uKristine Fellizar (unxibelelwano kwinqaku)
Andilwi noononophala nangayiphi na indlela. Ngapha koko, ndinazo iividiyo ezinamaphepha amiselweyo asetiweyo xa kuvela imeko. Kodwa enye yezinto endingayithandiyo yile indlela i-pornography echaphazelekayo inokuchaphazela ngayo abantu - ngakumbi abafana endikhe ndadibana nabo ngaphambili. Uninzi lwam amabali amabi bathambekele ekugxileni kubafana ababeke ngokucacileyo ulindelo lwabo nakweyiphi na into abayibonileyo kwi-porn eqhelekileyo. Ibali elide elifutshane, bekuhlala kudana kum, kwaye njengokufumana isifundo esitsha, mhlawumbi nakwabo.
Ngokwophononongo olwenziwe kwintlanganiso yonyaka yeAmerican Urological Association, ukubukela Uninzi oluninzi lunokuthi uthathe umonakalo ngobomi bakho bobulili, ngakumbi ukuba uyindoda encinci kwaye awunamava ngokwesini.
"Ukubukela iphonografi kunye nokusetyenziswa kwesiqhelo kwenziwa ngesondo sedwa," umtshato onelayisensi kunye nonyango losapho kunye nonyango oluqinisekisiweyo lweziyobisi Jenner Bishop, LMFT, CSAT-S, uxelela uBustle. “Ukwabelana ngesondo nomntu wesini unolu hlobo lokuphendula ngempendulo. Uxinzelelo lwe-masturbation oyithandayo, isantya se-masturbation- zonke ezo zilinganiselwe kwinto eza kuziva ilungile kuye. Ke xa ubhangisa imifanekiso engamanyala evusa inkanuko yesini enokunika loo mpendulo egqibeleleyo yokuzikhathaza, kunzima kakhulu komnye umntu wokwenene, ophilayo, oyinyama negazi ukuba akuphathe ngqo ngendlela ofuna ukuchukunyiswa ngayo. ”
Isifundo, esapapashwa kuso Umbhalo we-Urology, yenziwa ngumphandi okhokelayo, uDkt. Matthew Christman, urologist wabasebenzi kunye neNational Medical Centre eSan Diego kunye nabalingane abaye bahlola amadoda akwa-312 phakathi kweminyaka eyi-20 kunye ne-40 ubudala. Bonke abathathi-nxaxheba batyelela iiklinikhi ze-urology eSan Diego ukuba zonyango. Nangona isifundo sifumane ukuba kuphela Ipesenti ezintathu zamadoda zithi zikhetha ukuhlaziya i-masturbating Imifanekiso engamanyala malunga nokwabelana ngesondo, kwabakho ubudlelwane obubalulekileyo phakathi kweziyobisi ezingamanyala kunye nokungasebenzi kakuhle ngokwesondo. Nantsi into efumaneke kwisifundo:
Amadoda abandakanyeka kwi-Porn mhlawumbi ayenganeliseki ngoBomi babo besondo
Oku akumangalisi ngokupheleleyo, kodwa amadoda ahlolisweyo abakhetha ukuhlambalaza i-pornography ngaphezu koba neentlobano zesini kunokwenzeka ukuba bafumane isondo ukuba badideke. Amadoda amancinci, ngakumbi, babenethuba lokuxela ukhetho lwe-porn kunye nokungoneliseki ngobomi babo bobulili.
Inani Inani Lamadoda Ngeengxaki Zokungasebenzi Ngokwezesondo Ziya Kuhamba Nenani Lezibongo Ziyidla
Ngokwenzululwazi, malunga neepesenti ezine zamadoda athi bajonga i-porno ngaphezu kwama11 ngeeveki. Nangona ipesenti ezintathu kuphela zithi zikhetha ukuziphatha okubi ngokwesondo, ininzi yazo (malunga neepesenti ze-80), ivunyelwe ukuba neengxaki zokungasebenzi ngesondo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, isantya sokungasebenzi kakubi ngokwesondo sasingaphantsi kwamadoda athi bathetha ukulala ngaphandle kokusetyenziswa koonografi.
