Abanyangi ngokwesini bahlala bekhawuleza ukunyanzelisa ukuba ukusetyenziswa kwe-vibrator kulunge kakhulu kubafazi. Nangona kunjalo, bukhona ubungqina obukhulayo bokuba ii-vibrator ngokwenene "zezona zinto zingaphaya kwamandla omntu," ezingenakuthelekiswa namaqabane abantu. Abanye abasebenzisi, oku kupela ukwehla kokuphendula ngokwesondo kunye nolonwabo xa usabelana ngesondo neqabane.
Embindini we-2018, uphando olwenziwayo lwe-vibrator olufanelekileyo kunye noshicilelo oluqhelekileyo lwenziwa kumcimbi wokuba ukusetyenziswa kwe-vibrator kunciphisa ukuphendula kwezesondo okulandelayo ngexesha lokwabelana nabanye abasebenzisi be-vibrator. Kukho Akukho phando ngqo kwindawo (ukuvavanya iimpembelelo zokusetyenziswa kwesidlidliza kwi-arousal ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo). Ezona zifundo zithathu zibonakalayo kwizidlidliza zonke zixhaswe ngemali yiCawe kunye noDwight, inkampani yabazali yeTrojan, inkampani enecandelo eliphambili elizinikele ekwenzeni iithoyi zesini. Inomdla ke le nkampani kwiziphumo zezifundo ezithi omnye wabasebenzi bayo Ababhali bayo yonke i-3.
Ukungabikho konganyanzelekanga, uphando-ngqo kwindawo ethile kuvelise iimbono ezahluke kakhulu kwiwebhu. Umzekelo:
Ukucaca: akukho nanye into oyivayo malunga neentshukumo "ezenza ukungabi nantlonelo" nakubani na ovela nakULuphi na uhlobo lwesifundo sesayensi esibonisile ukuba, nangayo nayiphi na into esiyaziyo malunga nokomzimba womntu: konke kuphuma ngokungazi, uloyiko, ukungazithembi kunye nesidingo ulawulo. http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/do_vibrators_cause_a_loss_of_sensitivity
Okuchasene,
Mhlawumbi kuya kufuneka ufunde zonke izikhalo zoncedo ezivela kubafazi kuyo yonke i-intanethi bekhalaza ukuba baphulukene nobuntununtunu. Uninzi lweempendulo ezivela kubaqeqeshi bezonyango zibonakala ngathi ziyinto engekhoyo ngaphandle kokucinga. Baxelela abantu basetyhini ukuba uvakalelo luya kubuya kwaye yingxaki nje yexeshana. Ewe uvakalelo lwam lwalulahlekile kwiminyaka eyadlulayo kwaye aluzange lubuye. Ungandixeleli ukuba izidlidliza azibangeli monakalo! https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Sexual-Health/What-evidence-do-you-have-that-vibrators-dont-cause-nerve-damage/show/2465319
Njengombandela wesayensi, umba kukuba ingaba izinto eziphambili zokudlala ezinje ngamathoyizi okwabelana ngesondo (kunye ne-intanethi engapheliyo) zinokunciphisa ukuphendula ngexesha lesini sokunxibelelana ngento yokudlala kwabanye abasebenzisi be-vibrator. Ii-anecdotes ezininzi zithi ziyakwazi, kwaye eyona ikufutshane (kodwa ingekho ngqo kwindawo) uphando lufumene i-16.5% yabasebenzisi be-vibrator abasetyhini baxela "ukungabinayo," uninzi lwethutyana. Kwakhona, olo phando lwalunikwe inkxaso-mali (kwaye lubhaliwe) yinkampani eyayinalo iithoyi ezinesini. (Okungakumbi ngezantsi)
Kuyinto engathandekiyo ukuba i-sexologists ayiphandi ngokuthe ngqo le nto. Njengophando lwe-intanethi lwe-porn, luya kufuna ukuba (i-1) abasebenzisi bayeke okwethutyana ukusetyenziswa kwe-vibrator kwaye baxele naluphi na utshintsho, okanye (i-2) abasebenzisi abatsha abanamaqabane okuhlangana babike naluphi na utshintsho.
Esi sihloko sisikhumbuza xa abaphandi kwoluhlu oluphambili lwezifundo zezesayensi babhengezwe (ngaphezulu kweshumi leminyaka elidlulileyo) ukuba abafana abancinci abane-ED kunye nokulahleka komtsalane kumaqabane okwenyani babetshintsha bobabini emva kokuyeka i-intanethi kwi-intanethi, kwaye ukuba abaphandi ngesondo kufuneka baphande Iimpembelelo ze-intanethi ze-intanethi. Musani ukuba ngamampunge. Oko kungathi kukuphanda i-unicorns, utshilo omnye wabo.
Ukuphendula okugxothwayo kuye kwenzeka nangona kwangaxeshanye, abaphandi baseKinsey bebesandula ke babika into efanayo malunga nokusasazwa kwe-porn kwimivalo nakwindlu zokuhlambela: Umzekelo woLawulo loBini-Indima yokuThintelwa koSondo kunye nokuNxanxwa koSondo kunye nokuziphatha (2007). Omnye wababhali wayekwisoluhlu lwezesondo… kwaye akazange athethe nto.
