Andizange ndicinge ukuba ndiza kubona imini apho izigulane zam ezincinci (phantsi kwe-40) ziza kubakho klinikhi zam izikhalazo ezihlukeneyo zesifo sokungasebenzi kwezesondo. Njenge-urologist e-United States, ndiyazi kakuhle i-erectile disysction (ED) kumadoda amadala. Lo ED oqhelekileyo unxulumene neendlela eziphathekayo ezifana ne-hypertension, i-vascular or neurologic, okanye ezinye zezilwanyana zangaphandle. Nangona kunjalo, ndilapha inani elincinci lamadoda phantsi kwe-40 ye-erectile dysfunction ngokungabikho kwanoma yiphina i-pathology.
Uphando lwe-meta-2002 lwangaphambili lwaluphakamise ukukhula kwe-ED kumadoda phantsi kwe-40 ukuba yi-2% kuphela.
Iintetho ziyahluka kakhulu. Amanye amabhinqa ayenokukwazi ukungeniswa kunye neqabane lawo (abanako ukulungiswa kunye noononophala). Amanye amadoda akakwazi ukuguga ngexesha lokulala (kuphela onokuyisebenzisa ngesandla). Abanye bayakhalaza nge-sex low drive. Ezinye zezigulane zam zilila ngeengxaki zabo zesini. Oko kukuthi, ezininzi izigulane zam ziye zavelisa ukukhethwa kwezesondo ezahlukeneyo ukusuka kwisiseko. Kwakhona, izigulana zikhalaza ngokukhawuleza ukukhawuleza ukukhishwa kwesinye isandla ngelixa elinye i-subset ikhononda malunga ne-ejaculation ngaphambi kokuqala. Abanye abantu abanenhlanhla ngakumbi abanokwazi ukulungiswa kweso sikhalazo ngesondo ukuba ipenisi yabo ivakalelwa. Bafumana ubuninzi beepenile kunye nokunciphisa okunzulu kwintlalo yesini. Izigulane ezininzi zithi ziziva zingabamano kunye namaqabane abo. Ngaphezu koko, abakwazi ukuguga ngaphandle kokuba bajonga kwi-porno okanye becinga ngomnye umntu okanye kwenye imeko. Okubuhlungu kukuba, izigulana ezimbalwa ziye zacinga ngokuzibulala. Ukukwazi ukuqala intsapho kwaye ube nesondo eliqhelekileyo kulindeleke ukuba kukho nawuphi na umfana osempilweni. Xa lo lindelo lungafikelelwa, iziphumo zempilo ezinzulu zifunyenwe. Le ntshumayelo yayindikhathazile kuba andizange ndive ngeyiphi na le miba ngexesha lezonyango okanye ngexesha lokuhlala kwam.
Ndizimisele kwimishini yokukhanyisa kolu hlobo lubalaseleyo. Ndothuswa kukufumana uphando olugqwesileyo ngesihloko endingenazintloni sazi nto ngaso. Ndenze into eyenziwa ngabantu abaninzi abafuna ukwazi ngento edidayo; Ndakhangela "uGqr. Uphando." Uninzi lweendawo ezize zichaze izizathu zengqondo ze-ED ezinje ngoxinzelelo okanye uxinzelelo. Ndandingathembeki ngenxa yokuba uxinzelelo kunye nokudakumba kuye kwahlala ixesha elide. Umbuzo uhleli, "Kutheni le nto kukho imeko entsha inyukayo ye-ED kumadoda aselula asempilweni?" Ke, ndaye ndemba nzulu kuphendlo lwam kwaye ndabona iwebhusayithi, yourbrainonporn.com. Ndachukunyiswa emva kokufumanisa ukuba kukho unxibelelwano phakathi kokusebenzisa iphonografi kunye nokungasebenzi ngokwesondo. Ndandithandabuza ekuqaleni. I-Porn ijikeleze ixesha elide. Emva kokufunda uninzi loncwadi olucetyiswayo kule webhusayithi, ndiye ndaqala ndabona uxhulumaniso oluchukumisayo. Inguquko ibonakala ngathi ikwi-2006 ngokuzalwa kwe-intanethi "iisayithi ze-porn tube." Oku kwenza ukuba amadoda ajonge iphonografi ngokufikelela okungapheliyo kunye nokutsha ngesantya esivuthayo. Ndaba neentloni kuba ngamanye amaxesha njengee-urologists ngamanye amaxesha sincoma izinto ezingamanyala ukuba "sincede" abaguli nge-ED yabo. Ngapha koko, thina ziingcali kwindoda engasebenziyo ngokwesini asazi kwanto malunga nale ngxaki enokubakho kwezempilo yoluntu.
Inani elininzi lophando liye lavela malunga nale meko yothusayo. Ewe, uphando olulungileyo! Ndinabalingane abaninzi abathandabuzayo nabathandabuzayo kwindima ye-porn kukungasebenzi kakuhle ngokwesini kwamadoda (kunye nokungasebenzi kakuhle kwabasetyhini). Ndiza kugxininisa ubungqina obusemthethweni apha ngezantsi. Ndikhuthaza bonke abafundi ukuba bafumane la manqaku aphambili kwaye bawafunde. Uyakufumana uninzi lwezenzululwazi lusithi akukho phando lwaneleyo. Kukho ixesha elibalulekileyo lokushiyeka ngophando kunye nokuhlaziywa kwayo ngexesha lokwenyani. Imizekelo emibini elungileyo kwimbali yakutshanje ebalaselisa le lag ingenakuphepheka zizinto ezicacileyo zecuba kunye neswekile. Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, kufuneka sisebenze nokuba akukho bungqina "baneleyo". Ngaba sikulungele ukungcakaza kulwalamano lwethu kunye nokuba sempilweni kwesondo? Ndiyazi ukuba andizimiselanga kuyithatha loo gembula.
UDkt. Tarek Pacha DO, Ugqirha wezifo, Iziko le-Urology laseMichigan
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