzayo
Oku bekungayi kuba yi-Efficiency yase-Asia ukuba asizange sinikeze uhlobo oluthile lwesicwangciso senyathelo ngenyathelo lokuhamba malunga nokuphumeza konke oku. Nantsi.
- Nciphisa ukubukela iphonografi, okanye uyisuse ngokupheleleyo. Sele siyayazi i iinzuzo zokuyeka ukuphulula amalungu esini, kwaye ukuba uyayenza loo nto, uya kufumana ukusebenzisa kwakho iphonografi kuncitshiswe kakhulu. Qaphela: kancinci ngoku kunye neqabane lakho akuyona into embi - ngakumbi kule nqaku lethu elizayo kwi-Asian Efficient Sex.
- Hamba uchithe ixesha elininzi kunye nabafazi bokwenene endaweni. Lo ngumbono onzima ukuginya kwiindawo ezininzi "zokubuyisela i-porn" kunye namaqela enkxaso. Ngoba? Ngenxa yokuba ikhuthaza ngokungangqalanga amadoda ukuba abe ngamanenekazi ngamadoda, nto leyo kwimeko yangoku, ayichanekanga ngokwezopolitiko. Ngoku nokuba oku kuthetha ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye nentombi yakho / iqabane / iqabane lakho, okanye nokuba kuthetha ukuchitha ixesha elininzi ubetha indawo yebar / yeklabhu udlala ngabafazi bokwenyani, kuxhomekeke kuwe. Yonke into esiyaziyo ngokuqinisekileyo, kukuba ukusebenzisana nabasetyhini bokwenene kungcono kunokubukela i-porn.
- Fumana imbono esengqiqweni ngakumbi ngesini. Oku kukhokelela ku-#2 – okukhona unxibelelana nabantu basetyhini, kokukhona uya kuqonda ukuba zininzi kangakanani iindlela zokuziphatha kwabantu ngokwesondo kunye “nezithethe” eziyohlukayo. Silahle iingcebiso kunye neziqwenga ezincinci kuthotho lwethu lwamanqaku, kodwa abantu abaninzi abakayiqondi into yokuba amadoda namabhinqa aselula (namakhulu) adlala yonke imihla kwimifanekiso engamanyala. Kholwa okanye awukholwe, kukho amadoda (kunye nabafazi) phaya phandle ahlala ngaphandle "kwentelekelelo" yeemeko ezinjengee-threesomes, athandana nabasetyhini abaninzi ngaxeshanye kwaye balala nabasetyhini abatsha ubusuku bonke.
Ekuvaleni
- I-porn encinci = ixesha elincinci lesikrini = imveliso eninzi.
- Umlutha wephonografi sisiluphu esibandakanya i-dopamine, i-Coolidge Effect, iphonografi yanamhlanje kunye neplastiki yengqondo yakho.
- Abasetyhini akufuneki bakhathazeke ngale nto kakhulu.
- Isisombululo esilula: yeka ukubukela iphonografi.
- Thatha ixesha oligcinayo ngokungabukeli iphonografi, kwaye ulichithe nabafazi bokwenyani endaweni yoko.
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