Kwisayensi, akukho nto isebenzayo njengoko hayi ukhangela into ukuba awufuni ukuyifumana, kwaye kusebenza okufanayo apha. Abanyangi ngesondo kunye nabaphandi babo bancoma iithoyi zokulala ngesondo (kunye nokusetyenziswa kwe-intanethi) ngaphandle kokubhuka. Owu, le ndlela ayisebenzi njengethunywa “lempilo yezesondo”.
Of ikhosi abantu i-orgasm ngokulula kwaye banike ingxelo evusayo ngakumbi ngoncedo lwesondo. Kuphononongo olubizwa ngokuba, "Iimpawu zokusetyenziswa kwe-vibrator phakathi kwabafazi (1996)," Isininzi esibonisiweyo se-orgasms eshukunyiswa kukuvuselelwa kwe-vibrator sasinamandla ngakumbi kunabanye. Yiyo loo nto izixhobo zesondo zibizwa ngokuba "zixhobo zesondo."
Nangona kunjalo, ukuya kwinqanaba labasetyhini ngokulula ngokudlala ngamathoyizi (kunye namava anciphise ukonwatyiswa kwezokwabelana ngesondo xa besabelana ngesondo), bubungqina bokuba amathoyizi okwabelana ngesondo "ayenyusa amandla", iziphumo ezinokuthi zingaphindwa liqabane lomntu. . Ngenxa yoko, vibrators zinokuthi imeko yabasebenzisi bayiphendule ngesondo, ukuba isini esabelana naye ngesondo singabi lolwaneliseko- kunye nezinto zokudlala ziyonyuka.
Abantu kufanelekile bathathe isigqibo sokusebenzisa izixhuzula ngokusekwe kulwazi olupheleleyo, hayi umbono ophosakeleyo.
Le nto inegama lesidlaliso kwi-intanethi: "I-Dead Vagina Syndrome," (ngokuchanekileyo "i-clitoris syndrome efileyo"?) Kwaye kuye kwakho isasazo esikhulu semithombo yeendaba ukukhanyela ubunyani bayo. Oogqirha abaliqela abaphinda iindawo ezifanayo zokuthetha babonakalise ukubulawa kwamanqaku afanayo "aqinisekisayo". Hmmm…
Intsalela yale qokelelo yahlula-hlulwe kuphando, kwii-anecdotes ezibonwe kwiiforamu, kunye namanqaku avela kwiWebhu kwisifundo.
QAPHELA: Umzi mveliso uyaqhubeka nokukhuthaza ukusetyenziswa kwe-vibrator nomphandi "wokuqesha": Abasetyhini banokonwabela ii-orgasms kangangemizuzwana emine kwaye bagqibe ngokukhawuleza ukuba basebenzisa into yokudlala ngesondo, uphando olutsha lutyhile. Nangona kunjalo, abasetyhini bayaqhubeka nokuxela iziphumo ezibi ezinxulumene nokusetyenziswa kwe vibrator: Ubudala be-30s yabasetyhini-abakwazi ukwenza i-orgasm kunye namadoda, kuphela yedwa - ibali lempumelelo kude kube ngoku!
Uphando olunxulumene nee-vibrators
Utshintsho kumava ezesondo kunye nolindelo lwabasetyhini emva kokungeniswa koncedo lombane weshukumisi.
(Efanelekileyo)
Nini abaphandi babuye kwi-19 abasebenzisi abatsha be-vibrator, “Abafazi bathethe lukhulu ngotshintsho kwimpendulo yabo evuselelayo kunye ne-orgasmic xa beqala ukusebenzisa isidlidlizi. … Ngokubalulekileyo, abasetyhini abasibhozo bachaza ngokuthe ngqo ukuba babekhathazekile ngokuxhomekeka kwishukumisi. … Bathathu kuphela abantu ababhinqileyo abathethe ngokuthe ngqo malunga nobomi babo besondo obuhlulelanayo obuphuculwa sishukumisi. ”
Ubungakanani kunye neempawu zokuSetyenziswa kweVibrator ngabafazi baseMelika: Iziphumo zoPhononongo lwaBameli beLizwe.
PHAWULA: Ixhaswe yinkampani yabazali beTrojan (iCawa kunye neDwight Co), enesahlulo sezinto zokudlala ngesondo. Ayisiyiyo loo nto kuphela, omnye wababhali-mbhali yayiyi-C & D umsebenzi:
Ukugqubana kwemidla: UAnahita Ghassemi ngumsebenzi weCawe kunye noDwight Co, Inc., liziko elixhase olu phando.
Abanye ababhali banxulumene neYunivesithi yaseIndiana okanye iZiko laseKinsey.
