UBob ubhala:
... ndiye ndisebenzela i-Findom malunga nokuba yiminyaka emihlanu ngoku. Ndiye ndenza i-masturbating kwiingcingo zakhe kunye neepops ukususela ekuqaleni. Ngoku ndiye ndafunda okufutshane kule ngxaki kodwa ndiba namandla xa ndikunomfazi, okokugqibela ndaphuma ngosuku kwaye ndingeke ndiyenze oko, ndandizihlazo. Into endikhathazayo kukuba ndiyakwazi ukufikelela kwi-orgasm enkulu xa ndibukela izicatshulwa zakhe, kwaye ndibona iipops, ndize ndivuke xa ndifunda enye yeimeyile zakhe kum. Andiyiqondi ukuba kutheni ndikwazi ukuhlula abo babini kwaye ndiqhubeka ndenza xa nginomfazi. Ndikhathazeka kakhulu nguDkt. Sue.
Ndiyesaba ukuba unomdlavuza wezocwina uBob. Amadoda amaninzi andithethayo ukuba afikelele kwizigqibo xa kuziwa ekuziphatheni kwabo kunye nokulumkisa ilizwi eligqithisileyo malunga nantoni kokubambisana kwezesondo kunye nenyaniso. Kodwa lo ngumzekelo omhle wokwenyuka kobugqwetha beklasi.
I-intanethi ibonakale inegalelo kwinkoliso yemiba ekhoyo namhlanje. I-Porn iyifumaneka ngokulula kunokuba yayisetyenziswa kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ifikeleleke kubantu kumncinane nakancinane; abantwana abancinci njenge-12 baye baba yizilingo ezingamanyala.
Kodwa nanko umkhabi, umlutha wobugqwetha awukho kwi-DSM-5 (I-Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Disabilities of the Mind) eyona ngqungquthela engcwele yesifo sengqondo kodwa sonke siyazi ukuba ikhona kwaye ngokwenene ingxaki ebalulekileyo ekhula minyaka yonke . I-caveat xa ifika kwi-DSM kukuba ithinteke kakhulu kwi-shishini lezobisi kwaye ixhalabele ngakumbi ngeengxaki zokubhaliweyo kunokubambisana nabo kunye neninzi yolwazi iqulethe. Ngokomzekelo bavakalelwa ukuba ne-paraphilia (fetish) yimeko yesifo sengqondo. [Kungenxa yoko ndicebisa umntu ukuba angene kwiimpilo zempilo yengqondo ukuze 'ufikelele' lwakho oluyisiseko
esikolweni ngenxa yokuba i-99.9% yento oyifunayo ivela kwizigulane zakho kungekho incwadi ekhulile kakhulu ekungabalulekanga. -Ngokuba kungabikho ubungqina bezesayensi obuya kwenza abo bantu abadala bekhowudi bakwazi ukuyibeka Incwadi ithi isishiye ngaphandle kwenkqubo yonyango yonyango. Kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba ayikwazi ukuphathwa. Ithetha nje nje njengeklinikhi uzama iindlela ezahlukeneyo de kube yinto ethile. Makhe sibone kuqala ukuba kutheni ndicinga ukuba uBob unomlutha wezobisi.
Nangona kungekho bungqina bobunzululwazi obuya kwenza abafana abaluvuyo sibe nekhono lokubukela iindlela kwaye abaninzi abanengqondo beengqondo kunye neengqondo zenzile uphando olulula kunye nokubona okusemandleni ukuba sikwazi ukuqaphela ukutyekela okuphindaphindiweyo.
Ukungasebenzi kwe-Erectile - Ukukwazi ukufumana ukulungiswa ngaphandle kokusetyenziswa koononophelo okhethiweyo okanye ukungakwazi ukufumana ukulungiswa ngokujonga abantu abathathu bayizikhundla endaweni yomfanekiso wesibini.
Dissociation / Reclusiveness - Ukungakwazi ukuthetha okanye ukuba novelwano kumlingane wakho ngaphezu kokungabi nesifiso sesini. Uqala ukufumana umlingane wakho ecasulayo ngenxa yokuba ufuna iphepha lakho loononophelo, uhlaziyo lwakho. Ndinezicaka zitsho ukuba zithandana nokuphulula i-masturbating kangcono kuba niyazi indlela yokuzicima ngaphandle ngoxa zingabikho.