Nangona abalobi beqaphela ukuba ukungasebenzi kwezesondo kumadoda amancinci kubonakala kuncinci kakhulu, kuye kwanda ukwanda kwimeko. Ngokuqhelekileyo, oku kwabakhokelela ekugqibeleni ukuba imikhuba yokubukela imifanekiso yobuninzi ingaba yinto ebalulekileyo ekuchazeni isizathu.
Ukujonga izinto ezingamanyala kakhulu kunokonyusa ukunyamezelana komntu
Enye yeenkcazo zokuba kutheni ukubukela iphonografi kakhulu kunokubangela ukungasebenzi kakuhle "kukunyamezelana." Ngokufana nezinye iziyobisi, ababukeli be-porn rhoqo bafumana uhlobo oluphezulu ekubukeni. Akunakulindeleka ukuba baphendule kwimisebenzi yokwenyani yehlabathi kuba ayingqinelani nolindelo abanalo, ke kufuneka bathembele kwi-porn ukuze bakhululwe.
Ngokwenyani ayisiyompumelelo xa iphonografi isetyenziswa njengesixhobo esifundisa ngesini kunye nokuziphatha nakwindlela esidibana ngayo nabanye. ”
NjengoShirani M. Pathak, wengqondo yengqondo kunye nomsunguli we Isiko sobudlelwane saseSilicon Valley uxelela uBustle, oku ibiyinto eqhelekileyo. “Abasetyhini abaninzi baxela nokuba abakwazi ukwahlula amadoda abo, nto leyo ekhokelela ekubeni abasetyhini bazive bengonelanga kwaye amadoda abo azive ekhathazekile, okanye amadoda awakwazi ukufumana okanye ukugcina ulwakhiwo, olukhokelela ekubeni amadoda azive engonelanga kwaye nabasetyhini beziva bekhathazekile. , "Utshilo uPathak. "Ngokwenyani ayisiyompumelelo xa iphonografi isetyenziswa njengesixhobo esifundisa ngesini kunye nokwabelana ngesondo kunye nokunxibelelana nabanye. Okulusizi kukuba, ngenxa yokufikeleleka kwexesha lethu ledijithali, kuya kusiba yinto eqhelekileyo. ”
Abasetyhini abachaphazeleka njengabasebenzisi boononophelo njengamadoda
Uvavanyo oluthile oluye lwaqhutywa luphinde lujonge kubasetyhini kunye nendlela yokubukela isohlwayo yabathintela ngayo. Ngokungafani namadoda, kwakungekho buhlobo obalulekileyo phakathi kokusetyenziswa koononophelo kunye nokungasebenzi kwezesondo.
"Ndiyakholelwa ukuba oku kwenzeka ngenxa yokuba, abasetyhini bengatyhilelwanga ukubukela iphonografi kwasekuqaleni ebomini njengamadoda nababini, kuba abantu basetyhini bathambekele ekuxhomekekeni kwiimvakalelo nakwiimvakalelo ukubanceda ngezesondo ngelixa amadoda ethambekele ekuxhomekekeni kwiziqulatho ezibonakalayo kunye imifanekiso, ”utshilo uPathak. "Ngelishwa, amadoda afumana ukutolika njengento efunwa ngabasetyhini yinto engachanekanga esekwe kubadlali beqonga abakulo ngenjongo yokonwabisa ishishini labantu abadala eliqhutywa yifilimu."
Ke ukuba ukhe wazibuza ukuba ukubukela iphonografi kakhulu kunokuchaphazela impilo yakho yesondo, kuvakala ngathi inako. Ngokubanzi, esi sifundo sisikhumbuzo esihle sokuba uninzi I-pornography eqhelekileyo ayifani nesondo ebomini bokwenene. Ukuba ucinga njalo, ungadana-kwaye kubonakala ngathi ubomi bakho bezesondo bungabetha nabo.
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