Phantse i-30% yabasetyhini babe namava obuni besini ngokusetyenziswa kwe-vibrator. Itotali ye-16.5% (95% CI, 14.3-18.7%) eyakha yaziva amava omzimba, uninzi lwethutyana. Umhlathi opheleleyo:
Kubasebenzisi abakhe basebenza, i-71.5% (95% CI, 68.8-74.2%) baxela ukuba abakhange bafumane naziphi na iziphumo ezichaziweyo kusetyenziso lwe-vibrator. Njengoko kubonisiwe kwiTheyibhile 5, itotali eyi-16.5% (95% CI, 14.3-18.7%) yakha yanamava esini, nge-0.5% (95% CI, 0.1-0.9%) inika ingxelo yokuba ubundindisholo buhleli usuku okanye ngaphezulu . Phakathi kwabo banika ingxelo yokuba ndindisholo, inqanaba lamanqanaba okuqina kwe-4.0 (kwinqanaba le-10). Inani elipheleleyo le-3.0% (95% CI, 2.0- 4.0%) ixelwe ukuba ikhe yafumana iintlungu zangasese ngenxa yokusetyenziswa kwe-vibrator, nge-0.6% (95% CI, 0.1-1.1%) yokuxela iintlungu ezihlala usuku okanye nangaphezulu. Phakathi kwezo ntlungu zichazayo, amanqaku obukhali obuphakathi yayingu-3.0. Inani elipheleleyo le-9.9% (95% CI, 8.1-11.7%) yabasebenzisi baxela ukuba banamava okuchaphazeleka kwilungu lesini ekusebenziseni i-vibrator, nge-2.6% (95% CI, 1.6-3.6%) yokunika ingxelo yokucaphuka ehlala usuku okanye nangaphezulu. Phakathi kwabo banika ingxelo yokucaphuka, amanqaku obukhali obuphakathi yayingu-4.0. Ukudumba / Ukudumba kwaxelwa yi-8.0% yabasebenzisi (95% CI, 6.4-9.6%) nge-1.5% (95% CI, 0.8-2.0%) yokuxela ukudumba / ukudumba usuku okanye nangaphezulu. Amanqaku okuqina okuphakathi kokudumba / ukudumba yayiyi-4.0. Inani elipheleleyo le-1.1% yabasebenzisi (i-95% CI, i-0.5- i-1.7%) ixelwe ukuba ifumene iinyembezi okanye ukusikwa ngokunxulumene nokusetyenziswa kwe-vibrator, ngenqaku eliphakathi le-1.0.
Abaphandi abaze babuza ukuba kukho ukuphendula ukuphendula phakathi kokulala neqabane. Kwaye baphinde balikhangela eli thuba njenge "nkolelo yembali":
"Nangona kunjalo, ngenxa yenkolelo engokwembali yokuba ukusetyenziswa kwe-vibrator kunokuhlala abantu basetyhini ngeendlela ezithile zokuphendula ngesondo (okt, ukufumana intsholongwane ngokulula kunye ne-vibrator kwaye kungabi njalo neqabane), uphando lwamva kufuneka luqwalasele ukuvavanya ukuba ingaba abantu basabela njani ngokwesini sabasetyhini. -Kanye, kungenjalo, kuphuculwe-ngokunxulumene nokusetyenziswa kwe vibrator. "
Iimpawu zokusetyenziswa kwe-vibrator phakathi kwabafazi
(I-1996, isampulu eqokelelweyo evela kubathengi be-vibrator. Ayimeli: I-37% ubuncinci bezesondo, i-54% inamaqabane abelana ngesondo kuphela angamadoda)
Ngelixa abanye ababhali (umzekelo, uHeiman, uLo- Piccolo, kunye noLoPiccolo, 1976; iiMasters kunye noJohnson, 1986) bakhuthaze abasetyhini ukuba basebenzise isidlidlizi ukukhulisa inkanuko yesini okanye ukuphucula amandla e-orgasmic, abanye (umz., Kaplan, 1974) khange ndithandeke, ndisoyika ukuba umfazi angaxhomekeka kakhulu kwishukumisi. U-Kaplan uvakalise ukuba abantu basetyhini abanakho ukufumana amava e-orgasm ngezinye iindlela ukuba isidlidlizi sixhomekeke kakhulu.
… Abasetyhini abahlangabezana ne-orgasm kuphela bafumanise isidlidluli somntu kunye nokukhuthaza ubunyani busebenza kakhulu, phantse i-80% ebonisa ukuba kukhuthaza ukubambana komntu kunye ne-vibrator rhoqo okanye kusoloko kubangela umdla.
… Abafazi abaninzi (n = 123) ichaze umahluko, ukuba ukhona, phakathi kweemvakalelo abanazo xa lo moya wawushukunyiswa kukusebenzisa vibrator, ngokuthelekiswa neemvakalelo zabo xa bekungasetyenziswa vibrator. Uninzi lwee-orgasms ezixeliweyo zazinamandla nge-vibrator (jonga kwiTheyibhile 4). Abasetyhini abalishumi banike ingxelo yokuba banamava kuphela kwi-orgasm ngokusetyenziswa kwe-vibrator.
… Ukuzivuselela kwakuthembeke ngakumbi ekuvuseleleni umdlingo kunakwimisetyenzana yesondo. Uninzi lwabasetyhini ubuncinci banelisekile ngokulinganayo malunga nokuhamba rhoqo okanye ukungaguquguquki kwamava abo e-orgasmic, bobabini bebodwa kunye neqabane. Le ayisiyo isampulu yabasetyhini abaphoxekileyo ngamava abo ezesondo okanye ukusebenzisa i-vibrator ukuhlawula ukungoneliseki ngokwesondo ngezinye iindlela, nokuba yodwa okanye neqabane.