Ungakwazi kwakhona ukuhlaziywa apho uyeka ukuphuma kunye nabahlobo okanye ukuba ungatshatanga ungazikhathazi ukuba umcimbi kuba ngumsebenzi omningi okanye ukhupha kude ne-porno. Kwaye kwamanye amaxesha aphezulu amadoda aya kuhlala ekhaya evela emsebenzini ukuze abukele i-pornography kunye ne-masturbate ngaloo ndlela esongela ubomi babo.
Ukukhathazeka kweentlalo zengxaki zihamba kunye nokunyangwa koonwabo. Ingcamango yokuphuma kunye nokusondela kumfazi iba kakhulu kangangokuthi bahlala ekhaya kwindawo ephephile apho bengenakukhutshwa khona. Njengokuba abaninzi bexesha elide ebomini iintombi zizilutha zoonwabo.
Kodwa i-erectile disys function is one. Ngoko kwimeko kaBob ungabona ukuba akasakwazi ukufumana ulungiso okanye ukuba wenza ubuthakathaka okanye akanako ukugcinwa xa ehamba nomfazi. Kwaye unesizathu esihle sokukhathazeka.
Ngoku kufuneka songeze kwenye into, inyani yokuba obu bubudlelwane be-D & s. Oku kwaqala kungekho msulwa ngokwaneleyo. Ufumana i-Domme, uyamthenga iiklip, wakhe ubudlelwane kwaye akuxelele ukuba ungenzi nto ngaphandle kokubukela iiklip zakhe okanye ukumamela ii-audios zakhe xa usiya ngaphandle kwento enye. Oku kudala imiba emibini, ukuzimisela kwakhe ukwenza njengoko exelelwe kunye nokuphindwaphindwa kokubukela iiklip zakhe kunye nokubaleka okuseta imeko entle yengqondo yokulutha nokuba i-Domme iyayazi. Ayisiyo le yokuba luxanduva lwakhe kodwa ukuba uyakhathala malunga nenkxaso-mali yakhe ke kuya kufuneka ukuba abe nesicwangciso soluhlobo lomcimbi kodwa anyaniseke ngokupheleleyo ukuba uninzi lwamadoda alulandeli iiodolo ezikwelo nqanaba. Bayathenga, bakhonze kancinci emva koko bayemka. Kodwa abanye, njengoBob, baba zizilwanyana abazinikeleyo abaya kwenza nantoni na abayixelelwayo.
Iindaba ezimbi yindlela ephela yokukhaba umlingo wobulili ekugqibeleni ukuyeka ukujonga i-pornography. Ndiyakuthanda ukuthetha indlela elula kodwa le ngxaki yokuziphatha echaza ukuphula ukuziphatha. Awukwazi ukuphula indlela yokuziphatha xa uqhubeka uziphatha.
UBob unenkinga kuba indlela yodwa yokuba abuyele 'kwisini sokunyaniseka' kukuba ayeke ukusebenzisana noDomme wakhe kwaye atshintshe indlela aziphatha ngayo. Ngoko kuya kwi sigqibo, qhubeka ukhonza i-Domme kwaye uhlale apho uxhatshazwa kuye kwaye unonwabisa owanikezelayo okanye umise bonke oqhagamshelwano kunye nokusebenza ekungeneni kwakhona kweli hlabathi. Kuthatha ixesha njengoko kwenzayo ukuba ngumlutha kwaye abaninzi abantu abafuni ukwenza umsebenzi obandakanyekayo.
Ndikubonile oku ngamakhulu abantu abathengi ngaphezu kweminyaka kwaye akuyona into elula ukukhaba kuba ilungile. Kodwa umlutha wobugqwetha ungumcimbi wangempela kwaye ungabangela ukuba ulahlekelwe ngumlingane wakho, intsapho yakho kunye nabahlobo bakho. Ukuba uziva uhla endleleni eya kumnxeba wezobisi, isiphakamiso sam sokumisa ngoku kwaye uguqule iintshukumo zakho ngaphambi kokuba umbe umgodi ojulile. Unako ukukulungisa rhoqo, kodwa ixesha elide uhlala apho, ixesha elide liya kuthatha ukulungisa emva koko.
Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba uxhaphazelekile okanye unomdla wezentlalo ngoko ndiza kukuboni ukuba ubone umfo wezifo zengqondo kwaye uxoxe ngeendlela ezithile zokuxilisa imithi kukunceda ngokungezelela ukululekwa kwezempilo yengqondo kumniki-nkonzo ogxininisekile kwiidakamizwa zesondo kunye neengxaki zezobisi endaweni yakho. . Akufanelekile ukulahlekelwa ngabantu abathandekayo bakho okanye ungabandakanyeki kwisidlo esinobudlelwane bezesondo zomntu.
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