Idatha ayiphakamisanga ukusetyenziswa kwe-vibrator yayineziphumo ezibi ekusebenzeni ngokwesondo kunye nolwaneliseko ngaphandle usebenzisa isidlidlizi, kodwa akukho datha ngokuthelekisa impendulo yesondo ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo phakathi kwabasebenzisi kunye nabangengabo abasebenzisi- njengesampulu yonke esetyenzisiweyo vibrators, phakathi kwezinye iindlela zokuphulula amalungu esini kunye nemisebenzi yesondo.
Ukukhathazeka ngeklinikhi kunye nophando ngokuvuselela okudityanisayo: ukuphononongwa nokuphononongwa ngokutsha kwezixhobo eziqhelekileyo zokuvuselela
(Kuvavanywa izidlakudla ngoomatshini, kune-vivo. Injongo yolu phononongo yayikukuvavanya iipropathi zoomatshini besixhobo esiqhelekileyo sokuvuselela ngokwesini.)
[Ukusuka ku-Abstract] Ama-vibrators asixhenxe asetyenziselwa ukhuthazo lwesini avavanywa kusetyenziswa isantya sombane esinyuswe kwizindlu zawo ukuze kufunyanwe imvamisa, kususwe kude, kunye nokukhawuleziswa kwento nganye. Ukuhamba rhoqo kwe-Vibratory kususela kwi-43 ukuya kwi-148 Hz, ukufuduswa ukusuka kwi-37 ukuya kwi-783 μm, kunye nokukhawulezisa ukusuka kwi-18 ukuya kwi-311 m / s2. Uluhlu lubonisa ukuba vibrators ezisetyenziswa kwizifundo zaselabhoratri zingalonyusa kakhulu ukonyusa kwazo, ngelixa ezinye izixhobo zinokuthoba imvakalelo yesondo okwethutyana. Isifundo se-vivo sinokubonakalisa iipatheni zokusetyenziswa ezinokwandisa ukuvuswa kwesondo ngelixa kuncitshiswa ukulahleka kobuthathaka.
[Kwiphepha] Abaxhasi banokuxela inkxalabo malunga neentshukumo ezenza ukuba i-vibrator ibe yi-``crutch '' yesini okanye ukunciphisa ubuntununtunu babo (Heiman & LoPiccolo, 1988). Olunye lolo loyiko lubonakala kufanelekile. Uhlengahlengiso lwexesha elifutshane luyenzeka kukhuthazo lokungcangcazela, njengokukhuthaza imizuzwana eli-15 emva kovuselelo olushukumayo oluqhubekayo alunakucalulwa nangaphambi kokukhuthaza okushukumisayo (UTommerdahl et al., 2005). Nangona kunjalo, izidlidliza zisenokungafaniyo kunokukhuthaza imanuwali ukunciphisa ubuntununtunu obulandelayo. [ß Ukunikezelwa kwengxelo engenangqondo njengale, umntu kufuneka abuze ukuba leliphi iqela likaPrause elikhonzayo….]
Ukuncamathela okuxhalabisayo kunye nokuthintelayo, ukusebenzisa i-vibrator, isondo lesondo, kunye nokungasebenzi kakuhle komfazi.
(Unomdla wobumnene, kodwa hayi ngecala)
IINKCUKACHA:
Unamatheliso olunxungupheleyo lwalunxulunyaniswa nokungqinelana okungaphantsi kobumfazi, kodwa ngesantya esiphakamileyo se-vibrator kunye ne-anal sex orgasms. Ukuthintela ukunamathela kwakudityaniswa rhoqo nokuhamba rhoqo kwe-vibrator orgasms. Ukungakhathalelwa okanye ukunamathela ekunxibeleleni kudityaniswa nenani lobomi bamaqabane abelana ngesondo kunye nokuhlangana.
Ukuchongwa kwee-orgasms zesetyhini
(2016-ayisiyo isifundo se-vibrator, kodwa kutsha nje kwaye sinomdla)
… [Kwabasetyhini] Kukho imeko eqhubekayo yokwehla ngokubhekisele kubudala be-orgasm yokuqala ekuphulula amalungu esini, kodwa hayi malunga nobudala be-orgasm yokuqala ekulalaneni. Kule mihla, isiqingatha sabasetyhini sine-orgasm yabo yokuqala ekuphulula amalungu esini ubuncinci iminyaka eyi-5 ngaphambi kwe-orgasm yabo yokuqala ekulalaneni kwabo. Banethu ixesha elingakumbi lokuziqhelisa ukonwaba kwabo ngokwesini ngokusebenzisa Ukuphulula amalungu esini ngaphambi kokuhlangana kwabo okokuqala, kodwa oko akubancedanga ukufezekisa isini esincinci ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo. Esi siphumo siyahluka kulindelo. (ugxininiso olunikeziweyo)
Kukho ezinye iziphumo ezifumanekayo zokuba ukuphulula amalungu esini kunxulunyaniswa nomgangatho wobudlelwane obuhlwempuzekileyo, umngcipheko omkhulu wokuphazamiseka kwesondo kwabasetyhini, ukoneliseka okwenzakalisayo ngokwesondo, ukungasebenzi kakuhle komzimba (ngakumbi ubulolo lobufazi) kunye nezinye iinkqubo ezimbi. 2007). Kolu phononongo, umgangatho wobudlelwane babasetyhini awuzange unxulunyaniswe nemvamisa yokupeyinta kodwa ukwaneliseka ngokubanzi ngesondo kwakuphantsi phakathi kwabafazi abaye baphulula amalungu esini ngokusebenza.
Ukusetyenziswa kwe-vibrator yabasetyhini kwintsebenziswano yezesondo: iziphumo ezivela kuvavanyo lwesizwe e-United States.
Eli phepha (elandulelayo lelinye nje elingasentla) lalikwaxhaswa ngemali yinkampani engumnini weTrojan (ngecandelo lokudlala ngesondo) kwaye yabhalwa ngumqeshwa wenkampani. Yenzile hayi ngokuthe ngqo thelekisa ukusabela ekuphenduleni phakathi kwabasebenzisi be vibrator nokuphendula ngesondo phakathi kwabasebenzisi abangasebenzisi vibrator.
Nangona kunjalo, "kwinqanaba lokwoneliseka" kwiphepha lemibuzo le-FSFI ("iSexual Function Index"), ulwaneliseko lwaluphezulu "ze abasebenzisi ”phakathi kwehetero kunye nabafazi aba-bi. Ngaba oku kuphakamisa ukuba kunokubakho ingxaki egutyungelweyo yindlela esetyenzisiweyo kolu phando luxhaswayo?
Ukusetyenziswa kweVibrator phakathi kwamadoda ahlukileyo kuyahluka ngokwenqanaba lobambiswano: iziphumo ezivela kwisizwe esimele ilizwe kwisifundo eMelika.
Ukufundisisa ngamadoda, ukuze kungahambelani ne- "vagina syndrome." Olu phando lwaluxhaswe yinkampani yabazali baseTrojan, kwaye babhalwa nguHerbenick (Kinsey) waseYunivesithi yaseIndiana.
Ii-anecdotes kwiWebhu
[Ii-anecdotes ezingakumbi zingafumaneka ngezantsi kwicandelo elilandela eli.]
Umfazi wokuqala: Ingxaki yam enkulu yayikukusebenzisa ukungcangcazela ukuze ndehle kwaye konakalisa ubuntununtunu bam. Ndiphose i-vibrator yam ngaphandle ngokupheleleyo. Ngelishwa kuye kwafuneka ndilahle yonke into eshukuma endlini kuba bendihlala ndizama ukufumana umntu oza kubambela. I-Goodbye Sonic-Care isixhobo sokucoca ubuso. Ukwabelana ngesondo kungcono kakhulu. Akukho mbuzo. I-clitoris yam ibifile kuyo yonke into engasebenziyo. ”
Umfazi wesibini: “Ndiyathemba ukuba isipeliti esomileyo esivela kum siza kundenza ndinomdla wokuthandana. Abafazi abaneminyaka eyi-18 ubudala akufuneki bagcinwe kumagumbi abo ane-porn kunye nezinto zokudlala. Ndingathanda ukugqiba kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo ngesandla esomileyo. ”
Umfazi wesithathu: "Ndiyafunda hentai Kancinci kwaye uphulula amalungu esini phantse yonke imihla. Ndidinga ukuyeka. Ndilahlekelwe bubuntununtunu kwi-clitoris yam kwi-vibrator yam. ”
Omnye umfazi: Ukusetyenziswa kweVibrator kunokubangela ukuba umntu angathandeki emfazini. Ndaqala ukusebenzisa enye kwikholeji, ndicinga ukuba ndingumfazi wanamhlanje, oxhotyiswe ngokwesondo, kwaye ndingakholelwa ukuba usebenze njani ngokufanelekileyo. Isebenze kakuhle. Kwisithuba senyanga, ndandingasenakukwazi ukwenza i-orgasm kunye nesithandwa sam, kwaye kwiinyanga ezimbalwa emva koko, ndandingasakwazi ukuyenza ngesandla sam kwakhona. I-vibrator yangena enkunkumeni kwaye ukuphendula kwam kwabuya emva kweeveki ezithile. Okwangoku, kwiminyaka elishumi kamva, ngamanye amaxesha ndiyalukhumbula uvuselelo olunamandla. Nangona kunjalo, ngokuqinisekileyo andikuphosi ukuphendula ngokwesondo elulwalweni.
Ndiye ndahlala kude ne-Intanethi ngesizathu esifanayo. Kuyakhuthaza kakhulu, kwaye ndiyazi ukuba ndiza kukhawuleza ndikhawuleze. Ndizamile ukukrexeza kanye. Ndiza ngaphantsi komzuzu omnye (akunjalo njengobomi bokwenene!) Ngenxa yokuba ukuvuselelwa kwakunzima kakhulu. Ukwabelana ngesondo okwenyani ngekhe kube nakho ukulinganisa oko. Mhlawumbi ndim okhethekileyo, kodwa ndizazi kakuhle. Ukuba bendiqala ukusebenzisa iphonografi kwi-Intanethi, bendiya kugqibela ndingomnye wabo bantu bangasakwazi kuvulwa ngaphandle kwayo. Hayi enkosi. Ndiza kugcina ubomi bam bobulili obuphilayo.
Indoda: Ndineentombi ezathi kukho ixesha elithile ebomini bakhe apho wayesebenzisa khona imfutho. Kodwa wafumanisa ukuba akakwazi ngokupheleleyo ukusebenzisana nabalingani bakhe ngenxa yokuba wayenomdla kakhulu. Uyeke umtshini, kwaye ndicinga ukuba uthe wamthatha malunga neenyanga ze-6 ukuze abuyele ejwayelekile.
Omnye umntu (ongekho kwii-vibrators, kodwa efanelekile nakweyiphi na indlela evuselela inkanuko yesini): Umfazi omnye kwabayi-1 abakwiminyaka yam abukele iphonografi. Ndiyakhumbula ndandicinga ukuba kwakupholile ukuba intombazana entle ibukele iphonografi. Kodwa ngokungathandekiyo, oku kubi kakhulu, akulunganga — kum nakubantu ngokubanzi. Ngokuqinisekileyo andifuni ukuba ubuchopho bomfazi wam wexesha elizayo buthathwe ngokungathandabuzekiyo ngoononophala, ke ubomi bakhe kunye nezakhono zam zokwenza uthando zibonakala ngathi ziyadika kwaye ziyadika. IJezez iyothusa le nto. Kubuhlungu ukubona indlela itekhnoloji engalunganga eye yajija ngayo ubuchopho bethu.
Amagqabantshintshi asampulu yamanqaku enkqubo
Uninzi lwala manqaku luqukumbele ukuba akukho "ngxaki yenene" evela ekusebenziseni i-vibrator, kuxhomekeka ikakhulu kuphando oluxhaswe ngezimali kumzi-mveliso, olungazibuzanga imibuzo ephambili, okanye kolu phando (olukhankanywe ngaphambili) olungaquki zifundo zabantu. Akukho namnye kumanqaku afunyenwe kulo mbandela obonise ukuba izifundo zaseIndiana ababhali ababethembele kuzo bezixhaswe ngemali ngumzi-mveliso ngumsebenzi-mveliso.
Ezi zinto zingezantsi azingqinisi nantoni na, kodwa zibonisa ukuba lo mbandela uqhelekile kangangokuba amanqaku amaninzi abhaliwe kule nto yokwehla kokuphendula. Ngenxa yokuqaqamba kwamanqaku abo okuthetha kunye nokungabikho kophando olunzima, ezinye zezi "zinokubekwa" ngumzi mveliso omnye oye waxhasa ngemali izifundo ze-Indiana.
Ngaba i-Vibrator yakho Iyonakalisa Ubomi Bakho Bokwabelana Ngesondo?
"Ndisenza isiphithiphithi kunye ne-vibrator yam," umhlobo wam uKate, * 35, undazise ngokuzolileyo nge-latte kwiveki ephelileyo. "Ndiyayithanda, ewe, kodwa isithandwa sam sicinga ukuba indenza ndiphenduleke kuwe, uyazi, kuye. ”Andizange ndothuswa kukuvuma kwakhe. Ugqirha wam ebesandicelile ukuba mandizame ukuthatha i-vi-break yam emva kokuba ndimxelele ukuba kwakunzima ukufumana i-orgasm ngaphandle kwe-Hitachi Magic Wand….
UCaroline waqonda ukuba uya phantse angakwazi ukwenza umthambo - ukusuka kwisini somlomo, ukukhuthaza okwenziwa ngesandla, okanye iintlobano zesini- ngaphandle komhlobo wakhe osebenza nebhetri. Uthi: “Indenze ndaneentloni indlela yokuba umzimba wam ungagungqi kuyo yonke into kodwa [ngesantya esiphezulu]. “UJon uya kuzama ukuhla phezu kwam okanye ukusebenzisa izandla zakhe, kodwa oko kuya kuhlala ngonaphakade. Ekugqibeleni sasiza kunikezela sobabini, kwaye ndibuyele umva vibrator. ”
Ngaba ufanele ukuba ube nexhala malunga ne "Dead Vagina Syndrome"?
1. I-DVS kuthiwa ibangelwa kukusebenzisa i-vibrator yakho kakhulu. Isifo se-vagina eswelekileyo kubhekisa ekusebenziseni i-vibrator yakho kakhulu, kubangela ukuba ubufazi bakho bungaphelelwa yimvakalelo. Amabali amaninzi malunga nale meko asasazekile, anokukwenza ukhathazeke malunga nokuba ujika kangakanani kuMnu Buzz ukuze uphume.
2. Yenzeka njani i-DVS, kunjalo? Kulungile, kungokuba ifile njani i-vagina syndrome kuthiwa yenzeka kukuba usebenzise i-vibrator yakho kangangokuba uphulukane nokukhuthaza ubugqwetha kunye nokuvuselela ubufazi. Iba mandundu-ngokuxhomekeka kwi-vibrator yakho rhoqo, uye ekugqibeleni ungabi nako ukuzilolonga nangayiphi na enye indlela, njengeqabane xa usabelana ngesondo. Ukuba uqhubeka nokusebenzisa i-vibrator yakho, uya kuthi uphele ngolusu olungafumani lonwabo. Yiyo loo nto, ifile. …
Ngaba iiVibrators zikhobokisa okanye ziyaBala? Unyango lwethu lwezeSondo lunempendulo yakho
Iingcebiso ngonyango kwezesondo
Yintoni ekufuneka uyazi malunga nesifo sangasese esifileyo
Kodwa ngaba isifo se-vagina eswelekileyo yinto yokwenyani? Okanye ngaba yintsomi esetyenzisiweyo yokuphelisa abafazi ukuba bangonwabi?
Ukuba awuyazi, i-vagina syndrome ibhekisa ekuncipheni okukhulu kovakalelo lobuchwephesha emva kokusetyenziswa kwemihambisi.
Ithiyori ithi ukuba usebenzisa i-vibrator 'kakhulu', uya kukwakhela ukunyamezelana nokukhuthaza ubuzwe kunye nokuvuselela ubufazi, kukwenze ungabi nakho ukwenza enye indlela ngayo. Ukuba uyaqhubeka nokusebenzisa isiqhulo sakho, yithi abafileyo abagqibeleyo, ubufazi bakho buya kululawula olo luvo, naloo nto, lithetha ukuba ubufazi bakho buzakufa ngokupheleleyo kwaye bungamelana naluphi na ulonwabo.
Izandi zoyikisa, akunjalo? Kwaye kanjalo Yenza ingqondo. Qhubeka usebenzisa indlela enye yokuhla kwaye mhlawumbi uya kuyifumana iyinkohlakalo ukuya kwi-orgasm evela kwezinye iindlela.
Kodwa ungoyiki, iipali zowesifazane. …
Iimpendulo ze-Quora: Ngaba ngaphezulu kokusebenzisa isidlidlizi kungadala umonakalo kwi-clitoris? Ngaba kukho umonakalo emzimbeni okanye ngenye indlela?
Ngaba i-vibrator yakho iyonakalisa i-orgasm yakho? (Inqaku leDaily)
Iinto zokudlala zesini zintle. Kodwa njengayo nayiphi na into eyenye, into eninzi kakhulu enokuba yingozi. Kwaye abanye abantu basetyhini baxelile ukuba emva kokusebenzisa iidrama zabo ixesha elininzi, ii-vaginas zabo ziye zangcoliswa luninzi lwezinye iindlela zokukhuthaza, ukuya kuthi ga apho kungekho nto imfutshane yejackhammer kwi-clitoris iya kubafaka kwi-orgasm.
… Nangona kunjalo, abanye abantu basetyhini bakholelwa ngamandla ukuba abo bashukunyiswayo babenza buthathaka. Kwisiqwenga seCosmo, umbhali uLauren Bans uchaze ukukhula kwe- "Vagina Syndrome," "okanye njengoko iingcali zibizwa njalo," i-DVS, "emva kweminyaka yokusebenzisa imbaza.
"Emva kweminyaka yokukhupha amandla inenekazi lam, ndafumanisa ukuba ukuza ngayo nayiphi na enye indlela ifuna inqanaba lokugxininisa ngokuthatha ii-SAT," uBan ubhale. “Kwakudinwa. Iminwe isetyenzwe ngokuthelekisa. Ndaziva ndilulwimi. Bendisoyika ukuba ndizishukumisile izibilini zam ukuba zifile ngonaphakade.
… I-TLDR: "ISifo iVagina Syndrome" esibuhlungu kakhulu ekusebenziseni isidlidliza mhlawumbi yintsomi. Kodwa izazinzulu azazi ngokuqinisekileyo, kuba akukho mntu wenziwe kuvavanyo oluthile ukufumanisa.
Ngaba iOrgasming eneVictor eziqinileyo? Amanyathelo e-8 Ukufumana ubuNzwa
A:… Uninzi lwabafazi banika ingxelo yokuba yonyusa inqanaba lobunzulu be vibrators zabo, okanye kufuneka baqhubeke "benyusa" iidrame zabo kwiimodeli ezinamandla ngakumbi.
… Ngelishwa, akuzange kubekho zifundo zigqibeleleyo eziye zabonisa ukuba ingaba ukuxhomekeka komzimba ngokwenyani kunokukhula, kodwa uninzi lwabasetyhini banika ingxelo yokuba ukusetyenziswa rhoqo kwe-vibrator kwenza kube nzima ukufikelela kwi-orgasm ngezinye iindlela (ezinje ngokuphulula amalungu esini ngokuhambisa ngomzimba okanye ngesondo lomlomo). .
Bubuphi ubungqina onabo bokuba izidlidlizi azibangeli monakalo?
Omnye umfazi wabuza ukuba bukhona na ubungqina bokuba i-clitoris inokungafuneki kwisidlidlizi. Uthe 'ayikuko ukuba ndivile'. Ngaba ucinga ukuba abukho ubungqina kuba sisifundo esingakhange sifundwe, okanye isifundo okanye iziphumo zibonise ukuba akunakwenzeka?
Mhlawumbi kuya kufuneka ufunde zonke izikhalo zoncedo ezivela kubafazi kuyo yonke i-intanethi bekhalaza ukuba baphulukene nobuntununtunu. Uninzi lweempendulo ezivela kubaqeqeshi bezonyango zibonakala ngathi ziyinto engekhoyo ngaphandle kokucinga. Baxelela abantu basetyhini ukuba uvakalelo luya kubuya kwaye yingxaki nje yexeshana.
Ewe uvakalelo lwam lwalulahlekile kwiminyaka eyadlulayo kwaye aluzange lubuye. Ungandixeleli ukuba izidlidliza azibangeli monakalo! Olu hlobo lweengcebiso zokungazi lubeka abanye abasetyhini emngciphekweni wale ngxaki inye kunye nokulibazisa ukukhangela indlela ezisebenza ngayo izidlidliza kwaye onokuthi anyangeke njani ingxaki. Ndivakalelwa kukuba ndoluswe ngendlela engamanyala kwaye AKUKHO konke okusengqondweni yam.
Isitshisi se-nerve esonakalisiweyo
Ndiyi-40 kwaye ndathenga ndasebenzisa i-vibrator okokuqala kwaye ndiyabona ngoku xa umyeni wam ezama ukundichukumisa kwaye andivuse kuvakala kamnandi kodwa andikwazi orgasim. Ndiyekile ukusebenzisa isidlidliza. Ngaba ingazonakalisa iziphelo zam zemithambo-luvo? Kungcono ndikwazi ukuziva ndikho kunye nokuphatha kwakhe… Ndingenza ntoni ukubuyisela iimvakalelo kuloo ndawo. Ndisebenzisa enye yeetoes hitatchi wands
Indlela amaThoyane esini aLuchaphazela ngayo ubudlelwane: Ngaba ahlala enyusa ukoneliseka?
Ngaba i-Dead Vagina Syndrome yinto yokwenene?
[Eli lixhomekeke kumphengululi kwi-Dunk "Dead Vagina Syndrome," kodwa linxibelelana nephepha elisandul 'ukuvavanya amandla e-vibration kwilebhu… akukho zifundo ziqinisekileyo]
Usenokuba ulivile igama elithi “Isifo seVagina esifileyo”Iphoswe ejikeleze i-intanethi, okanye ubuncinci wayiva le ngcamango ingemva kwayo: ukusebenzisa isidlidlizi sakho kakhulu kuya kuyonakalisa ubufazi bakho. Ngaba eli bango linaso isiseko sesayensi, nangona kunjalo? Okanye ngaba yenye nje intsomi yokuphambanisa abantu malunga nokuphulula amalungu esini?
Ngethamsanqa, ugqirha we-neurosologist kunye nochwephesha kwezesondo uNicole Prause, Ph.D., onayo wafunda Iziphumo zokungcangcazela, ithi akukho datha yokuxhasa amabango malunga ne-Dead Vagina Syndrome.
Ngaba ukusebenzisa i-vibrator kungonakalisa i-nerves yakho?
Masiqale nge-anatomy esisiseko. I-dorsal yesebe ye-pudendal nerve inoxanduva lokuziva kakuhle kwi-clitoris kunye ne-penis, ngokulandelanayo. Amadoda nabasetyhini banama-receptors aqondayo ukunyakaza, uxinzelelo, amaqondo obushushu, kunye nezinye iimvakalelo njengobushushu / ukubanda.
Nantsi inyani emnandi nangona! I-clitoris kunye ne-penis zineentlobo ezahlukeneyo zokufumana. I-clitoris inee-receptors ezibuthathaka ngakumbi kukungcangcazela phakathi kwe-5 kunye ne-15 Hz ngelixa ipenisi inovakalelo kumaza aphezulu (250Hz). Mhlawumbi kukho umahluko phakathi kwentshukumo efanelekileyo yamadoda nabafazi? Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku akukho phando ngale nto.
Siyazi ukuba kukho ukuhla kwendalo kunye okwethutyana kubuthathaka bentshukumo. Oku kuyenzeka nangokubamba. Konke oku kuthetha ukuba emva kwethutyana, kuya kufuneka uguqule igalelo (okt vibrations) ngandlela thile ukuze uqhubeke unesiphumo esifanayo. Ungakwenza oku ngokutshintsha isantya, ubunzulu, iintlobo zee-vibrations, okanye ngokuthatha ixesha elithile kude ne-vibrator.
Xa kuziwa kumbuzo kaJean kufuneka nditsho oku: Emva kokukhangelwa ngokucokisekileyo kweenkcukacha ezahlukeneyo, andizange ndikwazi ukufumana inqaku elinye malunga ne-vibrators ebangela ukonakala kwemithambo-luvo. Ngoku ngenxa yokuba akukho nqaku lipapashiweyo phaya alithethi ukuba le nto ayizange yenzeke okanye ayinakwenzeka. Ndingathi ngokwasemzimbeni ayiphumi kumbuzo. Umzekelo, Siyazi ukuba abantu abasebenza kunye ne-ham-hamers imihla yonke basengozini enkulu yokuphuhliswa kweengxaki ze-nerve kunye neengalo. Ndicinga ukuba ukuba ungasebenzisa isidlidliza esisezantsi kakhulu iiyure ezininzi, iintsuku ezininzi zilandelana, ewe, unokubangela ukuphazamiseka okanye ukonakala kwithambo.
QAPHELA: Umzi mveliso uyaqhubeka nokukhuthaza ukusetyenziswa kwe-vibrator nomphandi "wokuqesha": Abasetyhini banokonwabela ii-orgasms kangangemizuzwana emine kwaye bagqibe ngokukhawuleza ukuba basebenzisa into yokudlala ngesondo, uphando olutsha lutyhile. Nangona kunjalo, abasetyhini bayaqhubeka nokuxela iziphumo ezibi ezinxulumene nokusetyenziswa kwe vibrator: Ubudala be-30s yabasetyhini-abakwazi ukwenza i-orgasm kunye namadoda, kuphela yedwa - ibali lempumelelo kude kube ngoku!
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